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Joined: 10/22/2006

Msg: 186 (view)

Do you attract who you are? Posted: 11/11/2006 3:41:14 PM
Most of the adds I've read say they are looking for just that." I am looking for a male version of me" to me that can get stale after a wile, and maybe thats why we're all here looking again and again. How about we try smething different from our usual, stay open look for some one that is alittle different. Decide on the things you can't live with,: for me its smokers, and heavy drinkers, drugs, insencity, you get the idea, leave the rest to see if maybe someone diferent may compliment you. Some of the longest relationships I've seen are two people you would never expect together. Maybe there's something in that.

Joined: 10/22/2006

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who pays for dinner? Posted: 10/31/2006 10:44:11 AM
Theres no write or wrong here, she,s not any more a jerk then he is, she may want to rethink her dating habits and adjust them so this does'nt hapen to her again.

Joined: 10/22/2006

Msg: 492 (view)

who pays for dinner? Posted: 10/31/2006 10:40:27 AM
As we see everyone has a different opinion on this, and everyone is wright to have that opinon. I think that most of them are right on for them, except vigina lady,lol. I always pay wether its a date two friends male or female, because I like to treat, not out of obligation. I have rarly gone out with anyone that did'nt offer to pay, male or female, most peple play nice. If he had to ask you to pay, shame on you. We are not abligated to do anything unless specified in an agreement. If you wanted him to pay you should have asked him to or made sure the date went well enough that he would want too. It may have been a protest on his part we dont know. How about we get his side of the story, thats fair.

Joined: 10/22/2006

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how do i love or trust again? Posted: 10/30/2006 7:15:18 PM
trust isn't about lies, everyone lies, the question is, was it truely to shield you, or too decieve you, ther will never be a relatioship without lies. but you can have one without deciet. One big mistake people make in a relation is they look for lies to judge if they can trust. Then they see a small white lie and think this person is untrustworthy. If you ask a guy how dose this look on me, you can be sure he's going to lie to you, he'll never say that looks stupid or terrible or makes you look fat. He may think it but he's not going to say it, and it would be wrong for him to say that. If he loved you he would lie and tell you what you needed to here not what he thaught, he does'nt have any idea anyway, he's a guy. If you ask him how many beers he had to drink he'll lie, he's not going to say, i had 8 he'll say 2 or 3, if you ask him if he likes your best friend , he's not going to say, yeh she;s hot. He'd be an idiot, he may be thinking that but he's not going to say it. If he dose run. These lies are to keep you from feeling angry or bad about what ever, they're not ment to decieve. only protect. on the other hand if he says he's got to work late and is showing the new sexy lady at work a good time kick his ass and ask him what were you thinking. the guy that tells you the little white lies you can trust, he atleast wants you to feel secure. The guy showing his coworker sexpot a good time is an idiot kick his ass and don't trust him. and if you cant trust your mate you should'nt be with him. One more thing do'nt punish the next guy for something the ex did.

Joined: 10/22/2006

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Going back to her ex for the sake of their daughter........ Posted: 10/30/2006 11:45:43 AM
ben there , it dosnt matter what you do for her she is going to laeve because that what she dose, she has to find comfort in herself befor she can find it with you. he is just another pon in here surch for atention, untill she finds what she needs to feel good about herself, walk away, no run away, so you dont get caught up in it. She may never find what she needs and thats a long time to wate. go on with your life, as hard as it is at first it will get easier, do'nt sit alone you need people around to distract you and before you no it things are where they should be.

Joined: 10/22/2006

Msg: 131 (view)

did women kill chivalry? what do we need to do to bring it back? Posted: 10/30/2006 11:31:34 AM
write on,swifton women and men have to let eachother be themselves without all the criticizm, or the sudjestion of how the should act. lets just treat each other like we would if we were tring to bed the other down. the we would all laugh and enjoy life more.

Joined: 10/22/2006

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Meeting up with a casual guy friend, when you have a boyfriend? Posted: 10/30/2006 10:58:48 AM
email the guy ask if it would be alright to bring a friend, you can feel out his intent and he cant act with the friend there, you have an easy polite out.

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