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 lee20berkshire
Joined: 10/19/2006
Msg: 13 (view)
 
What would u do?
Posted: 10/28/2006 6:59:47 PM
looking at it i do now know that i was waiting, hoping for miracle of her admitting something, i think i thought she would crack or something but she hasn't and never would. obviously quite skilled at it
 lee20berkshire
Joined: 10/19/2006
Msg: 12 (view)
 
What would u do?
Posted: 10/28/2006 6:56:21 PM
im not waiting for approval, but i always want to see the best in someone, so theirs this part just wanting her to admit it, i've confronted her with so much stuff and she can just stand their and say no she aint, but yeah i will end it, know im not gonna get anything from her and not gonna see anything for myself, which i think is reason i waited,just hoping i would
 lee20berkshire
Joined: 10/19/2006
Msg: 10 (view)
 
What would u do?
Posted: 10/28/2006 6:24:25 PM
thankyou, thats only reason i used this, its what i thought, but i only get told im over-reacting and as if i've got some kinda old fashioned views just because i think its wrong to say ur single when ur not, to me it says one thing, no matter what ur after, ur using that whole single thing just to pull them in, so least i know now what other people think.
 lee20berkshire
Joined: 10/19/2006
Msg: 8 (view)
 
What would u do?
Posted: 10/28/2006 4:17:28 PM
yeah thanks, i told her i found it, she asked for site address, she come back with, i never seen that site b4.if it was an old one i wouldn't be bothered but very ne cos of pics,and fact it said online today.
 lee20berkshire
Joined: 10/19/2006
Msg: 5 (view)
 
What would u do?
Posted: 10/28/2006 2:00:01 PM
i live away but soon moving to plymouth to be with her, so i was on here just looking to make friends and get to know people, and by total coincidence i just saw her profile right their in front of me, hard to describe feelong, heart just jumped out cos i had idea what it would say.
i would never create profile saying im single to draw people in, she does all the time tho as if its ok, that i could nearly deal with but not with stuff like "looking for fit military guy". Its just biggest coincidence i could ever imagine. Reason i wouldn't end it is cos i do love her so much but i do see the other side that everytime i suspect something then settle for her explanation im probably letting her get away with it
 lee20berkshire
Joined: 10/19/2006
Msg: 4 (view)
 
First Date
Posted: 10/27/2006 11:37:27 PM
yeah u wana do something that just shows who u are, how fun u are, and she can see u being urself, want something she'll remember cos of the laughin,etc, not because of the bill of the meal u took her out on, i think if money is involved, theirs pressure to make it better next time (which means spending more usually)
 lee20berkshire
Joined: 10/19/2006
Msg: 3 (view)
 
What would u do?
Posted: 10/27/2006 11:24:17 PM
thats what my instincts say and their usually right, but without solid proof i feel like i cant do anything, and if its anything to do with how she acts towards and interacts with men then she brings it down to fact that she's from up north, (where ppl r generally more friendly)
 lee20berkshire
Joined: 10/19/2006
Msg: 1 (view)
 
What would u do?
Posted: 10/27/2006 10:51:46 PM
just wondering ur view on these issues, (turning the tables) comment on whichever one/ones u want,thanks

What would u do:
1. If ur fella set up a profile, saying his single and looking for fit girls in military?

2. If ur guy was still texting an ex, who u know the relationship with was very sexual, and that this ex was making comments (that im my eyes) are unsuitable not only just cos their now ex, but now they actually know his with someone else.

3. If u suspected ur fella was cheating and got in contact with the "cheatee" and she said yes they slept together, but then ur man said she was "probably just bragging in front of mates"?

4. If ur guy went out to a pub with another girl ,supposedly as mates but didnt think it significant enough to tell u at the time, and not until months later.

5. If ur guy set up false profiles on things like this and various,more well known sites, with a fake age, marital status and stated they were looking for someone "who in real life" is half their age.

Yes these have all happened to me,lol, small world cos its on here she set up profile, relating to question 1 and 5, im stumped cos i just cant find out whether she's actually cheating, otherwise i'd end it right away if i had solid proof,but suppose this brings the whole internet "chatting" debate up, anyway, please tell me what u think x x
byyeee
 lee20berkshire
Joined: 10/19/2006
Msg: 9 (view)
 
confusing Male
Posted: 10/27/2006 10:16:41 PM
some people do it for attention to try to get a response, someone once sent a message to my fiance apparently from the friend of someone she vaguely knew, (but he really liked her) saying he had taken overdose, HAD died, and kinda pinned it on her rejection of him, next thing this bloke is alive and well and stupidly she forgave him, i personally never would if someone done that to me.
so yeah my guess, taking fact he is arranging these dates in first place into account, is that his seeing someone else
 lee20berkshire
Joined: 10/19/2006
Msg: 105 (view)
 
did women kill chivalry? what do we need to do to bring it back?
Posted: 10/27/2006 9:57:08 PM
yes they did, im all up for women have equal pay,etc, and i do hold doors open all the time for women, but why do i see women who want to be equal to men, but still expect u to hold door open, if they want equality, they'll join the shoving for bus, not expect a nice man to wait for her, they cant be some superior species who get it both ways.
 
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