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mystic77

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PICS: Images not showing up issues here...[Read the OP] Posted: 8/30/2007 6:00:23 AM
I can't see profiles or any pictures.........only forums.............?

mystic77

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Would you Canadians move to the U.S,Would you Americans move to Canada if you met someone on here? Posted: 7/21/2007 9:01:30 AM
I would move for the rite man..........

mystic77

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Need help! What should I do! Posted: 7/21/2007 8:48:59 AM
Yes, I think this is the first post I have read, that it almost appears we are unanimous. You should listen to what she has already told you & respect how she feels, not how you feel. More than anything rite now, she needs a good friend, one who puts her emotions first. You can only be played if you give more than you are willing to give. So, far she has been pretty upfront on your relationship. If it’s not what you desire or the only reason you are to spending time with her, is hopes of a relationship in the end. Then I think you should back away for now, instead of scheming of makin a relationship before she ready cause isn't not what they need at this time.

mystic77

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Unfullfilled in a relationship Posted: 7/19/2007 8:29:01 AM
I agree with a lot of the responses here, that only you can be responsible for your own happiest & keeping the relationship exciting. However there will always be down time when one partner or both, feel neglected in creativity & the relationship becomes stale. A relationship needs both couples communicating on their desires equally, in order to over come the stalemate. When it becomes one sided, the balance is over powered & no longer it’s considered a couple, but two single souls existing along a parallel. No one can tell you a time line, it’s how you feel. I can only suggest, follow your heart from your brief post, not knowing the whole history behind your relationship. There does come a time you must walk away & realize, in order to find fulfillment, maybe he’s not the man for you. Before you do walk away thou, be objective & serious to all your concerns aren’t just one sided.

mystic77

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Jokes, Jokes, Jokes!!!!!! Posted: 7/18/2007 9:47:50 AM
A man goes to visit his grandpa in the hospital. "How are you, Grandpa?" he asks. "Feeling fine," says the old man. "What's the food like?" "Terrific, wonderful menus." "And the nursing?" "Just couldn't be better. These young nurses really take care of you." "What about sleeping? Do you sleep OK?" "No problem at all -- nine hours solid every night. At 10 o'clock they bring me a cup of hot chocolate and a Viagra tablet ...and that's it. I go out like a light." The grandson is puzzled and a little alarmed by this, so rushes off to question the Sister in charge. "What are you people doing?" he asks, "I'm told you're giving a 95-year-old Viagra on a daily basis. Surely, that can't be true?" "Oh, yes," replies the Sister. "Every night at 10 o'clock we give him a cup of chocolate and a Viagra tablet. It works wonderfully well. The chocolate makes him sleep, and the Viagra stops him from rolling out of bed."

mystic77

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what came first the thought or the feeling? Posted: 7/16/2007 6:32:55 AM
^^^^^^ How about I thought about the feeling...............

mystic77

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Women have a common characteristic Posted: 7/16/2007 6:30:04 AM
I also just learned in another post......apparently we lie too........

mystic77

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men and the chase Posted: 7/16/2007 6:26:37 AM
I don't chase no one....... if you don't want to be with me or there's too many to compete with............I say I only treat someone with the same respect, I would accept back........Doesn't mean i am an instant marshmallow thou.........

mystic77

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The rare phone call Posted: 7/16/2007 6:23:02 AM
Well she has every rite to express how she feels. Look, I don’t know the whole relationship with her & her mother or even the conversations they do have on those rare moment. It’s hard to watch your child deal with adult feelings & our first instincts as parents, is too get defensive with all predators, who threaten the well fare or our children. As hard as it is to watch, it is important for her growth & development, to be able to face each of these challenges, openly instead of holding it in. All you can do is communicate to her, support her through all the stages of acceptance. A lot of adults never completely learned as a child proper techniques from their parents to accept or deal with life’s challenges or failures with a judiciously manner. Maybe why so many people rely on therapist today… Good luck

mystic77

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Need you help and opinions Posted: 7/16/2007 5:57:33 AM
Ya ok & your point is....sorry, what does the numbers have to do with you contacting someone already in a relationship. Just what is your part in having lengthy conversations with her? Are you hoping to persuade her to forget how you treated her in the past & all of a sudden it dawns her…you are the man of her dreams…. I sure hope she isn't that blind & sees through your game.....before she hinders her current relationship.

mystic77

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I bad experience... Posted: 7/16/2007 5:36:17 AM
Just what part surprises you, he lied about everything or he reversed the blame into your court. If someone doesn’t have the stamina to omit the truth, what makes ya think he'd accept blame. Of course he's going to deny & lay blame on everyone else but himself, he has to protect the illusion that he is a man. It’s always easiest to make all kinds of excuses to justify his actions for lack of moral conduct or the ability to commit emotionally to anyone else besides himself. Why would you bother to contact him & even attempt to explain your actions? You are wasting your breath, cause it doesn’t matter to him, you were just a body for him to control or manipulate for his entertainment. Once he became bored or you requested more than he was willing to give, then he discarded you & when you treat him in the manner, as a respected person you are only adding to his over inflated ego. This is not so easy to type, but sometimes bluntness is the best prescription. We can ask ourselves a million questions, in order to make sense or find closure afterwards, but in actual fact, it’s just an avoidance to prolong feeling the hurt. So hold your head up & be proud of who you are……he just blew his opportunity for one fantastic relationship. Oh sure, there will always be another body to fill the need to stroke his ego, but then they will eventually demand more emotionally than he can deliver & the circle continues on & on & on ……

mystic77

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Lazy teen... Posted: 7/15/2007 3:27:45 PM
Parenting has got to be one of the most thankless jobs at times. Yet one of the most fulfilling rewards a person could ever experience. My daughter just recently graduated from high school, when she accepted her diploma, my face must of shone from just pure pride. As a single parent myself, I can sympathize with you & know the frustration of the dilemma you are in. There comes a time, when all recourses have been depleted , communication has broken down for the moment & separation is the only recourse to gain control. No one can accomplish anything in this world by riding on someone else coat tails. At least nothing that will develop your own self worth. You have to think over what you need to say & always let him know the door back will always be open when he respect the rule of the house.

mystic77

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Confessions Of A Professional Matchmaker Posted: 7/15/2007 2:42:17 PM
I am not into reality shows either, I did watch a bit of this show the other nite when I was channel surfing. I thought maybe I would pick up on some hints or if nothing else a laugh. Is this show for real? I couldn’t believe the behavior of both parties involved. It has to be staged or Jerry Springer is co-host? Do people actually behave in that manner? No you shouldn’t have to change who you are in order to attract another person attention. I agree, you may have to adapt or modify in some degree how you dress or even how you present yourself. If you have to start changing who you are then maybe you are targeting the wrong class of people. How long can a relationship last build on a lie or an act. If that was her tip for me, I would ask for my money back!

mystic77

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Separated, But Dating... Good or Bad? Posted: 7/15/2007 6:08:31 AM
Separation means different things to everyone & I agree with the post who say proceed with caution. Hopefully that person is beginning honest with you…..I myself would like to know for how long he has been separated & watch for hidden clues. Regardless, to the ones who have stated it means waiting for official Divorce to occur, to others it means, I was ignored or mistreated so stroke my ego for the nite……

mystic77

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Guys don't want to be just friends, but girls do, why is that? Posted: 7/15/2007 5:58:39 AM
I often refer to myself as old fashion with a modern day twist. I never judge what someone else is into, as long as it doesn’t affect my life. I cherish my male friends & respect their lives very highly. I have some friends who in my eyes are attractive & can be quite handsome when dressed up . I am not into the booty call, or friends with benefits, scenario. Maybe, I wished I could be at times, cause we are all human & have desire to be expressed & at least you do know the person…..I just can’t turn my emotions on & off like that or distant myself to be objective afterwards. I would find it very stressful, if I was sexually aroused by a friend & I would be constantly analyzing all my action. Frustration at a new height............

mystic77

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What to do if he is writing to your girlfriends too! Posted: 7/15/2007 5:38:26 AM
It’s funny how some jumped on stating your age & high school behavior on your part. Some of them are correct saying this is a dating site, so he can write to others as well. However can’t he be original with his letters & the content. But disguising himself under two profiles…..bad, bad boy!!! I have read & encountered a few here, who have rejoined under a different name, why. To test the person they are chatting with, now who’s into games. It doesn’t take much to catch on & when they are confronted their first defense is deny. I would almost pay to be at the next table when you & your friends introduced yourself. It’s all in fun, but depending on his reaction, it could be comedical. Hey, I don’t get out much…lol! One good thing about makin friends off of here, you can warn each other of a potential risk or heads up to a person. Down goes another player..........

mystic77

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Can't send mail Posted: 7/14/2007 12:23:05 PM
Mine seems to be working now......................thanks to admin.........

mystic77

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i've fallen hard, need some advice??!!! Posted: 7/14/2007 7:22:21 AM
Get out of the relationship you are in for one thing, before you can even consider jumping into another. It always looks greener on the other side.

mystic77

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i've fallen hard, need some advice??!!! Posted: 7/14/2007 6:18:14 AM
I agree you are never in too deep, unless that's were ya want to be........ As falling too fast, that maybe...you are in control. so hang on & ride it through........

mystic77

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Can't send mail Posted: 7/14/2007 5:33:58 AM
awe........I can't reply to it though........ I wonder how a few can & some can't .is it in a certain area..........

mystic77

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Can't send mail Posted: 7/14/2007 4:17:42 AM
All my troubles started yesterday as well...I am having the same issue, is only my replying to emails & not being able to update profile or settings........ Since we are from all over, with many different internet providers. It must be a click on fish... Is anyone hearing us……..who knows what’s up???

mystic77

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Make that... Posted: 7/13/2007 6:16:47 PM
I have been dating this guy for about 2 1/2 months. Things have been going great. e just spent the last 2 weekends together and had an amazing time. Those are your words...why would you forget them cause he had things to do & couldn't see you.... Your words again... . Am I being too needy by asking when we will see each other. Have I messed up with the relationship by wanting time together. I am not sure if you have messed it up or not, but I would definitely step back a bit & give him the some room. You can crowd someone too much & they fell closed in or suffocated. Their first reaction is to become distant or appear abrupt. The more you push the more they pull away. I know, I would react in the same manner & sometimes, there is no turning back after I become defensive. Good luck

mystic77

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Can't send mail Posted: 7/13/2007 5:19:15 PM
.I am experiencing the same problem with my emails. When I try to reply it's taking too long & then a page shows saying lost internet connection (as in msg. 13). I never had a problem before tonight. I was looking for suggestion, but couldn't find any already posted. I did notice a few experiencing the same difficulties..

mystic77

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Breakup Initiator Posted: 7/12/2007 6:16:28 AM
op.........thanks so much for asking this...i have often wonder the meaning myself. I didn't want to ask, cause I am so naive with all this internet dating lingo... There sure has been a lot of intelligent responses to your feelings……..I do agree just because your head knows it’s for the best. Your heart isn’t so convince, beside you do have to mourn the lose of your relationship the love that once was………. Good luck time is the healer of all..............

mystic77

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Chemistry Posted: 7/12/2007 6:08:08 AM
Yes it sounds like a polite kiss off……..she is being honest. Why do you think she isn’t, because she wasn’t blunt? Then there would probably be a post, stating why us women are so cruel when telling you, we aren’t interested for no apparent reason….

mystic77

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Right and Wrong Questions... Posted: 7/12/2007 5:39:12 AM
well I think a few of us have asked inappropriate question when on the spot. I know, I have said a few things I sure wished I could delete myself. Once I clicked send or the words are out of my mouth, all I can say is “what” It sure sounded cool, when I rehearsed it in my head.. But when just getting to know someone, I would feel the same as you, if I was asked those type of question too early. I can take a joke & be prepared to receive one, especially if you ask too personal questions. People do have a different form of getting to know someone, by their questions they ask & how you answer them. A lot of the times emails can be misunderstood by the receiver, if you don’t ask to explain themselves. Especially if you are sensitive, one draw back about online communication, how a person perceives the meaning of the words written, when the sender is anonymous. Everyone's looking for a hidden meaning or red flags, when maybe it's just a shy person, geniunely trying to meet someone... peace: You can only use that excuse a few times thou......:

mystic77

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Jokes, Jokes, Jokes!!!!!! Posted: 7/12/2007 4:51:10 AM
GRANDMA IN COURT Lawyers should never ask a Mississippi grandma a question if they aren't prepared for the answer. In a trial, a Southern small-town prosecuting attorney called his first witness, a grand motherly, elderly woman to the stand. He approached her and asked, "Mrs. Jones, do you know me?" She responded, "Why, yes, I do know you, Mr. Williams. I've known you since you were a young boy, and frankly, you've been a big disappointment to me. You lie, you cheat on your wife, and you manipulate people and talk about them behind their backs. You think you're a big shot when you haven't the brains to realize you never will amount to anything more than a two-bit paper pusher. Yes, I know you." The lawyer was stunned! Not knowing what else to do, he pointed across the room and asked, "Mrs. Jones, do you know the defense attorney?" She again replied, "Why, yes, I do. I've known Mr. Bradley since he was a youngster, too. He's lazy, bigoted, and he has a drinking problem. He can't build a normal relationship with anyone and his law practice is one of the worst in the entire state. Not to mention he cheated on his wife with three different women. One of them was your wife. Yes, I know him." The defense attorney almost died. The judge asked both counselors to approach the bench and, in a very quiet voice, said, "If either of you idiots asks her if she knows me, I'll send you to the electric chair."

mystic77

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looking forward to it Posted: 7/11/2007 3:49:08 PM
I hope to attend...........

mystic77

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I need some feed back Posted: 7/11/2007 3:36:06 PM
Maybe there is a reason...........ask him, But I think you should be realistic. Some of theses post humor me sometimes........commenting on gender bashing, spell check……get a grip…

mystic77

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What Do You Expect??? Posted: 7/11/2007 3:17:01 PM
Thanks so much......did it work........

mystic77

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What Do You Expect??? Posted: 7/11/2007 3:00:15 PM
Awe cute Penguin........ I don't have that icon........ We are deprived here in Canada But answer to the questions....I would not expect anything from him just honesty.....as far as material things that open........work towards a furture togather.....

mystic77

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What has held you back from being in a relationship? Posted: 7/11/2007 2:26:40 PM
I read this post for maybe a clue why? My sister in laws keep telling me No one is perfect.......That isn't the reason........Becasue I don't judge anyone, nor do I want someone to change for me.........I wonder do I make excuses or find faults in people......Maybe too chicken to care........ I don't think so, I don't think I just haven't meet the one who pulls my interest enough to hold........ I do like reading thse post thou.........

mystic77

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Who Should Move? Posted: 7/11/2007 2:17:35 PM
I agree with the comprise 2 hours is much better than 4. It’s a hard decision, one that must be properly weighed out, who will make the physical move. But the daughter must be the priority in the decision makin process. Either way moving will be a lot of adjustments on everyone’s part. Many people move away from their families for many different reason, it’s life. If you have a choice, our children are only young for a short time, as long as it is quality time when ever you share moments is what they remember. I transferred with my job miles awayy from my family & friends, it’s not easy. Just think thou, you will be sharing your life with the man you desire…… Good luck.I know I didn't help much.

mystic77

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smokers dating non smokers!!!! Posted: 7/11/2007 12:45:50 PM
.If it was an issue why even start to date.....you should never change just for another person. Maybe you gave him the incentive for him to quit, but what if he fails. Will you drop him then? It took me 4 times to quit finally & I have never cheated once. I don’t know if I would date a smoker now, thou. I am not against people who smoke, or avoid my friends who still smoke.

mystic77

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Finding The One!! Posted: 7/11/2007 12:39:06 PM
Another comprise post... Another comprise post...Of course we all hope in our hearts to find the person who will satisfy our every desire. If we knew the answers maybe we wouldn’t be here……unless you are a compulsive dating site junky

mystic77

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Have you seen your EX recently? Posted: 7/11/2007 7:02:03 AM
Heck no......... I was more like.....What on earth were you thinking!!!!

mystic77

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Wealth vs debt. Posted: 7/11/2007 6:55:57 AM
I didn't answer that post rite did I........ ...well if you had a chose who would pick debt....... gesh..I can be just as happy walking in a park playin around, with that special guy......than at the most elegant theater.....on beach in Hawaii ....... Unfortunatley alot do live above their means.....& I agree is one of the major cause for D.......

mystic77

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Wealth vs debt. Posted: 7/11/2007 6:42:57 AM
I am not a materialistic person or hopes to ever become on. My heart is not ruled or persuaded by a person ‘s wealth, dang it….. (just jk) I think, I would be more intimidated by someone with money, or constantly on guard not to embarrass myself. Cause I am very open, down to earth gal, who doesn’t put on airs to impress anyone…… Take me as I am...........unpredictable but loveable

mystic77

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I fear that i'd love her less. Posted: 7/11/2007 6:03:39 AM
One thing you are concerned already, so I doubt it very much. You will question it from time to time thou & believe me the child will use the guilty card once in awhile. Children are children. Depending on the age differnce get his child involved with helping you with the baby. You will have diferent issue to deal with his child.

mystic77

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Caught him... now what? Posted: 7/11/2007 5:38:40 AM
You are in a really tuff position, one I have been in before. I weighed the pro’s & con’s before I told my friend. Our friendship was never the same again, I did cover all my basis, when telling her. It was by no means because I was jealous of their relationship, because I couldn’t be happier for a friend. I believe in being honest in any friendship whether it’s with my girl or guy friends. My concessions would tear me up, until I either, blurted it out at in convince time or I would pull away because I couldn’t see him with out sarcasms. So, I mite as well tell her. In your situation, she was aware he was on a dating site before & either he lied or groveled to get back into her good gracious. The fact is she believed him again, you aren’t going to be chaperoning her through her whole relationship rite. She has to accept what he says or questions ever line he has. In my eyes, it's not a good basis for starting a relationship & is doomed to fail in heart ache. One thing I am glad it’s not me, what a schemer, just what else is he lying about? He could just return under a new nic anyways.

mystic77

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Work or effortless? Posted: 7/10/2007 9:04:24 AM
It’s my understanding that a relationship shouldn’t be too much work or require you to change who you are. There has to be some give & take, over every hurdle inorder to grow together. If you are constantly at odds or stressed all the time, you are forcing something that just isn’t meant to be.

mystic77

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Saw My Wedding ring On My X Husbands New Girlfriend! Posted: 7/10/2007 3:30:18 AM
I guess it would depend on the relationship or how the two of yous relate. Do remember your children are always your main concern. It would tick me off thou, the S.O.B helping himself by stealing something that represented your love at one time & reducing it by recycling …….. At least you had it first..............

mystic77

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Car or no car? Posted: 7/9/2007 4:46:26 PM
sounds like she has 3 kids..........why would she put up with it............. Doesn't really matter what anyone says, only she can set the pace ....Does she not think she worth it, for him to come to her & if I may say so, if he was any kind of a man he would go to her place without asking. tell your friend to stand her ground & I wish her luck....

mystic77

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Would you move in with someone after only one date? Posted: 7/9/2007 4:42:14 PM
WOW.......is all I can say.but my parents were married in less than 6 months from meeting. Before his death the were married 38 years & 8 childern later......

mystic77

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Standards... Are they too high? Posted: 7/9/2007 1:44:23 PM
I have high standards, but I don't judge another person by their income, clothes they wear, height or anything materialistic. I do however judge guys, how they can make me feel when they are around or absent. They’re mannerism towards others, their humor & how they live their own life. I here everyone talk about chemistry, it’s not something that can be influence by outside factors but genuinely felt. Whether that sets my standards too high, for the average person, then so be it, because our life together would not be ordinary……..

mystic77

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Is it too much to ask for people to keep their promises? Posted: 7/9/2007 1:24:08 PM
Far too many people say things & the moment they walk away it's forgotten. I take them at their word & it’s not my place remind them, cause I figure, you would remember if it was important to you. I say what I mean & I mean what I say. If I have given my word or promised to do something, I am there or I have notified that person why. I am not out for anything from someone I am not able to deliver myself….if you aren't true to your own word, then what's that say about your value.

mystic77

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i dont date anyone i cant see myself marrying Posted: 7/9/2007 1:14:33 PM
Well I certainly don't imagine myself marrying every guy I date. Not that my date book is packed, but I don’t just go out with a male for the sake of having a date, either. If I am dating someone, I do have to be interested in them, who knows were it will end up in the future thou.

mystic77

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sense of humor Posted: 7/8/2007 6:26:09 PM
I think, it sure gives the relationship a little extra when both people have a similar sense of humor…it may not be one of the major traits I look for, but it sure is up there……..

mystic77

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Ever notice that being too nice turns you into a doormat? Posted: 7/8/2007 6:21:38 PM
No ones a doormat unless you let them............ But I do agree with you on some level…..if you are considerate, caring, blah, blah..........people tend to more apt to take advantage of it…… so get thicker skin &..........

mystic77

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High on life? Posted: 7/8/2007 5:12:42 PM
Ya me tooo......... Some people make the cheap comments what I am on, I want some of that......I am high on life with a lot of energy to burn. Yes, I am in my 40‘s, I laugh, joke & want to make the most out of my day. Why do so many people find it so hard to comprehend ..If they weren’t so busy whining, complaining, judging other people…..just to inflate their ego. Maybe they wouldn’t be so stressed out & have some energy to go out to enjoy the world. It took me along to get to this piont in my life........... It sure is alot cheaper on the pockey book for sure........... I really don't live to please other people..........so

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