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justintyler

Joined: 10/11/2006

Msg: 75 (view)

MY EX SET ME UP Posted: 10/6/2009 7:33:24 PM
well, it was like i said before. i have tried to date someone older and close to my age. no one close to my age wanted to date me or even talk to me for that matter. at this point and time i had wished i had been with someone closer to my age. then i would had a good chance i might not be where i am now. might or might not? who knows... i finely had a good reason to smile. spent time with my kids. we had a great time till it come time to leave. them and me cried... wanted to go home. all i could tell them, it will be soon and i love them. so,had some good come out of the weekend. my daughter turned two last sunday.boy! they grow fast,lol.

JUSTINTYLER

Joined: 10/11/2006

Msg: 73 (view)

MY EX SET ME UP Posted: 10/5/2009 12:29:58 PM
MY EX SET ME UP Posted: 10/5/2009 234 PM She filed charges after you filed on her for money you felt she owed you? Should not be to hard to show she was retaliating., then you can sue her for filing false charges. Oh come on now, what 35 y/o woman has a grandchild over 7? I think you chase the young immature girls. --------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- again, right over someones head. it is not right on the money about a 35 year old having a grandkid,but close to it. look at the big picture. if you are 35 to 45 would you want a guy who is raising kids that young? 95% of women would not for the reasons i just stated before. i don't want a girl as you put it. i was in hopes of finding a woman who does not mind i am a single dad fulltime. please read all before comment. i put it on here as it happened.

JUSTINTYLER

Joined: 10/11/2006

Msg: 71 (view)

MY EX SET ME UP Posted: 10/5/2009 10:24:01 AM
i had tried for almost 2 years to find someone close to my age.everytime i would start talking to a woman over 35 and she found out my oldest child was under most of their grandkids,last i hear from them. i did date a woman who didn't have any kids.she was 36.she was unable to have kids. after 2 months of being with her.. lets just say,thank god she didn't have any kids! mine was very unhappy with and around her.my one son was scared of her,cried if i walked out of the room with her in it. when i met this woman who got me in this mess.she was in the same boat i was it seemed. everytime she would met someone.they would use her for a place to live.to take them here and there.so on,so on. the first year,i thought things were really good with us. my kids called her mom,hers called me dad. we went on trips as a family.she and i worked together as a family.we done everything as such. after that year went by,then started having problems.the problems never stopped,just got worse till this came up. my kids still ask when they can see mommie.all i can say to them,she has other things going on right now and we'll have to see later. so, as far as me meeting someone younger.it is not just a booty call as some would call it. yes, i would hope one day to find someone for a life deal.

JUSTINTYLER

Joined: 10/11/2006

Msg: 66 (view)

MY EX SET ME UP Posted: 10/4/2009 10:59:02 AM
drl59 said:Do you still have the e-mail? If you do (which I really hope you do) copy it and have it as evidence as a treat towards you.. ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- yes i do have that e-mail she sent. along with another 50 pages she sent.i had all of them printed off and gave them to my lawyer. he is 99% sure i will walk on just the 50 e-mails alone. but i have to wait till we get in court with a judge and jury before i can be found not guilty. the lawyer asked me if he could handle the suit on her after we are done in court. he was telling me he had a fed lawyer who wanted to handle the suit on the county,sheriff's dept. jail,ext. once all was over. it will never makeup for some of the lost in our life.just not the time lost with my family.

JUSTINTYLER

Joined: 10/11/2006

Msg: 65 (view)

MY EX SET ME UP Posted: 10/4/2009 10:44:25 AM
NappyKAT said: The profile says looking for a women between the ages of 20-39. The woman who made the accusations was 29, 15 years younger than the OP. I think ol' dude just got GOT by a younger woman. But being 44 and wanting a woman on that very young end - 20 something or so years. I don't get that. Date them, sex them, I get that. They are young and legal and that gets men off. But an LTR or possible marriage? That age is near close to a child you would have if you had them in your 20's or younger. -- ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- my reason for looking for someone over 20 and under 35. i am a 44 year old single dad and my oldest at home is 7 this month. no woman wants anything to do with a man my age with kids this young. they see as they have raised their kids and now they don't want to start over with someone else's that age. so, where does that leave me and my children at this time or anyother?

JUSTINTYLER

Joined: 10/11/2006

Msg: 64 (view)

MY EX SET ME UP Posted: 10/4/2009 10:34:47 AM
Atlantis80 Joined: 9/7/2009 Msg: 62 view profile History MY EX SET ME UP Posted: 10/4/2009 542 AM Well actually...as sick as it may sound...he's probably right in the fact that if he is innocent, he could still be arrested and jailed on thw word of his ex and maybe a statement from child. Even if the mother basically told the child what to say before they got to the station. And say what you want, but women are sick because more times than not, it is women that use the justice system in this way. I've seen plenty of fathers get blindsided by this very "trick." Typically it's used in a divorce for leverage or for spite. Because you see, the mother is reporting a crime that she claims her child told her about. So we cant get the child for false report to a peace officer obviously. And the mother can just say.."i was just trying to protect my child." But it's usually false claims about abuse or if they're depraved enough, their own child. What a wonderful world we live in. So this guy, who may very well be innocent, has to pay for his own bond to get out out of jail. His job obviously fired him. He has to hire a lawyer. His kids got taken away because of the type of charge. And he'll have to go to court and wait and see each time to find out what will happen. Makes me sick every time this happens. Yes, people can be cruel, but woman can be more malicious in this area. I don't know if men just don't think about it or even if warned by their lawyers, just don't think their ex will stoop to that level. But some will. And for those that believe you cannot be arrested for any allegation, the allegation or complaint as we call it is what we file the charge for. Once a charge is filed, then we get a warrant for arrest. This is all common practice, nothing shady. A victim makes a complaint, in this case a mother and her child and their statements are the evidence as of right now. And yes, you can sit in jail and most people do until their trial is over. This is what is called an inmate. An inmate is someone who is in jail and awaiting trial but has not been convicted of that charge. Obviously after they're found guilty or plead guilty, then they're known as a convict. But that's what a bond is for. But if you cannot afford your bond or given a no bond, then you will stay in jail until the case is disposed of. ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- THE DATE on the warrant was the 18th when she went up their. date served was the 18th. so someone can tell me how they could have found out much if they took the papers out the same day she went to the sheriff's dept? my attorney told me they(sheriff's dept) jumped the gun and now to keep from being sued.they have to go with what they have.

JUSTINTYLER

Joined: 10/11/2006

Msg: 53 (view)

MY EX SET ME UP Posted: 10/2/2009 12:01:16 PM
Thread: MY EX SET ME UP Track this thread NappyKAT Joined: 7/2/2008 Msg: 51 view profile History MY EX SET ME UP Posted: 10/2/2009 317 AM So you two never got married? Or did? How old was she? Just curious. Feel free not to answer this one. we never did get married. she was almost 30. i was thinking she turns 30 this month. at the time, i would have put my life down for her and her kids. just like i would do for my own children. i did love this woman and wanted to spend my life with her then. my kids called her mommie.now they don't understand why she does not want to see them.

JUSTINTYLER

Joined: 10/11/2006

Msg: 50 (view)

MY EX SET ME UP Posted: 10/1/2009 8:46:14 PM
ForrestFyre....your words are just as i am going through.i got to see one of my sons today for one hour. they ( d.s.s. ) said i can't see all my kids at one time. it has to be one at a time for one hour. i had told the sheriff's dept when they picked me up,i would be willing to take a polygraph.they said they didn't need it since it can't be ruled in court. since the judge can't hear i took one.nor the jury. my ex who made the accusation did live 6 blocks from me. now she has moved. to the other young lady who asked why i broke up with her. july 4th we all went to dollywood with all the kids and my brother and his family. we had a really good day. the kids was acting great.it was just an great day! me and her had talked about getting married while we was up there. i got cold feet.. 4 days later as we was going home,i told her i still wanted to be with her for life. as july came to an end,i felt something was wrong. on 8/02/09 i found out she was seeing someone else. i told her i was not mad.i just wanted for her to be happy. then on 08/09/09 she got mad at me cause i asked her to pay me back for the heatpump i put in her house. she said no,she was not giving me nothing. i took papers out on her for money owed. as soon as the catawba county sheriff served her at work. she went nutts and sent me an e-mail that she was going to get me. then she went to the sheriff's dept. and told them i touched her son. next thing i know.. i had 4 cars at my house and put the cuffs on me in front of my kids while they was crying for me. next thing i know i was in jail. everyone have a good evening. later...

JUSTINTYLER

Joined: 10/11/2006

Msg: 47 (view)

MY EX SET ME UP Posted: 10/1/2009 9:08:22 AM
NO, NEVER! never been asked about anything like this or charged before.. this lady who was asking about the trip we took as a family to dollywood. me and her was in one bed and the kids was in their beds in the same hotel room. we have a wonderful time there over the 4th. it was one of the best times we ever had as a family. i did keep all the e-mails she sent to me and my lawyer has them. some of you said i left some things out, like what? tell me and i'll answer. i was a fulltime single parent when i met this woman. i had of been a single dad for many years cause my sons mother walked out on the kids and me when the youngest was a baby.she wanted my daughter but nothing to do with my sons. the bond was high cause of what kind of charge it was,that is what the lawyer said. i am not asking anyone to feel sorry for me. my kids,YES. but not for me.

JUSTINTYLER

Joined: 10/11/2006

Msg: 39 (view)

MY EX SET ME UP Posted: 9/30/2009 7:48:55 PM
well,it looks as another woman has to bash here. people get locked up everyday for something they didn't do.... look how many people in prison they found not guilty because of d.n.a. then you say they don't lock up the wrong people! open your eyes and watch the news. i had a mad ex to say these things about me.. A MAD EX! cause she didn't get her way. this woman sent me an e-mail telling me she was going to get me 2 days before she done this. i still have the e-mail,along with another 50 she sent me. the problem is, it means nothing till it gets in front of a judge and jury. then i can prove my case and also i didn't do it. so, before you send me to prison for something i didn't do. let us see what the judge and jury says. you have to much hate to men for some reason... need some kind of help? some guy do something wrong to you? is that why...

JUSTINTYLER

Joined: 10/11/2006

Msg: 35 (view)

MY EX SET ME UP Posted: 9/30/2009 5:20:45 AM
Inego Montoya : SAID I've seen it happen before when I was a cop. DFS gets ahold of something and won't let go, screw the evidence. I don't know if this is true in your case, but I'm not clueless enough to believe it doesn't happen. Hell, anyone who watches sixty minutes will have seen stories about it happening. If you didn't do it, I hope you clear your name and get your kids back. If you did I hope they lock you up and toss the key. thanks and i pray the truth comes out also. all i am asking for if for the truth and my family to be back together again.

JUSTINTYLER

Joined: 10/11/2006

Msg: 31 (view)

MY EX SET ME UP Posted: 9/29/2009 5:19:52 PM
northern dreamer: thanks for your words. don't understand how people would think i could have done such a thing and then post it on here. like hey.... i am the one who lost my kids here. they are the ones who are missing their daddy and can't understand why. my 6 year old hates the police now. my brother told me my 6 year old run up and kicked a cop over the weekend at wal-mart. he is a very upset child. my 7 year old can-not understand why he can't be with daddy. he loves going with me to work. my 4 year old will not let his grandmother out of his site.. he keeps wondering when the police are going to take her away. they don't trust anyone right now.i get my first visit on thursday evening. i hate to see whats going to happen when it comes time for them to leave?this will hurt all of us really bad. they have suffered so much over this.. don't worry people, i am going to take my kids off of here since you don't like to see smiles and someone happy.

JUSTINTYLER

Joined: 10/11/2006

Msg: 23 (view)

MY EX SET ME UP Posted: 9/28/2009 3:45:38 PM
D.S.S. (C.P.S.) took my kids till all of this is over. they told me i get to see them one hour per week. they will not let me talk to them on the phone or anything. i was told by D.S.S. they could not know what i said on the phone..

JUSTINTYLER

Joined: 10/11/2006

Msg: 22 (view)

MY EX SET ME UP Posted: 9/28/2009 3:08:48 PM
MY EX SET ME UP Posted: 9/27/2009 941 PM women are cruel ! Actually, human beings can be cruel, so let's not go off the deep end and categorize women as cruel. OP: IF your story is not true, then you will be exonerated. I am not aware of the structure of bonds in the US (I don't even know how they work in Canada), but at least you are out of jail for now and able to work. It is probably best not to be on a dating site right now because you have a lot to deal with. The emotions alone are raw and you need assistance with that. If the charges are true, then you will be dealt with as the courts see fit. If the charges are not, then let's hope the evidence (or lack thereof) will prove your case. If you are found not guilty, might I suggest continuance of counselling and not attempting to date for quite some time? ^^BG^^ THANKS for your words. if i was guilty. then i get whats coming to me forsure! but, i know i am not guilty and i could never think of such a thing. my children are the ones who lost the most in this. they can't understand why they can't be with daddy.they are very mad and upset at the police for taking their daddy away. i am not going to do any dating for a very long time. so far me and my children get the short end of the stick i have tried to date.

JUSTINTYLER

Joined: 10/11/2006

Msg: 16 (view)

MY EX SET ME UP Posted: 9/27/2009 8:08:55 PM
Justin, just one question. When was the last time you updated your profile? According to what you've written on there, you're "starting over again", and on the first date you'll be bringing your child with you because "IT IS JUST US. THEIR IS NO ONE BUT ME AND MY KIDS". Is it safe to assume what you've written is at least a couple of months old i have not updated it.last thing on my mind right now. thanks for giving me the heads up.... i have 1 son who lived with me fullltime and my other 2 sons every weekend.i got my daughter every other weekend.

JUSTINTYLER

Joined: 10/11/2006

Msg: 15 (view)

MY EX SET ME UP Posted: 9/27/2009 8:04:38 PM
THANK YOU, their are people locked up who didn't do anything. i was one of them. my sons ask for me all the time.it hurts me everytime i hear them.they don't understand why daddy can't talk or hold them.kiss them goodnight.

JUSTINTYLER

Joined: 10/11/2006

Msg: 11 (view)

MY EX SET ME UP Posted: 9/27/2009 6:52:22 PM
i copied about 50 pages off my e-mails to her from me and her to me.but again,it does not do anything for me till it gets in court. my lawyer said it could be up to two years before it went to court.

JUSTINTYLER

Joined: 10/11/2006

Msg: 10 (view)

MY EX SET ME UP Posted: 9/27/2009 6:49:12 PM
i didn't mean to write in caps. you asked about proof, their proof was my ex as the sheriff's dept put it. i was told by them (cops ) anyone can say you done something and you can be put in jail for it. just on anyones word... they interviewed me after i was served with a warant(think i spelled it right? ) really didn't want to hear anything i said.cause they said i was lying no matter what i said.

JUSTINTYLER

Joined: 10/11/2006

Msg: 6 (view)

MY EX SET ME UP Posted: 9/27/2009 4:52:36 PM
MY STORY STINKS... WELL, I AM TELLING THE TRUTH AND AS IT HAPPENED. WHY WOULD I LIE ABOUT SOMETHING LIKE THIS AND TO LOSE MY KIDS OVER THIS? WOULD NOT MAKE MUCH SINCE,HUH? SHE KNOWS A GUY THAT IS IN PRISON FOR DOING THE SAMETHING. SHE WRITES TO HIM. SHE TOLD ME ABOUT IT WHEN WE HAD BEEN TOGETHER ABOUT 5 MONTHS. I DIDN'T THINK MUCH OF IT.JUST WRITING TO SOMEONE WAS OK,I THOUGHT... I DO HAVE A LAWYER. BUT HE SAID IT COULD TAKE UP TO TWO YEARS BEFORE WE EVER GOT A TRAIL.

JUSTINTYLER

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Msg: 4 (view)

MY EX SET ME UP Posted: 9/27/2009 4:39:15 PM
SHE WAS MAD AT ME FOR BREAKING UP WITH HER. SHE SENT ME AN E-MAIL SAYING SHE WAS GOING TO GET ME. SHE DID!I WAS A SINGLE PARENT, NOW I DON'T EVEN HAVE MY CHILDREN....

JUSTINTYLER

Joined: 10/11/2006

Msg: 3 (view)

MY EX SET ME UP Posted: 9/27/2009 4:36:32 PM
NO evidence. SHE WENT TO THEM AND SAID I DID THIS... YOU KNOW THEY(SHERIFF'S DEPT ECT.) WILL BELIEVE A WOMAN OVER A MAN ANYDAY

JUSTINTYLER

Joined: 10/11/2006

Msg: 1 (view)

MY EX SET ME UP Posted: 9/27/2009 4:28:41 PM
I HAVE ONE THAT TAKES THE CAKE OF ALL OF YOU... I MET THIS WOMAN OFF OF HERE. WE DATED FOR 18 MONTHS.AT FIRST SHE TOOK MY KIDS AS HER OWN,I DID THE SAME WITH HERS. IN JULY WE EVEN TALKED ABOUT GETTING MARRIED. WE WENT TO DOLLYWOOD IN TENN. OVER THE 4TH. WE WERE HAPPY I THOUGHT... WE GOT BACK HOME ( HICKORY,NC ) AND THINGS WENT TO HELL AFTER THAT. ON 8/2/09 WE BROKEUP. ON 8/9/09 SHE WENT TO THE SHERIFF'S DEPT. AND TOLD THEM I TOUCHED HER SON... NEEDLESS TO SAY, GUESS YOU KNOW WHERE EVERYTHING WENT FROM THEIR. I WENT TO JAIL FOR SOMETHING I DIDN'T DO.I LOST MY KIDS OVER THIS. I HAD TO POST A 200,000 BOND TO COME BACK HOME WITHOUT MY CHILDREN.THEY ( D.S.S ) WILL NOT LET ME SEE MY CHILDREN.. I HAVE NOT SEEN THEM IN 6 WEEKS NOW.I JUST WANT TO DIE!MY LIFE,MY KIDS LIFE'S,MY WORLD IS GONE BECAUSE SOMEONE SAID SOMETHING.THATS ALL THEY HAVE IS HER WORD.... PLEASE PRAY FOR ME AND MY CHILDREN THAT THE TRUTH WILL COME OUT. I NEVER WANT TO DATE AGAIN! BE TO SCARED TO AFTER THIS. I AM OPEN TO ANY HELPFULL WORDS IF ANYONE HAS ANY? JAMES FROM NC.

JUSTINTYLER

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Msg: 87 (view)

MEN HELP ME PLEASE!! I'm 23 with 3 small children.... Posted: 8/14/2009 8:23:19 PM
I WOULD NOT HAVE A PROBLEM DATING SOMEONE LIKE YOU. I JUST BROKEUP WITH A WOMAN WHO HAD 3. 2 BOYS AND A GIRL. THE LITTLE BOY WAS 2 AND HALF WHEN WE STARTED DATING. HE WAS CALLING ME DADDY AND I LOOKED AT HIM AS IF HE WAS MINE. I WAS WITH HER FOR ALMOST 2 YEARS. ONE DAY AFTER SHE FOUND OUT SHE COULD NOT USE ME FOR ANYTHING ELSE. SHE BROKEUP WITH ME AND THEN STOPPED ME FROM SEEING THE LITTLE BOY(PEANUT WAS HIS NICKNAME). IT HURT ME VERY BAD. SO, TO ANSWER YOUR QUESTION. WE WILL AND SOME ARE WONDERING JUST THIS. GOING TO USE US? PUSH YOUR KIDS ON US JUST TO HURT US WHEN THINGS DON'T GO RIGHT FOR YOU.... MAKE ANY SINCE?

JUSTINTYLER

Joined: 10/11/2006

Msg: 112 (view)

Single Guys With No Kids Suck!!! Posted: 7/23/2009 9:40:41 AM
IF US SINGLE DADS ROCK? THEN WHY DO YOU WOMEN RUN FROM US AS SOON AS YOU FIND OUT WE HAVE KIDS AT HOME FULLTIME? EVERYTIME I THINK I FIND A LADY ON HERE OR ANY OF THESE DATING SITES.. AS SOON AS THEY FIND OUT I HAVE KIDS AT HOME FULLTIME,WILL NOT TALK TO ME ANYMORE. I HAVE HAD SOME ASK ME TO SEND MY KIDS BACK TO THEIR MOTHERS. I WILL NOT PICK ANY WOMAN OVER MY KIDS.THEY ARE MY NUMBER ONE FOREVER. I THINK THIS IS A DAMN GOOD QUESTION! I WOULD LIKE A GOOD ANSWER...

JUSTINTYLER

Joined: 10/11/2006

Msg: 25 (view)

Do fathers have any rights in Family Court? Posted: 5/4/2009 9:46:10 AM
i am sorry to say, us single dads have no rights.do not let anyone fool you or lie to you. i spent 36,000 trying to get my daughter. my ex was not a good parent and could not take care of my daughter without help from others. we had so much on her.. the judge ruled that she had not hurt my daughter "yet" so he was not going to take my daughter out of the home she was in. just cause we have a pecker.... we are doomed before we walk in the court room. in north carolina,burke county.the woman is always right! does not matter whats best for the child... judge stan owlsy,a woman judge. and then i had a male judge,redwing. just cause i have a pecker i lost.never mind i had my son fulltime from the same woman. something,they brokeup my children cause i was a male. i have my son and she has my daughter

JUSTINTYLER

Joined: 10/11/2006

Msg: 60 (view)

late child support Posted: 4/26/2009 7:30:30 PM
THIS IS THE WAY I SEE IT. THE WOMEN SET AROUND AND FUSS ABOUT THE CHILD SUPPORT AND WHAT THEY ARE NOT GETTING. WELL, I AM A SINGLE DAD AND I CAN'T GET MY EX TO PAY EITHER. THE COURTS WILL NOT MAKE HER PAY CAUSE SHE IS A WOMAN.I WAS TOLD THIS BY D.S.S. CHILD SUPPORT IN NORTH CAROLINA. IT IS ALL ONE SIDED. IF I CAN LIVE AND RAISE MY KIDS WITHOUT HELP... YOU CAN TO. STOP LOOKING FOR THE CHECK AND LIVE ON WHATS HERE AND NOW.IF THE CHECK COMES IN.. THEN GREAT! THIS WAY WOMEN DO NOT WHINE ABOUT MONEY THAT US SINGLE DADS CAN'T GET AT ALL. PUT THIS IN YOUR MIND FOR A FEW THOUGHTS..... EITHER YOU ARE YOUR CHILD-RENS PARENT AND DOING WHATS BEST FOR THEM OR YOU WHINE ABOUT YOUR EX AND HIS CHECK. DO WHATS BEST FOR YOU KID(S) LIKE I DO AS A SINGLE DAD WITH NO MOTHER HELPING ME OR MY KIDS. DON'T SWEAT THE SMALL STUFF.

JUSTINTYLER

Joined: 10/11/2006

Msg: 5 (view)

little advice or little help needed..thank you Posted: 2/8/2009 7:48:46 PM
HEY, NEVER STOP FIGHTING FOR YOUR KIDS. I AM A SINGLE DAD. THE FIRST TO FILE THE PAPERS.. 99% OF THE TIME,GETS THE KIDS. I HAVE SPENT 30,000 TO GET MY DAUGHTER. I WILL NEVER STOP. EVEN IF COST ME EVERYTHING I HAVE,OWN, MY LIFE.. THE WOMAN IS NOT ALWAYS THE BEST FOR THE CHILD. KEEP FIGHTING FRIEND. FIGHT FOR YOUR KIDS. LATER..

justintyler

Joined: 10/11/2006

Msg: 19 (view)

Guys with kids Posted: 1/18/2009 10:17:21 PM
hey, it is all cause the women on here or any other site.they want you to take thier kids,but not yours.unless it is on weekends.i am going throught the same thing right now. anytime i met someone and as soon as they find out i have kids fulltime....they are gone! wish you luck

justintyler

Joined: 10/11/2006

Msg: 34 (view)

Child support issue has gone through Posted: 1/10/2009 3:32:39 PM
I GUESS ALL I HAVE IN THIS.. I AM A MALE WITH THE SHOE ON THE OTHER FOOT. I HAVE MY SON FULLTIME AND I WENT AFTER CHILD SUPPORT FOR HIM. THEY ( D.S.S.) MADE HER PAY 55.00 A MONTH. SHE PAID FINE FOR 3 MONTHS.AFTER THAT.. NEVER GOT ANOTHER DIME FROM HER. THEY( CHILD SUPPORT) DID NOTHING TO HER FOR NOT PAYING FOR HER SON. THIS HAS BEEN 5 YEARS AGO. KNOW WHAT I WAS TOLD BY THEM? SHE HAD NO JOB SO SHE COULD NOT PAY. THATS IT. IF IT HAD BEEN ME, I WOULD HAVE BEEN IN JAIL FOR NOT PAYING AND NOT HAVING A JOB. I SEE WOMEN WHO GET 100 TO 200 A WEEK FOR ONE CHILD. IT DOES NOT COST THAT MUCH TO RAISE A CHILD AND YES I KNOW FIRST HAND. I BELIEVE IT TAKES TWO TO MAKE THE BABY AND IT TAKES TWO TO RIASE THE CHILD. BUT! I CAN UNDERSTAND WHY "SOME" MEN RUN OFF AND DON'T PAY. 1. THE MONEY DOES NOT GO TO THE CHILD AS IT SHOULD. 2.IF THE ONE PAYING CHILD SUPPORT CAN'T PAY THEIR BILLS CAUSE OF PAYING CHILD SUPPORT OF OVER HALF THEIR CHECK IS GONE. WHAT DOES THAT SAY? 3.AGAIN, IT DOES NOT TAKE 100.00 TO 200.00 A WEEK TO RAISE A CHILD. 4. IT SHOULD BE HOW MUCH THE TWO MAKE AND NOT JUST THE ONE. AFTER ALL,IT TOOK TWO TO MAKE THE BABY. 5.WHAT BILLS YOU HAVE AFTER IS NOT THE OTHERS PROBLEM. I KNOW FIRST HAND CAUSE I AM A SINGLE PARENT. WHAT IS GOOD FOR ONE SHOULD BE GOOD FOR THE OTHER.MAN OR WOMAN.

JUSTINTYLER

Joined: 10/11/2006

Msg: 23 (view)

For moms who lost kids in custody battle Posted: 11/7/2008 4:32:09 PM
THANKS FOR YOUR WORDS. IT IS VERY GOOD TO HEAR SOMEONE ON MY SIDE. MY KIDS ARE MY LIFE,I LIVE FOR THEM. MY DAUGHTER IS JUST A PAYCHECK TO HER EVERY MONTH.SO SHE CAN SIT ON HER BUTT AND NOT WORK. IF THE SHOE WAS ON THE OTHER FOOT (BEING A MAN) WE WOULD HAVE TO WORK CAUSE D.S.S. WOULD NOT HELP US MEN. AGAIN,THANKS.

JUSTINTYLER

Joined: 10/11/2006

Msg: 21 (view)

For moms who lost kids in custody battle Posted: 11/7/2008 3:08:13 PM
I THINK ALOT OF MOTHERS OUT THERE DON'T NEED THEIR KID(S). I AM A SINGLE DAD.MY EX WANTED MY DAUGHTER BUT NOT MY SON. I WENT THROUGH THE COURTS AND GOT MY SON BUT THEY WOULD NOT LET ME HAVE MY DAUGHTER JUST CAUSE I WAS A MAN. THIS WOMAN CANNOT EVEN CUT HER OWN FINGER NAILS.SHE DOES NOT EVEN GIVE MY DAUGHTER A BATH.I HAVE TO GIVE HER ONE EVERYTIME I GET HER.THAT IS EVERY TWO WEEKS FOR 4 DAYS.I LIVE IN BURKE COUNTY,NC AND I HAD ONE FEMALE JUDGE AND ONE MALE JUDGE AND THE CASE WENT ON FOR ALMOST A YEAR. THIS WOMAN TOLD ME OF THE TIMES HER MALE FAMILY MEMBERS HAD OR TRIED TO HAVE SEX WITH HER AND MY DAUGHTER IS RIGHT IN WITH THESE PEOPLE AND I CANNOT GET THE COURTS TO DO ANYTHING ABOUT IT.THE JUDGE SAID IN HIS OWN WORDS!! SHE HAS NOT HURT MY DAUGHTER YET! THIS IS WHY MY DAUGHTER IS STILL WITH THEM AND I HAVE MY SON. THEY SAID IN COURT( HER AND HER MOTHER AND DAD) THEY DID NOT WANT MY SON BUT THEY WANTED MY DAUGHTER. NOW... YOU PUT THIS TOGETHER AND SEE AS I DO... PLEASE PRAY FOR MY LITTLE GIRL,CAUSE SHE NEEDS IT. I WOULD WANT HER UP FOR ADOPTION THEN STAY WITH THEM.

JUSTINTYLER

Joined: 10/11/2006

Msg: 28 (view)

autistic kids anyone? Posted: 10/1/2008 9:19:12 AM
HI FROM HICKORY,NC MY SON IS AUTISTIC WITH ASTINBURGER... HOPE I SPELLED THAT RIGHT,LOL. HE IS VERY MUCH A HAND FULL FOR ME AS A SINGLE PARENT. HE DOES BRING ME ALOT OF JOY BUT THE SAME TIME HE CAN PUSH THE BUTTONS TO UPSET THE TIME TOGETHER. HELP IF I TAKE HIM TO WAL-MART OR SOMEWHERE. GONE IN A SEC. HE IS ALOT TO DEAL WITH,BUT HE IS MY LIFE. WALKING AWAY IS SOMETHING I WOULD NEVER THINK OF DOING LIKE HIS MOTHER DONE. KIDS WITH THIS CAN LEARN AND LIVE A LIFE EVEN AFTER 18. IT IS OUR JOB TO TEACH THEM AND I WILL DO SO AS LONG AS IT TAKES. YOU ARE NOT ALONE.1 OUT OF 4 KIDS HAVE THIS.SOME MORE THEN OTHERS. JUST THINK, WE ONLY HAVE ONE TIME AROUND TO SEE THEM GROW AND BE HAPPY. MAKE EVERY SEC. OF IT BEING HAPPY AS MUCH AS YOU CAN. MY SON IS A GIFT FROM GOD AND MY WORLD. THANKS, JAMES FROM HICKORY,NC

JUSTINTYLER

Joined: 10/11/2006

Msg: 28 (view)

Parents of boys without Dad in their life Posted: 7/10/2008 7:15:51 PM
I AM A SINGLE DAD OF 4 WONDERFUL KIDS. THE MOTHER WALKED AWAY FROM US. I HAVE TO SAY THESE WOMEN WHO BASH MEN ON HERE... HAVE A HATE THING GOING. NOT ALL OF US MEN ARE AS YOU SAY. I HAVE BEEN DROPPED BY WOMEN 3 TIMES AND MY KIDS ARE THE ONE WHO ARE PAYING THE PRICE. I AM SO WITH YOU HEARY L MOON. I HAVE A 9 MONTH OLD DAUGHTER WHO WILL BE WITH ME FULLTIME SOON. I HAVE 2 FIVE YEAR OLDS FULLTIME THE MOTHER WALKED AWAY. I HAVE A JUST TURNED 4 YEAR OLD WHO'S MOTHER ALSO WALKED AWAY. FORGET CHILD SUPPORT FROM A WOMAN. THE COURTS WILL NEVER GIVE ME ANYTHING FOR EITHER ONE OF THEM. IF IT WAS ME... I WOULD HAVE TO PAY FOR CHILD CARE,PLUS 150.00 A WEEK. I HAVE NOT GET A DIME FROM EITHER OF THEM. NOW FOR THE BAD PART.. MY KIDS THINK EVERY WOMAN IS MOMMY. NOW TELL ME THIS IS RIGHT? FOR ALL THE WOMEN OUT THEIR WHO LIKE TO BASH MEN, REMEMBER! YOU LAID DOWN WITH HIM AND IT TOOK THE TWO OF YOU TO MAKE THIS CHILD. NO ONE MADE YOU DO IT. LIVE WITH IT AND GO ON FOR YOUR CHILD. GOD GAVE YOU SOMETHING SO WONDERFUL! ENJOY IT AND SHUT THE F**K UP!

JUSTINTYLER

Joined: 10/11/2006

Msg: 98 (view)

Custodial dads how much money did it cost you tOget custody? Posted: 7/5/2008 7:18:47 AM
UPDATE::::I WENT TO COURT ON THE 3RD. THE WOMAN JUDGE I HAD,WITHDRAWED FROM THE CASE. I WILL NOW HAVE A OLDER MAN JUDGE.WHO FROM WHAT I HAVE HEARD,HE HAS KIDS. THIS IS A GOOD THING. THE OTHER JUDGE I HAD DID NOT HAVE ANY KIDS,BUT SHE ALSO HATES MEN. I HAVE TO WAIT ANOTHER MONTH ( AUG.4TH AND 5TH) PLEASE KEEP MY DAUGHTER IN YOUR PRAYERS THAT THINGS WILL TURN OUT FOR HER TO BE SAFE.

JUSTINTYLER

Joined: 10/11/2006

Msg: 96 (view)

Custodial dads how much money did it cost you tOget custody? Posted: 7/2/2008 7:30:29 PM
I KNOW HOW YOU FEEL. I AM DUE IN COURT TOMORROW (7/03/08)I HAVE BEEN AT THIS FOR GOING ON 9 MONTHS NOW. I DO FEEL IT IS ALL ABOUT WHAT IS BEST FOR THE CHILD. AND IT IS NOT ALWAYS THE WOMAN. EVERYTIME I HAVE WENT INTO COURT, HER LAWYER HAS TALKED ABOUT NOTHING BUT MONEY AND WHAT AND HOW MUCH I HAVE MADE. HOW I SPENT IT. MY DAUGHTER HAS BEEN SOOOO DIRTY EVERYTIME I GET HER. SHE SMELLS SO BAD, I HAVE TO UNDRESS HER TO GET HER IN THE TRAILBLAZER. I CALLED D.S.S. ON HER AND WAS TOLD THAT SINCE I WAS A MAN, THEY WOULD NOT TAKE A REPORT AND WOULD NOT LOOK INTO IT AND THAT WAS IT. FOR ME NOT TO CALL BACK EVER AGAIN. NOW YOU LET SOMEONE CALL ON ME... IT SHOULD NOT MATTER WHAT OR WHO IS TAKEN CARE OF THE CHILDREN.BUT WHAT IS BEST FOR THE KID(S). I ALREADY HAVE CUSTODY OF OUR OTHER CHILD. SINCE HE WAS 2 WEEKS OLD. MY EX HAS ALSO TOLD ME ABOUT HER DAD HAS DONE THINGS TO HER AND SHE NOW LIVES WITH HIM WITH MY DAUGHTER. IF THIS MAN MESSED WITH HIS OWN DAUGHTER, WHAT WOULD STOP HIM FROM DOING SOMETHING TO MINE? PLEASE!!! EVERYONE PRAY WHAT IS BEST FOR MY DAUGHTER... AND THAT IS TO KEEP HER SAFE FROM HARM! THANKS, JAMES FROM HICKORY,NC

JUSTINTYLER

Joined: 10/11/2006

Msg: 91 (view)

Custodial dads how much money did it cost you to get custody? Posted: 6/30/2008 8:59:43 PM
HICKORY,NC HERE. I HAVE SPENT OVER 15,000 SO FAR. SINCE DEC.10TH OF 07 AND I STILL SEE NO END IN SITE. I HAVE HAD TO PAY FOR MY LAWYER AND SHE GETS BY WITHOUT PAYING A DIME. BURKE COUNTY HAS WOMEN JUDGES WHO DOES NOT SEE WHAT IS BEST FOR THE CHILD.... BUT WHAT IS BEST FOR THE WOMAN.MY EX HAS BROKEN EVERY LAW THE JUDGE HAS MADE AND GOTTEN BY WITH IT. IF IT HAD BEEN ME... I WOULD BE UNDER THE JAIL WITH A 1,000,000 DOLLAR BOND. SO THE COURTS DO LOOK IN THE FAVOR OF THE WOMAN AND NOT WHAT IS BEST FOR THE CHILD. MY 9 MONTH OLD DAUGHTER IS BEING ABUSED AND CANNOT GET ANYTHING DONE TO HELP HER. THANKS,JAMES FROM HICKORY,NC

JUSTINTYLER

Joined: 10/11/2006

Msg: 1624 (view)

Ever Wonder Why Single Men Do Not like Single mothers? Posted: 2/20/2008 5:13:23 PM
I READ YOUR PART... NOW FOR A SINGLE DADS PART... WHY DO WOMEN RUN FROM US AS SOON AS THEY FIND OUT WE ARE SINGLE DADS? IT IS A TWO WAY STREET. I DO SEE MORE WOMEN RUNNING AWAY FROM US DADS THEN US DADS RUNNNING FROM YOU. WE WANT THE SAMETHINGS YOU DO IN LIFE,FAMILY,SOMEONE WHO IS GOOD TO US AND OUR KID(S) JUST AS MUCH AS YOU WANT A MAN WHO WILL DO THE SAME TO YOU AND YOUR KID(S). I TALK TO A LADY ON HERE AND AS LONG AS I DON'T TELL HER I HAVE KIDS AT HOME FULLTIME,SHE WILL TALK WITH ME FOREVER.BUT! AS SOON AS I SAY I HAVE 3 BOYS AT HOME FULLTIME...GONE! JUST MY TWO CENTS WORTH AS A SINGLE DAD IN NORTH CAROLINA.

JUSTINTYLER

Joined: 10/11/2006

Msg: 12 (view)

Parental Alienation Syndrome (PAS) Posted: 1/13/2008 8:11:39 AM
I UNDERSTAND THIS. BUT THE BIGGEST PROBLEM WITH THE KIDS ACTING AS THEY DO WITH THE FATHERS... IS THE MOTHERS! THE MOTHER PUT THEI STUFF IN THE KIDS HEADS ABOUT THEIR DADS AND THE DAD ENDS UP PAYING THE BIG PRICE, LOSS OF GOOD TIME WITH THEIR KIDS. IF THE MOTHER DOES NOT WANT TO BE WITH THE FATHER? THEN DON'T TAKE IT OUT ON THE KIDS. DON'T TELL THE KIDS HOW BAD THE OTHER PARENT IS.. KIDS ARE NOT DUMB. LET THEM THINK ON THEIR ON. AFTER ALL, KIDS ARE PEOPLE TO.. JUST SMALLER. ALWAYS DO WHAT IS BEST FOR THE KIDS AND NOT WHAT IS BEST FOR THE PARENT! MAKES LIFE SO MUCH EASYER FOR EVERYONE AROUND.

justintyler

Joined: 10/11/2006

Msg: 6 (view)

Your opinions and advice? Posted: 12/23/2007 8:59:02 PM
OH MAN I KNOW HOW YOU FEEL! I AM GOING THROUGH THE SAME THING AS I WRITE. MY DAUGHTER WAS BORN 10/04/07. FIRST OFF, SHE NEVER PUT ME ON THE BIRTH RECORDS. I HAD TO GO TO D.S.S. AND PAY FOR A DNA TEST TO SHOW THIS BABY GIRL WAS MINE. THE TEXT CAME BACK AND SHE WAS MINE. I FILED FOR CUSTODY OF MY DAUGHTER KIMBERLEY. MIND YOU NOW I HAVE NOT EVEN GOT TO SEE HER NOT ONE TIME UP TO DEC.15TH 07. SINCE I WAS NOT ON THE BIRTH RECORDS.. I HAD NO RIGHTS AS A FATHER. I SEEN THIS LITTLE LADY ON DEC.15TH FOR 8 HOURS. SHE HAS STOLE MY HEART. THE JUDGE ONLY GAVE ME 8 HOURS ONE TIME A WEEK TO SEE MY DAUGHTER AND 3 HOURS ON CHRISTMAS DAY. THE COURT SYSTEM IS SO UPSIDE DOWN WHEN IT COME TO PARENTS (MEN ) IT IS NOT WHO WILL BE THE BEST FOR THE CHILD.. IT IS IF YOU ARE A FEMALE OR MALE. I AM ALREADY A SINGLE DAD TO MY LITTLE BOY. I DO THINK I HAVE PROVED I AM A GOOD PARENT. I HAD A WOMAN JUDGE ALSO. WE TOLD THE TRUTH, EVERY WORD! SHE LIED LIKE A DOG AND WE (LAWYER ) COUGHT HER IN THESE LIES WITH THE JUDGE HEARING THIS. IT DID NOT CHANGE HER(JUDGE) MIND. JUST CAUSE I WAS A MAN, I WAS DONE BEFORE I WALKED IN THE COURT ROOM. I WISH YOU THE BEST OF LUCK AND MY YOUR CHILD BE WITH THE BEST PARENT,WITCH SEEMS TO BE WITH YOU... MARRY CHRISTMAS TO YOU AND YOURS!

justintyler

Joined: 10/11/2006

Msg: 93 (view)

Single Dad's trying to Collect Child support Posted: 12/17/2007 2:29:08 PM
thanks for understanding.

justintyler

Joined: 10/11/2006

Msg: 90 (view)

Single Dad's trying to Collect Child support Posted: 12/16/2007 6:57:49 AM
hey. i am in the same boat as you. but, one thing to it. they(courts) made her pay 55.00 a month for him when he was 3 months old. if that had been a man paying child support.. it would have been 55.00 a week for a baby. i told my child support worker then about it and was told since she does not have a job.. well, you get the picture. d.s.s. would not make her get a job cause she was a woman. if it had been a man, i would have been in jail till i had a job. my son is 4 now and i have not got a dime off of her since 12/04 do you think she is in jail? don't think so! d.s.s. or h.r.s as some call it.. are all for woman who are getting help of all kinds. as long as the man goes to jail.

justintyler

Joined: 10/11/2006

Msg: 4 (view)

IT WAS THE NIGHT BEFORE CHRISTMAS Posted: 12/12/2007 7:27:21 AM
glad you got a laugh out of it... that was what it was for,lol.

justintyler

Joined: 10/11/2006

Msg: 1 (view)

IT WAS THE NIGHT BEFORE CHRISTMAS Posted: 12/11/2007 8:10:59 PM
IT WAS THE NIGHT BEFORE CHRISTMAS AND ALL THROUGH THE HOUSE THE WHOLE DAMN FAMILY WAS DRUNK AS A LOUSE. MA OUT OF THE CAT HOUSE AND ME OUT OF JAIL, HAD JUST SETTELED DOWN FOR A NICE PEACE OF TAIL. GRANDMA AND GRANDPA WAS SINGING A SONG THE KID WAS IN BED PLAYING WITH HIS WONG.... WHEN OUT ON THE LAWN THERE ROSE SUCH A CLATTER, I JUMPED OUT OF THE BED TO SEE WHAT WAS THE MATTER. AWAY TO THE WINDOW I FLEW LIKE A FLASH. I SLEP ON THE RUG AND BUSTED MY ASS! WHAT SHOULD MY BLODD SHOT EYES SHOULD APEAR? A RUSTIE OLD SLAY AND TWO MANGLEY DEER. A LITTLE OLD DRIVER HOLDING HIS**KNEW RIGHT AWAY THE BASTERD WAS NICK. HE SAID: UP DANCER,UP PRANCER,QUICK NOW DAMNIT BEFORE I CUT OFF YOUR BALLS! AWAY TO THE ROOF TOP HE FLEW LIKE A FLASH, CAME DOWN THE CHIMNEY AND BUSTED HIS ASS. HE FILLED THE STOCKING WITH RUBBERS AND BEER AND A BIG RUBBER**FOR THE FAMILY QUEER. I HEARD HIS EX-CLAM AS HE WALKED OUT OF SITE! PISS ON YOU ALL IT HAS BEEN A HELL OF A NIGHT!

justintyler

Joined: 10/11/2006

Msg: 100 (view)

How do women feel about being involved with single Dads? Posted: 12/9/2007 7:28:57 PM
HI ALL, I HAD TO PUT MY 3 CENTS WORTH IN HERE. I AM A SINGLE DAD AND HAVE BEEN FOR SOMETIME NOW. EVERYTIME I MEET A LADY.. AND THEN SHE FINDS OUT I HAVE KIDS. SHE IS GONE. I FIND THAT 99% OF WOMEN I HAVE MET ARE JUST LIKE THE GUYS WHO WALK AWAY FROM THERE KIDS. 1. THEY WANT ME TO TAKE THERE KIDS AS MINE,BUT WILL NOT TAKE MY KIDS AS THERES. UNLESS I WAS A PARTTIME DAD. ONCE THEY FIND OUT I WILL NOT PICK ANYONE OR THING OVER MY KIDS.. THEY ARE GONE. LET US BE REAL HERE LADYS, IF YOU WANT US MEN TO LOVE YOU AND YOUR CHILDREN... DON'T YOU THINK YOU HAVE TO LOVE OUR KIDS THE SAME? AFTER ALL, THEY ARE APART OF US JUST LIKE YOUR KIDS ARE APART OF YOU.

justintyler

Joined: 10/11/2006

Msg: 40 (view)

Do guys like single moms? Posted: 11/24/2007 9:21:05 AM
i wanted to date and maybe marry a single mother one day. the problem is her wanting the same as me... i am also a single parent and getting her to take my kids as i would hers. i see single dads having alot harder time dating because is us being single parents. most single moms want men to have kids,but not at home. just on the weekends every other week. lets be real here.. women look at single dads just like sinlge men look at ladys with kids. i sit back and read these forums about how women want men to do this and that. we with kids at home have a very hard time with the dating thing cause of our children. i will not change that my kids live with me to have a partner. i would hope the partner would want to change with us and grow with us as a family. my kids and hers. please think about this. we have a hard time just like you do in the dating dept. sign... someone in hickory,nc who has given up on dating

justintyler

Joined: 10/11/2006

Msg: 84 (view)

Why so many Dads not involved in kids life Posted: 11/10/2007 8:09:29 PM
let us not forget.... women do the same thing also. my sons mother walked away from my sons while they were crying and screaming from her. she walked right by them like they were not there! so... please stop putting only men in this talk or blame!

JUSTINTYLER

Joined: 10/11/2006

Msg: 1 (view)

HAVING A GET TO TOGETHER? Posted: 10/22/2007 6:07:25 PM
I THINK IT WOULD BE GREAT TO HAVE ALOT OF US TO GET TOGETHER ON A SATURDAY OR SUNDAY? LIKE A MEET.. NEVER KNOW, MIGHT MEET SOMEONE TO FALL OVER OR IN LOVE WITH. IF I COULD GET ALOT OF US TOGETHER, I WOULD RENT A BANQUET ROOM AT THE FAIRFIELD INN IN HICKORY,NC WHOME EVER THINKS WE COULD DO THIS? DROP ME A LINE AND HAVE A P.O.F. GET TOGETHER. NO DRUGS OR PEOPLE LOOKING FOR BAD THINGS. AND MOST OF ALL! NO DRINKING! TELL ME WHAT YOU THINK? Email address removed P.S. I AM NOT SAYING THE PARTY WILL BE ON THIS DATE. CAN WORK ON THE DATE IF WE CAN GET ALOT OF US TOGETHER,OK

JUSTINTYLER

Joined: 10/11/2006

Msg: 3 (view)

22 Year Old Mother Having A Hard Time Dealing With My Son's Terrible Two Stage....Any Advice???? Posted: 10/14/2007 6:34:24 AM
HI, I KNOW WHAT YOU ARE GOING THROUGH. MY SON WAS A WONDERFUL BABY UNTILL A WEEK BEFORE HE TURNED TWO... THE DEMONS FROM HELL ENTERED HIS BODY AND HAVE NOT LEFT. HE WILL BE 5 SOON. I LOVE HIM WITH ALL MY LIFE,BUT HE CAN PUSH AND PUSH! STOP THIS,STOP THAT, DON'T,DON'T, 5000 TIMES A DAY. IT IS A STAG WITH BOYS AND THE BAD THING IS... IT WILL LAST TILL THEY ARE GROW AND GONE. MY SON IS ME MADE OVER, THINKING BACK WHEN I WAS YOUNG... I DONE THE SAME THING. THEY ALWAYS SAID, WHAT YOU GAVE YOUR PARENTS,YOU GET TWO TIMES BACK. I AM GETTING 5 TIMES BACK BEST OF LUCK AND REMEMBER.. THEY ARE ONLY LITTLE ONCE

justintyler

Joined: 10/11/2006

Msg: 179 (view)

Child Support Level vs. Non-Custodials Income Posted: 8/16/2007 1:35:07 PM
what about us dads who went through the same thing and still are. my ex was made to pay 55.00 a month by the judge. what am i going to get for that? i told the judge if it was me at the table and not her, i would have to pay 55.00 a week to start.know what the judge said? ......i was right but having to pay more then 55.00 a week. now tell me where that is right? i have not got a dime from her in over 2 years and they (courts ) will not do anything to her. if it was me and i didnot pay... after the first week, i would be in jail. single dads have it even worse then the single mothers. and judged more cause we do have our kids and not there mother. don't get me wrong! it takes two to make the child and two to keep the child up. i didn't want here to pay my home payment or anything else as far as me. just her child's needs. it does not cost 400.00 a month to raise a child,or even 300.00 what you make and what he makes together. remember, if he can't live and pay his bills....how can he pay for his child to? have a great day and many smiles from your little one to you everyday

justintyler

Joined: 10/11/2006

Msg: 33 (view)

INTRODUCING SINGLE FATHERS, IT'S YOUR TIME TO SHINE. Posted: 8/9/2007 9:01:57 PM
INTRODUCING SINGLE FATHERS, IT'S YOUR TIME TO SHINE. Posted: 7/27/2007 5:08:00 AM Most times I hear about single moms and all their problems. Most times I hear only Moms have take care of their kids full time, not just for visitations or 2 weekends a month. So I am curious, are there any full time single dads on here? What kinds of problems do you face? And what is your take on dating? Do you feel that it is important for your child to have a mother figure at home or do you believe you are handling it just fine by yourself? ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ I AM GLAD TO SEE A WOMAN ASK THIS KIND OF QUESTION. I AM A SINGLE DAD AND HAVE BEEN SINCE MY YOUNGEST WAS 2 WEEKS OLD. SHE WALKED AWAY FROM US AND DID NOT LOOK BACK. I DID TRY TO KEEP HER APART OF HER SONS LIFE.THE MORE I TRY,THE MORE SHE DID NOT WANT ANYTHING TO DO WITH IT. WELL, MY SON IS 4 NOW. IT HAS NOT BEEN EASY AT ALL RAISING 3 BOYS,BUT I LOVED ALL OF IT. I REALLY THINK IT HAS MADE ME A BETTER MAN. THE DOWN SIDE TO ALL OF THIS: I HAVE FOUND NO WOMAN WHO WANTS ANYTHING TO DO WITH US CAUSE I AM A SINGLE DAD. I HAVE FOUND THAT 90% OF WOMEN I TALK WITH,WANT A MAN WITHOUT KIDS AT HOME.CAUSE IT TAKE TO MUCH TIME AWAY FROM THERE KIDS.THEY(WOMEN) WANT ME TO TREAT THERE KIDS AS MINE,BUT WILL NOT DO THE SAME FOR MY KIDS. BUT! IF WE AS MEN SAY ANYTHING ABOUT THIS.... WE ARE JUST BITTER AND HATE WOMEN. I HAVE GAVEUP ON EVER FINDING A WOMAN WHO WILL TREAT ME AND MY KIDS AS I WOULD THERES. I AM NOT BITTER TO THE LADYS,JUST HURT THAT THEY SAY ONE THING AND DO ANOTHER FOR THERE GAIN AND DOES NOT CARE ABOUT ANYONE ELSE'S FEELINGS BUT THEIRS.

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