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massmale1959

Joined: 10/5/2006

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I'm Not Attracted To Men My Age.... * Posted: 11/8/2006 6:56:15 AM
Well i do admit you look great hmm I hate to say " For your age " who the fox, cause that makes you sound old. And your Not... I wont knock you for who your attracted to, to each their own, and all the more power to you. The statements you made are all true for sure, but they are true to all ages . We all have a different fit, as to what we want and dont want...but hey...the statement you made on " but for the most part any man over 35 is pretty well past it. " Awwwwww now that really hurt LOL Ok just teasing with ya, hey have, thanks for the thread, got a kick out of some of Post... have fun !!

massmale1959

Joined: 10/5/2006

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Sometimes we all need a hug and a smile Posted: 10/31/2006 5:34:49 AM
Hi Shilo, wishing you well, wish i had some words of wisdom, to make you feel better Shiloh, but i really do not. My thoughts are with you. Life can really hurt at times, leaving us feeling out of control of it, and yes, at times we have no control , just have to sit by, and see what happens and pray for the best. You seem like a sweet person, i read your profile, and sometimes keep taps, on your forums, you have a great heart, what you have been always given, in time i believe , shall be given back to you.

massmale1959

Joined: 10/5/2006

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What is your life journey? Posted: 10/31/2006 5:19:49 AM
Hmm my lifes Journey, i have a few things, i would like to work toward. Shhhh not telling anyone though, but i believe, given a day at time yes, i can get to this point of my journey, and when i do, i hope i have another Journey to work towards, i would lose interest, if not for some kind of journey, therefor , in a way, i hope i never get to the Destination, its the journey that keeps me movin foward for sure at times. But as said, " A journey of a thousand miles, can only start with its first step " So i might have a long ways to go, but Hey i am still stepping !!

massmale1959

Joined: 10/5/2006

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would you date or marry a divorced woman?is another mans trash another mans treasure? Posted: 10/28/2006 8:20:21 PM
I dont consider any human being to be trash, no matter where they are, or what they have been thru. As for would i date a divorced women, yes i would, and have. I could nt find myself dating someone that has never been married to be honest, i have been married twice. Therefor, i must be really trashy lol.... but thats ok... i am what you think i am, i am what i am, and i am who know i am.... ok confused ? Well so am i lol...

massmale1959

Joined: 10/5/2006

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I need some help here....and please be serious.... Posted: 10/28/2006 8:06:55 PM
Susie.. i believe your doing absolutely nothing wrong, from what i can read. Your there for her, sounds like you have an open heart, which is sweet of you. You can only do so much , and she really has to do the rest on her own. Unfornately, i dont think, you alone can change the emotions that she is goin thru. This is something that really has to be done by her. Hopefully she will learn some how to let it go, as hard as it may be, and hopefully soon, she will learn to live again. But your being there as friend is a big plus for her. We can not control what others are feeling, only what we are feeling at times, i only hope for your sake, she doesnt drag you down, the weight of emotions can be a tough thing, maybe you need to let go a bit, and not forget , that you have a life also, and its not taking care of her. Sound rude, i dont mean it to sound rude...i hope in time, for the both of you, that things will eventually become the norm for you... i wish you luck and her also....

massmale1959

Joined: 10/5/2006

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Who wants to live forever? Posted: 10/28/2006 7:32:21 PM
I love life... its awsome, ya it has it bad moments at times, but it has great moments also...but to live to be 150 not so sure, only if i knew that the people in my life, that i love, would live just as long, maybe i would consider it, but i dont want to be here on earth, with out the ones i love for sure...

massmale1959

Joined: 10/5/2006

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Need Your Opinion??? Posted: 10/28/2006 7:24:47 PM
My personal opinion , not that it matters, just my opinion would be, that should anyone, female or male, really fall head over heals for each other, one of their first thoughts to themselves , would be to remove thier profile from POF, not just to make the other happy, but more so, cause they are sooooo happy, they want off the " Looking " scene and are content to be with her or him....wishing you luck with that one, hope it works out for you. Truth is, sometimes we really never know the truth, which can be sad at times..

massmale1959

Joined: 10/5/2006

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Need advice.. Posted: 10/28/2006 11:44:19 AM
Well i think in todays economy, your goin to find more Ex's stayin together for financial reasons, years ago, my ex stayed with me for a few weeks , after we were divorced, for financial reasons. I couldnt say if he is definately married or not, but him not contacting you , and letting you know,was not the right way to go about it. I honestly have to hear from the person i am talking with, i need to confront them first, but thats just me. If i find myself really wanting to know someone more, no one else online or in person, is goin to tell me anything about them, that i wont already know from them, whether it be bad or good...but wishing you luck, feelings can really suck at times i know... but hang in there,,, nothing stays bad forever !!

massmale1959

Joined: 10/5/2006

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Living in the moment, do you and are you attracted to those who do? Posted: 10/28/2006 11:11:50 AM
I for one am definately attracted to those that live in the moment yes. Those that dont complain about yesterday, when there is nothing that can be done about, those that dont worry about the future, when its not here yet. But those that live for today, as if its their last day, those that are kind to strangers, and happy in the moment, i find attractive. Not that its always possible to be happy in any given moment, of our lives, but when i have that chance, i honestly try to hang on to it. I suppose if we really try to live our best today, we wont regret yesterday....have fun

massmale1959

Joined: 10/5/2006

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Long hair freaky people.... Posted: 10/28/2006 10:40:31 AM
I really do get a kick out of these Post, some replies can crack me up, with the different types of humour on here, its pretty awsome. As for long, i had it down to my shoulders and cut most of it off in my late Thirties, at times i miss it , at times i let it grow a bit longer here and there, and at times i keep it medium length, i cant be discourage by others who judge my physical appearance, for they are probably the same people who judge the mentally handicap or the poor man in the gutter, or anyone , who is down and out and different. Some things are not really as they appear, and long hair people are not freaks, nobody is a freak in a world full of different types. I think its rather interesting to have so many different types of people, who dress , act, walk and talk their own way, i say, if you like who you are , and your NOT Hurting another human being, be Proud of makes you feel good !! I think i will let my hair grow, and Post a new Pic in six months LOL... Have fun

massmale1959

Joined: 10/5/2006

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is there really someone for everyone? Posted: 10/27/2006 9:58:21 AM
hmm i dont think there is an answer to this, or maybe, the answer is, what you want to believe it is. Which is fine...cause we all have our differences on beliefs for sure. As me hmmm... i dont think there is someone for everyone, i think everyone can have someone yes, but was this person hand picked for them, by a higher power, i dont believe so, at times, we have to make this person and the relationship be our someone, if we want them that bad, and they want us that bad ,and the relationship that bad. How many people have said more than once, " Oh ya this is my soul mate for sure" only to end up years later, alone, finally meeting another, and saying the same thing ? Hmmmm

massmale1959

Joined: 10/5/2006

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Why can't ment show respect for a women Posted: 10/27/2006 6:42:20 AM
Honestly, i dont think that its " Men " In general, i come to now think, its just certain people who act this way, i have seen , as i am sure we all have, from neighbors, that have no respect for us, to co workers that have no respect, to even sometimes family members, sad but can be true, i think respect, comes out in a lot of ways. Some people really dont have a clue what it is, maybe its their own upbringing that makes them this way, but i believe if they are doin this to you, its a pretty good chance, they are like this to most anyone...well, good luck..........

massmale1959

Joined: 10/5/2006

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Married or not? Posted: 10/26/2006 6:37:16 AM
I would say yes, its very hard to say , hes Not married, definately not to open for sure. If somones not married, or not hiding anything, there really not going mind you calling at anytime, and they will actually pick up the phone... But hey, you seem to be doing ok now,, happy for ya, have fun !!!

massmale1959

Joined: 10/5/2006

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Heinous or no? Posted: 10/26/2006 6:19:20 AM
WOW, thats definately not the way to make a first Impression for sure !! I mean your an attractive woman, why would he be so quick to whip out the thing and have you watch, cant imagine a man , getting off more on himself, than he would wanting to touch the female he is with ... sounds like hes in some sort of relationship, and thats a quickie way to kind of cheat on who he is really with... but i am no psychologist for sure... But if i was with a beautiful woman, and walked her to her car and she said that to me, hmmm would i RUN... Noooooooo way , hey wheres your car baby !!!

massmale1959

Joined: 10/5/2006

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To the women. Would you write to a guy here first.Or you believe the guy has to write first? Posted: 10/26/2006 6:06:38 AM
I think its great for women to make contact first should they choose to. It pleases us men just as much as it does a female, to open your mail , and see a suprise letter from someone. Hey if i was walkin down the street and a woman whistle at me, i would be Flattered, but thats probably a man thinkin thing lol... but seriously, even at a dance, i think more women should not be afraid to ask a man to dance...yes, there are times, we can get rejected, i get it all the time lol...hey Rejection, only makes me Stronger lol...

massmale1959

Joined: 10/5/2006

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Sex on a First Date - Does it Kill a Potential Relationship? Posted: 10/26/2006 5:25:28 AM
Wow, i just posted on the wrong forum, thought i was making a post here, hmm tough to get OLD Hmmm.. I honestly never avoided anyone that i happened to just have sex with, a couple of my longest term relationships, have been from sex on the first night... Everyone is so different, i go with the flow, most of the time, what ever feels right for both of us is ok,, i read this line somewhere , a long time ago, and believe to be true, for some of us. Not all of us, and at times, it has been true for me. " Men will show their emotions , if it means getting sex from a woman, woman will give sex, if it means getting a man to show emotions " Ya its a twisted world at times.. We really are from " Venus " and " Mars " lol

massmale1959

Joined: 10/5/2006

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eHarmony...STAY AWAY FROM THIS SITE!!! Posted: 10/26/2006 5:11:57 AM
I never tried Eharmony, but glad i didnt, actually, most of them Free 7 day Trial programs are the biggest Rip off, no doubt they are hopeing you forgot it was only for 7 days, and before you know it you did, and your bank card has been decreased ....i cant imagine, how much they are making on the thousands of people who did forget, cause some major event in their life came up for one reason or another...As for some of the other comments about men and women, i read something somewhere : " That men show emotions to get sex, women give sex to get emotions" What a twisted world we live in huh ? I am not saying that this is true for alll men and women, but i can relate to it at times...

massmale1959

Joined: 10/5/2006

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If you're single and not dating, what's your reason? Posted: 10/19/2006 6:13:10 AM
Hmm this is a good subject, never really gave not dating a thought, cause its not like i am out dating every other month or something lol... I am thinkin at times , i might be a bit to comfy where i am in my life, besides working full time, and trying to learn a new language and website design... i kind of like my life the way it is right now, but who knows,,,you can really be any where in life, and hit with the Big " Love" boom, doesnt have to be on here...things seem to always appear when your not looking for some reason... Other times for not dating, there might be a good movie on, and i want to sit home and watch it, i know that sounds terrible, but what can i say...

massmale1959

Joined: 10/5/2006

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Do you take notice of who does/does not, creates threads or posts on them Posted: 10/18/2006 6:39:27 AM
Oldstock, no your pretty normal i would say, i know there are a few on here, i caught their comments in certain forums, and yes, i will check out their profile every so often , to see what they had to say in a new one.. .its all in goood fun . Cause i either like what they have to say, i like the attitude on life in general or their sense of humour... and by doin so, i usaully find others , in the same forums with the same attitudes and outlooks on life,,, which is a good thing , i think hmm or maybe i am even a BIGGER STALKER LOL... Have fun !!!

massmale1959

Joined: 10/5/2006

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Sex on a First Date - Does it Kill a Potential Relationship? Posted: 10/16/2006 10:05:18 AM
I think it depends on the people, i believe sex on a first date doesnt kill a potential relationship at all really. Chemistry can be very hot at times, leading to great sex, leading to a great relationship, ya its possible i believe... I dated a woman for five years, and we had sex the very first time we ever met, it was hot, she was sweet, and i wanted to get to know more of her... unfortunately, in time, our attitudes and outlook on things changed, five years later, but she is still an awsome person... I really dont believe in love at first site... i thinks its lust at first site , that can turn in to love sometime later.. as for anyone bein a slut , cause she slept with me the very first time... noooo way, whats that make me ? How could or would i even dare call someone something, that i have done exactly what they have done. What makes me the better to judge ? Nothing, nothing at all... But anyway... like anything in life , there is amost no straight foward answers, go with the flow and just be happy !!!!

massmale1959

Joined: 10/5/2006

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For all the fella's!! What would it be? Posted: 10/13/2006 1:31:19 PM
leavin him a message on his answering machine, telling him you had a nice time and thankyou, is sweet....or a hand written letter saying thankyou and put it under his windshield wipers, when hes not around, is pretty awsome....honestly, flowers or cards, for me, would almost be over bearing, and i would be thinking, she's movin a bit to fast right now, and probably get scared away, soft and simple at first , i think men like.... well i do anyway

massmale1959

Joined: 10/5/2006

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Can you love someone unconditionally? Posted: 10/13/2006 1:08:14 PM
Wow thats a tough subject, Loving unconditionally ? Not so sure i can, but at times i am sure i have, with out knowing it. I would see no future in givin my love to someone who couldnt give close to or the same amount of love back, i can forgive a lot of things that they may do, but slap me once, shame on you, slap me twice, shame on me. Such as the saying goes... If you truely love me, and you whisper anothers name, i could care less, if you check out other men, in front of me, i could care less, hey i am not the most attractive man in the world, i dont blame ya for looking, but if your heart is with me, that matters to me,,,,but if your heart is not on my level, i dont believe for me anyway, it would work... but everyones different, and this makes life interesting...

massmale1959

Joined: 10/5/2006

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Help! I'm gonna be 60! LOL Posted: 10/13/2006 11:33:52 AM
WOW 60, You look awsome, and what a sparkling personality Rossal !!! Keep smiling and be cheery, you will be young forever i am sure... and Happy Birthday !! Your age has affected me also, so your not alone,,, wooo hoo, it effects me in a good way though, i have a feeling , you would have no problem finding a date...but wishing you luck and happiness, no matter what you do...

massmale1959

Joined: 10/5/2006

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Long hair on older women Posted: 10/13/2006 11:10:46 AM
Long or short hair on women look good, i can see sexy on both sides, but i do favor the long hair for some odd reason, miss the stevie Nicks style, or cher, mmmm something about long hair on women , my age or older is sexy, i have no explaination as to why, its just there,,,, I love brushing long hair on women, washin it is awsome too, long hair is beautiful.. thats just my opinion... but i would not make a judgement date , on hair alone... so let it all grow ,, woooo hooo lol.. have a good day !!

massmale1959

Joined: 10/5/2006

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Single for longer than you expected? Posted: 10/13/2006 10:50:31 AM
I have been divorced 6 years, dated a female for 4 years after my divorce, dating every now and than, but have i ever worried about being single for the rest of my life, honestly, never have i ever even given this a thought...so be it if i am !! I am happy and content right now, i kind of like havin a bed to myself, i can hog all the blankets, i can eat my leftover pizza from the trash the night before woo hooo...i can leave my socks on the floor But seriously, i think its the times we put our minds to rest ,and dont think about havin someone in our lives, and all of a sudden, someone comes along for some reason.. who knows... it happens...hey have a great day !!

massmale1959

Joined: 10/5/2006

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Are you proud of your age? Posted: 10/13/2006 10:36:23 AM
I have never been ashamed of my age , not yet anyway, and i honestly believe i will not be in the future either...hey i am above ground, and at any age, this is a good thing i believe ! I hear people say, they cant wait to retire, they cant wait for winter to get over, they wait for Christmas, they cant wait for a nother day . WOW.. Slow down, i am in no hurry, to bypasss today, no matter what is goin on,,, today really is the FIRST Day of the rest of your life, and you had better try to enjoy it, while its here... ya some days are sad and really suck, and tough to get thru, but we do get thru them...i like my age, goin to enjoy it while i can.. cause i wont have it forever !!!

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