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PurryBastet

Joined: 10/25/2006

Msg: 137 (view)

Songs you must dance to Posted: 8/12/2009 9:43:55 PM
Shake That Ass - Eminem (the language is ...wow.... but it's got an awesome beat) I Like the Way... - Bodyrockers Guaranteed to get me off my chair! :)

PurryBastet

Joined: 10/25/2006

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All this pulling of weeds cannot be healthy for lawn Posted: 8/8/2009 6:02:26 PM
EarthPuppy, Stillunraveling...I was only half-kidding about counseling. As you pointed out the Lawn Industrial Complex would have us believe we are failures if we do not attain that perfect green mat. All I can say to that is 'amen'. That is my philosophy exactly.

PurryBastet

Joined: 10/25/2006

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All this pulling of weeds cannot be healthy for lawn Posted: 8/8/2009 5:59:49 PM
...and after reading all these long posts, I still maintain my stance that people are still far too obsessed with their lawns! I guess you could say that I'm a simple, hick gardener, who truly believes that adding all these chemicals is really NOT necessary! I thought I should at least throw in a comment or two from the other side of the spectrum as I think it's good to know all options. If there's one thing I've learned, there's more than one way to do things, and I won't say that my way is the right way, just another way. On a very fundamental level, we are hurting our ecosystem with all the chemicals and minerals to try and amend our soil to grow what WE want. One very strong example is the decline of our bees - and yes, no one has conclusive evidence to say what exactly causing the decline in bee population, but it is known that using any pesticide is not good. Here in British Columbia we are moving away from pesticides all together (it is expected that they will be banned completely within the next 5 years). Instead, we are now being educated and encouraged to use the Integrated Pest Management system. Granted, IPM will still recommend the use of some pesticides as a LAST resort if all other methods fail, but thus far in the landscape industry, more often than not, problems are solved by simple means, such as keep your plants healthy and they will be less likely to attract pests and disease, and if pests are present, let nature run its course because pests will attract predators, and most importantly plant plants in the right place, based on their water needs, pH needs, and light exposure requirements. Ironically, in order for me to have my gardening ticket (I work for one of the cities here in the Lower Mainland), I was required to get my Pesticide Applicator Ticket, yet I work in an Organic Demonstration Garden and am not permitted to use pesticides. The garden is doing just fine with no chemicals. I also have a lawn in the garden, but it's full of weeds, and with keeping it cut, and edged, people have been surprised to see that even a 'weedy lawn' can look nice. On a basic level the truth is that for all the work you will put into amending your soil, the soil will always revert back to its original state and you will need to amend continuously to maintain your preferred pH level. That sort of takes the fun out of gardening in my opinion - you're operating a chemistry project more than anything. Of course none of what I have just said will give you a lush, flawless lawn, which is my point. Is a pristine lawn really that necessary (aside from bowling greens and golf courses)? As I said before, it's all a matter of personal choice, but it's good to know all options.

PurryBastet

Joined: 10/25/2006

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All this pulling of weeds cannot be healthy for lawn Posted: 8/7/2009 10:26:43 PM
Cynical, I've taken the time to read through your message and you have some interesting and valid points. Since you are a man who knows his stuff with regards to turf maintenance, I would like to run a couple of items past you: It makes sense that thatching would not be the first choice, but I was taught in some cases it is necessary to remove the dead plant material to deter disease and fungus, and that in some cases aeration is not as effective in doing so. As for length of cut - again, I see (and agree with your point), but the theory behind cutting to 2" is again to allow for aeration, the theory being that the longer the grass, the harder for the grass blades to stand erect, effectively creating a green mat. And I needed to make one little point... "Purry_Bastet, while I found your post to be quite educational for the average homeowner..." I thought that is what I was doing I'll be the first to admit I would be a disaster working for a Golf Resort in greens maintenance :) Looking forward to picking your brains some more. Cheers, Trish

PurryBastet

Joined: 10/25/2006

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User specific advertising on POF Posted: 8/7/2009 6:36:51 PM
Thanks Ryan! Doing that right now.

PurryBastet

Joined: 10/25/2006

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All this pulling of weeds cannot be healthy for lawn Posted: 8/7/2009 6:18:44 PM
Cynical, Good post. I need to make a cup of tea and spend a little more time reading it... But good point regarding the Glyphosate! All I can say on my part is 'duh'! As a point of curiosity, did you know it's explosive if you use galvanized metal? Nice, eh?

PurryBastet

Joined: 10/25/2006

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All this pulling of weeds cannot be healthy for lawn Posted: 8/7/2009 6:13:09 PM
Washiz, I had two choices: either stay silent and let this fester in me, or just come right out and confront you with my issue with you. I chose the latter. Why are you so negative towards the posters on these Forums? I have a story in my head that you're not very happy and you are lashing out at us. If that is true, I am sorry for your hurt. My issue with you is this: your posts do not make me feel good. And you might laugh at the simplicity of that comment, but I suspect I'm not the only person who feels this way. Your comments are very condescending and hurtful. With regards to my postings, yes, it is true, I enjoy talking about gardening and sharing what I know. It's what I do for a living. And please forgive me if my ego shines through in my words, because yes, I do have an ego, and anyone at any time is welcome to call me on it. Sometimes I need my bubble popped. What is a Forum if we can't all have an opportunity to share our thoughts and ideas. That is why this is called an OPEN Forum - everyone is welcome to jump into the conversation. If you want to have a private conversation with one other person, or even a select few people, then I recommend Emailing them on here. Thanks. Trish

PurryBastet

Joined: 10/25/2006

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User specific advertising on POF Posted: 8/7/2009 6:03:05 PM
Hmm.... interesting. Okay, thanks guys. That at leasts answers one question.

PurryBastet

Joined: 10/25/2006

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Introduce Yourself Here.... Posted: 8/7/2009 5:56:28 PM
Hello all. My name on POF is Purry Bastet, but really, you can just call me Trish. I was on POF about 2 years ago. Since then I've experienced a whole lot of life, and well, here I am again. I'm not looking for anyone or anything specifically. I'm just here to be a part of it all and keeping my mind open. Anyone into gardening?

PurryBastet

Joined: 10/25/2006

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User specific advertising on POF Posted: 8/7/2009 5:48:19 PM
There's no secret, I'm a BBW - anyone with eyes can see that. And while I'm not entirely happy with my current physical state, until I decide to make a change, that is who I am and I am fine with that to an extent. However, I've recently noticed that when I log on to POF, and view my profile, suddenly all the ads change to BBW dating ads. I don't find it pleasant to have "BBW BBW BBW" flashed in my face. A thought occured to me: if someone else views my profile, and because I have toggled the "BBW" flag, will those be the ads they see as well? Call me oversensitive, but I think that's a tad bit tacky. What do you think?

PurryBastet

Joined: 10/25/2006

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All this pulling of weeds cannot be healthy for lawn Posted: 8/7/2009 6:43:24 AM
Wazhis, overseeding will help but you can only do that in the Spring or Fall. Late September is when one would want to overseed. For anyone who is interested, here are some further details: The best time to renovate lawns is in September. The next best time is in early Spring. When purchasing grass seed (or Sod), you need to determine what sort of conditions your lawn is growing in: Wet? Acidic? Shady? When purchasing grass seed, always check to see what type of grasses are in the package. You should always purchase packages that contain at least 4 grass types. If the grass types are not listed on the package, do NOT purchase it! Now I can't speak for all areas, but for those who live in the Pacific Northwest, always try to get a mixture that contains Kentucky Blue grass and Creeping Red Fescue. These two grass types are most hardy for our area. If you live elsewhere, call or visit your local nursery for advice. BEWARE Creeping Bent Grass! You do not want it in your lawn!!! FERTILIZING It use to be that people would fertilize grass in 5 applications throughout the year. This is no longer necessary. If you use a mulching lawnmower, you are actually adding nitrogen to your lawn via the clippings that are composted back into the ground and your lawn will be much greener. If you use a mulching lawnmower, you will only need to fertilize your lawn twice a year: MID-FALL (late September/early October) you will want to add high potassium or pot ash to your lawn. The potassium gives the grass winter protection, disease resistance and general good health. Then again once in LATE FALL (end of October/early November) with a slow-release, high nitrogen fertilizer. This fertilizer will lie dormant as longer days with warmer temperatures (approx Feb) are required before it begins to release. This fertilizer should last until about June, when it will then be receiving nitrogen again from your mulching mower. FERTILIZERS As you most likely know, when you purchase fertilizer, there are three numbers on the package (eg: 20-20-20). These numbers indicate the percentages of the MACRO NUTRIENTS that are contained within. The first number indicates the NITROGEN level (nitrogen makes plants green), the second number indicates the PHOSPHORUS (phosphorus encourages root or flower growth, depending on the time of year it's applied and the growing stage of the plant) and the third and final number indicates the POTASSIUM (potassium gives plants protection over the winter, disease resistance and general good health). 20 - 20 - 20 : This is a general, all purpose fertilizer (kinda like a multivitamin for the plant) 5 - 15 - 5 : Encourages the roots to grow (the "15" indicates that this mixture contains 3 times the amount of phospherous). Good alternative to bone meal. 15 - 30 15 : Encourages flower growth - but only if the plant is already going into flower! It will not MAKE a plant flower. (the "30" indicates twice the amount of phospherous) 30 - 10 - 10: Encourages the plant to be greener (the "30" indicates 3 times the amount of nitrogen) THATCHING THATCH is dead grass root system which came the the surface looking for water (serious thatch means that the lawn had been improperly watered). MAT is debris that was left to decompose on the surface of the soil (usually a result of improper raking). Mat will prevent water from penetrating the soil. The longer you leave thatch & mat, the more you increase your chance of getting disease and insect problems (they prevent the lawn from getting light, and the roots from getting water). If you have a serious thatch & mat problem, you may need to over-seed (after de-thatching). Dethatching also helps new roots to grow (thus encouraging healthy growth in your lawn). You should only thatch once a year (if required). The time to do it is in Spring. NOTE: Always dethatch before leveling & reseeding. AERATION This is necessary when grass is compacted (not growing very well). Because of the compaction, the soil is not getting any oxygen and thus inhibiting the growth of the roots. Aerate ONLY if the ground is compact (in other words, make sure it's not a thatch/mat problem). The time to aerate is in Spring, though you can also do it in the Fall if your lwan has been compacted (lots of traffic) over the summer. Also note that you will either aerate OR dethatch (not both). MOSS There are 3 conditions that moss requires to grow: 1) low pH 2) shade 3) wet soil (poor drainage) SOLUTION: Honestly, don't grow grass in this area or just accept that you're going to have moss! Yes, you can raise the pH level, which will remove the moss, but you will have to do this continuously as nature always reverts back. If you want to do this, you can top dress with horticultural sand, which alters the pH enough to temporarily remove the moss. Another solution is to remove the source of the shade and/or improve the drainage of the area - but as time has proven, moss will always ultimately win. MOWING Before you begin mowing your lawn, be sure that your blades are very sharp! A dull lawnmower blade will stress out your grass plants (by hacking/crushing instead of a clean cut). You should cut your lawn to 2" all season long, but in Fall, cut to 1.5". When you cut your lawn for the last time in the year, cut it down to 1.25" as we get a lot of rain during the winter, and long grass blades will topple over and the grass will have a hard time rising in the Spring. This also helps prevent insects and disease from setting in. So in essence, Wazhis is correct. If you build up the health in your lawn, you will have less issues with weeds. Trish

PurryBastet

Joined: 10/25/2006

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All this pulling of weeds cannot be healthy for lawn Posted: 8/6/2009 11:01:43 PM
Hey StillUnraveling et al, Please forgive me for I'm about to step up on the soapbox here. thunk ahhhhh... :) I want to start off by saying that lawns are seriously over-rated. People obsess over their green spaces and will do almost anything to ensure its lush, consistent colour without the pock marks of weeds. The amount of chemicals and water used to do this is just incredible (not to mention all the time and labour invested). Would it shock you to know that grass itself is a weed? Is your lawn worth the health of your family, your children your pets? Okay, enough of that. I'm done with the very opinionated portion of my message. Now for the advice part. Weeds are sometimes indicators that your lawn is lacking something. For example, creeping buttercup is an indicator that your lawn has poor drainage. You can continuously pull them out, or amend your soil to allow for better drainage, thus bringing the weed down to control. Moss grows where it's either shady, wet and has a low pH. That's why people lime their lawns (FYI horticulture sand will do the same thing) - to increase the pH and effectively remove the moss ....for a while. Unfortunately you cannot permanently alter the natural state of your lawn and the moss will grow back, and you will have to repeat it all over again. Hand-pulling is effective, but can be very tiring and painful if you have a large area to cover. You do not need to pull the entire weed out (root and all), and this is the reason why: The plant(weed) stores its energy in the roots. The plant makes energy through the leaves. When you rip the top off a plant, it stops making food for itself and must rely on its stored food to regenerage. Rip the plant's head off 3 or 4 times, and it will die because it can no longer sustain itself. I know - you're thinking "3 or 4 times?! I want it done the first time!". Well, if you try to rip it all out, you will always inevitably leave some root behind and the weed regrows anyways. RoundUp (which is seriously overused and misused) also only kills the top portion of the plant, leaving a thick root behind to regenerate. So any which way you look at it, you will be visiting those weeds more than once to remove them. Or..... you could just leave them in your lawn. gasp! Seriously - is it so bad to have weeds in your lawn? Dandelions are great for lawns. They have huge tap roots that bring up minerals from further in the earth than the grass' shallow roots can reach. Plus many weeds (such as dandelions) are good early polination source for bees, which we are losing at a rapid rate! My own personal motto is "Bees before esthetics" - but it's really up to the individual in the long run. So in summary, I say let the weeds stay, keep it mowed to 1.5" (if you need a green space), otherwise dig it up and plant a garden.

PurryBastet

Joined: 10/25/2006

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Needy Neighbor ... how can I say no Posted: 8/6/2009 10:33:48 PM
I agree with the bartering system. Simply put: everyone's time is valuable and you should not feel aprehensive in asking for her assistance. It's hard to stand your ground, but it's well worth it! Mind you, I like the spilled Coke idea... or the (what was it?) sharp snap sound followed with a long "oh". Seriously though my friend, if you keep giving in, she'll keep calling. It's up to you to stop it, or work things to your liking so everyone's happy.

PurryBastet

Joined: 10/25/2006

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Inspired by the Garden/Garden of Inspiration (eclectic) Posted: 8/6/2009 9:46:16 PM
The very first time I met you, I knew that we had met before, a very long time ago. I wanted you then, As much as I want you now, But I had to wait to become The person that I am now So that I can appreciate you much better.

PurryBastet

Joined: 10/25/2006

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Inspired by the Garden/Garden of Inspiration (eclectic) Posted: 8/6/2009 9:45:16 PM
The Magic Within Words in me that won't come out -- phrases and ideas, that bubble up from the well of emotions that spring within me. From places I thought no longer existed, places I thought long dead, but are now warm with life and tingle under my breast and flush up to my cheeks and surround me with a glow that breaks the icy shroud that has surrounded me for so long. This touch of life, the touch of magic That I once remembered from so long ago. How alive I feel! And to see in your face a sense of awakening From a dark slumber that hid the light from your eyes. But now a sparkle is once again there and the magic that was hidden for so long flows out from within you so that even you cannot deny its existence any longer.

PurryBastet

Joined: 10/25/2006

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Inspired by the Garden/Garden of Inspiration (eclectic) Posted: 8/6/2009 9:42:22 PM
Spring's flowers have come, and now they have gone. On the windy horizon, we Three stand alone. The waning days of Summer have come at last, No time for mourning for the days of past. Bring in the harvest, the bounty of seed, The Great Mother gives us all that we need. Prepare for the night when the veil is thin, And long gone friends and family will ask to be let in. The Lord redies Himself for His leave, (while our preparations are made) For He will sleep when the white shroud is laid. Now my Sisters, the time is near, The wind is whistling change for all to hear.

PurryBastet

Joined: 10/25/2006

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3rd Annual POF Labor Day Party -Redneck style Posted: 9/3/2007 9:08:10 PM
By the way, that Sweet Onion & Broccoli salad was EXCELLENT!

PurryBastet

Joined: 10/25/2006

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3rd Annual POF Labor Day Party -Redneck style Posted: 8/30/2007 10:19:09 PM
Ok...VERY last minute decision here, but I am going! I'll be leaving Delta at around 4pm Friday afternoon and I'm willing to carpool - I have my own vehicle, so if you're looking for a ride, let me know. Fish Fancy can vouch for me....I'm not a psycho ;) If you need a ride, send me an email on here. I'll be checking my mail during the day. YaHOOOOOOOO!!!!! Totally looking forward to some serious goodtimes! Trish

PurryBastet

Joined: 10/25/2006

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Collection of? Posted: 3/21/2007 3:00:56 AM
Since my late teens, I've been collecting hedgehogs (figurines, stuffed animals, pictures, blankets, towels), esentially anything with a hedgehog on it. There is a story/explanation behind it, and if anyone cares to know, I'd be happy to share. Right now my latest craze is collecting symbols. I'm quite interested in studying symbolism and what it means to us today, what it's meant to us in the past. They're every where, but it's amazing how little we pay attention to them, or even know what they mean. They can be on a church/temple, used as a corporate logo, tattooed on someone's arm, or grafittied on a wall. I think it's important that we know what we see. What's scary is that there are some really benign symbols that we tolerate, but in fact represent something much more sinister. Some of the skinhead fraternities come to mind. Alternatively, there are symbols which ARE benign,but have been given a really bad rep mainly due to lack of understanding or misusse. Eg: the pentacle, the swastica. So, if you have seen or you have a picture of a weird symbol, and you're not sure what it is, send it over to me! If I don't have it logged, it would make a great addition to my collection and I would be happy to share with you what I know about it! Cheers, Trish

PurryBastet

Joined: 10/25/2006

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Wandering posters...roaming the forums Posted: 3/20/2007 11:08:12 PM
Hey Rocks.... socks and sandals are cool. I personally like boiling eggs and picking daisies.

PurryBastet

Joined: 10/25/2006

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Learn to Run in N.Delta, Partner(s)? Posted: 3/20/2007 10:56:20 PM
Hey Bonnie, I'm in North Delta too and very much interested in being more active. I would love to learn how to run properly... but I must warn I have NEVER run (as in jogging)... I walk a lot, but given my current physique and all, I've been somewhat inhibited about joining a run group. I noticed your original post was from back in September - how has it been going for you? Have you been able to go running much with all this weather?? Cheers, Trish (aka Bastet)

PurryBastet

Joined: 10/25/2006

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Introduce Yourself Here.... Posted: 3/14/2007 11:37:53 PM
Howdy! Born in Vancouver and have lived in the Lower Mainland all my life. I have travelled somewhat across Europe (Germany, Holland, Austria, Russia, England), but amazingly enough not much across North America (which is something I would like to do). I love to garden & have been studying horticulture. Hey spring is almost here!!!! Woohoo! I'm getting back into my artwork - not exactly sure what my niche is yet - playing around/experimenting with different things, but mostly I enjoy painting. I also love to do cross-stitch. Would like to get involved in more outdoor activities like hiking, inline skating, biking, swimming... heck, I'll try anything once! I also love to dance. As I said on my profile, just looking to find people to 'hang out' with and make some new friends. I'm not in a big rush to get into a serious relationship. I find that I really like to take my time and to get to know people first and let the friendships evolve. ANYone is welcome to write me (male or female). If you're looking for a friend to 'hang with', drop me a line!!! Cheers, T.

purrybastet

Joined: 10/25/2006

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MARCH 10 NORTH VANCOUVER DANCE LET’S DO IT AGAIN !!! Posted: 3/13/2007 12:41:06 PM
Ugh... I've been hacking and sniffling away too I hope I can get rid of this bug soon...I'd love to go to the ABBA/Fleetwood Mac thing... but not if this cough doesn't go away first... B.

PurryBastet

Joined: 10/25/2006

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MARCH 10 NORTH VANCOUVER DANCE LET’S DO IT AGAIN !!! Posted: 3/11/2007 11:05:56 PM
Yes, it was a fun night and a very successful one too by the way all those fishies were packed in the Mosquito! First time in a VERY long time for me to go out to a social function. I spent most of my time outside (I was a little daunted by the HUGE group - needed to get use to it all) But I did get inside a couple of times to dance to some great tunes. Great band! Thank you to the organizers for the wonderful time that was had by all. It was so nice to be at a function with such a diverse group of people! BTW...Sher....sorry again for making you wait!!!!! Hope you got home safely Cheers! Bastet

PurryBastet

Joined: 10/25/2006

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MARCH 10 NORTH VANCOUVER DANCE LET’S DO IT AGAIN !!! Posted: 3/5/2007 10:56:54 PM
Well, it'll be my first POF meet, and my first 'meet' in a very long time. Wrist band are an excelent idea! I'll be brining a friend along...so two for the show, please. Bastet

PurryBastet

Joined: 10/25/2006

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Proverbs Posted: 2/14/2007 10:52:17 PM
This is one I hear quite often: Every pot has its lid.

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