My ex is bombarding me with texts and has done so for the last few months to tell me what "a disgrace I am as a mother to be selling myself on an internet dating site".

Whatever happened to joining a chess club to meet people .
Instead we chat to faceless people who could be anyone.

If I had spelled everything out in the first post I would have had a dozen complaints for having a long post.

If you've had the "talk" about dating each other exclusively
and he says no - what then?

...what is it with (some) men that think younger women are better???

Bbb does a man care about a women or they just out for there needs and not the women's needs?

How do you know when there's a break down in communication?

How long is too long to call?

Do men really understand how a womans body works. Or do they just fiddle around and hope they eventually hit the right spot.

My friend in a relationship with a man who simply states that he is not affectionate. He refuses sex and tells her that she is too horny.

I also have to mention that he has been battling alcoholism for his whole life. He was sober up until the last 4 months.

But during the fishing stage, are you looking to primarily BE loved or TO love?
Hmm, is it perchance better to look TO love?

drugs, alcohol, hypnosis, ECT, just how do they wipe memories from their mind

Anyone that has made this choice..can you shed some light on this matter for me..care to share as to why you have chosen not to carry on your blood-line?

"I wonder if she is satisfied with me".............

........if you think some of the sex you were having is boring .........YOU are the problem ....Sex is a two way street ...

I want to try meeting new people as friends, working on building a good friendship first - then pursuing something romantic if we're so inclined.

Once a guy's in 'the friend zone' is there any way to get out?

So! That being said, can you reflect back and remember why YOU decided to sign on to a 'dating site'?

These people are comfortable on their own and don't seem to ever get lonely like maybe most of us would being alone for that time.

I am honest and open about being in a relationship but still I get messages from guys that want to hook up with me. Why is that?

when do tou think, after meeting someone on plenty of fish , is the best time to delete you'r profile as a sign of commitment?

After 7 weeks, should they already have discussed being exclusive with each other or is 7 weeks too short a period of time for that to happen?

But the fact is that you're 53. And the fact is that the vast majority of men over 45 will not even consider dating a woman your age.

This being said, I've run into many women who simply say that they are overwhelmed and would run out of energy with someone who has this much going on. That, and many of my interests are not what it seems many females are interested in, especially in this conservative area.

.... I’ve come to the conclusion that, in many cases, the “rainy day” and “can’t afford it” excuses are nothing more than a cover up for selfish and greedy behaviour.

I was wondering really in reality is this happening? Do men think that way? If yes, how come not many show it?

Would ya tell them anyway and take a risk of falling out with them or keep it a secret.

You have sex and it wasn't good, what would you do? Would you just break up, would you talk to your partner about it, or just say nothing and hope it gets better?

Why alcohol? Because a booze-free environment is no fun and such gatherings tend to end very early.

It takes time to get to know someone but why do some flake off right from the start??? Try to meet people and then guys who change times of the meetings and ask you to reschedule over and over......

They like to laugh.

All women have their own idiosyncracies and quirks, but in this respect they are virtually universal. So, really, what you have to do is just entertain them; they are like children.

I think its nice to know a guy has some passion in him, not just some one who is into wham bam thank you mam...

This is given.

do you take it as she/he doesnt love you as much as before OR that she/he just feels more secure about ur relationship?

Does separation mean "I love you, but I wanna date other people?" OR does it mean "I love you, but I think we need time apart to think about things"?

Do we communicate the changes from dating to something more serious or is it just assumed?

I send somebody in my local area a private message just to say "Hello". I talk about their interests, but I never receive a response, and when I do receive a response a couple of the people who've replied were pretty rude, as if I woke them up at three in the morning or something.