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Thread: Karaoke Night With Lisa @ Gound Hog Pub Oct 1 2005 !!!!!!!!!!!
stormycs
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Karaoke Night With Lisa @ Gound Hog Pub Oct 1 2005 !!!!!!!!!!!
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9/16/2005 6:53:11 AM
wooooohoooooo......party. I've never been to karaoke before, should be lots of fun. Count my girlfriend and I in.
stormycs
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Public Affection? What is your take on it?
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8/23/2005 7:11:11 PM
I refuse to limit by PDA's to society's norms. I'm in love, what's wrong with that? sincew when is it a crime to show someone you care deeply about some love and affection? A casual kiss, your hand on their back, etc. are al;l appreciated by the person you love. Who would you rather hurt - your significant other, or someone who feels stuck in a non-loving relationship? That's why they're pissed, beccause they're jealous of what the two of you have
stormycs
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The Ex & The Best Friend Advice Needed
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8/22/2005 9:12:02 PM
Friendship is the same as any other positive relationship - the fundamental basis is trust. When that is gone, the relationship is over, becuase that trust can never be regained. The fact that she waited so long to tell you means that she couldn't stand the guilt anymore, and needed to get it off her chest. I'm sure she feels much better now for having told you, but she knew how bad it would make you feel when she told you, so it was a purely selfish thing to do on her part.
No one can tell you whether you should forgive her or not - it depends on you. If you feel that you can trust her again, then keep her as a friend. If not, then don't - it won't be worth the effort. It hurts to lose a friend of 15 years, but what sort of friend sleeps with her friend's ex - especially when there are still feelings between them.
stormycs
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Trading with the ‘schoolyard bully'
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8/22/2005 8:47:00 PM
Junior was alwyas bukkied at school, and probably the military as well. That;s why he went AWOL from the easiest of, but his daddy bought him out of it - just like daddy's money bought him the presidency - twice. Junior has no idea how to run a country. He is not a politician, or a leader. He is a self-centred rich kid, a spoiled brat. He has no idea how to run a cuontry - he thinks he can just buy off everyone.
The US has no right to demand a negotiated settlement to this dispute - they have been ruled against by every single governing body that covers this dispute, and they still refuse to acknowledge they're wrong.
So when did we decide that might=right?
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Exclusivity?
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7/16/2005 3:01:20 PM
If he agreed (and especially suggested as it seems in the original post) to be exlusive, and then went and scrood someone else, then he's nothing but a player - albeit a very charming one. however, he will continue to do so again and again. Even if he doesn;t, it will always be there between you, and you will never fully trust him again.
Forget about him, move on
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IS being old fashioned right or wrong these days???/
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7/4/2005 7:12:16 PM
nope, nothing wrong with it at all - if more people were like you angel, there would probably be fewer players out there - of either gender
stormycs
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Cute Animal stories....Got any? Does your pet do cute funny things?
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7/4/2005 6:32:28 PM
I had a dog that loved carrots.
Had another one that would carry around hedgehogs in his mouth for some strange reason we could never figure out.
Cats were all pretty normal tho - maybe that's why I'm a cat person?
stormycs
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July Birthdays Rock
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7/4/2005 6:24:21 PM
Happy Birthday to you,
Happy Birthday to you,
Happy BIRTH-day, dear JacquiOooo-oooo,
Happy Birthday to you
How old are you?
How old are you?
How old are you dear JaquiOoooo-ooooo,
How old are you? :oD
2 days to 31st
stormycs
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ladies I need your help: is this more than Best Friends??
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7/4/2005 6:20:16 PM
Go for it man. Nothing ventured nothing gained. Just becuase she was drunnk when she walked up and looked like she wanted to kiss you doesn't mean that when she's sober, she doesn;t want the same thing. Alcohol lowers inhibitions, it doesn;t make people do things they don't want to do. However, I beleive you were right in not starting anything when you were both drunk - it's difficult enough to start a relationship when you're sober!!!
stormycs
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When the Ex returns everything
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7/4/2005 6:07:47 PM
After 2 years, this is a bit extreme. while the return of gifts that you had given him was slightly abnormal, it could, as someone said, simply be his way of achieving closure. After 2 years, tho, the only things I would consider returning are those of senitmental value. Everything else I would either keep or throw it away, deepending on it's usefulness and the painfulness of any memories associated with it
stormycs
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I will OBEY you???
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7/4/2005 6:00:08 PM
I think that "obey" is outdated. Love, honor, cherish, and respect is enough for both parties. There is no need for one person to swear that they will "obey" the other one.
stormycs
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Single Meets Family Unit!
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7/4/2005 5:49:06 PM
It never occured to me that children on one side of a realtionship could form a barrier to dating, and my g/f has only reinforced that perspective with her 2 kids, aged 5 and 18 months. Then again, it probably helps that I like her 2 kids, and they like me - most of the time, anyway. There's times when the young one won't be quiet until picked up by her mom, and if anyone else tries to pick her up, she shrieks like she's been scalded or something. The funny thing is, it's just the right pitch to set off the doorbell in her mother's house!! LOL
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need advice please
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7/4/2005 5:24:34 PM
Leave him. If you start accepting excuses for his lies at this point in the relationship, they'll only get bigger and bigger. Only by applying stricter standards to who you date will women start to find a better quality of man. It will take a joint effort, becuase the ultimate responsibility for a relationship lies with the women, just as she must bear the final responsibility for birth control.
Before jumping all over me, please notice that I said "final" and "ultimate" responsibility. Guys must also take responsibility for their actions, but becuase a woman is the one who gives birth, and must carry the child for 9 months, she must take the final responsibility for her own body
stormycs
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Going Exclusive
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7/4/2005 5:20:18 PM
My rule is that it's open, until you share a SIGNIFICANT kiss - a peck on the cheek doesn't count for anything, in terms of comitment. However, some people are exclusive daters, so it's best to be open when you start dating someone as to what your dating philosophy is. My girlfriend was an exclusive dater, but because I was open about the fact that A) I was an open dater and B) what my criteria was to determine an exclusive relationship (see above) she was willing to tolerate my open dating - for a little while, anyway. Then she deecided to speed my decision-making process up, and I am very glad that she did - altho I was going to do the same soon, anyway. :o)
stormycs
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"Humor" link
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6/27/2005 3:17:55 PM
When i click on this link (the one next to "Forums at the top of the page") it gives me a list of people, instaed of taking me to the movies page. Are the movies still there? I've tried entering the link manually in the address bar, and get the same thing
stormycs
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Protection
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6/27/2005 1:13:27 PM
OK - what's with all the teenage mom's? I just read about an 18-yr old girl here who's pregnant with a guy she only just started seeing. This is NOT just the guy's fault (altho I do admit he did have a part in this). Protection is cheap and easy to get. So why do peope insist on not using it?!?! Are you that determined to screw up your life?
stormycs
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Useless facts...can you add any.?
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6/27/2005 12:43:32 PM
happyone7 - the tongue is the strongest VOLUNTARY muscle in the body, but not the strongest, period - that's the heart.
Which is why it hurts so much when it's broken, and feels so good when it's full (of love)
Uhmmm...useless fact...South Africa only has the 3rd-highest per-capita income of African states. Number one is Gabon, not Botswana (which is #2).
OK so that's 3 facts - so sue me!! LOL
stormycs
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what put a major smile on your face today?
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6/27/2005 12:30:30 PM
I just had a very nice conversation with my godfather - who lives in TANZANIA!!!! I was expeecting himnto call on the weekend, and was so disappointed when he didn't. I now have is snail mail and e-mail addresses, and so can keep in contact with him and not lose touch like we did last time I saw him, 12 years ago in Pond Inlet, North West Territories. If you want to know where that it is a map, it better be a prety detailed one, cuz it has a population of under 200 people - probably even undedr 100 people, actually. If/when I get married, I'll probably try to convince my wife that we should honeymoon there - maybe even climb Mount Kiliminjaro!!! :o)
Stormycs
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Nice profile..
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6/27/2005 4:26:35 AM
Interesting idea, list all your faults up front so that you know they know the worst about you. While this may work for the ladies, I doubt it would work for the guys. My g/f when we first met thoguht I was a berfect gentleman, a reali little
. She has since learned that nothing could be farther from the truth, and I am a real wild
. If I had shown her the full extent of my wild side when we first met, I don't think we'd be where we are now.
Stormycs
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Amateur Porn - Keep or Throw Away
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6/27/2005 4:20:41 AM
I would kep it, or let her keep it - altho I'd make a copy of it first! ;o) Then again, knowing my g/f, she'd probably like a copy of it as well!! LOL
As for finding a copy of something she did with an ex, it wouldn;t bother me, altho I don't know if I would continue to watch it. I'm slightly possessive of any g/f I have, so don't think I could stand to watch her hhave sex with another guy on a regular basis. Or another woman for that matter.
Stormycs
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Were you ever so horny that,you wanted to taste your own cum???
Posted:
6/27/2005 4:16:01 AM
Uhmmm...Eww.
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WooooHoooo
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6/26/2005 7:20:26 PM
WTF you writing to us about it for? get on the frikkin phone and CALL HER Giant. Then go somewhere like the beach, or somewhere that the two of you can be close with no barriers such as the armrest at a movie, or the table at a restaurant. Don't be afraid to make the first move, but make it a small one - DO NOT grab her boobies right off the bat!!!! LOL
stormycs
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Does Non-Consensual Sex Count?
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6/26/2005 7:12:43 PM
Oral and Anal count, as doesn't anyone whose only contact was to masturbate you - I'm sure it's happened somewhere. Non-consensual (i.e. Rape) does not count. Only anyone who you willinginly interacted with for the pupose of orgasm with count - or should count, anyway
stormycs
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Timed taste test
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6/24/2005 8:52:34 AM
How big a factor is the taste of your partner? What's the longest you've been with someone you didn't like the taste of? Would you break up with someone if they tasted bad?
Also, do you noticee a correlation between taste and personality, or how much you like them?
stormycs
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what put a major smile on your face today?
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6/23/2005 9:58:48 AM
Thinking about my sunshine - and how I'm going to see her again tonight
stormycs
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Are single parents a good match for 'other' single parents?
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6/23/2005 9:41:34 AM
My common sense tells me that the opposite is probably true - each person added to the realtionship equation dereases the chances of it achieving the required equilibrium. Do you like her kids? does she like your kids? Do your kids like her kids, and vicec versa?
My g/f tried this route - at her mom's insistence (very controlling woman, with some peculiar ideas) - but it didn;t work out, and she moved on to me - and we're both very happy that she did
stormycs
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Who's on your radar of love??
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6/23/2005 9:37:34 AM
Only one person on my radar, and she's right at the centre of it.
She's not on here, but she stops by to se what I have written. Hi Sunshine!!
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Please tell me is this an overreation???
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6/23/2005 9:33:01 AM
He did over-react. Totally. But then I think that as ticket has said, this is a ploy to cover something up. He was upto something, cuz if he REALLY wanted to see you - which he should've, altho I ahve no idea how far apart you two are/were/whatever - he would've said something along the lines of what you suggested, setting up a meeting after the movie.
He's just not that into you.
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How should I take this?
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6/23/2005 9:26:18 AM
I don't think he meant anything by it - it's just a habit a lot of guys get into, carrying around a condom "just in case" while they are single. Then while they are in a relationship, they never remember to take it out, or do anything with it.
If he'd been really quick on his feet, he could have said "just in case...you show up here to surprise me with your birthday suit".
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The Man Snip
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6/23/2005 9:15:07 AM
including utting the toilet seat down - no thank you!!! LOL
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Replacing your partner before you move on
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6/23/2005 4:32:43 AM
one thing to do it wile dating, but quite another after you move in together and/or get married. At that point, you owe your partenr the trruth - and yourself as well. If you're searching for love outsidee of the hom,e then you need to leave the home now, not when you find it. You will both be happier for it - maybe not initially, but faster than if you hung aroung while fishing in other ponds.
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The Man Pill
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6/23/2005 4:23:03 AM
Cool idea, I would probably use it, except for the fact that I dont think women would - or even should - trust me or any other guy for that matter to be taking it. Cuz there's no reason for us to be taking it really. As someone else said, it's the women who has to deal with the consequences of the lie for the next 20 years. The man can just disappear. Not that I would, just probably 80-90% of guys would.
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Because I won't put out...
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6/22/2005 5:29:59 PM
in part, probably. However, I am not suggesting that you should put out for just anyone. Wait until you find a guy that you like, and that treats you right, before even [italics] considering [/italics] putting out. This applies to all women - don't feel just cuz it's difficult to find a good guy that you have to settle for someone who doesn;t treat you with respect. When you do that, it has a compound effect - first of all, it reinforces his boorish behavious, and secondly it shows all the guys who know him that they can act like jerks, and still get the girl. Respect yourself, and don;t put out till you meet the right guy who treats you right - not necessarily like a princess, mind you, but as something other than a mobile c*ck sleeve
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dating? hang out? friends?
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6/22/2005 5:13:58 PM
Hey reynardo,
I hate to say it, but it might be best if you took a break from dating for a while - at least from here anyway. It takes time and effort usually to get something going, and then yhere's always the possibility that they are completely differnt in person than online/over the phone, etc. Who knows - maybe you will find someone during this hiatus. I met my g/f at my cousin's place, and we just hit it off. We've only been going out for about a month or so, but we just really connect. Very cool actually. Now if only I could find a job, my life would be perfect
stormycs
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Advice for a commuter needed~
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6/22/2005 5:04:08 PM
Don't worry so much about the people around you. most people on those trains are too busy thinking about how it sux that they have such a long ride to noticee anything happening right under their noses, such as a guy trying to pick up a girl. And even if they did notice, they wouldn;'t think anything of it. There's a code of non-noticing on those things - you ignore everything everyone else is doing, unless it is extreme, and/or disrutpive
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Fellas would you rather have......
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6/22/2005 4:41:15 PM
The youunger a guy is, the more likely he is to only consider looks. When he starts to realise that 90% of the beautiful women either A) are not interested in a lout like him, or B) are so hig maintenance they're more effort than they're worth, then he starts to look at the women that society defines as "less attractive" in a new light. However, it takes a while longer before he learns how to treat her properly. For instance, if I had met my g/f about 6/7 years ago, she probably would have wanted nothing to do with me. :o) However, having met her now, after I've matured, and mellowed, we go together like strawberries and ice cream!!!
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What's with all the Aries on Here
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6/21/2005 11:41:25 AM
^^^^ ditto, except she has to be 100% female. Anything my side of a post-op ain't getting nuthin'. A post-op would probably be ok, and anything beyond that is good. However, I have a definite preference for 1005 natural female, with the xx chromosones, and equipment to match. If it's bee added to, that's ok - so long as there was something there to begin with
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cartoons that sucked!!!
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6/21/2005 11:34:31 AM
damn - I still can't forget the care bares - amazing they made a movie out of it.
Personally, I'm dreading when they make "Barney: The Movie" - theatres will never be safe again
Anyone remember the "Dungeons&Dragons" cartoon? Where the kids start on a roller coaster, but somehow end up in this weird place, with only the unhelpful "Dungeon Master" gnome/dwarf/whatever as a guide. I always wondered - if he was strong enough to get them there, with all that stuff, why couldn't he beat the evil dude himself?
What actually reminded me of it was some old actiion figures my g/f pulled out at our last date - they were in the same bag as some beach toys. Still a bad cartoon tho - not even association with her can resue it!!! LOL
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How would you react if your partner declared their Love A La Tom Cruise?
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6/21/2005 11:22:07 AM
Out of curiosity, and only slightly off-topic, how many of you beleive this relationship is the ral deal, and how amny think it's just a publicity stunt? I personally think it's the latter. If you truly respect someone and love them, you're not going to want to share every single special moment with the whole world - even if you are a celebrity. Special moments are supposed to be shared privately between the two of you.
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The T-shirt I should have worn
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6/21/2005 11:18:38 AM
damn - those T-shirts are the best - my g/f would love them. Have to find some for her. Wonder how her boss would react at work...lol (He's a very touchy/feely guy - altho nothing really inappropriate)
Do they have any that would be suitable for me to wear? I like the free breathalyser one...
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So you're Lover has been gone for a week on a business trip....
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6/21/2005 11:12:47 AM
Start with having a bubble bath ready for her when she gets in - she;s bound to be tired, and want to rest and relax. Also make sure that the biggest, softest, fluffiest towel you have is in there too. While she's in the tub, I'm busy preparing dinner - to be served by candlelight, of course. Nothing too fancy, probably just salad and pasta. After dinner, and clearing away the table, we go to the den, where I will have one of her favorite movies ready to go in the dvd player. We sit donw on the couch, kiss and cuddle during the movie, with some massage for her thrown in as well.
What we do after the movie stays behind closed doors
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what is Romantic?
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6/19/2005 7:02:27 PM
Romantic. One of the most dificult things to define - I think only porn is harder (no pun intended!) Being romantic means doing small things to show how much you appreciate your partner. A foot massage or back rub at the end of the day. Taking them out to their favorite restaurant for no good reason, other than you want to becuase they will like it. Sometimes even just a look can be romantic, in the right mood and/or circumstances.
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Tired of Being Warned About the 'Dangers' of Online Dating...
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6/19/2005 12:28:29 PM
People online are more or less the same as you wouldmeet anywhere else. We are all realy people leading real lives. Most of us are looking in other places to find that someone special (I found mine at a place and time I wasn't looking - but isn't that always the way? ;o) ) as well as online. But the thing with internet dating, that makes people so afraid, is the anonymity of it. But look at it this way - you have a beter idea of what someone is like after chatting with them 5 days online, than 5 minutes in a bar.Plus, you don;t have the phyiscal exposure risk that you do there - or at least not so much. You chose where you want to meet, what time, ec - so you have more control over the risks. If anything, interent dating is SAFER than normal dating - most psycos are too bbusy stalking womne to bother with a dating site!!
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MSN, POF and similar accounts and a new partner...
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6/19/2005 12:16:53 PM
I fail to see the benefit of this. If her new parnter is asking for this info, it shows a clear lack of trust. I offerend my g/f my password on PoF, but she turned it down, saying she doesn;t want to play those games. The only reason I offered it int the first place tho was cuz one of her ex's stayed on a dating site, and the only reason she found out was cuz he brought home a floppy on which he had saved the e-mails from the other women.
Reminds me of the good idea/bad idea skits from Animaniacs cartoon:
Good Idea: Saving e-mails from new girlfriends to a diskette so you can keep track of them
without leaving them on the computer
Bad Idea: Bringing the diskette home for current girlfriend to find
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Sexual Past - How much of it should you tell?
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6/19/2005 12:03:41 PM
For me, the past is exactly that - past. If you want to tell me about it, sure I'll listen, luagh, comiserate, whatever. If you aren't comfortable telling someone about your past, then don't - and if they push, leave them. Your past is your business, not theirs.
Wow - I mamaged a whole post without talking about my g/f
OOps...:o)
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Thug or conservative
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6/17/2005 7:44:18 AM
Simple - ladies like the eye candy as much as we do - althi I don't think they use it for some gold old fashioned self-loving, the way we might :-D My g/f loves it when I take my shirt off during a dodgeball game, and it's not like I look like Arnie or anything. LOL
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what was the highlight of your day?
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6/15/2005 8:22:41 PM
Going out to barrie with my g/f to celebrate her daughter's 5th birthday
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When it rains, it pours...
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6/15/2005 8:21:06 PM
Nothing wrong with playing the field, upto a point. It's called open dating, but best to amke sure that they realise this is the case. It helps if you hacve some specific criteria for knowing when it's a match. For me, it was when we had a meaningful kiss - or at elast that was the idea. Didn't quite work that way, as my g/f and i clicked on the second date. I didn't kiss her, but only because it wasn't the right time (I also ahd the advantage of her not being an open dater - if she was, I probably would have. And she knew I was an open dater when we started, so no nasty insulting e-mails please)
You can't string them along forever, so probably after about a month, 2 tops you have to make a decision. Maybe do it on a weekly basis - pick 2 girls at random, and ask yourself who would I rather see tonight - then tell the other one it's not working out, at least on a romantic level. She might be hurt by that, but not as much as if you string her along, the turn around and invite her to your wedding! LOL However, the point remains that after twomonths you should know which one you like the best, and that's it. You tell her that you would like to be in an exlusive realtionship with her.
stormycs
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Hating
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6/15/2005 7:45:54 PM
People like that woman who are overly concerned with how others judge thme will use any excuse to justify their behaviour and actions. Forget the molehill - they'll make Everest from a grain of sand!! Someone who says "Don;t ahte me because I'm beautiful" needs to realise that people don;t hate her because she's beautiful - they hate her for having the arrogance to think that they hate her because she's beautiful.
stormycs
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Astrological Sign traits and similiarities!
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6/14/2005 5:39:28 AM
Hey Curls,
I'd be intertersted to see what the starts say about me and my new g/f. I'm canceer, july 6, about 5am, she's august 7th, don't know the time.
Do you regret getting yourself into this yet? LOL
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