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What are women really looking for? Posted: 7/2/2009 10:26:54 PM
When it comes to the whole what women want , what men want question it's really up to the individual that poses that question: So it's probably better to focus on your wants and expectations in a ideal mate and think about all the best qualities you could find in someone to be the ideal mate for you and more likely than not if u focus on more of that you will probably meet that someone your looking for, whether it's honesty,trust ,dedication, intellect, etc. It's just like if u look at even say ur closest and best of friends why do hang with them?, why do talk with them?, cus somewhere down the line you formed a bond with them based on relating with one another on some level and building on it ,the same is true with finding a good mate and having a good relationship. Sometimes the best things happen to those who wait and it could happen when you least expect it to by then you come to appreciate , what you were searching for when you finally find or have it.

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One day she's day...Next day she's gone...??? Posted: 7/2/2009 10:10:20 PM
The here today gone tomorrow phenomenon seems to all to common. The best thing to do is not worry about it and over analyze, cus when it comes down to it , people are gonna decide whether to stay or leave based on their own choice of freewill , like it or not , Besides it could be worse u could have some woman stalking , you and that's no fun. But you do raise a good point about the whole not calling thing , cus typically if a guy does it and runs into said woman he never called ,but promised to by chance ,Look Out!!

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Why do men assume all women are like thier ex? Posted: 7/2/2009 9:57:16 PM
When it boils down to it , human beings are very experience driven if something , in life brings us joy, and delight or pleasure , we gravitate to it , if it's the opposite we stray from it. Most of the time the assuming the next person is like your ex mentality can only be cured , by open mindedness. Although this can be tough to do if you have been through bad experiences in previous relationships. All you can do is try to stay as positive as possible , in every experience you have with dating new people or meeting them. Besides if u go into it positively your more likely to get more out of the situation ,than if u went into it thinking all here goes another bad one. People have a way suprising you sometimes , and it's not always bad.

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Take her back? Posted: 7/2/2009 9:29:21 PM
In my opinion maybe , a break between u and her will give u both time to asses the situation and ,whether or not u guys are meant to be together. In the meanwhile u should probably think about what your expectations are for a relationship and go from there. The whole break thing could be good for both parties , but if she's up on some I think I should see other people tip, then maybe it would be good if u did the same. Besides u don't have to get into anything serious u could just date , casually and go from there.

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Reiki, faith healing, laying of hands, accupuncture, accupressure,do you believe in them? Posted: 4/13/2006 8:58:27 AM
From my personal knowlege accupunture and accupressure are accurate and effective ways of healing. Many Western doctors are only just now trying to study what the Chinese had developed as a form of medicine thousands of years ago , for example in Western medicine it's known that the certain organs are more or less active @ certain hours of the day. In Western medicine this is known as the Cercadium rhythm. In Chinese medicine this is called the law of Midnight and Midday which is based on the principle that the bodies internal energies are distributed to various organs @ different times of the day which means between certain hours the heart is more active than say the lungs or even the colon or stomach. Many skeptics say that the Chinese system of medicine is not as current as Western medicine but in my opinion accupressure and accupunture are quite valid because , the Chinese system of medicine offers a different approach as to how various medical conditions are treated and diagnosed. The most obvious example I would use to validate the use of accupressure and accupunture would be pressure points , in the use self defense for example the ST5(somach 5) and ST9(stomach 9)are knockout points in self defense while the ST36 point which I believe is in the back of the leg can be used to promote Stamina and Longevity of energy say if one feels tired and fatigued while the K5(Kidney 5) point is used to tonify the Kidneys and strengthen the limbs.

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Does god exist? Posted: 4/11/2006 8:23:16 AM
When it comes to the question of is there a God? I believe there is, at the same time many people for whatever reason don't believe in a God or are unsure to draw a conclusion. I believe the question of whether there is a God is a question best answered by the individual, because it's our own self autonomy which allows us to question, analyze and discover the answers to things we question in our minds whether the answers can be found within our own thoughts or elsewhere.

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Reggaeton ..Gonna take over the world? Posted: 3/1/2006 11:02:12 AM
Reggaeton is a really big trend right now in my opinion Reggaeton is not really as new as people think cus it's really just a combination of genres of music when I heard my first Reggaeton remix it was on a double CD set for 80's freestyle dance music and this was a CD set that came out in like 2004 and the song I heard the reggaeton remix for was Memories by freeze which is a freestyle music song. Freestyle music, like Reggaeton are sub genres of music. the Freestyle music which I referring to is the type of dance music made popular in the 80's to early 90's which combined elements of dancebeats over a love ballad vocals which is still a very popular type of music like reggaeton among a lot of music listeners. Reggaeton is really a mix of hip-hop, latinbeats, and Jamaican dancehall music. I love it cus it's great dance music.

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For the non-conformist out there!! Ever notice music trends repeating themselves more freqently? Posted: 3/1/2006 10:49:35 AM
When it comes to music I listen to a little bit of everything but sometimes a lot of the stuff on the radio and on tv bores u cus it's like music has become so money dominated that all u ever see is cardboard cutouts of every trend companies try to make a $$ off of . When it comes to music trends it's a constantly repeating cycle like when Electronica was just being developed back in the days with artists like Kraftwerk and Afrika Bam a lot of artists jumped on the band wagon and before u knew it every other artist doing music in the 80's was using synthos then the whole Electronica movement went underground in the late 80's to early 90's with the ravers now I turn on the radio and everyone's remaking 80's hits like the music never left and now dance music and dance music culture is a current forerunner to even hip-hop who would have thought Go figure.

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Funk music.... love it / hate it???? Posted: 1/9/2006 1:50:15 PM
I love funk music especially since I like Pop locking to a lot of it here's some of my favorites to listen to: Zapp and Roger-More bounce to the ounce Zapp and Roger-I can make u dance Zapp and Roger-So Ruff so tuff Zapp and Roger-Doo wa Ditty Zapp and Roger-in the Mix Booker T and the Mg's-Melting Pot Incredible Bongo Band-Apache Jimmy Castor Bunch-Just Begun the Whispers-Rocksteady Lakeside-Outrageous James Brown-Sex machine The Barkays-Freakshow on the dancefloor the Gap Band-U dropped the bomb on me The Gap Band-Early in the morning The Dazz band-Whip it Cameo-Candy Chaka Khan-Ain't nobody Rockers Revenge-Walking on Sunshine Jerry and Ollie-Breakin'(there's no stoppin' us) West Street Mob-Breakdance electric boogie Parliment-Knee Deep

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Is this shallow? Posted: 1/2/2006 10:22:56 AM
Sup, newintown 503 mad props I'm 22 with a college degree too. I can kind of see where coming from a little bit on the whole going out and having the money thing , but to me sometimes u don't always have to have mad money to enjoy yourself most of the most unhappiest people in the world have money but are still unhappy because money is a temporary fix for happieness I say find someone you enjoy being around and be with them. If the guy your with now doesn't make much money now that could always change but keep seeing him for the person he is regardless of how big his bank account or paycheck is. A good happy relationship to me is way better than money.

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Is religion dangerous? Posted: 5/14/2005 3:06:20 PM
Yes, religion can be very dangerous in the wrong hands , especially if it's in the hands of those who use the name of God and religion to covet their own power , greed and agendas.

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