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tesaz

Joined: 11/17/2004

Msg: 9 (view)

Bad Work Experience Posted: 3/21/2007 2:22:56 AM
If you are performing your duties to the satisfaction of your bosses, this whole scenario should be a non-issue. If this person wants to check up on you, let him. You have nothing to hide right.....From past experience I've found once an employee starts repeatedly complaining they usually end up being transferred or laid off. HR and bosses just don't want to deal with these types of problems even though it is their respnsibility to keep employees content. Maybe you feel threatened by this other persons performance. If so, stop worrying about it. Continue to do your job to the best of your ability. If they do lay you off they better have a just reason for doing so. Good Luck

tesaz

Joined: 11/17/2004

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I need some advice about my Poodle Posted: 2/20/2007 12:41:15 AM
It is not uncommon for males to mark their territory. Castration often resolves this problem. Good luck.

tesaz

Joined: 11/17/2004

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Should I let go? Posted: 1/23/2007 2:28:59 AM
whatswithaname....just remember if it's meant to be, it will be.

tesaz

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Interests......Horses Posted: 1/23/2007 2:24:34 AM
I go to an annual horse auction just to check things out....ya right.....anyway, one year I bid on this gorgeous POA, dapple grey, real pretty little mare. She was broke to ride and drive. SURPRISE............not broke period. In fact she bucked my ex off in seconds. I'll never understand why the owners tell people their well broke, especially when kids are involved. They should be tied to their backs and let loose.........sorry just venting here.

tesaz

Joined: 11/17/2004

Msg: 41 (view)

Interests......Horses Posted: 1/22/2007 1:19:45 AM
Yes peter253..this forum started in 2005 and then sort of died for awhile....but it's back. Lots of horse lovers on here. Funny, I love to watch jumping but never had any desire to jump. Arabs are beautiful for sure. I once owned a Cleveland Bay, she was an amazing mare. Most of my horses were Q or paint or crosses. Loved going on the one day hunter hacks. Never placed, but it was a blast. Hey sgt.....hmmnnn don't think I ever discovered that on a horse...........

tesaz

Joined: 11/17/2004

Msg: 40 (view)

Interests......Horses Posted: 1/22/2007 1:13:48 AM
junipermoon, I know what you mean about the slaughter house. I've been checking out horse rescue/adoption sites. Some of the stories these animals have experienced is so sad. Good for you for supporting such a needed cause.

tesaz

Joined: 11/17/2004

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Son Off To The Military.... Posted: 1/22/2007 1:07:52 AM
sgtfoxhound.......my son was explaining the bond that is starting to develop....as new recruits I guess some go through a period of questioning whether they have done the right thing or not..........others have supported those in question and encouraged them to continue...he's only been there 2 wks. and already the comradship is there. I have the utmost respect for soldiers and thank each and every one for protecting us and our country.

tesaz

Joined: 11/17/2004

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Interests......Horses Posted: 1/21/2007 2:35:26 AM
Not familiar with this method junipermoon.........what is it? Have you seen the movie "The Horse Whisperer" with Robert Redford? Love that show. Nice calm method working with a horse. Reading their body language without a word spoken. I volunteer at a nearby western horse ranch. There are more unbroke horses there than broke. Many that are 3+ yrs. old and never handled much. Think right now the owner has 140 horses. He buys, sells, trades. Market isn't the best in winter months though. I like ground work best of all. My days for getting on for the first time are over. Let some young whipper snipper do that..........

tesaz

Joined: 11/17/2004

Msg: 33 (view)

Interests......Horses Posted: 1/20/2007 1:30:12 AM
Yes injuries certainly can happen, when ya least expect it. Even with the the bombproof horses. I never showed horses, just had a love for them, and trail riding. But every fair or exhibition I was there, watching for hours.....western games, english and western pleasure, jumpiing, you name it. I was most impressed with team penning. Now that looks like fun. A few yrs back I had a scary experience with a 2 yr old, trying to ride him for the first time. Let me tell ya that sure woke me up. Is anyone familiar with the Gypsy Vanner? Absolutely gorgeous.

tesaz

Joined: 11/17/2004

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Son Off To The Military.... Posted: 1/20/2007 1:22:56 AM
truly......that's a great idea starting a support group for our young adults in the military.......although they are just starting out, we all know at any given time they could be called to the line of duty.....the news daily announces more deaths in Afghanistan.....which is where our new troops may be heading, if need be...........having someone to talk to would be awesome...........

tesaz

Joined: 11/17/2004

Msg: 30 (view)

Interests......Horses Posted: 1/19/2007 2:53:24 AM
I've always been a Qhorse fan too.........but the smoothness of a Kentucky or Rocky Mountain Horse is to die for.

tesaz

Joined: 11/17/2004

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Interests......Horses Posted: 1/18/2007 2:14:32 AM
WOW..alot of "horse people" here.......that's great. What is your favourite breed of horse and why? Mine is a Kentucky Mountain Horse. I sometimes suffer with back problems, and these guys are sooooo smooth to ride.

tesaz

Joined: 11/17/2004

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Son Off To The Military.... Posted: 1/17/2007 1:56:18 AM
Genuine Goddess.........I truly hope your son will be able to join next year. I can imagine the disappointment he must have had this time round. My son broke his wrist the day before he was to leave, and he was panicky wondering if they would still accept him. They did fortunately. He's so proud to be there, so upbeat, is it possible he's changed in a weeks period of time. Sure seems that way. Up every morning at 5am, in bed by 10pm, a strict routine, but he's loving it. I thought this thread would give all an opportunity to discuss "Our Troops". Is it possible to create a support our troops logo on her POF?

tesaz

Joined: 11/17/2004

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New Puppy! HELP! Posted: 1/17/2007 1:48:38 AM
Lots of really good advice given here............you didn't mention how old the pup is? The key is each time the pup wakes up or after eating or drinking you should go outside with the pup. 10 minutes may seem like an hour but the pup has to learn to go outside. You are not being cruel you are teaching the dog where it is permissible to relieve itself. Just like toilet training a young child. The dog will learn quickly enough to get the job over with so as not to be cold. Persistence is the key and repetition.As far as crate training, dogs learn to associate the crate as their security blanket, a place where they feel safe and comfortable. It isn't cruel. Is the pup alone all day? Once the pup starts going outside, it's pretty much mission accomplished. You may have the odd mistake. Be patient, be persistent, and be repeditive. Before you know it the pup will be house trained. Good Luck and keep us posted.....

tesaz

Joined: 11/17/2004

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Son Off To The Military.... Posted: 1/15/2007 2:17:46 AM
Ashley, you're right, and I am a proud mom. I support him 110%. I don't express my worries to him. He has enough to think about. I find he's upbeat when chatting on the phone, sounds like this is exactly where he wants to be in his life. Am I worried that he may get posted in a war zone, of course, what mother wouldn't be,,,,but then it is his choice to do so, so I will support him in every possible way. Thx everyone for the comments.

tesaz

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Have you ever stolen anything? Posted: 1/14/2007 1:07:08 AM
Remember the little mouse Topogigo that used to be on the Ed Sullivan Show years ago....well going to school one day there happened to be one on someones lawn, near the curb. I stole the mouse. But my mom had me return it. That mouse was famous too, drats.........

tesaz

Joined: 11/17/2004

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Son Off To The Military.... Posted: 1/14/2007 12:57:26 AM
TY kicnbac , I'll pass that on to my son. I am proud of all the men and women who serve. In fact I wish things could have been different when I was younger, I think I too would have joined. What about Bush wanting to send more troops to Iraq? The negative is always reported on the news ie. suicide bombs etc. I'm sure the troops over there will appreciate having more help. But I'm not sure this war will ever end.

tesaz

Joined: 11/17/2004

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Son Off To The Military.... Posted: 1/12/2007 11:59:17 PM
Stew, epsilonbj, oreally?, arugula, skgfrnds, trulywishing, sammy salt, and designing woman, thx so much for your feedback. It really does help alot. My son called last night and he sounds so up.....really likes the place. He even met an ole buddy from his highschool. He got his uniform Wed. and was thrilled. The day before he left, he broke his wrist. He was told to come ahead. When he got there there was talk of a "voluntary separation". He has to follow up with a surgeon due to bone fragments. Almost a week later he's still there, looks like he will be staying, and he clearly stated he doesn't want to leave. I think he finally found the career for him. After bootcamp in St. Jean, he heads off to Borden, then Kingston for training as a communications specialist. I am very proud of all the men and women serving our country and have the utmost respect for them. He knows I love him and knows I'll always be here for him when needed. We always had a very good mother/son relationship. Of that I am truly grateful. He does want to travel the world, and his education will be paid for. Now once he starts getting placements I may really begin to worry. But I guess mothers and dads never stop worrying do they. Thx everyone, very much appreciated. Glad to hear I can share this with others in the same boat.

tesaz

Joined: 11/17/2004

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Son Off To The Military.... Posted: 1/12/2007 1:58:27 AM
Sunday my 19 yr old son left to join the military. Are there any other moms out there who have experienced this? I have mixed emotions....part of me is so happy for him because this is what he wants to do....the other part of me centers around the war. I am so very proud of him and I know he will do well for himself.

tesaz

Joined: 11/17/2004

Msg: 27 (view)

hurting Posted: 11/20/2006 2:19:14 AM
Ya know the really sad thing about this whole "STORY" is that the op is wondering if he should stay with his girlfriend and wait it out or what............seems to be if you love someone, there is no need to ask this question...............make sense?????????

tesaz

Joined: 11/17/2004

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-----------------Bitter & Cynical----------------- Posted: 4/25/2006 5:41:13 AM
VagaBond..............thx for clearing up the facts, and making them stupid proof. I still think you were more interested in dancing than you were in sitting down and chatting with her. She may have been rude, but so were you. Who cares whether she asked you out or you asked her out. The end result is the same, spending some time together. Good luck with future dates.

tesaz

Joined: 11/17/2004

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-----------------Bitter & Cynical----------------- Posted: 4/24/2006 4:44:17 AM
Here's my 2cents worth....... guy asks gal on a date gal won't dance with guy guy gets up and dances with other gals, near date gal sits at table alone, watching guy dance with other gals gal gets ticked and dances with another guy to tick off date guy gets ticked and leaves. If a guy asked me on a date, and spent his time dancing with others, I'd be gone. Wouldn't sit at the table watching. Waste of my time. I would expect my date to sit and talk with me, and get to know me. If he didn't that just proves he had more interest in dancing than getting to know me. Seems pretty clear to me...............

tesaz

Joined: 11/17/2004

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Help me move on please!!! Posted: 4/19/2006 4:11:12 PM
Hey gurl, there comes a time when even though we may still love someone we have to realize it may be time to let them go as we may not have a choice in the matter. You will still have memories, good and bad. Now you learn to get accustomed to your new life. Time does help us heal and life does get easier and better. Remember that you are not alone and you have many friends here who will offer support. Learning to let go is the first step. That is if the relationship is not salvageable.

tesaz

Joined: 11/17/2004

Msg: 52 (view)

Ever feel like you could be falling for someone you've never met? Posted: 4/19/2006 4:01:15 AM
Thank you just cats...........much appreciated...........we chatted a few times online, but most of the connection was by phone...........we met for 3 wks. on 2 different occasions and both of us realized this is it. Good luck to everyone searching for their Mr. or Ms. Right. Happy Fishin......

tesaz

Joined: 11/17/2004

Msg: 259 (view)

My Weight and My Boyfriend Posted: 4/18/2006 5:11:32 AM
What ever happened to the idea of people accepting others for who they are????? If YOU feel you want to lose some weight, then do so for yourself, not for him. It's like he wants to keep his image of having an attractive, thin girl by his side. You better do some serious thinking gurl, and good luck to ya.

tesaz

Joined: 11/17/2004

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Ever feel like you could be falling for someone you've never met? Posted: 4/18/2006 4:46:00 AM
I know you can fall in love with someone before meeting them. And in my case, when we finally did meet it truly was and is love. We are engaged, he sold his house in BC and is moving to Ont. the end of this month which is when we will start our lives together. At first it was friendship, then we realized we were falling in love. I don't know how frequently this would occur, but I'm very thankful it happened to us.

tesaz

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Ladies: Do you like men with dyed hair? Posted: 4/7/2006 3:39:43 PM
Yep, what she said ^^^^^^^^^^^^

tesaz

Joined: 11/17/2004

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He thinks I am having an affair. . . . . Posted: 3/14/2006 3:40:52 PM
I agree with glimmer and jim.....why would you be worried about her, she is married....who started the rumour? and with you avoiding them, that is sure to make the husband think there must be some truth behind the rumour......looks like you have 2 choices....either talk to him about the rumour or take your business elsewhere...good luck

tesaz

Joined: 11/17/2004

Msg: 53 (view)

Things You've Learned and Advice You'd Pass On Now That You're Over 40 Posted: 2/6/2006 3:11:32 AM
I've learned that really listening to someone, not necessarily offering advice is important. Communication is the key to any relationship.

tesaz

Joined: 11/17/2004

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Turning 50 Posted: 2/6/2006 3:08:39 AM
Happy Birthday Ksue....long time no speak. I turned 50 last summer, and to be honest I don't notice a difference. I'm still the same person, going through a wonderful phase in my life, looking forward to grandkids, and loving every minute. I will admit it kind of bothered me on my birthday last year, hitting the big 50. But the kids threw a surprise birthday party and we had a blast. None of us have a choice, we get older ea year, so why not enjoy what we have.

tesaz

Joined: 11/17/2004

Msg: 93 (view)

Is it possible to fall in love with someone before meeting them in person? Posted: 2/6/2006 2:49:13 AM
Hey all..............I used to be a bit of a skeptic with regard to falling in love on the net or phone. However I'm not now. I did fall in love with someone 3,000 miles away. We met, and our gut instncts were right. In fact we are engaged and starting to plan our future together. It can happen, when ya least expect it. He happens to be the best friend of my brother in law who is also out west.

tesaz

Joined: 11/17/2004

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anyone that knows about dogs? Posted: 12/21/2005 5:11:56 AM
Sounds like this dog has some insecurity issues. Maybe not trusting humans in general. Try letting the dog come to you on his own, rather than you going to the dog. If the dog comes to you willingly, tons of verbal and hands on petting praise. When he walks away, stop the praise. Repetition and patience are the key words here. It is possible as the dog matures it may become a fear bitter. Use a soft tone of voice. Dogs don't understand words they understand voice tone. Sit in the middle of the floor and let the dog wander around you, sniffing, don't attempt to touch the dog but talk to it in a safe and reassuring voice. Good luck. As far as the other dog not wanting to go outside to pee etc. This will be harder on the handler than the dog. Take the dog outside regularly, for min 20 minutes. You don't have to walk far, a few steps at a time. Keep reinforcing the "pee" thing. When it happens, tons of praise and back in the house for a treat. Repetition and patience. As soon as the dog wakes from a sleep after eating, or after playing take it outside. Good luck.

tesaz

Joined: 11/17/2004

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guys i am checkin back in tha hospital tonight..... Posted: 12/16/2005 3:46:40 AM
Brawny, can you pls give LadyDi my love and best wishes for a speedy recovery. She's an amazing woman. I know she will pull through this. She is strong and determined. Love ya gurl. Your friend Tesaz (You're in my prayers)

tesaz

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Cancer strikes the family twice... Posted: 11/29/2005 2:39:39 PM
ah Leafs, I'm so sorry to hear about your sisters..my prayers go out to you and your family..it was 8 months ago my brother passed away with cancer...ya know I really hate that word, I wish they would call it something else. And you're right about keeping up with the mamo's etc. My prayers go out to all of you who have had to deal with cancer and that each of you beat it. Surely to God a cure will be found someday soon.

tesaz

Joined: 11/17/2004

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Breast Implants Posted: 11/13/2005 12:14:26 PM
My sis had implants many years ago. She was very flat chested. Three yrs. ago the implants had to be removed because one bag ruptured and fluid was leaking inside her chest cavity. Not a pretty site, plus the pain. But not everyone has problems with implants. Hey 7 don't forget to post a pic when ya get yer knew pec implants LOL

tesaz

Joined: 11/17/2004

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Special powers you'd wish you had...... Posted: 11/10/2005 10:54:38 AM
I wish I had the power to heal the sick. To be able to heal someone from a terminal illness or make someone see or walk again with just a touch. How wonderful would that be.....

tesaz

Joined: 11/17/2004

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Quadragenerians 'n up- friendship? love? or just making it one day at a time? Posted: 11/10/2005 4:53:46 AM
Thank you 2uneek...best of luck to you 2, and happy fishin

tesaz

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Quadragenerians 'n up- friendship? love? or just making it one day at a time? Posted: 11/10/2005 3:51:09 AM
Thank you catt.............it was a pleasure meeting you gurl...and best of luck to you and your doll business

tesaz

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Msg: 919 (view)

Quadragenerians 'n up- friendship? love? or just making it one day at a time? Posted: 11/10/2005 3:15:36 AM
Hey Tuesday..enjoy reading your posts. I'm leaving because I have found a wonderful man. I will pop in now and then to check in on you guys, but my life is heading in a different direction which I'm very very happy about. Love has his own reasons for leaving. Check his revised profile. Take care and happy fishin gurl.

tesaz

Joined: 11/17/2004

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Quadragenerians 'n up- friendship? love? or just making it one day at a time? Posted: 11/10/2005 3:13:00 AM
Leafs and MamaTiger, ty for the kind words. I will certainly miss your posts. May happiness shine on you each and every day.

tesaz

Joined: 11/17/2004

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Quadragenerians 'n up- friendship? love? or just making it one day at a time? Posted: 11/10/2005 3:11:01 AM
Hey sun dance..........ty for your sweet comments.it was a pleasure getting to know you here......I wish you the best of luck in your search for happiness.

tesaz

Joined: 11/17/2004

Msg: 916 (view)

Quadragenerians 'n up- friendship? love? or just making it one day at a time? Posted: 11/10/2005 3:08:34 AM
Hey bucsgirl..I have met many wonderful friends on here, including you. I will miss your silly antics gurl.........you always put a smile on my face while reading your posts. One amazing lady. Ty for the well wishes......I have never felt so in love and there are feelings errupting which I never experienced before. Keep on with your sermons, everyone loves reading them. Georgie, ty too for the well wishes. Your sermons too have been very inspirational. God bless.

tesaz

Joined: 11/17/2004

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Quadragenerians 'n up- friendship? love? or just making it one day at a time? Posted: 11/9/2005 5:03:16 PM
ah..ty Roaul..we never did get to chat much but I certainly have enjoyed reading yours posts. ty also for the warm wishes....good luck to you in your search for happiness.

tesaz

Joined: 11/17/2004

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Quadragenerians 'n up- friendship? love? or just making it one day at a time? Posted: 11/9/2005 5:00:32 PM
Thank you love for the kind words, and for acknowledging my post. I guess it was about 6 wks. ago the 40 to 49 crowd thread got deleted. It was up to around 120 pages, friends checking in everyday, supporting each other, much like this thread. Anyway, life goes on ha, but I do miss it, hasn't been the same since. I wish you and yours the best of luck and happiness and health.

tesaz

Joined: 11/17/2004

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Quadragenerians 'n up- friendship? love? or just making it one day at a time? Posted: 11/9/2005 3:47:51 PM
Good bye. Just wanted to stop by to say so long. To all my old friends that I've chatted with for so long, and to the new friends. It's time for me to move on. I may pop in now and then to catch up on the news. A new part of my life is beginning with a super super man. Ya know it's funny, I used to chat in the forums and have a fair bit to say, but now I read everyone's posts and honestly don't know what to say. It was disheartening losing the 40 to 49 crowd thread, due to chatting. It's funny, from what I can see most threads have "chatting". Makes ya wonder why some get deleted.......anyway I'm not gonna cry about it. I wish you all the best of luck in your life and search for happiness. It was a pleasure getting to know each and every one of you. And a part of my life I won't forget. Take care my friends.

tesaz

Joined: 11/17/2004

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What Are You Buying Your Sweetie Ffor Christmas...... Posted: 11/9/2005 11:10:20 AM
Wow Forrest, now that's a wonderful idea. The needs of others. So many kids out there with no one. Maybe I can help out too. Thx for the idea.

tesaz

Joined: 11/17/2004

Msg: 887 (view)

Quadragenerians 'n up- friendship? love? or just making it one day at a time? Posted: 11/9/2005 11:05:23 AM
Dear Love, as Bucs said, couldn't be happier for you my friend. And yes, we will miss you terribly, but knowing you are with the love of your life is far more important and that makes us happy for both of you and your family. God bless. u got mail. A big warm hello to bucs, georgie, leafs, ladybug, mamatiger, Iluv, Raoul and everyone else here...alot of new people WOW that's great..I have been reading lately but not posting much . I never was nor likely ever will be a philisophical type person with a gift for words like you guys. And I must admit my mind has been totally occupied with a very special person (Dave, Dave, Dave) LOL

tesaz

Joined: 11/17/2004

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What Are You Buying Your Sweetie Ffor Christmas...... Posted: 11/9/2005 4:11:26 AM
Forrest, what does CAS stand for ?

tesaz

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What Are You Buying Your Sweetie Ffor Christmas...... Posted: 11/8/2005 4:21:48 PM
Gee Ray........I wonder if yer tryin to tell us about the "engagement ring"....

tesaz

Joined: 11/17/2004

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What Are You Buying Your Sweetie Ffor Christmas...... Posted: 11/8/2005 4:18:11 PM
ah jetplague.......poor choice of words on my part,,,wasn't meant to come out that way

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