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genuineman04

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are singles in the GTA (Toronto) cold ? Posted: 4/18/2007 7:40:12 AM
I think part of the problem is that because people in the GTA have one of the highest living standards in the world, people here tend to be spoiled and just a bit stuck up

genuineman04

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what does this mean Posted: 3/19/2007 11:06:33 AM
it's a test. Act you don't give a damn. Women do these tests all the time. They don't wan't you to want them too much, don't ask me why

genuineman04

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Men and work-aholism Posted: 2/22/2007 3:05:03 PM
working too much is usually a sign of an unsatifying personal life. If you don't have anyone special to spend your time with you might as well make $

genuineman04

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Dating players Posted: 2/19/2007 9:16:34 AM
I think it's may have something to do with the challenge of trying to change someone but it largely has to do with self-esteem issues. If you date someone who you know can't be faithful I think sub-consciously you must feel you don't deserve their complete attention.

genuineman04

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the game Posted: 2/17/2007 5:59:45 PM
I guess by the game I also mean that we have to appear to be seeing other people as well to make ouselves more attractive. Don't get that either

genuineman04

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the game Posted: 2/17/2007 4:48:25 PM
who invented the dating game? Why is it important to women that their man is attractive to other women? I believe that being yourself is the way to go and you can only truly achieve your true potential with the love, trust, respect of only one woman

genuineman04

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can you really love 2 people? Posted: 2/17/2007 2:51:55 PM
If you love more than 1 person at a time you're really going to hurt the ones you love

genuineman04

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Slowing him down! Posted: 2/17/2007 2:49:07 PM
why would you be sleeping with more than 1 man at a time anyways? I would say you have some issues of your own if you need more than 1 man at a time

genuineman04

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Love and hate, just the same feelings experienced under different circumstances Posted: 2/16/2007 5:47:57 PM
I agree, you have to have love before hate. Hate is something you have for someone you loved that disappointed you and wronged you

genuineman04

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Why do some guys Posted: 2/6/2007 12:12:38 AM
you don't have to be beautiful in the traditional sense just beautiful to him. I've met alot of people that were very beautiful on the outside but not inside and vise versa. I think it's just how society treats you. A lot of people who are beautiful on the outside are used to getting attention from the opposite sex. These are the people that tend to be players. People who are less attractive tend to have to have better personalities because they can't get away with the same crap that someone more desirable can. It's quite simple when you really think about it. I'm just telling it like it is. The problem is we tend to judge people by the way they look so you also have good looking people who don't get approached because people assume they are taken.

genuineman04

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Is the how many partners question a catch 22 Posted: 1/31/2007 4:25:13 PM
I think the question is very appropriate actually. If you've been with alot of partners it says alot about your character and the fact that you can't keep it in your pants or keep your legs closed. If you are that casual about sex then I would definitely lose respect for a woman. Why would I believe you are serious about me if you are clearly not serious about sex and relationships. I think people who think it's inappropriate are ashamed of their past. I don't see how someone promiscuous is going to settle down to just one person.

genuineman04

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How can men just turn them off, their feelings? Posted: 1/30/2007 12:25:49 PM
it's not just men that can do this

genuineman04

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Why Do People Need To Hurt Us? I Just Want To Be Loved Posted: 1/27/2007 3:51:22 PM
because they're so messed up themselves that they're not able to be loved, they don't love themselves

genuineman04

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why are men intimidated when a woman asks them out? Posted: 1/27/2007 7:25:05 AM
I think men are intimidated because it is so rare

genuineman04

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How old is too old to still be living with your parents? Would you date someone that still did? Posted: 1/27/2007 7:23:57 AM
who cares how long you live with your parents? Only someone shallow would care

genuineman04

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The Serial Monogomist or the Experienced Dater Posted: 1/27/2007 7:21:59 AM
Will never understand the attitude that some women have that they would rather have a more experienced lover. Personally I think the less experienced the better. I don't want someone who's been through the ringer

genuineman04

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if a woman say's she does not wear pants and will onlywear skirts is this sexy? Posted: 1/27/2007 7:19:09 AM
I don't know of any straight man that would disapprove of a woman wearing a skirt

genuineman04

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Do women and men really speak the same language? Posted: 1/27/2007 7:16:42 AM
women and men definitely do not speak the same language. Men say what they think. Women use body language more and expect men to be able to read that. I think alot of relationships end because women don't have the patience to wait for a man to understand their language. For example the last time my heart was broken among other things was because the girl I was dating asked me to stay over but we didn't "do it", we just fooled around and I stayed the night so I made the assumption that she was ready, right? wrong. So next time we go back to her place we have sex for the first time then she starts acting all guilty which makes me feel like crap so I just ended up resenting her.

genuineman04

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Caring about appearance vs. high maintenance Posted: 1/25/2007 1:46:16 PM
I've always thought high maintenance means clingy

genuineman04

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Aside from looks,what makes a woman truly beautiful in your eyes? Posted: 1/25/2007 1:45:17 PM
HONESTY, RESPECT FOR HERSELF, HER BODY AND OTHERS

genuineman04

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any suggestions? Posted: 1/25/2007 1:31:25 PM
coffee but in a reasonably intimate coffee house because you don't wan't to spend alot of money on a fancy dinner if you're not interested

genuineman04

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have at it!! Posted: 1/25/2007 10:34:02 AM
appreciate the feedback, tx

genuineman04

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have at it!! Posted: 1/25/2007 8:47:47 AM
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genuineman04

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Michigan expands welfare payments by $300,000,000 Posted: 1/23/2007 9:36:26 PM
let ford sink and let michigan get some other japanese factories in there

genuineman04

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Michigan expands welfare payments by $300,000,000 Posted: 1/23/2007 9:36:16 PM
let ford sink and let michigan get some other japanese factories in there

genuineman04

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What will come first female president or black president. Posted: 1/23/2007 9:33:53 PM
hillary clinton will be the next president, obama barack, vice president. i think america will except a women as president first to pave the way for a black, just the way it is, takes time

genuineman04

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does getting older scare u? Posted: 1/23/2007 9:30:57 PM
no getting old does not scare me. suffering is the pathway to peace, remember that, it's a buddhist belief

genuineman04

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Is it really a good idea to be yourself''? Posted: 1/22/2007 11:51:05 AM
I'm not sure, being myself hasn't worked too well for me yet...lol

genuineman04

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over 30 and still living at home Posted: 1/22/2007 11:49:57 AM
depends on the reasons. Where I live in the Greater Toronto Area, housing is so expensive that alot of people stay at home longer for financial reasons. I lived at home until I was 28 and I don't feel I grew emotionally by moving out. I don't feel like I am any different of a person living on my own it's all about other people's shallow perceptions and judgements. If this is a huge issue in a relationship I would say it's not a healthy one to begin with.

genuineman04

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What will come first female president or black president. Posted: 1/21/2007 2:06:54 AM
i think whoever wins the nomination takes the other as vice president

genuineman04

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Did he end it because the sex was lousy? Posted: 1/21/2007 1:30:13 AM
no such thing as bad sex for a man. That's a stupid reason to dump anyone. If you care about someone you can learn how to please the other.

genuineman04

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what do women think of guys who haven't been in long term relationships? Posted: 1/19/2007 10:50:50 PM
I've been in a few relationships that lasted months not years but I'm not the type of person to waste my time and the woman's time if it doesn't feel right. I've tired of the bar scene long ago and work with mostly men so I don't meet alot of women. I would hope that women aren't judgemental of men that haven't been in a long term relationship but I'd like an opinion

genuineman04

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attitudes about equality Posted: 1/17/2007 5:16:05 AM
whoa, I think my comments are misconstrued I'm not saying we should turn back time I'm just saying that just because women have more freedom now doesn't mean their moral standards have to go down and I was wondering if anyone agrees with me that overall women's morals have been lowered now that they don't have to worry as much about pregnancy or dependance on a man's paycheque?

genuineman04

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attitudes about equality Posted: 1/16/2007 5:38:54 AM
Is it just me that thinks this way or Is my way of thinking outdated? With the advent of birth control and equality in the workforce, women have enjoyed greater freedom. This is not an excuse for lowering one's moral standards. I guarantee my mother and grandmother were virgins when they got married but nowadays alot of women have seen their newfound freedoms as an excuse to sleep with whomever they they want without any consideration of the consequences and give up on relationships at the first sign of a bump in the road. Granted there are many guys who are the same way but does anyone else agree with me? Ladies, wearing cutoff shirts with tatts on your lower back showing or posting a profile picture in your bra and panties is not going to get you any respectable guy, just a suggestion

genuineman04

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Women like to be persued by men. Do men like women to persue them? Posted: 1/15/2007 11:59:05 AM
i personally do not like to pursue. I thought woman got turned off by the persuit. i thought their instinct is to run when being pursued?

genuineman04

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How do you get a cute girl to dump her bf? Posted: 1/15/2007 9:40:28 AM
Don't bother going for unavailable women, you need to believe you're worth more than that

genuineman04

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Why is a great person like you single? Posted: 1/15/2007 9:37:58 AM
because I only seem to meet psychos

genuineman04

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Would you go back to sum 1 that cheated? Posted: 1/12/2007 3:32:06 AM
the trust is gone so what is left?

genuineman04

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Compliments, being a gentlemen and other forgotton traits.. Posted: 1/12/2007 3:30:15 AM
I don't think many women appreciate chivalry anymore. They see it as weakness

genuineman04

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Why do guys feelings not get heard? Now don`t laugh. Posted: 1/12/2007 3:24:10 AM
I find whenever you state your feelings for a girl she gets freaked out and runs, that's why I believe

genuineman04

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Confused!? Posted: 1/12/2007 3:22:54 AM
where are these nice girls? How come I never meet them?

genuineman04

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Women's attitude towards sex, let's see if I'm right Posted: 1/11/2007 12:12:48 AM
why is it that women only think men disassociate love and sex. I think anyone that is able to separate the two needs to read this What is a psychopath? A psychopath is defined as having no concerns for the feelings of others and a complete disregard for any sense of social obligation. They seem egocentric and lack insight and any sense of responsibility or consequence. Their emotions are thought to be superficial and shallow, if they exist at all. They are considered callous, manipulative, and incapable of forming lasting relationships, let alone of any kind of love. Since psychopaths cause harm through their actions, it is assumed that they are not attached to the people they harm; however, according to the PCL-R Checklist, psychopaths are also careless in the way they treat themselves. They frequently fail to alter their behavior in a way that would prevent them from enduring future discomfort. Dr. Joseph Newman contends that the behavior displayed by psychopaths is the result of "an inability to process contextual cues." [2] It is thought that any emotions which the true psychopath exhibits are the fruits of watching and mimicking other people's emotions. They show poor impulse control and a low tolerance for frustration and aggression. They have no empathy, remorse, anxiety or guilt in relation to their behavior. In short, they truly are devoid of conscience. However, they understand that society expects them to behave in a conscientious manner, and therefore they mimic this behaviour when it suits their needs. Most studies of psychopaths have taken place among prison populations. Cleckley defined psychopathy thus:[7] Superficial charm and average intelligence. Absence of delusions and other signs of irrational thinking. Absence of nervousness or neurotic manifestations. Unreliability. Untruthfulness and insincerity. Lack of remorse or shame. Antisocial behavior without apparent compunction. Poor judgement and failure to learn from experience. Pathological egocentricity and incapacity to love. General poverty in major affective reactions. Specific loss of insight. Unresponsiveness in general interpersonal relations. Fantastic and uninviting behavior with drink, and sometimes without. Suicide threats rarely carried out. Sex life impersonal, trivial, and poorly integrated. Failure to follow any life plan. It has been shown that punishment and behavior modification techniques do not improve the behavior of a psychopath. They have been regularly observed to respond to both by becoming more cunning and hiding their behavior better. It has been suggested that traditional therapeutic approaches actually make them, if not worse, then far more adept at manipulating others and concealing their behavior. They are generally considered to be not only incurable but also untreatable. Psychopaths also have a markedly distorted sense of the potential consequences of their actions, not only for others, but also for themselves. They do not, for example, deeply recognize the risk of being caught, disbelieved or injured as a result of their behaviour.

genuineman04

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How do you break an obsession with someone? Posted: 1/10/2007 9:27:33 PM
I think it's true you have to open your heart to someone else to truly get over the previous person. I had the same situation, short-term relationship that went fast and I fell hard. I actually initiated the breakup because of the heartache she was causing me. Then it turns to hate and I think my obsession is wanting to make her a better person, save her soul so to speak because of her bad/immoral behaviour but in the end you have to be able to see your own faults and try to fix them. You gotta get your confidence back and get back to the person you were before you got your heart broke

genuineman04

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Rebound Women? Men Are they Necessary? Posted: 1/10/2007 2:29:47 AM
I don't believe in rebounds unless you're straight up from the getgo that you're not ready for a relationship. If you have to sleep with someone to realize you're rebounding you got major issues

genuineman04

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Going back to the Ex!!!! Posted: 1/9/2007 11:15:09 PM
I would go back to an ex sadly because I think it's human nature that we want to think we can help them or change them, save their soul. I don't think once you give your heart to someone that you ever stop loving them but unfortunately you can only try your best to make them see why things didn't work out. In my case I fell for her before she fell for me and you only end up resenting that they led you on that far in the first place when they don't have the same feelings whether because of fear of being hurt. If you go into a relationship afraid to be hurt you just both end up getting hurt

genuineman04

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A woman's testing Posted: 1/9/2007 11:06:14 PM
I usually don't pass the tests because I can only put up with so much bs I get pissed off, it's not worth it

genuineman04

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Women with LONG HAIR Posted: 1/9/2007 9:01:14 PM
I don't maybe we like to run our fingers through it or it is more feminine to have long hair. personally I'm partial to blondes but I've also dated brunettes and redheads. Maybe it's because blondes are endangered species, it's a regressive trait I believe. Bottom line is if you're attractive it doesn't matter the hair colour

genuineman04

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how do men determine who they date and who they have sex with Posted: 1/9/2007 8:58:28 PM
for me any girl I would sleep with is dateable and I think that's the same for women I don't know. I never think I just want to have sex with someone

genuineman04

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The unwritten law strictly between men Posted: 1/9/2007 8:52:45 PM
never! If you are secure enough in your own size why would you care what the other guy has? That's not why women are with him anyways. Besides for a white guy I'm pretty big

genuineman04

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so pissed at men Posted: 1/9/2007 5:45:29 PM
I got the same problem. It works both ways. Women play men just as much as men play women. Either you're a player or you're not. Players have issues like commitment problems etc. it basically comes down to feelings of low self-worth. They don't believe they deserve to be loved and are therefor incapable of loving someone else

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