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 Author Thread: Why do guys always do this to me? Does anyone else have this problem?...
 gemfun
Joined: 10/21/2006
Msg: 443 (view)
 
Why do guys always do this to me? Does anyone else have this problem?...
Posted: 7/13/2008 9:22:23 AM
Good afternoon sweetie,
I don't know how old you are, so am assuming that you are relatively young. Personally, I would be wary of anyone professing love within only a month of dating. Take is slow and get to know the individual, give space, less chance of being hurt or lost in the passion of initial chemistry.
Peace
 gemfun
Joined: 10/21/2006
Msg: 30 (view)
 
I am having an IS IT ME moment.
Posted: 3/31/2008 4:04:46 PM
No worries! We all have them from time to time. I like to pamper myself with a nice long bubble bath. Get some fresh air and dance, dance, dance!!!
Remember that it is totally marvelous to enjoy your own company as well as others. Wonderful to be single, much better than involved and un-resolved!

Life is what you make it.
 gemfun
Joined: 10/21/2006
Msg: 189 (view)
 
What to do when a guy says it's between you and someone else?
Posted: 3/1/2008 7:28:27 AM
Hi there. Just another opinion here. lol. It is only three dates sweetie, don't sweat the small stuff. You barely know one another, yet alone, have a relationship of any sort. You are both free to do as you please. He may have been a bit of a fool or egocentric, to phrase it as a competition. You are just at the stage of finding out what you want. If you don't want it, leave. No drama, No BS. Good luck, go forward.
 gemfun
Joined: 10/21/2006
Msg: 8 (view)
 
Age gaps in dating....
Posted: 12/1/2007 12:42:57 PM
Maturity, strength, honesty and compatibilty are much more important. Go for it and all the best.
 gemfun
Joined: 10/21/2006
Msg: 270 (view)
 
Women who love sex just as much as men: Is it a certian type?
Posted: 8/14/2007 2:22:33 PM
Oh my god, Darakko,

You must be a very lacking individual to believe what you wrote. Most women I know, myself included, are extremely sexual beings. Especially if attracted to the male physically, and even morseo if we care about the male on a deeper level.

More is never enough, yippee!!! The sharing is so intimate and beyond words. The excitement and release is divine !!! Only if there is hurt,with a particular person, does that change, in regard to said person.

Good luck learning, lol
 gemfun
Joined: 10/21/2006
Msg: 115 (view)
 
Revenge? Yes or No?
Posted: 8/1/2007 2:32:34 PM
Revenge can be sweet during the short term to appease our hurt souls. The best is to move on though, otherwise, we become just like those we are seeking revenge on. Good luck with your journey.
 gemfun
Joined: 10/21/2006
Msg: 5 (view)
 
music that evokes sweet memories
Posted: 7/29/2007 1:29:01 PM
okay
so I am losing it
this was not a song done by elvis or one of the brat boys, lol, or of that particuliar era,
done by animals, stones, zepp, creme
lol

whatever the point was comfort
 gemfun
Joined: 10/21/2006
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music that evokes sweet memories
Posted: 7/29/2007 1:11:21 PM
I posted this eh, because it seems to me, that of the lament on site,
anyway, I just wanted to be selfish, remember, that mating, is far from what love is about, some folk may think otherwise.
That song is especially, meaningfull, to me, for personal reasons, and althought, the folk that are behind it, aren't part of my life, they brought me joy.
Too easy or sometimes , natural to recall the negative, time to remember, that no matter what, we did love, and I hope, we were loved, and need to wrap ourselves in the joy that certain memories evoke.
Far to easy to remain or become bitter.
Just wanted share a happy thought.
 gemfun
Joined: 10/21/2006
Msg: 1 (view)
 
music that evokes sweet memories
Posted: 7/29/2007 11:35:31 AM
Hi everybody,

I love music, not a collector or artisit, but appreciate the personal meaning of verse and lyric.

I was just recalling some special moments in time, most involve music, and would love to know what evokes sweet memories for you.

I was listening to the house of the rising sun, done by many great artists, and brought a big smile to my lips. Not just because of the music, but, the connotation of those involved in those memories.

Sweetness to All
 gemfun
Joined: 10/21/2006
Msg: 5 (view)
 
Chemistry
Posted: 7/11/2007 7:54:46 PM
I agree with your take on chemistry. The woman ,most likely, as you had mentioned, was trying to be polite and let you know that she didn't think that she would be attracted to you. Hey, don't worry about it, at least she was honest. You can focus on better opportunities. Have a great day and enjoy your fishing.
 gemfun
Joined: 10/21/2006
Msg: 17 (view)
 
Coffee Night, Friday July 13, Cambridge/ K-W/ Guelph
Posted: 7/10/2007 2:43:33 PM
Hi WBB,

Just want to let you know that I appreciate your response. It sounds like a blast out there in Cambridge.
If I dont' make it there, I look forward to attending the next one here in Guelph in August.

Thanks again
 gemfun
Joined: 10/21/2006
Msg: 11 (view)
 
Coffee Night, Friday July 13, Cambridge/ K-W/ Guelph
Posted: 7/9/2007 10:27:13 PM
Hi Folks,

Not sure if this is appropriate, but was wondering if there will be another event happening in Guelph soon. I have never been to a pof event, but was told that they are fun and interesting. I don't drive so that is why I was inquiring about a Guelph event.

Thanks and chow for now
 fungem1
Joined: 10/21/2006
Msg: 5 (view)
 
Any POF events in Guelph?
Posted: 11/24/2006 9:25:03 AM
Thanks so much lovejr,

I will keep watching for events in Guelph. I work the 4 til midnite shift here in town and don't drive to boot. lol. Hence Guelph is where I am hoping to hook up with folk. Seems like these things would be interesting. Again, thanks so much. Have a really good time eh.
 fungem1
Joined: 10/21/2006
Msg: 1 (view)
 
Any POF in Guelph?
Posted: 11/24/2006 7:09:59 AM
Hello Folks! I am a newbie here and was wondering if there are any get-togethers happening in Guelph. Seems like a safe and fun way to meet good people. Have a grand day.
 fungem1
Joined: 10/21/2006
Msg: 1 (view)
 
Any POF events in Guelph?
Posted: 11/24/2006 5:12:32 AM
Hello Folks!

I am very new at POF. Was wondering if there are any get-togethers happening in Guelph. It appears to be a grand avenue of meeting people and having a bit of fun. Chow for now and enjoy.
 
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