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Milly-Molly

Joined: 10/12/2006

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Are the forums a dependable/consistent source for judging another? Posted: 1/2/2009 4:31:52 PM
I don't think you can judge anyone by what they may or may not reply to on a forum such as this. It has been known (I admit not often) for me to post a reply that actually makes me sound intelligent. So those who do not know me personally could be fooled into presuming i was a well grounded and sensible individual....which of course those of you who do know me know is simply just not true

Milly-Molly

Joined: 10/12/2006

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Does Anybody Want A Baby. Posted: 12/2/2007 1:48:30 PM
Well i will be having another granddaughter in January which is far more fun (and a lot less work) than having your own. I already have three of my own so have no desire whatsoever to have any more. I shall just sit back and enjoy the granchildren that I have

Milly-Molly

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A Moral Dilemma Posted: 11/29/2007 12:51:59 PM
If they are both happy with the arrangement who are we too judge? It may work out and she may grow to love him (it can happen) and then again it may last only a few weeks etc (but what a few weeks ). She should try it and see how she feels about it. If she isn't comfortable then she can always end the arrangement. Then again she may find that she likes the arrangement and is able to fulfill a lifelong ambition. The point is, nothing ventured nothing gained. Better to try it and discover that maybe it isn't for her than to turn it down and regret it for the rest of her life.

Milly-Molly

Joined: 10/12/2006

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Belly button rings/bars.... but on a man? Posted: 11/25/2007 12:40:25 PM
I don't think personally that having your belly button peirced (males) makes you GAY, but I do think it's a little weird and to be honest off putting. I also think that it's a bit weird for a man to have his tongue peirced, but hey each to their own.

Milly-Molly

Joined: 10/12/2006

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Fussy Eaters Posted: 11/21/2007 1:45:31 PM
I am about to annoy everyone then as i have to be one of the worst fussy eaters in the world! I eat fritters and beans every single day. I do not eat meat (except occasionally in a mad fit I have bacon, but it has to be fried and of the smoked variety...no fat either). I don't eat any veg (except garden peas), don't eat fish, cheese, eggs, pizza's etc and I have never had or wanted to have a kebab in my life. Just for the record though I do not have high cholesterol my blood pressure is always fine and I do not have any other health problems. I do change my diet occassionally from fritters to chips

Milly-Molly

Joined: 10/12/2006

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do you watch films with subtitles Posted: 11/21/2007 1:36:04 PM
I watch lots of Japanese films with subtitles and I have no problems whatsoever. Have to agree 100% with comments about the Japanese versions of the ring and the grudge being far better than the American ones. Once you get used to the subtitles they aren't so bad, even my kids watch anime with subtitles.

Milly-Molly

Joined: 10/12/2006

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Gossip Mongers and Back Biters Posted: 11/13/2007 1:46:14 PM
There will always be gossip mongers and people you believe to be your friends who turn round and stab you in the back. Recently there has been a lot of gossip about a lot of things. The adult thing to do is to ignore it but to let the person who the gossip is about know. It is easy to say this but there are times when the person in question just doesn't need to know right now for many reasons. Gossip is usually nasty and untruthful and can hurt many people in the process. The adult thing to do is not to go round spreading it.

Milly-Molly

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Halloween monsters and you... Posted: 10/31/2007 2:34:26 PM
Ohhh no I couldn't be a monster if I tried (although some would dissagree ) however if I had to be something for halloween I would be a succubus cus it just makes me giggle and appeals to my weird sense of humour. I actually like the horror genre though, but I prefer monsters like Michael Myers, Jason and Freddy Kreuger.

Milly-Molly

Joined: 10/12/2006

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Contraceptive implant Posted: 10/18/2007 6:55:14 AM
Hi Lily I have seen this being done and to be honest the lady in question did not feel any pain at all apart from the initial injection to numb her upper arm. Also if you are not suited it is easy to have it removed. Have pmd you some info on how etc. Damn message too short.

Milly-Molly

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What are you like when you are drunk? Posted: 10/15/2007 1:48:18 PM
I am the same as normal when drunk but i just use it as an excuse. I flirt outrageously, am completely nutty, extremely touchy feely (with both sexes) and I am so honest I scare myself. BUT only one thing different is I can't stop giggling I mean at absolutely anything it's ridiculous. But it's all fun and as I can't handle the drink I dont do it often

Milly-Molly

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Taxi cab conversations Posted: 10/14/2007 11:48:47 AM
I am never too sure with taxi drivers. I am usually the last to be dropped off from a meet night so it's just me n the taxi driver for a few miles. I worry incase theyre a nutter (like Casualty last night). If you talk to them and are freindly...are you giving them the wrong impression? If you ignore them does that make you seem ignorant or too good for them? Maybe I am just paranoid.

Milly-Molly

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Mum wants her disabled daughter to have a hysterctomy.. Posted: 10/9/2007 12:49:34 PM
I don't envy the girls parents nor do i envy the health professionals in this decision. At the end of the day both are trying to decide what is best for the patient. I can see both sides. The thing is, the young girlk may never suffer from period pains, many women do not, nor do they have mood swings either. To take such drastic measures seems a little severe. Surely it would be better to try alternative measures to see if they had similar effects before deciding on a hysterectomy, after all the latter is ireversible.

Milly-Molly

Joined: 10/12/2006

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Anorexia nervosa and bulimia nervosa Posted: 10/3/2007 2:38:16 PM
Pro anorexia and bulemia sites should be banned full stop. I have no experience of them however I do have experience of eating disorders and to actively encourage them in my opinion is a form of abuse. I suffered for years with an eating disorder, and it is not nice or worth it.

Milly-Molly

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TANTRIC SEX - IS IT REAL SEX? WHAT'S IT ALL ABOUT? Posted: 10/3/2007 1:25:32 PM
The practice of Tantra shows us how to reclaim the sexual intimacy that is our birthright. And through this most ancient of arts, we may discover new joys of the erotic and expand mere moments of sexual ecstasy into a lifetime of sexual bliss. At a time when the stresses, fears and distractions of daily life threaten so many relationships, the age-old practice of Tantra shows us how to open our hearts, our emotions and our sexuality. Couples need not adopt the Tantric pantheon in order to benefit from the sexual wisdom of this ancient art. Tantric sexual practices teach us to prolong the act of making love and to utilize potent orgasmic energies more effectively. Just knicked that off google lol hope it helps.

Milly-Molly

Joined: 10/12/2006

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Where did you have your children? Posted: 10/3/2007 1:13:31 PM
My first was in hospital and took 3 hours (and I thought it was the longest 3 hours of my life!). Second was in hospital but my third I had at home in my bedroom with 2 midwives, glasses of squash, the radio on and loads n loads of entinox. Brilliant experience!

Milly-Molly

Joined: 10/12/2006

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Is repeatedly posting on PoF forums a form of exhibitionism? Posted: 10/3/2007 1:06:21 PM
I am confused as to how having an opinion and sharing it can be a form of exhibitionism? Oh ok I am an exhibitionist (but I thought it was a secret). To be honest I love reading the forums and you do find out more about people from reading their posts. It's kind of like people watching but more fun. It's a small insight into how others think etc. Yes there are some of us who post more frequently but I think this is because we just like joining in if we have an opinion (and some of us are more opinionated than others)

Milly-Molly

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Breast Cancer Awareness 2007 [Valid Thread] Posted: 10/2/2007 3:06:09 PM
Actually I can kind of see where msg 99 is coming from BUT Breast Cancer UK do moon walks where women who have and have not had mastectomy’s walk in their bras to show support. Just because some of us are lucky enough to have healthy breasts does not mean we have no compassion for those less fortunate. As previously stated I have dealt with patients who have had mastectomies and they do not feel bitter about those who show their support etc, merely grateful that we do. Cancer touches everyone in some way or another and if this thread and flashing a few bras helps in even the smallest way then I am glad to do my bit. P.S. To be honest it is the bras we are flashing not the boobs they encase...just some peeps have mucky minds.

Milly-Molly

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Bed without dinner! Posted: 10/1/2007 1:48:36 PM
I wouldn't send mine to bed without dinner, taking away pc etc is enough. My mother when she was younger had a stepfather who did this. Unfortunately it was much worse though. if she missed out on her dinner (for whatever reason) it was saved and served up for breakfast!!

Milly-Molly

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Breast Cancer Awareness 2007 [Valid Thread] Posted: 10/1/2007 4:21:34 AM
I have fortunately not lost anyone to breast cancer, however I have dealt with many women who have and even when their prognosis was not good, I am in awe of their strength and determination. I think this is a really valid thread though D/A as in todays hectic life style of always being in a hurry, many women (and men) forget that 5 minutes spent checking your breasts is possibly one of the most important 5 mins in your life. I salute all those who have/are suffering and those who have lost a loved one. You have my deepest admiration. I will try to upload a piccie x

Milly-Molly

Joined: 10/12/2006

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The unexplained? Posted: 9/28/2007 6:57:11 AM
Can anyone explain how I can manage to put NOTHING but whites in the machine (yes I double checked the drum) and when it finishes it's cycle every single white came out a lovely shade of pink?? Oh well least I can help if anyone wants an outfit for the Brum meet night Felt a bit like sooty...I can do Magic (and I never even had to say "Izzy whizzy, let's get busy!").

Milly-Molly

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Looking through the keyhole....... of our bedrooms! Posted: 9/28/2007 3:56:02 AM
Pink, mines a lovely soft pink (just like moi, soft and feminine ). I have a lovely deep pink piccie above the bed which is really nice. 1 window, 2 wardrobes (one for my normal stuf...and the other for my not so normal stuff ) 1 door, deep pink carpet and a pretty pink n white bed set and matching curtains. Chinese dolls on dressing table, stereo, tv etc and Mr Gosh, lenore and her mate on the table where the stereo is. Love my Mr Gosh he is soooo cute.

Milly-Molly

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How do you cope with premature ejaculation Posted: 9/27/2007 2:44:44 PM
Apparently it is not the end of the world, or your love life (if you chose to have one with this man). There is a wide range of help out there for men with this problem. These range from delay techniques to pills etc. I have to say i applaude his honesty as it cannot be easy for a man to admit this to a potential partner.

Milly-Molly

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Animation - kids stuff or not? Posted: 9/25/2007 1:19:13 PM
Message 9, I think you are confusing manga and anime with hentai. I have lots of anime (animation) and manga (comics) my lads love anime as they are really good. Bit like Disney but miles better. I admit that the Japanese do have an obsession with young girls/women in teeny skirts etc but most anime is family viewing.

Milly-Molly

Joined: 10/12/2006

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female pics Posted: 9/24/2007 3:51:48 PM
Well I can honestly say there is no piccies of moi in the loos. I have a problem with havin me piccie taken as it is so having it taken in the loo would be the last damn place I would want it done. I think though that lots of piccies are taken on girls mobiles and when youre in the loo, women tend to spend time makin sure they look their best, so could be why they get their piccie taken there? Maybe not...it was just a suggestion, i'll grab me coat....

Milly-Molly

Joined: 10/12/2006

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Did you ever have a friend who put you in the shade? Posted: 9/20/2007 3:44:16 PM
Isn't it funny how you percieve yourself (I am on topic) Student Nurse has insecurities with her appearance. Yet when we were out on our monthly girls nights (me, suga and her and a few others) they all pulled and I was the one left alone . I have always been in the shade (which is confusing as things are not meant to grow in the shade), as my little sister is gorgeous. I was always jealous of the fact that she was prettier, skinnier and got treated differently cus she was the baby in our house. But now although men still flock round her, I don't have issues as we don't like the same kind of man (thank god , as there would be no competition). I guess you will always have friends etc that YOU percieve to be far better in some ways than you are. However yours is not the only opinion that counts.

Milly-Molly

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no roses left.......they must have found the one then!...not..... Posted: 9/20/2007 2:59:22 PM
I think (but can't be sure, and couldn't find it in a search) that the original idea behind these roses was so others could see if you were a player (and sent them out willy nilly) or if you were more discerning and kept them for the reason they were intended. I have never sent out a single rose but then again I have no mates and no love interest Some people will take it to heart if you sent a rose, some won't care. So it depends on the type of person you are trying to attract. Me personally I would be suspicious of a man who has none left, but hey I am paranoid anyway.

Milly-Molly

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(PPMT) uk.. Pof Party Meet Times.. Posted: 9/20/2007 1:26:31 PM
I suppose it depends on what type of personality you have. First meet I went to I followed my sister (Suga) round like a sheep/shadow. I was known as suga's sister lol. I was so nervous it was funny. Second meet I was pretty much the same (eventhough everyone was nice and friendly). By the third meet, I was bloody sick of being referred too as "suga's sister" so I mixed n mingled and it was great fun. Was kinda funny too as sis was so used to me being right behind her, she was quite concerned because she couldn't find me. I was having so much fun chatting to total strangers, it was great for my confidence as no one actually bit me (although Mike Bradley did offer ). Was told after by a few peep that "your sis been looking for you". Almost wet myself laughing as when she found me it became "oh so your Molly's sister". If you have never been to a meet before it can seem intimidating as you walk in and it appears that everyone knows everyone...but they don't. Most people no the loud and vivacious like pants, posh, student nurse, laine and the hosts (but that's because you can't not notice them lol). Once you have a drink though it's easier to mingle and chat to anyone (it must be as peep chat to me).

Milly-Molly

Joined: 10/12/2006

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Train tickets.. Posted: 9/19/2007 4:04:59 PM
This happened a couple of times to me too but I never got a fine as the station I got on at didn't have a ticket machine or an office. But to be fair there are signs up everywhere and your daughter was just expected to catch the next train. Put it this way (just to have another view) if your daughter had got a ticket and caught the train she did because she needed to be at college at a certain time. She would not have been too happy if the train was delayed by half an hour whilst all the other people who hadn't got a ticket purchased one, now would she? I am just trying to see things from both angles.

Milly-Molly

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Sudden Visitors - Is Your House Clean & Tidy Enough ??? Posted: 9/19/2007 6:57:02 AM
Before starting University, my home was spotless. I do not like mess. I do not like things where you can see them (that shouldn't be there). I am fussy and I admit it. But since I became a student i am ashamed. If you come on the weekend it is lovely, no kids and I have time to try. However in the week I have MOST to do and assignments etc so basically I have books everywhere, peices of paper. Boxes with files out. My mother is always commenting on it. My walls need sanding and re painting...but hey once I am qualified I can get paid help in

Milly-Molly

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Children home alone- such a great crime? Posted: 9/19/2007 6:43:41 AM
The law is there for a reason and leaving children under the age of 14 alone in the house is a blatant disregard of the law. I'm sorry if some of you don't like it, but you can't choose what laws you will and won't obey. I have 3 boys, 22, 12, and 9. Not once ever have I left any of them alone in the house nor would I. Even when my eldest was at home and 15 I still didn't leave him on his own. It is easy for some to say "oh it's only half an hour or an hour" but how long does it take for an accident to happen? Yes they may be ok but then again they might not. I for one would rather put myself out and wait till I can either get them watched etc than risk leaving them for even ten minutes alone, than return to find them in trouble or even worse. The Mcanns and the Payne murder should quite clearly proove that it only takes a few minutes to lose your child.

Milly-Molly

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do u listen to peoples advise Posted: 9/18/2007 3:28:03 PM
I am very good at giving advice (and luckily it is usually sound) but sadly I am not too good at taking others advice on board. I usually like to trust my own instincts. However I may be changing this as it appears others are far more sensible than me

Milly-Molly

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Men, single parents and money Posted: 9/15/2007 5:26:08 AM
I think the problem is that just because a few single parents are unwilling to pay their way we all get tarred with the same brush. Fortunately I prefer to pay for myself as I have an inbuilt fear of being labelled a gold digger just because I am a single parent.

Milly-Molly

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has pof beed a good/bad thing for you Posted: 9/9/2007 2:22:02 PM
I think it was one of the best things re the internet I ever did 9joining this site). Through the forums and the Brum meet nights I have made some absolutely fantastic mates. I have had a few dates that were erm interesting, and a few with some nutters (but hey that's only my opinion). However I have recently become engaged to a fellow pof' r so I can honestly say it was worth it.

Milly-Molly

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Letting your son/daughters partner stay Posted: 9/7/2007 3:08:20 PM
I have to agree with cheeky's comments. Just because you are young does not mean you do not know right from wrong or have any moral standards. Yes there are a lot of young peeps who sleep around, but there are also a lot who do not and who are responsible (and eventhough they are young have more idea of a committed relationship than some older peeps I know). My eldest was very sensible. Both he and his now wife came and asked me how I felt about her staying over. My son was only 18 at the time but he knew how to act responsibly. It is wrong to label all young people the same. I agree that there are a lot of parents who do give in even though they are not comfortable with the idea. If you don't like it then don't allow it after all it's your house.

Milly-Molly

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born lucky? Posted: 9/7/2007 2:50:51 PM
Actually storm, according to "the one show" on BBC One you aren't born lucky, you just have a more observant nature. They asked the very same question this week. They took it out on the streets and did an experiment. They gave peep a tv guide and gave them 2 mins (or something like that) to look through and tell them how many pics were in that edition. Unbeknown to them, there were full page messages on a couple of the pages saying "stop looking, there are 77 pics in this edition" and "Stop, tell the host you have seen this advert and claim £5". If peep saw the message they won £5. Funnily enough only two peep saw them. Then it showed you, that before the experiment all the peep who took part were asked if they were lucky or not. Only the two who won the fivers said they were lucky.

Milly-Molly

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The art of writing! Posted: 9/7/2007 2:38:02 PM
Bit late but hey story of my life...I love writing (proper writing, with a pen and paper). I think that whilst computers have their place, they do tend to make people lazy. How many of you never bother with spelling and punctuation, just spell check at the end? What I really love though is writing letters they are so much more personal than typing them on a pc. Trouble is it seems to be a lost or dying art as no one wants to bother with proper writing these days...the pc has a lot to answer for in some respects.

Milly-Molly

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IS poetry outdated and too sloppy for modern women? Posted: 9/7/2007 2:22:18 PM
I don't think poetry is dead or overrated. I do however agree with Mike, some people just do not appreciate it. Poetry can be lovely and affect you on different levels and in different ways. Hang in there some one will appreciate your poetic prose.

Milly-Molly

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Change's in your life.. Posted: 8/29/2007 1:53:06 PM
I think the biggest and most profound change in my life was becoming a parent because everything changes and life is no longer about you anymore. Apart from this I think becoming a student nurse had a big impact on me, you learn so much about yourself that you can't not be affected.

Milly-Molly

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have you met your partner on pof? Posted: 8/27/2007 1:43:33 PM
I have met a lot of nice people off here. I was single when I joined and looking for a nice man. I have had some brief short relationships (if you can call them that) and met a few players. However now I have finally met a really nice man and things are looking very good (fingers crossed). I think that you just have to take it slowly and be aware that not everyone is what they say they are, not everyone is looking for the same as you. Good luck in your search though.

Milly-Molly

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The Mind Boggles!!! Posted: 8/25/2007 2:43:47 PM
I once tried doing my christmas shopping early (for pressies) but discovered that many of the pressies I brought in early September, my kids no longer really wanted by the end of November due to an over zealouse media frenzy of advertising new toys in the run up to christmas. I will wait till nearer December this year.

Milly-Molly

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Lap Dancing Posted: 8/25/2007 1:29:32 PM
If you are in a committed relationship then it shouldn't be an issue. Men are more visual than women anyways and like others have said if you trust your partner then it shouldn't be a problem. I honestly can't understand why lots of women get really annoyed and upset by their other half veiwing porn. The fact of the matter is they are with you, if they wanted someone else then they wouldn't be with you (I do accept that this isn't always the case).

Milly-Molly

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B & Q Elderly Invasion !! Posted: 8/25/2007 1:24:18 PM
OP, I would love to have the same problem as you. Unfortunately my local B&Q seems to be devoid of anyone who is willing or knowledgable enough to help you. You end up going to the help desk and having to wait around for someone to be called to help. I actually admire those who are working past retirement age (not all of them do it because they have too, some choose to work) and good on the likes of B&Q for offering employment to older peeps.

Milly-Molly

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Someone better just a click away? Posted: 8/22/2007 1:58:09 PM
In reply to colin, my piccie was up because it used to say "report this member if no pic" etc. However lately I have not seen this bit up, and I have seen a number of profiles with no piccie at all. To be honest, I prefer the no pic no profile allowed bit because if you are married then you aint gonna want your pic up are you. So hey I have my pic up because I am not ashamed who knows I am on here.

Milly-Molly

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Someone better just a click away? Posted: 8/22/2007 1:43:14 PM
I have to agree with message 73. I have had a date wh told me that I was everything a bloke could want but that he wasn't ready for dating, only to find out that next week he was back on here looking for a woman to date. So obviously it is easy to think that you can do better (amusing as he is still single and I am not). But my point is, there are many on here who will happily date more than one at a time. Why? By dating many at once (over a period of days) you are not giving yourself or the other person any chance whatsoever. If you are continually looking for better, you will never be happy or satisfied. I am not saying sttle for second best but by serial dating you are not only hurting others who may believe you are seriously interested in a real relationship; but you are harming your own interests too.

Milly-Molly

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what is the best age to become a parent? Posted: 8/22/2007 1:25:34 PM
Obviously when you feel ready is a good starting point. Personally I am glad I had my kids early. Had my first before I was 19 and we grew together. The second was when I was 29 and the third when I was 32. To be honest I am now nearly 41 (a week on saturday if anyone wants to wish me HB ) but I couldn't have another one now. I am glad that I had them when I did, but each to their own.

Milly-Molly

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not single /not looking? -leaving other contacts agrieved Posted: 8/22/2007 1:22:15 PM
Firstly let me say I am "not single, not looking" however I am still here because I like the banter on the forums. I have made some good friends on here but it doesn't mean I have their MSN etc. Also if I weren't on here then I wouldn't be allowed to sign up for the POF meet nights. You may ask wtf would I wanna go to the meet nights for if I am not single. The simple answer is to meet up with mates who I have from off here who I would not otherwise get chance to see (student nurse is one, Jaywolvo and Chatty are another). Also it's odd that you get hardly any messages when you are looking, but the minute you say you are not looking you get loads. Is it the challenge or what? I never lie and say I am single, I am very happy with the bloke I have and I have no need to lie or look elsewhere. I see no harm in chatting to anyone as that's all it would be. I just don't see the point in losing friends or ignoring people just cus I have a bloke. I am not a player etc but I don't see why I should leave just because I found someone.

Milly-Molly

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My daughters My Space page Posted: 8/21/2007 2:19:30 PM
Have you actually tried talking to your daughter? She sounds like a good kid. Maybe as has been stated this is just one way of expressing parts of how she is feeling. I think that before you "get someone in" you should try treating her like an adult (I know she's only 16 but she sounds quite grown up). I think that if you express your concerns it would be better than just calling in help. Maybe it is just a form of rebvellion (due to her age etc) but can't do much harm to talk to her about it. Good luck.

Milly-Molly

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My sisters dating my ex!!!!!!!!!! Posted: 8/17/2007 2:01:52 PM
That's shocking, but not suprising really. He is possibly using your sister to get at you, and as Mr Macc has stated maybe your sister sees it as a way of hurting you for whatever reason. But blood is supposedly thicker than water, if I were you I would not let them see how much they are affecting you as that will hurt them more. Your sister is plainly in for a fall as he does not sound sane to say the least. By not letting them see how much their actions are affecting you, he will probably get tired of your sister and look for another way to annoy you. Whatever happens I wish you well.

Milly-Molly

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how do you know if someone is out of your league Posted: 8/17/2007 1:55:48 PM
Well an honest answer would be: if they have their own teeth or more realistically if they have a pulse then they're probably outta my league. Seriously though as everyone is of the same species (just) then technically speaking no one should be out of anyone's league. Maybe it's a lack of self confidence on one persons part.

Milly-Molly

Joined: 10/12/2006

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Are You Comfortable With Your Age ? Posted: 8/17/2007 1:52:02 PM
I am very happy with my age thank you very much. Personally I do not care if anyone thinks I look older or younger it is immaterial to me. I shall happily be 41 on the fourth of September and then the year after I shall be 42, and still unbothered. I don't think it matters as long as you are happy with yourself.

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