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bbates024

Joined: 11/11/2004

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Dreams about exes? Posted: 10/26/2008 2:45:09 AM
Nope no dreams about exs time to get those feelings in check for you.

bbates024

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Best Divorce Letter Ever Posted: 8/17/2008 11:46:34 PM
lol that letter sucks but I am a forum junkie and love th woman I posted over.

bbates024

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Pulling out with the condom still on to ejaculate.... Posted: 8/17/2008 11:40:05 PM
seriously who care what you do with the condom, the purpose is to not not get pregnant. If you do that then the condom did what it is supposed to do.

bbates024

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Not now dear, I must consume. Posted: 8/17/2008 11:36:32 PM
Lube is lube if you need it use it if you don't then don't that all there is too it there is nothing wrong with throwing a little KY in the mix.

bbates024

Joined: 11/11/2004

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Jealous or Genuine Posted: 8/17/2008 11:33:57 PM
Dont go back if you have any respect this is set up for failure. Be careful what you do here you are either going top end up with an ex you don't love or a never ending bullshit.

bbates024

Joined: 11/11/2004

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Friends?? or More?? Posted: 8/17/2008 11:30:20 PM
player is a player done don't ask questions go with your instinct.

bbates024

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What am I doing wrong ? Posted: 8/17/2008 11:29:19 PM
Seriously don't give up! you will meet a guy that truly appreciates you are has a good living on his own. I would love to meet a woman that make the same amount as me or more that would be great. making all the money isn't important but having a career is.

bbates024

Joined: 11/11/2004

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Is he trying to blow me off? Posted: 8/17/2008 11:25:09 PM
That sounds like a bullshit excuse. I would be carfull going forward. I would just ask straight up do you want to go out or not.

bbates024

Joined: 11/11/2004

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Vaginal Surgery Posted: 8/17/2008 11:22:37 PM
Your parts should be normal, only porn stars should be having vaginal surgery. 16 year old girls shouldn't be worried about such activity we all did stupid stuff as kids but hopfully it didn't catch up with us an we can be awesome adults.

bbates024

Joined: 11/11/2004

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Pulling out with the condom still on to ejaculate.... Posted: 8/17/2008 11:17:27 PM
well the guy should really flush it down the toilet, but seriously strapping it up is the safest way. If a guy wants to make sure he dosnt have anything left behind he is just making sure there isn't a possible kid involved ans is that wrong I think not. I have condoms by my bed to make sure I don't do anything fullish.

bbates024

Joined: 11/11/2004

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Not now dear, I must consume. Posted: 8/17/2008 11:03:42 PM
OP if Lube is needed get some if no then don't worry. Lube is a must have in some situations and not in others.

bbates024

Joined: 11/11/2004

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my kinda b.f and the airforce Posted: 8/17/2008 11:01:22 PM
you need to be careful, what happens if he just thinks of you as a safe haven. The difference is men an woman can separate sex and love. I f he has sepreated that then you are toast.If not then you have a man for life.

bbates024

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Not into Kissing???? Posted: 8/8/2008 2:10:44 AM
It's weird there has to be history there and why he isn't comfortable. Ask him whats going on.

bbates024

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Can anyone explain You make me want to be a better person? Posted: 8/8/2008 1:51:35 AM
Yes its because there is something wrong with that person, sorry I drink all the time but with you I dont want to. LOL If someone says that to you beware. I mean I love who I am and I hope others do to, but if someone told me that I make them better or want to be I would take that as a bad sign.

bbates024

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sex with a man and my wife... Posted: 8/8/2008 1:44:41 AM
Dont do a 3 way you will have a divorce. I mean it's all fun and games until another guy screw you or your wife then your going to be pissed or she will be leave it as a fantasy and move on.

bbates024

Joined: 11/11/2004

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Is there such thing,as too good in a relationship...? Posted: 8/8/2008 1:41:35 AM
LOL did he really cry cause in that case you are a bad person. LOL. But really sometimes you get involved with people and you have to check yourself, is this moving to fast, is this ok, is this person right for me. All of that is ok. Just try an relax and remember when you meet someone that sweeps you off your feet you wont ask these questions.

bbates024

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is it shy or disinterest? Posted: 3/31/2008 10:47:09 PM
You just need to relax do what you feel comfortable with. Things will fall into place when you get going out with the right person. I have noticed this as a new trend in dating people just stop responding to communication instead for being up front and saying hey I don't think this will work. I mean at least have the guts to send a lame text to let them know. I think if you cant end a relationship with some respect on both side then you probably shouldn't be dating.

bbates024

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Going to dinner with a vaccuum cleaner. Posted: 3/31/2008 10:52:21 AM
Just a rude guy maybe has a lot of money and thinks that makes him special. I'm surprised you even made it back to his place. I have a had a few dates like this with women I go to the bathroom sometime during dinner, have a friends call me back and then after dinner make an excuse that I have to go. If I get a call back I lay out the truth of the situation. Just chalk this up to bad luck and move forward.

bbates024

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advice ASAP Posted: 3/31/2008 10:45:50 AM
I wouldn't write back . Thats just asking them to get more involved with your personal life. If she really didn't sleep with him then she has nothing to worry about I would just let it go. If you choose to write back keep it simple I went back to the house realized another woman lived there and left. He never mentioned that he had a girlfriend and said he lived with his sister, I thought that sounded fishy so I left. But again your best bet is to not write anything don't invite these kind of people further into your life.

bbates024

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Poke Me & Die Posted: 3/31/2008 10:30:44 AM
Time to grow up a little bit. I have a ton of friends that are female that I hug every single time I see them. If a girlfriend ever told me to stop doing that I would have to have a conversation about that would probably end up with me saying either relax or if you cant stand it that much then we need to move in other directions. There is nothing wrong with toughing another person as long as it dosnt make the person your touching uncomfortable. I say hi slap hand hug and touch on the back all kinds of men and women at work and dont even think twice about it. Thats just who I am.

bbates024

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Any guys in here that do NOT like talking on the phone? Posted: 3/31/2008 10:24:38 AM
I work all day talking to people on the phone. SO the super long conversations on the phone after work are really not my thing. I don't mind talking for awhile on the phone but hour+ long conversations I cant stand. Thats just me though I know a couple guys that like staying on the phone for hours so it's really just up to what you prefer.

bbates024

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would you marry this man Posted: 1/20/2008 6:38:55 PM
My god run away screaming like your heads on fire get out get out get out. Unless it really dosnt bother you that he cheats then by all means marry him cause it will never end.

bbates024

Joined: 11/11/2004

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Pity Kiss? Posted: 1/20/2008 6:33:13 PM
Get used to it, it seems in dating today it happens more and more. I recently met a great girl she came over to my house we watched a movie kissed and fell asleep on the couch together. When we woke up I walked her out to the car she kissed me told me she had a great time. Next thing you know no response to a text or a call. No biggie I just sent her an email that said hey if your not into me no big deal I think we could be cool friends just let me know and we can go from there. She sent me back a msg that said she had a great time but im not her type. No biggie now we chill at the dog park sometimes things are cool just being friends things dont work out sometimes. People just get afraid of confrontation, I always like to know personally then I can not think about it and move on. My last GF was afraid to tell me she met someone else said she just need sometime I finally broke it off because I could tell whats going on she still didnt tell me for 2 weeks after that. I mean why even play a game lets just say things didnt work and move on.

bbates024

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Lying about relationship status on POF Posted: 3/30/2007 9:41:52 PM
Thats a horible way to even start off talking let alone in with a lie. I mean if you cant even tell the truth about being single whats the point. Why even try and date. If your single you should be here if your not get a myspace and set your staus to in a reltionship.

bbates024

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Relationship songs? Posted: 3/30/2007 9:39:40 PM
I think it's ok to have a song togther I have some songs even with just friends when we hear it we call each other and go thats our song. You know when the song is right for you and your relationship.

bbates024

Joined: 11/11/2004

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Cancelling a Date Posted: 3/19/2007 10:24:20 PM
I think you should have the guts to call. Whoever broke the date off. If you cancel same day pick up the fing phone. Seriously just do it. Worst case senerio they are pissed just hang up. Try an be cival and let them know the truth and the facts but dont do it online.

bbates024

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In need of opinions (beware, this is long) Posted: 3/19/2007 10:21:31 PM
Bro seriously run away. You need to just move on for you. "The thing I like about highscoll girls is I keep getting older and they stay the sam age" Thats Mathew Mcahay in dazed and confused Witch might be what you are. I wouldnt worry about her just do what you need to do for yourself and thing will come togther.

bbates024

Joined: 11/11/2004

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What books would you recommend on Sex, Love, Life, Relationships and Happiness? Posted: 3/19/2007 10:17:28 PM
Personal I wouldnt recomend a book. I mean life experiance speaks for it all. There are things you dont learn by sitting around and reading. I am very honest guy if you have a qustion throw it to me, bout anything and you will get an anwser.

bbates024

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Confidence vs. Positive Thinking Posted: 3/19/2007 10:09:14 PM
selfcofidence is great until it becomes arogence. being self confident and being arogent are evry differnt. I think appreciating who you are and what you have to offer will take you a million time further.

bbates024

Joined: 11/11/2004

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Can your man be best friends with an ex? Posted: 3/19/2007 9:43:02 PM
I think he can be just friends. It takes an effort on his part and it's hard not fall in the old sinc of things but you can do it and not be interested in anyway even sexualy. Somtimes when things are over you can except that. You have to make sure he knows whats going on and not worry about it or you have to worry alot. Talking is key if he wont talk get scared.

bbates024

Joined: 11/11/2004

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boyfriend and his FEMALE best friend Posted: 3/19/2007 9:39:41 PM
To me it comes down you have to decide if you really trust him. If you do then tell him you feel inscure about whats going on and untill you get further in your relationship that you would prfer if he didnt see her. Thats totally a chill reaction. He shoudl take it in stride and be happy that you told him how you feel even if he dosnt agree. Then you can both talk about it open becuase you didnt lay an ultimadium out there like her or me.

bbates024

Joined: 11/11/2004

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men and chatting Posted: 3/19/2007 9:36:18 PM
What I find is you need to be carfull online becuase talking here seems to give you a false sense of know each other even if you do it for a long time. Even if you talked for a couple months on here before meeting, when you meet it's alaways a good time to revalute the situation. I just keep it chill becuase you can be cool online and not in RL, sometimes that happens. Sometimes you are better friends. You gotta be ok with that and so do they. What I cant figure out is why people bounce form relationship to relationship and complain about not being happy how about you figure out what you want and then go and get it.

bbates024

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I just don't get it -- sex on the first date? Posted: 3/13/2007 7:13:20 AM
I dont know if thats always true, I went out with a girl once we met at the bar 2 nights before didnt do anything talked for about 30 minutes. I called her up about 2 days later and asked her out. We went on our first date and had sex afterwards. It was great we both had an awsome time, after that we dated and went out for almost a year and a half. I guess it really depends on who you are.

bbates024

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Am I the only one? Posted: 3/13/2007 7:10:17 AM
It can take awhile to get over someone you had shared a long part of your life with. Some of the first things I do is take their number out of my phone cause I dont have any of them memorized. That way I cant do the dumb ass call her and make an ass out of myself, plus I dont anwser calls that dont have names pop up on my phone so that way I can avoid talking at all. Other things get out and take your mind off it. When me and my last girlfreind broke up, if I was thinking about her I just went out and did somethings that I like that me and her never used to do togther like play golf. Or take my dog to the mountain and go hiking. If I got angry or sad I just went to the gym. Then one day it was like why the **** do I feel so bad, and I just moved on. But you just need to understand you guys broke up and after 18 months your not getting back togther. So go out with your friends try and meet some new women, and just relax it will happen.

bbates024

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I just need to hear that I was right Posted: 12/1/2006 3:35:24 PM
Right to walk away but you shouldnt have been there in the first place love and moving in isnt something that should happen in 3 months. I dont want to sound harsh but falling in real love takes time and if you spent more time togther first some of thease things woould have come out before you took the leap.

bbates024

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Dating advice? Posted: 11/30/2006 3:10:19 PM
You dont have to be on the rebound right now, its not like a must that you even have to rebound I have come out of relationships and not just bounced into the next thing right away. I think what you have to do is realize that you have only been dating for 2 months and havent know each other that long before you think about a long term comited relatonship get to know each other more. You guys are together in 3 months and hit the 6 month mark press the issue and if he says no then your not going to get any where with him. What I would do is just wait you dont have to see others if you dont want to but dont expect for him to stop right away. I would just wait for a little bit and see what happens. 3 months is not that long just relax and take it easy, and dont freak out things are going ok.

bbates024

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moving fast Posted: 11/8/2006 7:35:10 AM
It seems like this is happening more and more, especally with online dating. I think it's cause people can talk online for weeks or somtimes months before they got out, they feel like they really already know the person. So I guess that makes things move faster. That being said, it's still nuts and I would have just said he relax, we arnt together yet. Sometimes people cant get the hint so you have to spell it out for them. I get a huge warning flag going off if a women starts talking about that on the first couple dates, I had one go so far as to do it before we met on the phone LOL, you just gotta be carfull.

bbates024

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i am broken into a million pieces... Posted: 11/8/2006 7:29:38 AM
Wow thats so sad, it reminds me of the book the Where the Red Fern Grows. I dont know what I would do if I lost my dog, I know what your going threw and feel really bad for you. I hope things get better for you in time, and shower your only dog with lots of love and attention.

bbates024

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First time encounter: Posted: 10/7/2006 4:45:19 AM
LOL I can reverse this if a woman gave me a 3 in bed I wouldnt give her a second chance, basically a 3 would mean you just laid there untill I was done.... Wow very exciting. So that would definatly be the end of that.

bbates024

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Is there anything worse Posted: 2/12/2006 7:34:54 PM
LOL well it wasnt like she just said this after we went out twice we went out for a couple months and had sex a lot (best part being it was not always intiated by me), maybe we just started to fast and burnt out. I also miss the part were I said that I felt like I needed some aproval from her. All I am saying is why say something you obviously dont mean, makes me more mad then if you said hey things wont work out we can still hang out if you want but there is no chance of us having a relationship. That would work for me I am not going to cry or anything, not going to freak out and call you all the time. But dont expect to cry on my shoulder when things dont work out with the new guy your dating.

bbates024

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Is there anything worse Posted: 2/11/2006 10:05:01 AM
Is there anything worse then the line "you are the greatest, I mean the best guy I have ever met, but I just want to be friends". The I just want be friends line is the worst thing you could ever hear cuase if your so great then why dont you want to date and if your not that great then why not just say so and where exactly does the friends fit in. I dont know but having heard this line more then once and finding not only hard to swallow but very condensending, I just wish people would say what they mean, and not what they think is better to hear. Basically I wrote this so I could get your opinoin on what all of you think.

bbates024

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the half hour rule. Posted: 12/2/2005 8:14:25 PM
Well I make a general rule not to talk to my ex's at all unless they are super cool people in my life. I only still talk to a few and I make it a rule of thumb not to relapse into old habitts again. Friends only no cuddeling or kisiing or touching, just talk and friends. If a woman I am dating brings up her ex in conversation I dont mind as long as she isnt comparing us, or is still into him. A lot of my best friends have been woman so I read the signs ok if shes into him its a no go situation and I just move myself outta the way.

bbates024

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am i the only one? Posted: 12/2/2005 8:08:41 PM
Dont worry about it guy everyone hits a dry spell now and agin I would just go out more with your friends. If you have any friends that are girls that think you are super cool take them with ya cuase the best recomendation you can ever get is from another girl. Need anything specific answered just ask I would be happy to help.

bbates024

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Would you be offended? Posted: 12/2/2005 8:06:10 PM
That would work for me I always enjoy meeting new people, even if they just end up being my friends. Pass me along if I dont fit your fancy.

bbates024

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Good Places to eat, and good places to take a date Posted: 12/2/2005 7:40:22 PM
check out a mexican place on central and dunlap dont remember the name but its the bomb-diggity. LOL. I love it hope you do to.

bbates024

Joined: 11/11/2004

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~ SO WHO SPRINGS TO PAY FOR THE DATES? ~ Posted: 7/25/2005 6:54:17 AM
I think thats great. Normally by the time the 6 or 7th date comes around I have spent a bit of cash. (bit meaning a shit ton) I love it when a woman offers to take me out, or to cook me something, or to order in. I always thought it was funny the whole equal rights thing, cuase when it comes down to it a woman still wants to be treated as a woman, and have things done for her that she deserves.(opening doors etc......) When was the last time a woman asked you out fellas and opened the car door for you? Hehe I enjoy doing stuff like that, it makes me feel good to make them feel special but there is the double standard and its time we just excepted that.

bbates024

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My success, gone bad... Posted: 4/30/2005 7:10:27 AM
Hey its all right happens to everyone. You keep fishing and you'll catch the right one. I personally feel the same way if someone makes me feel bad more then they make me feel good I just dont want to be around them.

bbates024

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Not happy with the whole experience Posted: 4/27/2005 7:04:31 PM
I have fun just chating with people on here. Really I do. I love giving advice in the forums. Who really cares that every woman I have met off this site looked nothing like their picture, or ended up being weird. Shit they probably feel the same way about me. All I know is I have fun in my spare time, and if I end up meeting someone great threw this then I will be happily surprised.

bbates024

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Attitude???Brain fart is that how you spell it? Posted: 4/27/2005 7:00:20 PM
Just be yourself if you have attitude use it. I like a woman with her own oppinions. If your a **** then it wont last long. My goal in life is to be with people that make me feel good more then bad so if the attitude makes me feel that way your in.

bbates024

Joined: 11/11/2004

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Got it BAD! Posted: 4/27/2005 6:57:52 PM
Sometimers when you get that line we were moving to fast your already out. She met someone else that wants to take it slow, or she just going to move real fast with him then move on. I like the advice above talk and find out whats really going on whatever you do dont be pushy or make her feel like its over if you take a break. Sometimes if you really love someone you have to wait.

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