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A woman with another woman's husband Posted: 11/21/2006 8:38:30 AM
I agree.. anybody in a committed relationship is off limits. If I know they are in the relationship If I find out that a man I am dating is married or committed, I immediately, no questions asked, break it completely off. For this reason: He only wants sex with me. The sex is so good with his significant other that he wants her to remain with him, and he continues to support her. He sees me as a little extra piece of azz.... and doesn't even think he enough of me to want to be there with me and support me... He can't have his cake, the bakery and eat it too. Second reason: I agree with the others.. I don't want to be the source of anyone's pain.

Joined: 10/17/2006

Msg: 45 (view)

Would you have a relationship with a guy who's living paycheck by paycheck? Posted: 11/2/2006 1:59:17 PM
Let me clear this up.. NO I would not live with a guy living paycheck to paycheck, rather I would live with him and help him plan financially ... In my situation.. I learned the rules of child support enforcement.. they only count one job.. so he got a second job.. and I helped out financially. We decided to live to gether.. split everything fifty/fifty.. and help out with the raising of his child.. Then we budgeted our money.. he was no longer living paycheck to paycheck..rather.. we lived better on both of our paychecks and our spare odd jobs.. I took on music jobs on the side.. and he and I did janitorial work for different companies and schools. He had lotsa maintenance skills and made money on side jobs outside of his employment. We worked on a plan.. and we are still the best of friends, I just don't help manage his finances anymore.. he does quite well on his own. Two heads are better than one.. And in today's economy.. it takes more than one paycheck to take care of the household.

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Would you have a relationship with a guy who's living paycheck by paycheck? Posted: 11/2/2006 1:53:41 PM
Let me say this to this.. Most of you all are reading the words and missing this persons point of view. No I would not be in a relationship with a guy who is living paycheck to paycheck with nothing to show for it. His apartment being messy just shows that he is unorganized. I dated a guy who lived paycheck to paycheck.. he made good money paycheck to paycheck and if he had financial management skills, less child support he would have been pretty well off. So the issue is not paycheck to paycheck ... it is this guy doesn't manage well, has over extended maybe because of child support enforcement issues, or other demanding bills he must pay.. or garnished wages or something.. but.. you need to find out the real reason, and if he is in a bind.. and you love him.. you stick by him and help make a brighter day for the both of you... or Realize he is not a good budgeter, or financial person... or you cannot help him out.. maybe he isn't helping you financially... But.. It is not the fact that he is living paycheck to paycheck you should be concerned about, figure out WHY he is living paycheck to paycheck, and help him by hmmm..., adding your 50/50... or decide that you just want someone who can spoil and pamper you more... Just my 2 cents.. don't bash him.. help him, if you cannot help him... don't hurt him..

Joined: 10/17/2006

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Once a cheater always a cheater. True or False? Posted: 10/27/2006 8:54:19 PM
I have dated and for the most part I believe that once a cheater is always a cheater.. they try to get better at it, and if you are adamant with your significant other who is a cheater, he feels guilt and stops because he realizes you know him too well and his lies aren't working now... or he leaves the relationship.. because his conscience whips him... so bad. I have been with a man, that I love .. so much; and what's sad is that I know he loves me, but he loves the game. The thrill of the chase, then the kill after the chase; and then when he has had sex with them he no longer wants them... He considered me his number one.. and never thought I would leave him.. I left him.. The love between us is too great to even remain friends.. but I pray much for him, that hopefully his infatuation with the chase will grow old and he settles down. It wont be me... but I pray for him. So for that reason.. I know that the chase is equivalent to the high one gets from drugs.. He is addictive to it.. and he will cheat. He admits this with a lot of shame, but cannot help it. Unless they can rehabilitate.. hmmm.. they slip.... particularly when a woman goes after them and they are fine as hell, or well endowed.. it's on.. Just my thoughts from my experience..

Joined: 10/17/2006

Msg: 37 (view)

How do you get him back?? Posted: 10/25/2006 6:11:10 PM
Azureorb is right... the only thing.. is that this advice works only.... by the time you have developed that attitude.. You wont want him back ! Even if he comes back... Been there! Done That !!!

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Do You Men Read Our Whole Profiles? Posted: 10/25/2006 5:51:41 PM
Well, I don't care if they read my profile, when they respond to my picture or whateva.. I darn sure ... read theirs... LOL

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