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jessica2000

Joined: 10/12/2006

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Who has used dental dams for oral sex? Posted: 4/16/2009 12:30:41 PM
umm...there IS a risk to kissing. Oral herpes for one, and lets see if I can remember them all...gonorrhea, syphillis, yeast infections AND I believe chlamydia - or is gardnerella? All STD's, (sorry for the bad spelling) and are all capable of living in the throat, and being transmitted in mouth to mouth or mouth to genital contact. So, someone may be using condoms, but having unprotected oral sex, and then goes around with those bacteria in their throat.

jessica2000

Joined: 10/12/2006

Msg: 308 (view)

When is taking a drunk girl home from a bar and having sex considered rape? Posted: 4/16/2009 12:22:20 PM
oh come on. She probably does that all the time. Being drunk, doing something reckless and naughty...then, in the cold morning light, with a brutal hangover, all she wants to do is get away from you. I doubt she did something she "regrets." It just isn't the same thrill once the alcohol wears off. Personally, if I go to a bar and get drunk and pick up a guy, then I am responsible for my own behavior and to cry "rape" is nothing short of ridiculous. Whatever happened to personal responsibility? If I were you, I wouldn't worry so much about taking advantage of some poor drunk girl, I would worry about who that poor drunk girl ****ed the night before and what kind of diseases he might have. Remember, condoms are not 100% safe.

jessica2000

Joined: 10/12/2006

Msg: 104 (view)

Best Songs to Dance Like A Slut to? Posted: 9/2/2008 6:54:44 AM
As an X stripper, I find this question exceedingly dull.

jessica2000

Joined: 10/12/2006

Msg: 151 (view)

What do women think when a guy comes too quickly? Posted: 9/2/2008 6:53:28 AM
they think that he has a physiological issue with control, and that he doesn't care enough about women and sex to deal with it. They also think that it is time to find a new man.

jessica2000

Joined: 10/12/2006

Msg: 184 (view)

beautiful people, ugly genitals... Posted: 9/2/2008 6:41:52 AM
Good Lord, I cannot belieeeve some of the topics on here. I feel sorry for people that are so obsessed with looks and physical features that it ruins all their fun - and people like that ARE victims of that obsession. I once knew this guy that wanted every girl he dated to be perfect physcially, he just could not deal with anything less than perfect, and he was ALWAYS alone. He himself was not so great, so I don't know where his standards came from, but men like that are no fun to be with. There is nothing that is more of a turn on than a man who doesn't get all hung up on physcial standards, a man that appreciates feminine beauty in all it's many forms - a man that truly loves and appreciates women, not just the standardized playboy magazine version of women. Sadly, some men just never grow out of that. Oh, and "butterflies" are beautiful, I do believe I have one myself, and childbirth had nothing to do with it!

jessica2000

Joined: 10/12/2006

Msg: 56 (view)

faking it? Posted: 9/2/2008 6:23:03 AM
Smart answer. Any guy who says that he "can tell when a girl is faking it" please, I would like to know HOW you can tell...because I have known quite a few men with the same attitude who had no idea when I was faking it. And in my own defense, I did not do this for the sake of the guy's ego, I did it just to get things over with. Today I wouldn't bother, but there was a time when I would.

jessica2000

Joined: 10/12/2006

Msg: 92 (view)

Why are most men looking for Friends with Benefits? Posted: 10/4/2007 3:36:26 PM
I joined this site and another one about a month after breaking up a long term relationship, over a year ago. I actually met one guy thru the other site, and am still seeing him - one of those honest "looking for a good time" kind of guys. I cancelled my membership at the other site, and just never got around to cancelling this one and come on from time to time when I get an email saying someone sent me a message. First, I would like to agree with some of the posters that the majority of responses I have gotten have been from either married men or men in commited relationships, looking for a little something on the side. I firmly believe that if a man is NOT in a commited relationship, then he is looking for one, while he sleeps with as many women as possible - not all men, but quite a few. Men really don't want to be alone any more than women do. We are ALL looking, even when we say we aren't, we still size up every encounter for potential long term qualities. So when a man gives you the "FWB" bull, it is probably because he does not see you as long term material. Personally, I have no interest in sex with someone I couldn't see myself in a relationship with. 99% of the time it isn't worth the trouble of getting undressed, so really, why bother? But, men are different (yes, I am generalizing, I know you ALL aren't!) and I am not sure why...sometimes I think that maybe the male orgasm feels much much much better than the female orgasm, and maybe that is the reason for the more "driven" sexual urges. Who knows??? Anyway, as much as I never would have believed it, you CAN meet someone this way, I have found a good friend in the "sex maniac" I took a chance on, and wouldn't trade him for the world! And it did start off as a casual relationship.

jessica2000

Joined: 10/12/2006

Msg: 177 (view)

Should I tell his wife? Posted: 10/4/2007 6:21:36 AM
Well, if I were the wife, I would want to know.....but you fell for this guy AFTER you knew that he lied about those things on his profile - age, height etc...you should have realized, someone who will lie about one thing will lie about another. Send his wife a print out of his profile, let her take it from there. Regardless of your motives (anger, revenge etc) with all the diseases around today, and the fact that we all deserve a loving, and HONEST relationship, I think that she should know what the man she is wasting her life on with is up to. Of course it is possible that she already knows, but just in case she doesn't. And you need to look at the reasons that you allowed yourself to fall for this liar.

jessica2000

Joined: 10/12/2006

Msg: 40 (view)

Just when u r starting to heal....wham...they call...WHY!!?? Posted: 1/25/2007 6:52:00 AM
yeah, this guy sounds like a real prince. I would have loved him too back in the day when I did heroin.... C'mon lady, are you an addict too? WHat is the **** could you possibly see in this guy? In my opinion, the day he split you should have rejoiced. Yeah, you loved him and he deserved a second chance and blah blah blah - sounds to me like he made it hard for you, like you thought you could fix him, and YOU were addicted to that. Aside from the guy sounding like a total loser with nothing to offer anyone - except maybe another drug user - he is playing with your head now and you are letting him. If he wanted you back after all this time, he would have come back and made that clear by never leaving your side again. Sounds to me like he is playing games. Maybe he contacted you becuase he couldn't believe you kept to his "no stalking" rule and he wanted to see if he could pull you back into his orbit. Even low life ex con drug addicts have egos, you know. I say walk away and never look back and try to figure out why you where with someone like him in the first place before you wind up with another one just like him.

jessica2000

Joined: 10/12/2006

Msg: 19 (view)

do I give him time? Posted: 1/24/2007 8:55:23 PM
Good lord. All this has happened just in the last few months??? I can't believe you are even questioning this. The guy is a lying pig, in fact calling him a pig is an insult to pigs. Bad judgement call on your part. Get a grip on your hormones and listen to your head, you have been had. Sorry about the abortion, but that situation alone shows the guy's true colors. I'll bet he is back online (if he ever left) setting something up with someone else. He doesn't care about you. Don't kick yourself for being naive and trusting, but take responsibility for your part in all of this and have some pride - cut him loose.

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