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wanderingspirit

Joined: 11/20/2004

Msg: 23 (view)

What does a WILD person mean to you? Posted: 1/27/2008 4:22:36 PM
#18..I fully agree with you ...In my younger days I was wild lol....trust me I run into people I haven't seen in yrs and they introduce as being a wild woman. My mom looks back and tells me Nah you were just the typical teenager having fun . Yea I've done some pretty crazy stuff and honestly if I went back in time would do it all over again. Thing that is annoying tho is this: Yes I have harley tats, yes I hang with bikers etc..but the guys who are very shy, not spnateous seem to lean my way. Then they aren't willing to do fun things, because that isn't in them. I tend to shy away from the quiet, goody two shoes type of guy. Tried that with my kid's dad and talk about boredom. Not just outside the bedroom, but inside the bedroom too. I tend to lean toward a guy who is not a professional in the aspects of suit and tie daily. I like the guy who doesn't mind getting dirty, having fun on the spur of the moment, and can put up with my energy and my way of speaking my mind. I know what I want in life.,..If that's what makes a person a wild child..then I guess that would pertain to me also.

wanderingspirit

Joined: 11/20/2004

Msg: 39 (view)

dating a woman whos a had weight loss surgery???? Posted: 1/27/2008 4:01:34 PM
No one has said anything else in this thread...Update: I got approved for the lapband surgery..woohoo! Go in to see the docs on the 30th..and I can't wait. Haven't been skinny in 21 yrs...My Dad asked me what I looked forward to when I hit my goal weight...To play tennis again!! He laughed lol...He put a tennis racket in my hand when I was 6 yrs old and played everyday after til I hit 21 and my kid's dad didn't like the way guys looked at me...so made me stop playing. Well tough I can't wait to play again and work out again..yes I am excited Oh and Some Honest Thoughts: I've been skinny and I am heavy and no matter what my weight has been I love a man with bulk! Not the toothpic thin guys unless they want me to fatter them up with homemade cooking. I mean if a woman or man is heavy set and gets turned on by a certain build of the opposite sex...their interests don't just change due to weight loss.

wanderingspirit

Joined: 11/20/2004

Msg: 69 (view)

Are their any guys left who like chunky gals? Posted: 1/26/2008 8:17:05 PM
I am a thick woman and do I have a problem with it?? Nah. I honestly have dated some awesome guys in the past...to me they were drop dead gorgeous. But I find alot at this site that people are just too picky..am I one? In a way yea..there has to be some kind of attraction. But what really gets me is being a plus size woman, some guys that would most definitly interest me..hear the plus size and suddenly their not interested. What's going to be interesting is this...soon having the lapband surgery due to health reasons..and not from the weight either. I have degenerative spine and hips..so the weight hurts the bones. But going to be interesting to see if the sane guys that turned their heads when I am plus size...suddenly look in my direction if I get skinny. Honestly will want nothing to do with them. So to myself even at plus size ..and a pretty confident woman which scares some men lol have to be am a short woman. I feel I am just as sexy plus size and I will be skinny. It's all in how you feel about yourself. Beauty is inside..so is sexiness . I can go to a bar, mall etc and start a conversation with a guy and normally they wouldn't even look at plus size women, but we get talking and either go out or a friendship forms.

wanderingspirit

Joined: 11/20/2004

Msg: 1245 (view)

what is everyones opion on tattoos? Posted: 10/28/2007 2:10:16 PM
you definitly don't have any...mine are for special meanings in my life. You've missed making some wonderful friends too. I assume you've never stood in a line at the store etc and suddenly two people or more in front of you start complimenting the ink on the other person, start discussing the artist, the meaning behind the tats and alot of times the exchange of numbers to get together sometime. I agree tats aren't for everyone. Just like preppy clothes aren't for everyone. Everyone has a reason for doing what they do. Funny have dated men with no tats and when they saw I had them, ended up loving them, especially after hearing why I have them. I mean everytime I look in the mirror at my one back shoulder and see my brothers initials etc with things he loved and it brings back fond memories. He died of brain cancer 5 yrs ago and I added the tat from the money from his will etc. I would not ever regret having mine.

wanderingspirit

Joined: 11/20/2004

Msg: 58 (view)

Has Anyone Ever Been Interrupted By A Pet During Sex? Posted: 10/23/2007 5:29:48 AM
Once my ex was hinting for me to come in a ravish him as he says...He was laying on the bed spread eagle with his eyes closed. I walk in the room and here my dog started licking my ex's balls. My ex thought it was me til he opened one eye and I was standing there trying not to laugh...trust me he jumped and scared our dog and I had to start laughing outload...he was like wtf?? I was like" can't tell the difference" he had been drinking and that was his excuse lol..never happened again and the dogs had to stay out of the bedroom .

wanderingspirit

Joined: 11/20/2004

Msg: 29 (view)

No sex before marriage is impossible. Posted: 10/23/2007 5:18:51 AM
My folks have been happily married for 57 yrs this yr. I use to laugh at my mom when she'd tell me to wait til I was married for sex. Her explanation was that when y0u wait til you're married, then you don't have anyone else to compare to sex wise. I thought she was crazy....but now I realize she was right. You sleep with different men before marriage and I don't care if you deny this or not, but you have it good or spectacular with one person, you expect it out of the next person. You do compare. My daughter is 17 and is a virgin. She's been with her b/f two yrs now. They both agree they want to wait to be married before sex. As they say, there are other ways of curing the urge than having sex with someone. Plus if my daughter were to accidently get pregnant she wants to be married and have a education to take care of the child. I have even had my son's girlfriends tell me that my son tells them. "I'm dating you because I like being with you, but don't expect sex" The girls respect him for his beliefs and values on sex. I am surprised to say the least they haven't had sex, but I feel very fortunate also.

wanderingspirit

Joined: 11/20/2004

Msg: 73 (view)

he's just a sex partner..is that wrong? Posted: 10/23/2007 4:33:26 AM
you're fine with me and what you're doing. When I was younger before my ex. I had a best friend who was my FB. We were both clean, never had to worry about std's But if we went out with our group of friends and he showed any interest in another lady, or I in a guy, we ended it right there. Usually the guy I'd get involved with became friends with my friend and it was all good. Just because the other guy would know and usually understand. If you're going to have sex with another guy just for sex. Make sure the guy is clean and then you know it's safer than just hopping bed to bed. I stayed faithful in my marriage also.

wanderingspirit

Joined: 11/20/2004

Msg: 421 (view)

Bitch take this dick................. Posted: 10/23/2007 4:09:18 AM
I have had that kind of sex without the demeaning words. Where the bed is literally across the floor and clothes from the front door to the bedroom. We had this cool bedroom where we laid a throw rug on the floor and the bed was just on the rug. But then we'd start the "foreplay" wherever we had been. Go to the bar and rub against each other, flirt with each other, and talk dirty to each other where no one else heard. Nice dirty talk, not the whore, skank dirty talk.

wanderingspirit

Joined: 11/20/2004

Msg: 50 (view)

Do men ever stop looking for another woman? Posted: 10/20/2007 9:21:32 PM
I have been at this site for 2 yrs and yes even when I was married. My ex knew but also knew I love the conversation here and the friends I have made. Now what surprised me is this...I haven't met a man from here but from a adult site. Funny he was looking for that one woman. Started chatting to him 2 months ag0. I told him I was quiting the adult site due to that just wasn't me. Surprised the heck out of me when he replied he would quit too. I never asked him to , but that told me he was interested in me. He also goes offline to chat with me when we're both on. We're meeting face to face next friday. So randomstoic I have to fully agree with you your statement. Men will always look at women, it's in their nature. But there are men that stay faithful to one women due to they are into that woman. *thing was my ex husband it turns out was not looking at other women, but for a man...he now lives with one." I just wish I hadn't been naive when I married him and had seen he was using me as a cover up.

wanderingspirit

Joined: 11/20/2004

Msg: 38 (view)

dating a woman whos a had weight loss surgery???? Posted: 10/20/2007 9:12:29 PM
I have to reply to this one. .....I am probally one of the healthiest eaters you will meet. Was raised vegetarian, my friends call me a rabbit due to all the vegies I eat. I can buy a container of salt and it would probally last several yrs , same with oil. Up til a yr ago was cleaning 6 buildings alone 6 days a week. Now I am 5'1 and 250lbs. My doctor even says I am healthy and eat healthy. Why she's never pushed weight loss. A yr ago I had a hip injury so some weight has come on. I just asked her to refer me for the lapband surgery due to small frame with with the hip injury,arthritis, degenerating spine and fibromyalgia, feel I would be much better off with the weight off. I am have done jenny craig etc...doesn't work. The diet plans they want me on call for meat almost every meal. I am not comfortable with that. Also not a big cheese eater, fast food eater or anything. I guess my point is not everyone overweight is a bad eater.

wanderingspirit

Joined: 11/20/2004

Msg: 44 (view)

Disabilities Posted: 10/20/2007 8:56:41 PM
I have a damaged hip and tailbone. So have a hard time standing long or walking long distances. I also have some other medical probs. It's crazy when I tell a guy I have a hip injury the first thing out of their mouth is "You can't have sex then with a damaged hip!" Heck yea I can. When I was 19 I dated my best friend who was a qaudraplegic (spelled that wrong) he's was awesome! He couldn't have reg sex but tell ya what, he gave me some of the best orgasms of my life. I would have np problem dating a man in a wheelchair.

wanderingspirit

Joined: 11/20/2004

Msg: 145 (view)

Is there an age limt for women wearing jeans? Posted: 10/20/2007 8:45:11 PM
I am a white girl with a ghetto booty. I'm also short and plus size and I refuse to wear any kinds of pants that aren't jeans. I wear a size 20 petite. Now my best friend is 5'4 and 356lbs..I bought her a pair of jeans. Trust me she looks much better in jeans than wearing those stretchy pants that creep up the ass and see all those dimples. I don't wear dresses and honestly I don't think I even have one to wear unless it's packed away somewhere. I prefer black jeans and yes I use those to go out in. I also wear dark blue jeans. Now heavy girls in hip huggers or stretchy light colored jeans..nope or ones without pockets. It's not necessarly the size of the woman wearing the jeans, it's the fit they have. I have seen some of the skankiest women in jeans and have a skinny body. Now trust me, waiting to go in for the lapband surgery. When I lose my weight, trust me I'll be back in the button fly 501 jeans. I even told my family, bury me in jeans...they were like no we'll dress you up. Not hardly, even my friends and kids say they'll dress me in my jeans and leathers. Go the way I am comfortable with. Not going to ride a harley in heaven in some darn dress lol

wanderingspirit

Joined: 11/20/2004

Msg: 74 (view)

If someone offered you money to marry them to get their citzenship..would you??? Posted: 10/20/2007 7:56:56 PM
I belong to some other single sites too...I had 2 guys write to say hi, I went to read their profiles and it stated, willing to transfer immediately for relationship. They were from europe. 1: just telling me they'd up and relocate like that 2: wouldn't want to be stuck with them, 3: No money is worth the hassle. 4: after watching a good friend try and come from canada to be with his wife. She had left canada to work in california. She was a us citizen. They had been married 12 yrs in canada. It took him 5 yrs to get permission to move to the states.

wanderingspirit

Joined: 11/20/2004

Msg: 202 (view)

Weight and Sex Posted: 10/9/2007 11:36:06 AM
Skinny or heavy I walk around the house in tanks and jeans with no bra. I will be comfortable. But shopping I do put a bra on. So either size I am ok with...but what scares me the most when I do finally go to bed with a man? My cpap machine. I am more self concious about that than my body.

wanderingspirit

Joined: 11/20/2004

Msg: 344 (view)

Bitch take this dick................. Posted: 10/9/2007 11:32:05 AM
I just like to play lion tamer...I growl and he slips me the meat

wanderingspirit

Joined: 11/20/2004

Msg: 279 (view)

Do women really get abused as much as they say or do they make it seem worse then it actually is? Posted: 10/9/2007 11:23:45 AM
Man I wish I could say I made it up....getting a divorce from a man who in the last 8 yrs called me a stupid ass C on a daily basis, let's see You are nothing, you will never be anything, you are a stupid ass C that can't even think. //Shut the ** up//shut your f'ing hole up///go yourself//You wouldn't even be able to keep a job, because you'd fail, you'd get fired because you just don't know how to in think//You're a failure as a mother//your folks are slum ( my dad is a minister)/ you know nothing, and think even less// it's my way or the highway// You put me in jail you , you're lying, I never gave you a black eye, the cops doctored the pictures//This is my in house, not your **in house, and you will do as I say//This isn't your home ( told that to my kids all the time) even went as far as telling them we'd find ourselves out on the streets and she'd have to sell her body.// well that's some of it, in 8 yrs he dragged my son down the stairs and left a hand print, he went to jail. Why did I stay then? Because he was ordered anger management, alcohol counseling and things seemed to get better, then 3 yrs later he gave me a black eye..he went to jail for a month. We tried marriage counseling, seemed to so so work, so tried again...now this yr was the final straw and I finally had enough after he shattered my house, busted my computer, cut the tv wires, refused to let me use the phone...yea one window is held together right now with duct tape. Got a second ppo on him and he will not ever come back. Divorce has been filed. The cycle stops this yr..I was beat as a kid, beat by boyfriends etc...got diagnosed last yr with stress and anxiety disorders..go figure. Also post traumatic depression. I now have the meds to help and that's what got me on my feet, got my head on straight and started saying no...yes right now about to lose my home, electrical might be shut off tomorrow, no car,,go to court tomorrow for alimony. So this too shall pass...might be stressed out but not going to let it kill me. My time is coming. I know I am a good woman and will make it. Life has been hard , but it's made me a stronger person. He's gone and the drama is gone, and my life is peaceful for me and the kids. That's what matters most now.

wanderingspirit

Joined: 11/20/2004

Msg: 180 (view)

Weight and Sex Posted: 10/2/2007 3:04:15 PM
Now GUYS are the ones that have to worry. -body hair..(Myself I love a man with a hairy chest etc, can't stand it when guys shave it off.) -pecs turn out to be funny shaped man boobs( have more sex and work those pecs out..excercise in a fun way) -woman was only looking for a 12 incher :P (Ouchie!..I don't want a pinkie but 12 inches would hurt!) -etc

wanderingspirit

Joined: 11/20/2004

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Election 2008 Posted: 10/1/2007 12:52:55 PM
Heres my results...I knew I didn't like Obama, or care for Hillary. Plus due to being busy with starting college haven't taken much chance to catch up on the elections. But some of these people I have never heard of lol...but was nice to see their views and know theres more choices than Hillary and Obama Quiz Results Below are the candidates ranked by how much you agree with their stances. Rudy Giuliani Score: 39 Agree Immigration Taxes Stem-Cell Research Abortion Social Security Line-Item Veto Death Penalty Disagree Iraq Health Care Energy Marriage Dennis Kucinich Score: 34 Agree Iraq Immigration Stem-Cell Research Health Care Abortion Line-Item Veto Disagree Taxes Social Security Energy Marriage Death Penalty Bill Richardson Score: 34 Agree Iraq Immigration Stem-Cell Research Health Care Abortion Death Penalty Disagree Taxes Social Security Line-Item Veto Energy Marriage Jim Gilmore Score: 31 Agree Taxes Abortion Social Security Marriage Death Penalty Disagree Iraq Immigration Stem-Cell Research Health Care Line-Item Veto Energy Joe Biden Score: 29 Agree Stem-Cell Research Health Care Abortion Social Security Death Penalty Disagree Iraq Immigration Taxes Line-Item Veto Energy Marriage John Edwards Score: 29 Video Agree Immigration Stem-Cell Research Health Care Abortion Death Penalty Disagree Iraq Taxes Social Security Line-Item Veto Energy Marriage Barack Obama Score: 27 Video Agree Stem-Cell Research Health Care Abortion Line-Item Veto Death Penalty Disagree Iraq Immigration Taxes Social Security Energy Marriage Hillary Clinton Score: 27 Agree Stem-Cell Research Health Care Abortion Line-Item Veto Death Penalty Disagree Iraq Immigration Taxes Social Security Energy Marriage Mitt Romney Score: 27 Agree Taxes Stem-Cell Research Abortion Marriage Death Penalty Disagree Iraq Immigration Health Care Social Security Line-Item Veto Energy Mike Huckabee Score: 26 Video Agree Immigration Social Security Marriage Death Penalty Disagree Iraq Taxes Stem-Cell Research Health Care Abortion Line-Item Veto Energy Fred Thompson Score: 24 Agree Taxes Social Security Marriage Death Penalty Disagree Iraq Immigration Stem-Cell Research Health Care Abortion Line-Item Veto Energy Duncan Hunter Score: 24 Agree Taxes Social Security Marriage Death Penalty Disagree Iraq Immigration Stem-Cell Research Health Care Abortion Line-Item Veto Energy Mike Gravel Score: 22 Agree Iraq Stem-Cell Research Health Care Abortion Disagree Immigration Taxes Social Security Line-Item Veto Energy Marriage Death Penalty Chris Dodd Score: 22 Video Agree Stem-Cell Research Health Care Abortion Line-Item Veto Disagree Iraq Immigration Taxes Social Security Energy Marriage Death Penalty John McCain Score: 20 Agree Taxes Social Security Energy Death Penalty Disagree Iraq Immigration Stem-Cell Research Health Care Abortion Line-Item Veto Marriage Tom Tancredo Score: 19 Agree Taxes Social Security Marriage Disagree Iraq Immigration Stem-Cell Research Health Care Abortion Line-Item Veto Energy Death Penalty Sam Brownback Score: 19 Agree Taxes Social Security Marriage Disagree Iraq Immigration Stem-Cell Research Health Care Abortion Line-Item Veto Energy Death Penalty Ron Paul Score: 18 Agree Iraq Taxes Line-Item Veto Energy Disagree Immigration Stem-Cell Research Health Care Abortion Social Security Marriage Death Penalty

wanderingspirit

Joined: 11/20/2004

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Election 2008 Posted: 10/1/2007 12:48:45 PM
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wanderingspirit

Joined: 11/20/2004

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What age bothered you? Posted: 9/30/2007 9:22:28 AM
I use to clean libraries ...so being a avid bookworm was in my glory. I found this magazine called MORE. It is a magazine for women 40 and over. Even the ads are woman 40 and over. I showed this to my doc and she was like..wow bout time they made a magazine like this. I started reading it and even subscribed to it. It shows how much fun over 40 can be and the life changes that happens. Honestly guys if you ever see this magazine give it a peek. It's not like a cosmo etc but real enlightening. Now they need to make one for 40 and over for men. With the life changes which I am making all at once right now..if I was under 40 I would've been freaking out etc...but I am ok with the changes and even my friends have noticed my change in attitude.

wanderingspirit

Joined: 11/20/2004

Msg: 383 (view)

whats with women and harleys? Posted: 9/29/2007 5:33:26 PM
Hey Chivo..thanks for the history lesson...seriously :) I knew that Harley was out in 1903 but didn't realize they had clubs back then. Funny and I have several history books on Harley Davidson. I know they were used alot in the military also. You're right too on owning a bike. I myself prefer harley..also have had a Triumph. But I also like the Honda Shadow. If I was looking for a bike more affordable that would probally be one of them. The other I have been looking at is the Ridley due to no foot shifting...reasoning, I have a bad hip and would let me enjoy riding without the pain in the hip. I guess because of the Harleys I am more picky also. I don't like owning any of them after 1984. When married we had a 1973 Sporty XLCH and a 1965 Electraglide which he was rebuilding with all original. Am I taking the harleys in the divorce? Nah..even tho the electraglide was bought with both our money...the XLCH he had before we got married but lowered it for me. Otherwise rode ****. Honestly I like that due to I can enjoy more in back and look and enjoy. Plus I love to relax against the man and breathe in the leather and him. When I do own another I want a 55 panhead or 48 panhead. Due to I don't think I could afford a nice knuckle even if I found one lol...tho that would be orgasmic to say the least to own.

wanderingspirit

Joined: 11/20/2004

Msg: 374 (view)

whats with women and fashion? Posted: 9/29/2007 9:21:25 AM
you say I don't comprehend...point is, to pinpoint your thoughts and to not be more opened minded is sad. Why ban? why is that such a big word for you to use. I'm sure glad you're not a moderator for a couple of the forums I run, you'd be banning everyone. Also when you call a Harley lover and rider white trash, you wonder why you would get hit etc Actually, I don't wonder that. What I wonder is why I didn't get hit. From the looks of the guy, he'd kill anyone who insulted his dog. Did he so much as threaten me? Nope. Hey, maybe he was just borrowing that Hells Angels jacket. wow what the biker did just went over your head. Maybe he was being the adult and you the smartassed kid. People change. That should've shown you that just because they have a Hells Angels MC Leather that their not packed and going to shoot you in your tracks. And most of those women are old. Damn I must have been real old when I first said I wouldn't ride anything but a Harley. Said that the first time my brother put me on one when I was 13 yrs old. Wow old kid there. 41 and still hold true to what I said. Lucky you. You aren't "most". Oh, wait a minute, how old did you say you were again? 41? Nevermind. Wow another over your head and comprehensions. 13 to 41 yrs my feelings have been consistant and not fickle like some out there. My folks taught me one thing in life. Even if a person is only 1 yr older, they have that extra year and have experienced more and always something to learn from them Honestly your answers are reminding me of my 15 yr old son being beligerant and not speaking as a adult but with the mind of a 15 yr old. Your walking up to the HA biker and running your mouth as you did was true adolecent, like my son thinking it would be cool to stand on the nazi side instead of the neo-nazi side to see what would happen. Not always is ignorance bliss.

wanderingspirit

Joined: 11/20/2004

Msg: 1142 (view)

Mail order brides Posted: 9/29/2007 8:35:19 AM
Actually I can..called a large dolly. Have one downstairs in the basement, and a almost 16 yr old son who will help me. you still have a male (albeit a younger one ) helping you there by your own admission you know males - designed by nature to be stronger larger etc and do those sorts of things Yes I did admit it...my point is tho, up til this last two years, I didn't have even him to really help. Just called doing what you gotta do. Trust me God was no dummy when he made man the stronger of the sex physically. He made it for man to protect and provide for his family. But there are alot of men, not saying all that don't believe that or want to do it. I had one ex boyfriend that did these things for me. Long story but we both messed up in the relationship. But when it came to being the man of the house, he had no problem if I went out to do laundry when the kids were sleeping to get up when I came home and bring the laundry up the stairs for me. I never had to ask. There are men out there like this. When a woman finds them she is very lucky. For example...I have two best friends that have been married for 10 yrs this yr. John treats Tammy like gold. He never raises his voice. Only did once to her in the 10 yrs. He's the man of the house and takes care of business. Tammy is his wife and he lifts thins heavy for her etc. I would never undermine that in John. They got in some financial problems...(their the nice people that people will screw over) I have a opportunity to be coming into a good amount of money in Oct. I could walk up to John and say here John..the money to get you two out of this bind. John would never accept that and I would never do that due to it would demean him as the man of the home. Do I plan on helping them? Yes but with sitting down with John and working out how he can pay back etc...but this way he still has his pride. I guess my point to this is that Tammy is very lucky to have him. Their a couple that will always be together. It's a given. Alot of women this day of age have been raised to be self sufficient and not depend on man. That's not what was in God's plan. If women were to see that a man can be there to relieve the stress that women put on theselves they'd find alot of good men out there that would love to physically take care of a women. Since I have been single male friends I have had in the past are coming out of the woodwork to help. I most definitly appreciate it and they know this. Grew up with 7 brothers and they took care of the protecting of the family and lil sis. In some ways I don't blame some men for not helping due to their so use to having a woman throw it in their face that they can handle it on their own.

wanderingspirit

Joined: 11/20/2004

Msg: 372 (view)

whats with women and fashion? Posted: 9/29/2007 8:12:19 AM
As for the women I know many women who would not be caught dead on a rice burner. And most of those women are old. Damn I must have been real old when I first said I wouldn't ride anything but a Harley. Said that the first time my brother put me on one when I was 13 yrs old. Wow old kid there. 41 and still hold true to what I said. One thing some of you don't understand and I know some do...if that the love of Harleys (whether they make Buells etc big frickin deal) is that the love stands true, doesn't change, your bike doesn't cheat on you, most relaxing thing to do, Called loyalty, commitment, and true belief in something. Harley's are not about going fast, they are about American Style, Freedom & ingenuity. Really want American Ingenuity? Look to other American motorcycle companies, like Rokon, Polaris(makers of Victory Motorcycles), and Buell(now owned by Harley). The Freedom you feel when riding has got to be the most dishonest emotion in the history of the planet - you are literally more restricted when riding than in any other mode of transportation. You have to be, otherwise you could lose an arm or a leg. Or end up in a wheelchair. Please..that's like saying "geesh homer, you ride that bicycle you can't look around you, and keep those hands on the handlebars because you could get hurt and find yourself in a wheelchair from wiping out..could kill you. you watch the scenery around you on that bicycle and could hit a tree, wipe out on the gravel or hit a car" Now I personally have done more damage to my body on a Bicycle than a Harley anyday. Had two teeth rebuilt from trying to ride a ramp over a boulder as a kid. Had skinned knees, cut chin you name it. Kids and adults can think their invinsible on a damn bicycle because it's doesn't have a motor. On a Harley...only been injured twice..once burned myself on the pipes and two was riding with a friend on a bike being chopped and in our minds a wheelie would be a blast. Tore myself open when the brackets were lose and ripped my open..but hey I still didn't whine and would do it again. I have nearlly been killed several times by cars, horses, etc than a Harley Oh those nice lil riceburners that younger women like? Why don't you ask the young lady and her boyfriend who I watched go flip,flip, flip and get killed how that speed was fun, and sitting high up in the back of the bike felt. More young people get killed on those damn riceburners than any other bike. You don't see them gunning it at over 100 miles per hour on Harley now do you? Oh how about the young man I saw on a rice burner passing the gas station I was at and didn't see a couple newly engaged walking around the street in the dark and when he saw them put on the brakes and flipped forward and landed on them and they all slid 100 feet and killed. Oh the motorcylist lived. But he has to live with it. Sad but true. Also when you call a Harley lover and rider white trash, you wonder why you would get hit etc...well walk down Detroit and call a African-American the "N" word and tell me you wouldn't get beat or shot.

wanderingspirit

Joined: 11/20/2004

Msg: 282 (view)

Bitch take this dick................. Posted: 9/28/2007 9:21:36 AM
adventure doesn't mean being degraded. I like softcore bondage, but it's a trust thing, being degraded too..there would be no trust there. Theres always a limit to how far to go in "adventure"

wanderingspirit

Joined: 11/20/2004

Msg: 1135 (view)

Mail order brides Posted: 9/28/2007 9:19:07 AM
Check my status, I am single too. Which means I do it all. Imagine that, a woman not needing a man to do anything for her. so you are more than capable of carrying a 100 + pound refridgerator up a flight of stairs by yourself ? Actually I can..called a large dolly. Have one downstairs in the basement, and a almost 16 yr old son who will help me. I would die to have a man help like that, but the last two I had in my life wouldn't. My parents have been married 57 yrs this yr and my mom was a stay at home mom. But on weekends my Dad would help her around the house, make sure the lawn was mowed til I got old enough to do it. But the man I am divorcing now wouldn't mow the lawn, pick his beer bottles up off the floor, when our dog was a puppy and would have a accident and I was at work, the jerk left it there for me til I got home. My neighbor comes over and mows the lawn, shovels the snow etc for me..even when the husband lived here. I don't want a man to support me but for once would be nice to have one work with me. I worked 6 days a week to cover for what the jerk paid in child support. So while I worked 6 days a week and paid the groceries,the utilities etc and was suppose to clean the house alone too. He didn't have the high child support til we got married. The ex girlfriends were mad because he got married to someone else but them. Trust me my life is much more peaceful now with him gone. Just if I ever find a nice guy willing to help in the home, I wouldn't even know how to handle it.

wanderingspirit

Joined: 11/20/2004

Msg: 176 (view)

the first date and he wont respect your pet Posted: 9/28/2007 9:06:29 AM
I met a guy from here and we're still friends etc...but when he came to my house to meet for the first time, my dogs loved him. Well they loved him so much they tried to hump each other in front of him...my dogs are male! Since then one of them has been fixed...but when I told my friend I was getting Chuko fixed..he laughed and said "Why? you have gay dogs! " Been a ongoing joke now and he impressed me with how well he handled it that even my teenage son who is normally shy, came down and talked with us...

wanderingspirit

Joined: 11/20/2004

Msg: 23 (view)

What's up with this sense of entitlement in our society? And can it be reversed? Posted: 9/27/2007 5:37:29 PM
I have a friend who will be 50 next yr..til this year I listened and put up with ranting. But not anymore and she's wondering why I won't talk with her. I've been friends with her 20 yrs. She feels the world owes her..they owe her for not trying in school and so can't spell , but then she's dyslexic and the dyslexic institute won't even help her. So she feels the educational system failed her. She feels like no one is there for her because their not waiting hand and foot on her. One reason I won't answer her calls now, she has the week off but wants me to come over and clean her house. I have medical problems which makes it hard to work on my own all the time, but she feels because I am not working right now have all the time in the world. She's seperated from her husband and been for a yr but feels he's obligated to support her, even tho she kicked him out. She's upset that she got cut off from food stamps, even tho she has no kids with her and feels the state owes her. She's a major pothead. Instead of spending money on food, she smokes it up. She's upset because I have kids to take care of and for the first time in my life can't work and thinks it's unfair the state will help me and not her. She smokes pot and then her utilities get shut off and can't understand why her family etc won't help her pay them. She wants to find a man who will support her fully and not have to work. Damn I would die to be working right now! Why I am taking online college to get a new career because like hell will I live off the state the rest of my life. I was raised old school ways of Man works and women takes care of the home and my first marriage expected it, because how I was raised. But then reality sets in and wow! Made some mistakes but learned from them too. I have raised my kids to be independent and told them I will not support them when their adults. Friends think I am harsh when I tell my kids I will not raise their kids, but enjoy them. I have raised mine and I owe them nothing more than being a supportive mom, but then I gave my yrs and it's my time. The world does not owe them or me a damn thing. It's called survival. I guess I have just gotten to the place in my life where I get tired of hearing the " it's owed to me" Sorry to rant but this is a touchy subject. Oh I do have a workman's comp lawsuit going, but my hip was damaged in a fall and can't do my reg job anymore. But I will find a way to work also.

wanderingspirit

Joined: 11/20/2004

Msg: 5 (view)

Could someone give me some advice? Posted: 9/27/2007 5:20:49 PM
you're definitly not a sports fan lol no offense Actually if you go to a bookstore that sells magazines you can get TOPPS or other sports memorbilia magazines that can tell you prices on cards from gently handled to brand new quality. They also have information to where to go to find out more information.

wanderingspirit

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Msg: 14 (view)

F*ck i died in my dream, mean anything?? Posted: 9/27/2007 5:17:10 PM
Sounds like you have recently lost someone. Also that you have a fear of dying. Also partly confusion on where your life really is going and how will it end. Being 24 as I saw in your profile is a confusing time in your life. Shows you are into computers, is this something you want to do the rest of your life? Have you recently lost a relationship and wondering if you're bound to die alone. You also mention your friend being married and having a kid, sounds that's what you want and maybe feel your life is passing by too quickly. You don't pass away from arthritis but can from lung cancer. Just sounds like right now you're really confused where you're life is going.

wanderingspirit

Joined: 11/20/2004

Msg: 274 (view)

Bitch take this dick................. Posted: 9/27/2007 4:50:28 PM
I don't say it like that..My quote is Mom and wife in public..mistress in the bedroom now talking dirty is fun at times, but only to a certain extent. I've been know to say ***** me hard, etc " but when it comes to the other words etc like cnt* etc I draw the line. My ex came over a couple weeks ago due to he wanted to talk and see if we could work things out instead of filing for divorce. He actually said " I was hoping to come over and boink your brains out" Well he's still the ex and will stay that way. Theres times of talking raunchy and times of talking sensual.

wanderingspirit

Joined: 11/20/2004

Msg: 366 (view)

whats with women and harleys? Posted: 9/27/2007 4:38:32 PM
you are sheltered ..no offense but it's obvious you have been. Cross the border from Ontario into Detroit , MI and just walking down the street you could get the same threats. Don't have to be a HA to threaten someone. You can be a lil old lady and still threaten to shoot someone for calling you names etc. Just reality and not just in the biker world.

wanderingspirit

Joined: 11/20/2004

Msg: 358 (view)

whats with women and harleys? Posted: 9/26/2007 4:14:53 PM
The thing is you are pinpointing only HA. Organized crime is everyone. You get more killings from gangs than you do from HA. Trust me I live in Michigan. Just in the last month and 1/2 14 women have been killed here and not one of them by a HA. Yes HA is in michigan now. The wife beating bit came in with you pinpointing only HA as organized crime...maybe in the 70's but not in this era. Yes people fear HA, and yes they can kill as can other people. Not just HA is in organized crime. I know history of organized crime...my friend Mickey Carrolle has told me stories of his godfather Al..you sort that one out. Organized crime is also in politics. If everyone in this world were to just pinpoint organized crime on HA...this would be a small minded world. Go back to the movie easyrider...captain america, HA is one of the starting bike clubs of the MC world. I have friends with many different clubs, but just to attack one club is absurd. Is this personal...no? But just stating my point of view as are you. If you can't handle a debate then go back in the closet.

wanderingspirit

Joined: 11/20/2004

Msg: 143 (view)

What age bothered you? Posted: 9/26/2007 3:22:01 PM
started this thread awhile back...nice to read the replies...by this time I am 41 lol and man has this last yr been a ride. Never realized how after 40 you start re-evaluating your life, and right now I am making major changes. Can't believe 40 bothered me..after I got over that hump..finding out being 40+ can be pretty amazing.

wanderingspirit

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Msg: 356 (view)

whats with women and harleys? Posted: 9/26/2007 1:52:08 PM
and Bush hasn't had how many of our soldiers killed? He's sent more americans over to be killed than any hells angel has....and just because some rides with Hells Angels and saying their killers is the same as saying all Italians are killers because their associated with the mafia...please even world politicians have their skeletons. Also would be like me saying sturdavint that you're a wife beater and so are other men because I have dated 1 guy that was...or that if a parent is a alcoholic that all their kids will be too. The mentality of some just surprises me at times.

wanderingspirit

Joined: 11/20/2004

Msg: 354 (view)

whats with women and harleys? Posted: 9/26/2007 12:49:52 PM
First off where did you hear from me or badboy the word cool??? Also if you think harleys and bikers are losers..you must be one of the biggest contributers to President Bush. Also check history on HA..Out of all the bike clubs, they are one of the most charitable bike clubs there is. Maybe you should check into things now than open your mouth on something you obviously know nothing about. Talk about people judging a book by it's cover.

wanderingspirit

Joined: 11/20/2004

Msg: 352 (view)

whats with women and harleys? Posted: 9/26/2007 12:38:46 PM
damn you brought back memories lol...I remember back in the 70's when everyone was terrified of bikers..especially HA ! Remember being 7 yrs old and seeing HA's riding past and my folks telling me to hide in the floor of the back seat. I was like No..and had my face to the window saying" Cool someday I am going to do that!" Dad being a minister was horrified to say the least lol I had a friend with the Oakland Chpt..Lucifer told me "HB I would love you to ride with me, but I would be fighting all the time due to you're a mouthy italian, you would have to shut up and just ride and that's just not you" lol I guess a couple yrs ago his son finally got initiated into the club. My best friend in the 70's was a HA ****..story in itself. I love the freedom, I love knowing this bike is american as much as I am. I had a guy say Hi at a store I worked and he saw my leather...jokingly said "oh you're probally one of those women who like the harleys but know nothing about them " As he walked away I just said 4 words and it stopped him in his tracks instantly. The words I said "Suck,squeeze, bang blow" baby..he was like you know what that is?? I said it sure isn't in the sexual context most think of...1927 JD babe...needless to say his attitude changed lol

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Msg: 158 (view)

Weight and Sex Posted: 9/26/2007 12:26:20 PM
lingerie...oh one addiction here lol I have dated guys where my friends are like what do you see in him? I just asked well what did you see in your man? My daughter likes skinny scrawny guys..myself I like a lil extra on them. I have a baby belly and like most women are self concious..I asked my ex how he could look at my body with my belly the way it was...he was like huh? I see boobs! never paid attention to the belly lol...after that I was like more comfortable with myself and started wearing things that enhanced the parts he liked the best.

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Msg: 159 (view)

the first date and he wont respect your pet Posted: 9/26/2007 12:18:45 PM
With me comes my kids and my dogs. Actually when I look at a profile I look to see if the person likes pets or not. I had a ex b/f show up this last weekend...he heard I was getting a divorce. He asked to use the restroom and saw then I had my "boys" and turned me to and said "you still have the dogs" I was like yea why wouldn't I? He figured the dogs would go with the ex..Hell no, these are my dogs. I rescued them and they stay. I also look to see if the guy has dogs that would get along with mine, due to if things worked out I wouldn't expect him to get rid of his pets and wouldn't get rid of mine. I have a 100lb american bulldog and a retriever and both are slobbering idiots. If my dogs like the guy..then he passes the first part of the test. Dogs are a good judge of character.

wanderingspirit

Joined: 11/20/2004

Msg: 156 (view)

Weight and Sex Posted: 9/26/2007 12:08:43 PM
Been reading this thread and figured read it all before replying. I have been tiny..and now I am plus but carry this weight real well. The pic on the profile well it's like 9 yrs old lol..don't like my pic taken.But like I told my daughter time for new ones I guess yuck! I'm very sexual and very much into touch. Honestly can walk faster and be more active than some men out there in shape. My ex was 6'1 and in shape and he had a hard time keepin up with me. lol I was talking to a friend the other day who is also plus size...that when I was tiny had no problems with getting a job, meeting men etc. But funny I am plus now and the men who would attract me bigtime don't even want to look my way due to size. Well I'm going in for lapband..for health reasons and for myself. Honestly the men who wouldn't even look twice at me at the size I am now...but would skinny. Their not worth the time or effort honestly. I met one guy in person from here, absolute sweetheart and like he and I said "pics here don't do a person justice" Pictures don't always tell the true self of a person. The genuine people are the ones willing to give the person a chance than just brush them off. Now on the otherside yes physical attraction is a strong point, God made it that way. But doesn't mean that a person you're not attracted too sexually couldn't be the best friend you wish you had.

wanderingspirit

Joined: 11/20/2004

Msg: 349 (view)

whats with women and harleys? Posted: 9/26/2007 11:29:49 AM
If you have to ask...you just wouldn't understand. One shirt I have says "my vibrator has two wheels" Funny I don't like convertibles but you put me on the hog and I am a happy camper. Just total freedom and clears the mind better than anything else I know. I've even been known to fall asleep on one outside of the bar while my ex was bouncing. Being short it's perfect to just lay back against the tank and take a nap. Also with me it's not just the harley..but the family attitude that comes along with it. Like my favorite quote is "Harley Riders are a Dime a Dozen, Bikers are a Rare Breed" Just my lifestyle...part of a close knit family.

wanderingspirit

Joined: 11/20/2004

Msg: 76 (view)

BEER Posted: 9/26/2007 11:18:43 AM
Favorite is Corona with lemon and salt...friend told me I needed to try that new CHILL due to lime and salt. YUCK! talk about a waste of money. Otherwise prefer my Miller Lite and if short on change Miller High Life Lite. Use to like my Bud Ice..but the old stomach after too many biker parties chooses the lighter beer now lol Oh I did have the chance to try Bad Frog Beer and yes it was very good. A friend still has a un-opened bottle of it.

wanderingspirit

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Msg: 106 (view)

Are Single Moms Hypocritical When It Comes To Dating Single Dads? Posted: 9/26/2007 11:06:10 AM
I just re-entered the dating world. Do I have a problem with single dads? Depends on these things: 1: Already divorcing a man with 3 kids that he pays child support for. I have literally had to work my ass off 6 days a week to make up for his paying child support. I guess I don't want to be stuck in this situation again. I shouldn't have to wear myself out to take care of someone financially because of their child support. I already have 2 teens I have raised without child support, so don't need the extra burden. Now if the man works and helps with some of the financial obligations and not just expecting me to support them..that's a whole different story. 2: Also I am spoiled on the fact my kids are 17 and almost 16. They can make something to eat if their hungry, they know how to entertain themselves. One reason I had kids at 24 and 26, didn't want to be a older parent like my folks are. Now if the man has teens , I can work with that..but not wanting to raise a lil child again. I have raised a ex b/f's sister, she is now 24. I have other kids that call me Ma, but the difference is they can go home too.

wanderingspirit

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Msg: 23 (view)

FLINT OR LANSING MEET AND GREET Posted: 9/17/2007 12:31:42 AM
live in lansing myself.

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Msg: 9 (view)

Wake Up and Smell the Cat Poo Coffee Posted: 8/23/2007 7:53:42 PM
still doesn't make me what to drink it...thank goodness I wear vanilla instead of musk lol

wanderingspirit

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Msg: 20 (view)

Children and public toilets Posted: 8/23/2007 3:03:59 PM
Fully agree with ya there. Alot of malls etc are equiped for mom and kids. 7 yrs old my son with with me and my daughter in the women's bathroom. Their now 16 and 15 ( and yes for the smart alecs..they go on their own ) Alot of public restrooms are larger and have more room to move. Like heard said...there are stall doors for privacy. If it is the men's room and he's alone, stand near the door and tell your son to use the closest stall to the door or urinal so he can be heard if he needs help.

wanderingspirit

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Msg: 1 (view)

Wake Up and Smell the Cat Poo Coffee Posted: 8/23/2007 2:57:59 PM
I think I'll stick to my Folgers tyvm Wednesday August 22, 2007 Over the last 10 years, Australians have embraced coffee in all its forms, but they have saved the most expensive - and weirdest - for last. The latest craze in the booming coffee scene down under is for Kopi Luwak - a different kind of brew all together. It is made in neighboring Indonesia from coffee beans excreted by native civet cats. It is apparently the world's rarest and most expensive coffee, painstakingly extracted by hand from the animals' forest droppings. When roasted, the resulting beans sell for around £182-a-pound. The brew, described as earthy and syrupy, is acknowledged by connoisseurs as one of the world's finest. Australia's first civet cat brew has only just gone on sale in Queensland state, selling for £20 a cup at the Heritage Tea Rooms, west of Townsville. "Everyone calls it cat poo coffee," cafe owner Michelle Sharpe told the Australian Associated Press. "People who willingly pay the $50 (£20) are uplifted by the thrill of the experience," her husband Allan Sharpe said. Civet cats, considered a delicacy in China, are linked to the SARS respiratory virus that emerged in the south of the country in 2002 and spread globally. Around a dozen people a month reportedly try out the exotic brew, with reactions so far 99% in favour. "It's as good as my private life is bad. This is the kind of coffee you renounce your religion and sell your child for," one taster told AAP.

wanderingspirit

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Msg: 7 (view)

Motorcycle question Posted: 8/22/2007 7:19:16 PM
Basically depends on what kind of experience the rider has riding the springer. The springer has a tendency of feeling the effects of a bump harder than other harleys. Due to the back brakes are touchier than the front. Really have to grip harder on the front brakes. Now you get someone riding it not experienced and also no knowing the bike, yea they hit a hard bump they can end up anywhere ..more experienced riders that have ridden like the '48 or the newer springer and know what to expect when it comes to bikes and bumps...will know how to deal with it. Honestly I'm 5'1 and would die to a old 55 panhead or a old knuckle. I personally won't own a bike after 1984.

wanderingspirit

Joined: 11/20/2004

Msg: 37 (view)

Plenty of Fish People Sightings Posted: 8/22/2007 4:55:23 PM
Back when I was in the cleaning business was working at the gym at MSU. Well low and behold I saw a guy I had seen here. He was a nice looking man but when I had read his profile sounded petty..even to saying how he runs his cooked meat under water. Well stood there unnoticed listening to him talk to a worker there and honestly he fit the profile he wrote. Glad I never tried to send him a message lol

wanderingspirit

Joined: 11/20/2004

Msg: 6 (view)

Can romance in a relationship last through the whole relationship? Posted: 8/22/2007 4:47:39 PM
My folks have been married over 55 yrs. My mom told me once" Ang be a mom/wife etc out of the bedroom, but in the bedroom be the mistress" Keep the stress etc out of the bedroom. I guess if their still close as ever thru raising 3 boys and me, then they must know what their talking about when it comes to keeping a marriage.

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