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Joined: 10/13/2006

Msg: 66 (view)

guys copping out for no reason. Posted: 11/25/2007 6:59:17 AM
FYI-skimmytowshoes is no longer on this site.I hope she comes back to read the forum she started.. I read most comments and hit uppon the fact that she's "22".. I didn't see any comments to fact that she's too young to get that serious . She should be having fun in life and develope her own interests. Not to be dating so much to fill their interests..She needs to know what she wants..( she said she dates all different kinds of men ) I heard she's pretty and get carried away flattery.That means she really doesn't know her wants..Especially in men..Men have a different biological needs and are attracted to pretty women..DAH...You should know yourself before getting your biological needs met by mister wonderfull..You may end up on here as a single mom..

Joined: 10/13/2006

Msg: 36 (view)

Being hung up on Posted: 2/19/2007 6:07:11 PM
I have caller ID.I will not answer if I'm in the midst of something I and know they can leave a message.I only pick up if I think the person needs to hear from me.I'll let them know I'm busy and "hang up"

Joined: 10/13/2006

Msg: 40 (view)

Is it considered cheating if you've never met ? Posted: 2/10/2007 7:02:53 AM
Did anyone consider the fact that he said he wanted to marry her.That's a red flag to me ,of an intention to stay in the country once he gets there. Weather the marriage lasts or not, he has gotten to where he wants.

Joined: 10/13/2006

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Why do some guys that look to handsome to be real go for average are ugly women? Posted: 2/9/2007 3:37:24 PM
My handsome,giglo,x,married one.She puts food in his mouth,a roof over his head,and puts up with all his BS.

Joined: 10/13/2006

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Is it considered cheating if you've never met ? Posted: 2/8/2007 12:22:08 PM
For you to even be asking this question about cheating, you have some feelings for this man.It depends on what your comunications were for...A friendship or relationship?? If it's for a friendship,you wouldn't be asking us for input..For him to come that far there must be something more going on then a casual visit on his mind.What if you find that there is no attraction to eachouther? What happens then? I think you should be up front with him and let him know you are still fishing.

Joined: 10/13/2006

Msg: 34 (view)

Broken Heart and Can't Stop the pain Posted: 2/8/2007 7:08:29 AM
I acknowledge you are in pain . I give you my condolance on you loss. Lossing someone you loved (no matter the cercomstance)is as bad as a death .Just as if you had a cut on your body,the wond will need time to heal.No one can but a time frame on how long it will take. The wond will heal,but there will be a scar left behind.We all have scars.Some people show them off,some will hide them,and some will have have forgotten them in time. I'm wishing you a speady recovery,life goes on.

Joined: 10/13/2006

Msg: 83 (view)

What exactly are men looking for????? Posted: 11/18/2006 8:52:40 AM
What are you looking for ? The first immpression I had of you ,was from your lead pic.. Your sexy tatooed back and what you said and did not say. Had me thinking you are looking for a Buddy. Make things more clear to what you are looking for ,and watch out how you talk to those BOYS. They sometimes think with the wrong head.

Joined: 10/13/2006

Msg: 50 (view)

control freak!!! help me Posted: 11/17/2006 8:48:52 AM
You asked . How do you walk away? Have less conversations with him. Go out and be as active as you can with your friends and family,hobbies and interests..Let your friend and family know you are hurting and to help you forget him...Have as much fun as you can before you settle down to a family of your own..Find out what you want from life.

Joined: 10/13/2006

Msg: 49 (view)

control freak!!! help me Posted: 11/17/2006 8:37:25 AM
Are you confusing his control issues for love. Do not get sucked up.You shouldn't give up you friend and family for him.You need a guy that excepts and enjoys your interests too. Do you want a family in the future? He sounds to me that he would keep the kids away from your family and friends..Look to your furure and your interests.Love involves both of you to make mutual decisions.It shouldn't be one way.

Joined: 10/13/2006

Msg: 238 (view)

Why do married men masturbate? Posted: 11/12/2006 3:17:24 PM
It should have only offended you if you asked for some too ,and he wouldn't do you.

Joined: 10/13/2006

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When there's someone YOU DATED, off and on...ADVICE needed. Posted: 11/12/2006 8:27:47 AM
You are friends.. He went off to do his thing and got hurt. Now he needs his female friend to comfort him .Since he knows you care for him ,he's going to get that comfort from you.. A friend in need is a friend in deed. Maybe it could lead to more and maybe you are just his female friend. Personaly I let old relationships go. I will let them be my friend only.They fade away and get their comfort somewhere eles.

Joined: 10/13/2006

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Why do women say they want a Romantic guy then run? Posted: 11/11/2006 2:10:34 PM
If you love her give more time to get a handle of her feelings.She may be feeling she's cheating on her husban. If you really need to be married,give her a reasonable time limit to accept you for marriage. Good Luck

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Ex Girlfriend wants to talk again. Posted: 11/10/2006 5:19:48 PM
She's the spider and you're the fly..Do you want that?

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Msg: 43 (view)

Why does he always touch me there? (Not what you think) Posted: 11/10/2006 5:57:52 AM
He touches you there because he's interested or he;s just a tease. Are you are interested in him ? YOU need to made the next move. ( he's too shy ) Have your name, home or cell number ready for him next time he comes in. (Maybe in a friendship card) in the card you can say you'd like to meet up with him for a chat, if he is interested to call for arrangements. Go up to him and brush up against his elbow and tell him you have this for him. Slip him the card and say.I hope you like it. Don't get up tight about an answer. Like Email,you may or may not get an answer. You know you made an effort. Remember you are just trying to find out if you both connect,OR ,is he just a tease.

Joined: 10/13/2006

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why do men use you for fun Posted: 11/9/2006 4:44:02 PM
How childish he was to name call because he didn't get his way. What did he think he was,gods gift to women.. You are not Ugly,But he sure was..

Joined: 10/13/2006

Msg: 47 (view)

advice plz....someone Posted: 11/8/2006 8:08:53 AM
Advice, If you want to stay with him and feel good about it. STOP spying on him.Stop trying to catch him in a lie. No one ever said he doesn't love you.Why are you trying so hard to catch him? Your feelings of mistrust is from the past.

Joined: 10/13/2006

Msg: 42 (view)

advice plz....someone Posted: 11/7/2006 4:47:16 PM
You look beautifull,and I'm sure you can get any guy you'd want..Is just you want 0NE love..as said in your bio... Honey you have unconditional love from the children you bore.You also have to put out love.First for yourself then for your childern.YOU MUST be the ADULT NOW in this family.YOU ARE the head of this family.. He is a LIER..LIER...LIER..He maybe able to commit to you,,,but,,,NOT ONLY YOU...He will need to keep his game going on with other women.There is no talking about it..He has proved it toooo many times..HE IS A COMPULSIVE LIER.!!! I let mine get away with it tooo long and looked the other way because I didn't have self esteem and no confidance to raise my childern financially. I finally had the last straw and ended it after 28 yrs ..At 50..He remarried and has a kid at 56...I'm alone because I didn't want to be alone all that time.It angers me I got sucked in by COMPULSIVE LIER.. As one friend said to me,, IF YOU CAN'T LOOSE HIM,,, USE HIM !!!! He's doing that to you !!!

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