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phoenixphire

Joined: 10/14/2006

Msg: 44 (view)

women watching women strippers Posted: 10/4/2007 9:14:42 PM
I havent been to one yet, but I cant wait to go. The idea kind of excites me. I am very curious as to whether I will like it or not.

phoenixphire

Joined: 10/14/2006

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thank you Posted: 9/23/2007 8:59:00 PM
If it is a 'thank you' meaning, 'thank you for wearing me out and giving me immense pleasure, Wow!' Then that is fine. But if it a 'thank you' that sounds more like, 'thank you for allowing me to touch your naked body and giving me the privilage to take part in this act.' Then that makes it sound more like a favor and a treat. Or that we should be getting paid for it as well.

phoenixphire

Joined: 10/14/2006

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why do so many girls only like sex when the lights are off Posted: 9/1/2007 10:25:15 PM
There can be a variety of reasons. Some girls may be insecure about their appearance... Some girls might be shy... Sometimes, the lights off creates more mystery and a certain ambiance... Tell your girl that you love the way they look. I used to be shy about my body, (esp the parts that are normally covered by a swimsuit) but gradually, my guy kept telling me how beautiful he thought I was and that got me to believe him and I got comfortable with it. Having the big, bright ceiling light on can feel like a spotlight. If you arent comfortable, it makes you very nervous and less able to concentrate on what your are doing and you think more about if you look stupid, if your ______ looks good enough, etc. Personally, I like the lights dimmed or having a myriad of lava lamps or candles lit. You can still see eachother, but there is more mystery.

phoenixphire

Joined: 10/14/2006

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Laughing & Giggling during Sex Posted: 9/1/2007 10:11:31 PM
I giggle. Sometimes when I am close, I squirm and giggle a lot; its sorta like being tickled. I also giggle when we move into another position unexpectedly.

phoenixphire

Joined: 10/14/2006

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Anyone miss sex with their ex? Posted: 9/1/2007 9:55:07 PM
Not at all. He was my first, but definitely not memorable. My current is so much better at everything. He not only tends to my needs sexually, but he wants to know when I am comfortable, if I am getting bored, etc. Plus he is a bit more physically endowed too.

phoenixphire

Joined: 10/14/2006

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sexiest outfits ? Posted: 5/27/2007 11:25:00 PM
Well it really depends on the person. Their preferences, what they feel comfortable in, what they look good in, the fantasies involved, etc. But as for my suggestions... Anything lacy.. Short skirt with sexy panties or a thong thigh high fishnets. And I have to agree with the men's shirt with nothing underneath

PhoenixPhire

Joined: 10/14/2006

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Ever have a crush on a cartoon? Posted: 3/28/2007 7:35:13 PM
OMG. I had such a huge crush on Trent Lane. He is pretty good looking for a cartoon.. If he were real....

phoenixphire

Joined: 10/14/2006

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Flavored cunnilingus Posted: 1/24/2007 6:13:48 PM
Would flavored condoms cause complications as well? I have heard yes and no. I would assume no, since they are condoms after all, why wouldnt you put them where they were supposed to be used for?

phoenixphire

Joined: 10/14/2006

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Your first time:Was it memorable or forgetable? Posted: 1/24/2007 5:59:04 PM
Eh I remember it, but it was pretty unmentionable. I was 19, he was 20, we had been dating for a few months. I remember thinking, 'gee, that's what everyone was making the fuss about? That was sex?' Needless to say, he wasnt very good. He dumped me a month later. Now I have a great guy, and now I say, 'wow. Sex is awesome.' I guess you gotta find someone who is good at the job before making judgement.

phoenixphire

Joined: 10/14/2006

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paying for BC Posted: 1/23/2007 5:35:36 PM
In Wisconsin, if you meet certain financial requirements, the state pays for all of your reproductive care. Its really a sweet deal. My birth control and all of my exams and everything is paid for. My boyfriend would never let me pay for condoms before because he said it was his method of birth control. (really, the only thing guys can do) And when I decided on whatever other sort of contraceptive (pill, patch, shot, etc) then I could pay for that. And he would help if necessary. But seeing as its taken care of, it kinda all works out. Plus, I went to family planning, and they asked if I wanted some condoms. Uh, sure. I figured they would give me like 5, maybe 10, but no, they gave me a bag full of 35! Sweet! That helps out the financial burden part a lot. I think that it shouldnt be one person's sole responsibility to pay. If you want the sex, you need the protection. If you want it that bad, you'll front the cash for it. Both people benefit from the sex, right? Maybe work out a deal between yourselves. You pay one month, he pays the next.

phoenixphire

Joined: 10/14/2006

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Any women left with body hair? Posted: 11/30/2006 9:44:07 PM
Same with me. In high school, a friend of mine shaved her arms. I decided to try it and my arms have been hairless ever since. It just makes them look more stream lined and feminine, I think. Plus, once you go hairless, you really notice every other woman's hairy arms. Now as for everything else, I shave my legs and my pits and I keep it trimmed down there. It feels nice.

phoenixphire

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Some help here? I have a penis phobia Posted: 11/30/2006 8:33:12 PM
Thanks guys, for being so sympathetic towards this 'dilemma'. And thanks for all the helpful suggestions. I'll try a few and we'll see what works.

phoenixphire

Joined: 10/14/2006

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Physical attraction vs. Mental attraction Posted: 11/30/2006 12:18:59 AM
Mental attraction is a huge part of what gets me. Sure, physical attraction might spark your interest, but intellect can spark it too. There have been times at a get together or whatnot where everyone looks eh... so so, but soon there's someone that says something and it makes you go "ooooh who are you?" They may not have the most striking appearance, but their attitude gets your attention I've had a couple crushes on really cute guys, but the more I got to know them, the more I thought 'ehh... glad nothing more came of this.." Most of the guys I've dated are not necessarilly attractive to the mainstream (I have a very different taste, I guess) I've had friends say,"why do you like them-theyre not even cute" but I value someone's mind over their appearance. But I have dated someone who was pretty cute by normal standards, but who I wouldnt normally be attracted to. I got to know them and we ended up dating. But then he turned out to be a jerk Besides, what lasts longer- Someone's beauty or someone's mind?

phoenixphire

Joined: 10/14/2006

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Scratching and scratch marks. Posted: 11/29/2006 11:40:26 PM
I'm not sure if it left a mark or not, but I love it when I can feel my guy's nails on my back. It certainly does mean youre doing something right. :)

phoenixphire

Joined: 10/14/2006

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Some help here? Posted: 11/29/2006 5:55:18 PM
Thanks. My guy doesnt pressure me or expect anything from me, its just that I wish I could pleasure him as well. We've talked about this and he seems to be understanding. I guess it is maybe more of an anxiety... I guess I might be scared as to if I will be good at it or not (which is dumb because the only way to know and get better is practice.) Or that I am insecure a little. And I'm not against oral sex either. I think its great on the recieving end, but I just cant seem to do it....

phoenixphire

Joined: 10/14/2006

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Piercings Posted: 11/29/2006 5:48:41 PM
Piercings are definately sexy. Of course it all matters on what you can pull off, but guys with piercings are hott! My boyfriend has his septum (stretched to a 6g) an industrial and his right lobe pierced twice. I myself have the right side of my lip and my lobes done (stretched to a 4g) and I'm thinking about getting my nips done. Tattoos are great too! I cant wait to get some (money and indecisiveness keep me from them right now)

phoenixphire

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Some help here? I have a penis phobia Posted: 11/29/2006 5:25:01 PM
Alright, I dont know if coming to this forum for advice is the right idea, I'll probably get a lot of flack, but here goes anyway. I have a problem. It seems that I have a penis phobia. I am fine with regular intercourse, but when it comes to going down on a guy, or even hand jobs sometimes, I just cant do it. It seems kind of like a mental block thing. Like whenever it comes up (pardon the pun) I just freeze up and get scared or something. As you can see, this causes some problems in a relationship. I've read on this forum before, that 'if a girl wont go down-get rid of her' and that kind of idea scares me also. A lot of frustration and distress has come lately. So what can I do? Is it that I am not experienced enough? (I've had only one other partner before) Will I become more comfortable as time passes? Do I slowly 'train' myself to become used to it? Is this logical? Is it common? Any suggestions or advice would help. Subject Edited for clarity and to reflect actual contents to aid in thread searches. Please read the following, by clicking on them: Posting Rules MODERATOR NOTICE - PLEASE READ FOR YOUR THREAD'S SURVIVAL Trappedonbayst - Moderator

Phoenixphire

Joined: 10/14/2006

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what is the nicest or sweetest thing someone has ever said or done for you? Posted: 10/21/2006 9:47:34 AM
My guy does lots of little sweet things everyday. One of the things that stands out the most is right after we started dating, I got my lip pierced, and youre not supposed to kiss anyone until its healed. Since he couldnt kiss my lips, he would kiss my forehead or the back of my hand. I melt to this day everytime he does that . And also just the fact that despite all my friends being in college and my parents wanting me to go to college, he supports me when I decided to drop out. In a world where it is nearly impossible to find a job without a college degree, he still believes in me and encourages me to follow my dreams.

Phoenixphire

Joined: 10/14/2006

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Ear tonguing...why do men think women like it? Posted: 10/18/2006 3:54:36 PM
Yes, I do like it. Of course, like everyone else says, not really loud slurping and a ton of spit. But start with a little kissing up my neck, then some breathing in my ear and then maybe some tongue on the edges and lobes....That gets the goosebumps going...

Phoenixphire

Joined: 10/14/2006

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Shower heads Posted: 10/17/2006 8:36:04 PM
Yes, yes, yes.. I too, have discovered the beauty of the magical showerhead. It certainly does wonders...

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