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 Author Thread: Conversation during sex
 Hopesangel402
Joined: 10/30/2006
Msg: 58 (view)
 
Conversation during sex
Posted: 1/7/2008 12:18:08 AM
I Know Exactly What the OP is Describing, its taking Sex to a Whole New Level of
Intimacy. It's being so Comfortable with Your Partner, That The Dance of Love and Passion goes to a Spiritual Level!!! Having been in a 3 Decade Plus relationship, there is Nothing Like it!!!! I don't think that there is anyway that this Dialog could ever interupt the act of Love Making, it could ONLY Enhance the Passion and Sensuality.

In No Way is this Degrading, its speaking the Lanuage of a Love that is Nutured.
It is a True Form of Becoming ONE with Your Partner. Its Erotica at its Very Best.
I Hope to One Day have that Kind of Love Again!!!!
 Hopesangel402
Joined: 10/30/2006
Msg: 124 (view)
 
Would like to know if anyone is dating.
Posted: 1/3/2008 10:43:32 PM
Yes, I have met a few Men from this site!!! Nothing Serious as of Yet!!!
Sadly, I have experienced some Men, that lie about their ages.
The Older One's say they are Younger, and the Younger One's are
putting that they are Older. Ergo, it was enough to get me too add
on too my Profile about it!!! Best of Luck to Everyone!!!
 Hopesangel402
Joined: 10/30/2006
Msg: 32 (view)
 
love the feeling
Posted: 12/2/2007 1:09:33 AM
skyhugs Excellent Post!!!!!

After being married for 31 years, I know in my Heart that True Love
Does' Exist. Throughout our Marriage there were always' Surprise's
for each Other!!! Flower's, Love Letter's, Gift's, Get Away's,Pranks.
This Behavior should NEVER STOP. I also was married to My Best Friend.
I think that is the reason there are so many Failed Marriage's, is because
people Stop Appreciating Each Other.
Yes, there are always' times when you wake up, and think what a Jerk,
or maybe he is thinking what a Biotch. And That is OK!!!!!!
Yet, deep inside you know that you can Count on that Jerk to be there
through anything that you need them for. As he can Count on Me.
We Loved Together and Played Together!!! When You Love Someone
with all of You, You are able to overlook thing's that are not that
important!!!! Why Sweat the Small Stuff!!! It's not about who is
Right and who is Wrong, because
we are a Couple that has become ONE!!!! I used to meet him at the Door
Totally Naked, after 30 years of marriage. He used to Surprise me with
some of the most Amazing Thing's Himself, after 30 years of
marriage. Our Sex Life Never became Boring, because it was so
Important to US to keep that from Happening!!! It was Important to
Keep that Part of US Alive!!!!! Also the Fact that we were also PlayMates
we would take Trips and Play and Find Adventure. We would do things's
right in Our Own Yard, that would be Fun and Playful. I fell in Love with
him Over and Over. As he did with Me!!! We also were Always able to
Laugh Together, and Hold the Other when one of us were Sick. Humor
was a Huge Part of Our Marriage. If people would put as Much
Effort into their Marriage or Relationship's as they do their Work.
It would Stay Wonderful!!!! So I am For The WHOLE PACKAGE!!!!
I would NEVER SETTLE FOR LESS!!!!
 Hopesangel402
Joined: 10/30/2006
Msg: 64 (view)
 
Crackers in Bed... Would you give them the Boot?
Posted: 12/2/2007 12:14:17 AM
I think that this has been Hilarious!!!!! Although its Quite Funny!!!
It is also Something that I would never Consider to be enough to
give someone the Boot Over!!! It is so minor compared to so many
other thing's that could destroy a Relationship. I would have to
really care a lot about them, if they were sharing my bed. I can't imagine
some Crumb's ending a Relationship, when there are feelings for each
other. Also I can't stand to feel anything on my Sheet's at all!!! Especially
Sand!!! Its just to0 easy to shake the Sheets and Clean up in the Morning!!!
 Hopesangel402
Joined: 10/30/2006
Msg: 7 (view)
 
Karma
Posted: 11/29/2007 5:36:04 AM
I am Sorry about your Pain!!! I Strongly Believe that Cheater's Cheat Themselves' More Than Anyone Else. I Do Believe That We Reap What We Sow!!! Or Karma as some call it!! It's Very True that What Goes' Around Come's Around.
I am sure that you will never Cheat Again, now that you know the Heart Ache and Pain that it Causes!!! Best Of Luck!!!
 Hopesangel402
Joined: 10/30/2006
Msg: 20 (view)
 
This might be in the wrong section, but here goes....
Posted: 11/28/2007 1:05:54 PM
I am very sad to see that Ah huh deleted her profile. Although it
does not Surprise me at all!!!! Her post was a cry for help, if I
ever saw one. Compassion people, is that so hard?? God Bless
those that were kind, there was not a lot of that. Empathy is
also something that most of you should practice. My only
Hope is that she is able to find what she needs too help her
through this, elsewhere. Some of YOU Self-Righteous people
on here, need to learn not to punish someone that is Hurting.
It would be nice if some of you would think, before you insult
and cause more Damage to someone that reached out in
Obvious Pain and Troubled.
 Hopesangel402
Joined: 10/30/2006
Msg: 58 (view)
 
Why are women so protective about their 'number' (of sexual partners)?
Posted: 11/27/2007 1:20:00 AM
m_church HELLO!!!! Do not Stand in Judgement of me!!! The Past is the Past and it cannot be Changed. That is why it's called the Past!!!! You have no idea whether I am
easy or not........................ And its none of your Damn Business!!!
However to make such a assumption only proves why most women would not tell!!!
Sadly Your a Shining Example of a A$$ that would Judge. You just did!!! Just by a Statement!!!! YOUR IMMATURITY IS SHOWING!!!
 Hopesangel402
Joined: 10/30/2006
Msg: 55 (view)
 
Why are women so protective about their 'number' (of sexual partners)?
Posted: 11/26/2007 9:51:41 PM
Speaking for myself only on this Subject, I think that you are Wrong. Its not about losing the guy at all. I for one would not want a man that would feel that a Number was that Important. As long as there are no Disease's, it's really NO one's business.
The Past is what it is, and it cannot be changed. Also the Double Standard is beyond Disgusting!!! While the guy is hearing What a Stud, he has left behind a number for a woman and himself. Reality is, nothing is ever gained from this Knowledge.
 Hopesangel402
Joined: 10/30/2006
Msg: 52 (view)
 
Women Love Sex More Than Men Do
Posted: 11/24/2007 10:10:41 PM
WOW I have to wonder where this information came from. I have never known of it to be hard to find a MAN that knows how to make Love and use Seduction. Yes, I Love Sex, and find that there are STILL men that know the Art of Making Love!!!
 Hopesangel402
Joined: 10/30/2006
Msg: 59 (view)
 
Would you date a NASCAR fan?
Posted: 11/24/2007 9:53:05 PM
I am a NASCAR Fan!!! I am not glued to the TV for every race, but I love Racing and have since I was a young girl. Although after seeing them live, right there in the Great Seats, it lost a little flare on TV. Yes, I would date a NASCAR FAN!!!
 Hopesangel402
Joined: 10/30/2006
Msg: 59 (view)
 
Can sex keep you in a relationship?
Posted: 11/22/2007 11:02:42 PM
Yes, I believe that Mind Blowing Sex, can cause someone to Stay in a Relationship.
Not Forever!! if that is all there is too the Relationship, and You can't get along, or agree on matters that are Important!!! I will admit though that I would Never Stay in a Relationship if the Sex was not Great!!!
 Hopesangel402
Joined: 10/30/2006
Msg: 5 (view)
 
Deleteing my profile
Posted: 11/17/2007 2:09:06 AM
God Bless Both of You!!! I am Very Happy for YOU!!!
 Hopesangel402
Joined: 10/30/2006
Msg: 38 (view)
 
He is friends with many of the women he has had sex with. I don't get it.
Posted: 11/16/2007 7:07:45 AM
I really don't see the Problem here!!! What kind of mentality is this, that after your no longer having sex with someone that you were with, that you should not be Friend's??
This sound's so High School!!!!
 Hopesangel402
Joined: 10/30/2006
Msg: 70 (view)
 
What do you do when you are bipolar?
Posted: 11/15/2007 3:55:13 PM
I find it necessary to Strongly Disagree with wodehousefan2 !!! She clearly does not understand the Bi- Polar Illness. To compare this to a Broken-arm these will heal is so far fetched and also to say that Bi-Polar's deserve no Sympathy is so Sad and Harsh.
After working with People that have this Condition, for many years, I do Strongly Sympathize!!

At this time there is no known cure for this Disorder and it is usually Genetic. This Illness needs medication, and it does take time to find the right medication and levels.
It is true that most will stop their medication, and this is NOT something that should be done, without Talking to Your Doctor!!!! There are several Medication's that can be Tried and do Work. Every Individual is different pertaining to Medication.

I would like to recommend that Support Groups are Available and are Highly Effective in Helping you to cope. Also talking with your Doctor in therapy sessions, is Highly Recommended. Also adding Fish Frequently to your Diet is a fairly new approach that is working very well.

Some Good News about this Condition is that People with Bi Polar are Highly Creative and can turn some of the Negative's into many Positive's. Exercise is also helpful, unless it become's compulsive. Working on Stopping the Compulsive Behavior is also Highly Recommended. There are many way's to do this.
Another Positive is that a lot of Bi Polar's are also very Talented, and can find outlet's that way. Hollywood is full of Bi Polar Personalities'.

I do Sympathize with All of You that have this Condition, and know that it's a Struggle at time's. Life handed this to You, and it was nothing that you did to get this in 97% of Case's. However Strong Drug Addiction's can Contribute to this also. Yet that is rarely found to be the case. I also suggest Hobbies' and Relaxation Tape's. Find thing's that you love to do, and focus on them. Also know that You Are Special Just the Way You Are.
 Hopesangel402
Joined: 10/30/2006
Msg: 10 (view)
 
Need help! when it comes to girls..
Posted: 11/15/2007 1:37:21 AM
Hey Elimccl Great Advice!!!!!!
 Hopesangel402
Joined: 10/30/2006
Msg: 87 (view)
 
Do You Judge People By How many People they Have Slept With??
Posted: 11/14/2007 11:46:57 PM
Its so easy to be Tested, and that should be the Main Concern!!!
Nothing is gained by answering a Question about your Partner's,
except More Question's!!!

If I recall correctly it's Only God's Job to do the Judging!!!!!
 Hopesangel402
Joined: 10/30/2006
Msg: 29 (view)
 
Why is it so hard to admit. . . .
Posted: 11/14/2007 7:43:52 PM
Thank You Friendlyldy!!! I Agree with Your Post!!!!
After being married 31 years, and sharing a life as a Couple.
Yes, I can admit that I Truly miss that in my life. We Both married
Our Best Friend, so we were almost Inseperable out of Choice.
Yes, I would love to find that Again, there is not Greater Feeling
than Being Needed and Wanted!!!

Yes Wooby, I Agree with You!!!! You Always Amaze Me with
Your Honesty, and I think that this Post Was Needed!!!
 Hopesangel402
Joined: 10/30/2006
Msg: 53 (view)
 
How Old is To Old To Have Sex
Posted: 11/14/2007 12:17:29 AM
Your NEVER too Old for Sex!!! I Always Said I Wanted to Die With a Smile On My Face!!!! What a Way to GO!!!!!
 Hopesangel402
Joined: 10/30/2006
Msg: 159 (view)
 
The Shocking Deterioration
Posted: 11/13/2007 10:57:55 PM
I found this Thread to be Quite Sad, at the very Start. Now it's even Worst.
 Hopesangel402
Joined: 10/30/2006
Msg: 56 (view)
 
Why Do Women Care when a Man dates a Younger Woman.
Posted: 11/11/2007 8:38:56 PM
UltimateHeartSurgeon, I think that your perception is Correct!!! Sadly, it is very True that a lot women tend to be very Competitive and also Catty. I have remained Friend's with several Best Friends that are Female since grade School. Best Friend's are very important to me. All you have to do is look at almost any forum, and there are women competing against each other. I work in Human Behavior and find this behavior to be Sad. Although there are also women that can and do have bonding Friendship's with other women. I can't express enough How Important Best Friends really are, there have been many nights when one of My Best Friend's have dried my tears, and listen to me rant. I have also been there for them many time's, and its comforting to know that there is someone that who will always be there.


As far as Men with Younger Women, it does not bother me in the Least!!! I also date Younger Men, so it doesn't even enter my mind. To Each Their Own!!! Live and Let Live!!!!
 Hopesangel402
Joined: 10/30/2006
Msg: 92 (view)
 
The Shocking Deterioration
Posted: 11/10/2007 8:48:06 PM
I really feel Very Sad for you, nipoleon. I am Inclined to believe
that you have never known True Love. My Marriage lasted 31
year's and it never became the mess that your Describing.
If one were to completely listen to the Vow's that they take
on their Wedding Day, and live those Vow's. Marriage would
be the Beautiful Union that it was meant to be. A marriage need's
to be Nurtured on a Daily Basis. Sadly most people treat a Stranger
on the Street Nicer than their Life Partner. A marriage that is worked
on, and loving the person that you took the vow's with can be a
Beautiful and Wonderful Life.
I see Marriage from a Completely Different View than you do, I had
the Great Pleasure of seeing a Couple in a Nursing home Celebrate
their 75th Wedding Anniversary. It was such a Loving Couple and
they were still holding hands and just so doting with each other.
Love is Beautiful, and it Gives and Respects and Honor's.
Learning to put each other first is very important, with both doing
that, no one is slighted. Marriage take's Commitment and Work.
Yet so does anything in Life Worth Having.
 Hopesangel402
Joined: 10/30/2006
Msg: 35 (view)
 
I miss married sex, she said. Can you relate to that?
Posted: 11/9/2007 6:20:13 PM
I think that anyone that has had a Great or Good Marriage
would not disagree with this Statement at all. It's the Comfort
of knowing Your Partner and always Learning, more about
your Partner. Yes, I agree that I also miss that, this was a person
that I spent 34 years with of which 31 were married years.
If a marriage is Nutured, Boredom with each other does not happen.
There is much more to Sex than just the Act!!!
 Hopesangel402
Joined: 10/30/2006
Msg: 67 (view)
 
Any Recovering Bipolar People Here?
Posted: 11/6/2007 10:06:07 PM
My heart goes' out to all of You that suffer from Bi-polar. I have worked with the mentally ill for quite sometime. Also those with Bi-polar. The most Important issue with Bi-polar, is making sure that med's, are never stopped. Yet this is sadly very common for those with this Condition, to stop the medication. It is never wise to stop the medication without talking to a Doctor FIRST!!! Medication can be changed but is needed to manage the High's and Low's of this illness. At this time there is no cure for Bi-polar, so the medication's are very important!!! I cannot stress this enough.
It may take sometime but once the proper medication and level's that are needed are found, a person can function quite normally. There is never any excuse for violence with this condition, since everyone with this condition does know Right from Wrong.
I Hope and Pray that each of you that were Brave enough to tell your story on here, find's a Friend or Loved One that will be there for Support for You!!!!! Empathy and Compassion are very Helpful to those with Bi-polar and is needed. This is something that we all need in life at time's, so if you have a Friend or Loved One with this disorder. Please Educate Yourself's, not one person that is Bi-polar did anything to get this disorder, it is what life handed them.

To those that have made insulting remarks about these people, it's very sad, and only those without a heart or knowledge would even do such a thing!!!!!

May God Bless Each of You, and know that Your Very Special People, and can Contribute a lot to Life!!!!! There are many Gifted and Talented and High IQ'S among those with this Condition.
 Hopesangel402
Joined: 10/30/2006
Msg: 78 (view)
 
Would u date someone that lived w/ their Ex-wife.
Posted: 11/3/2007 5:01:04 PM
I think that it's Great, that your able to have a Friendship with your EXE Wife for the Children. With You stating that you would do anything for her, that pretty much sum's up that there are a lot of emotion's still involved. Not Ever Again in this Lifetime would I date a Man that was chummy with the EXE. Let alone living with the EXE.
 Hopesangel402
Joined: 10/30/2006
Msg: 54 (view)
 
Why do you think men don't cry?
Posted: 10/26/2007 11:38:07 AM
Of Course Men Cry!!!!! They are Human, Not Machine's. It's Very Natural for a Man to Cry!! The Strongest of Men have Emotion's, it is Never a Weakness, if or When a Man Cry's!!! Yes, a Loving Touch is Very Helpful with Both Gender's!!
 Hopesangel402
Joined: 10/30/2006
Msg: 339 (view)
 
One third of older women date younger men
Posted: 10/23/2007 7:25:05 PM
Married for 31 years, and dated and engaged for another 3 to a Younger Man, Yes,
They do Last!!!!!! Also it was not Infidelity that Broke Us Up!!!! Women with Younger Men is Nothing New at All!!! It's just now getting Much More Attention!!!!
 Hopesangel402
Joined: 10/30/2006
Msg: 109 (view)
 
he's just a sex partner..is that wrong?
Posted: 10/23/2007 7:15:27 PM
I read your post, and I think that its Great that you are trying to be a Couple Now!!!
Wishing You The Very Best!!!! I have had a Friend with Benefit's, yet there were feeling's for each other as Great Friend's. However that ended when I met someone, and he was sort of OK with it!!! Although once he found out that I was no Longer with that Man he Thought that I would come back to Him!!! I explained to him that I was not willing to go back to that type of relationship. He got extremely Angry, with me.
It was like I owed him that, and I just told him that I was looking for Much More, and He said, that I Knew that he would Never find anyone to Marry Him. As I had not wanted too marry him, after seeing how he was. Than went on to Thank Me for Fu#$ing up his Life. So even though I thought that it worked out fine as Posted on Forum's it came Back with a Vengeance to Bite Me!!!! Also, I found it very Hard to Believe that anyone can have Sex, without Feeling's Involved!!! I think that would make Sex Meaningless!!!! After 34 years with the same man, counting dating and Marriage, I know that to be Impossible!!! It Only Gets Much Better!!!

Now to Those that Have Read My Post on FWB, Please Now Take it with a Grain Of Salt what I Said. However I did not see this coming, since when I told him that I had met someone, that I was interested in, he seemed OK with it!!! That was until he Found out that I was no Longer with him. WOW Never seen that One Coming!!!
 Hopesangel402
Joined: 10/30/2006
Msg: 393 (view)
 
How many times a day can you handle havin sex??!!!
Posted: 10/23/2007 6:05:41 PM
My Last Time was a 4 Day Marathon, went to this Great Hotel Suite and did not leave the room for 4 Full days and Nights!!! It was Awesome!!!! Actually there are No Words to Describe it!!! WOW!!!!!!
 Hopesangel402
Joined: 10/30/2006
Msg: 196 (view)
 
Would u re-locate if asked by someone u were serious 4?
Posted: 10/23/2007 5:42:34 PM
Yes!!! I would!!! I only have Great Regret's not moving
2 year's ago when asked too.
So Yes, if it was Love, I would Not Hesitate!!!
I think that Erma Bombeck said it all when she said
We don't regret the things that we have done as much
as the things that we did not do!!!
 Hopesangel402
Joined: 10/30/2006
Msg: 86 (view)
 
Does it take more willlpower for women to be faithful?
Posted: 10/21/2007 10:57:06 PM
There is a Survey that is still being done, that Prove's that more Women Cheat than Men. Its a Very Similar Test that was mentioned with Polygraph Test's being done.
What I find the Most Disgusting, that has become a Huge Issue with this Test, is that Women are Claiming that they only do this because Men, Used to Cheat on their Mother's, Grandmothers" etc. I Personally Believe that in the Long Run Cheater's Hurt Themselves' More!!! They Lose so much Creditability, and Respect!! I think that its More that those that Refuse to Cheat, Have Greater Integrity!!
 Hopesangel402
Joined: 10/30/2006
Msg: 90 (view)
 
Good Grief, I need help
Posted: 10/21/2007 8:23:58 PM
Congratulations OP,

I think that Everything that your Experiencing is Perfectly Normal!!!
I am Very Happy For You!!!! I Will Continue to Wish You The Very Best!!!
There is a lot to be said about a 30 year marriage, besides the word Rebound.
In Order to have that Long of Marriage it Takes Work and Commitment!!
It is Something that has to Be Nourished!! Which Say's A Lot About this Man.
I Came from a 31 year Marriage and 3 Year's of Dating and Engagement
before that!!! I Now Question will I Ever find someone that is in for the long
Haul? After Being With Someone That Committed. Sounds Like You Have Found
Him!!!! God Bless You Both!!!!
 Hopesangel402
Joined: 10/30/2006
Msg: 87 (view)
 
Should over 50 people be less selective?
Posted: 10/19/2007 7:24:41 PM
I Find the Word, Settling to Be Very Sad!!! At the age of 54, I would never consider Settling!!! I do Believe that to have a Healthy Relationship there is Alway's some Compromising, from both partner's. No Matter What Age We Are!!!!!
There is NO SUCH THING, AS THE PERFECT PERSON!!!!! I have said in some of my Post's in Forum's and I Believe this to Be Very True!!! Sometime's it's the very thing, that other's might see as an Imperfection, that can be what I would find the Most Attractive in a Person!!!! I Think that at this age we now have more option's than we ever had. We can Date Younger Or Older Or the Same Age. Compromising is Very Important, as it's what Make's a Couple!!! Settling Never!!!!
 Hopesangel402
Joined: 10/30/2006
Msg: 41 (view)
 
Is there too much age difference?
Posted: 10/19/2007 6:47:37 PM
Hey Roberto60!!!! Excellent Answer!!!
I totally agree with this Statement!!! I know myself, that I act 35 or so, and its
just who I am. Yet I am 54. My Daughter's Friend's are always wanting me to go out with them.
I have a Great Time with them!!! Age is a State of Mind!!! I prefer somewhat
Younger Men, although there are some of them, that can't keep up with me.
I also agree that if you love do things List them on y0ur Profile!!! I have had several
Say they have never read such Long List, as I have on my Profile!!! Also there is a Massive difference in Age and Maturity!!! Immaturity is something that would
be a Major Turn-Off to Me!!!! Best of Luck In Your Search!!!!
 Hopesangel402
Joined: 10/30/2006
Msg: 99 (view)
 
Why are women over 40 so desperate to get married?
Posted: 10/18/2007 4:45:54 AM
WOW OP,
You Think that this many women are just Angry and in Denial!!!

OK So What Your Saying is that We Really Are just Jumping at the Chance to Get
Remarried????? That is Just NOT Fair, You Should Of Told Us That You Were A
Mind Reader Also. Is That How You Found Out The Other 4 Women Wanted Too Marry YOU???
What Part of NO Do You Not Understand? Is It The N Or The O?????
 Hopesangel402
Joined: 10/30/2006
Msg: 475 (view)
 
Ladies: your take on short guys?
Posted: 10/18/2007 1:28:07 AM
WOW I never even realized that I don't have a Preference in the Height of a Man!!!
Till, I read this Forum. Now I do have preference's about somethings that I am looking for in a Man. However I have been with Shorter Men and Tall Men. I am 5'7, and
I have never cared either way!!! I will say that I, Spent 34 year's with a Man that was the same height. I also wore heels, and it never bothered him or me. Nor have I thought about it since I have been Dating. I do agree that Shorter Men have no Problem Defending a Woman. I also have a Friend that is over 6ft tall female, and married a man that is about 5'8. I had to Post this since, I seen this even though its unlikely that anyone will read it, since the post has been on here for quite a while.
I Just Never Thought about the Height of a Man, as being Something to be Concerned About!!!!!
 Hopesangel402
Joined: 10/30/2006
Msg: 173 (view)
 
When a woman is so beautiful you can't approach her.
Posted: 10/17/2007 6:54:27 PM
I thought that I would share my Story with Everyone:
First, I want everyone to know that I don't see myself as Beautiful, yet I do
Know that I am Full of Compassion, and Very Outgoing, I am the type that
never meets a Stranger.
My EXE Husband that I was married to for 31 years, and I met in a Very Strange
Way!!! He had seen me on a Float from a Beauty Pageant, and was telling the Owner
Of the Place that he Worked, how Beautiful I was. Later that day I walked by where he worked. If his Boss had not Dared him to come out and meet me also calling him a Chicken Sh$$ if he didn't. I don't know that we would of ever met!!! I will never
forget that day, as I was walking back he was being pushed out the Door. I had no
Idea what was happening, and thought the Behavior kind of Strange. He looked at
me with this helpless look on his face, and I said Hello!!! He than said to me I saw
you on the Float!!! I said, Oh that, well I paid them to let me ride it. LOL We laughed and were together for 31 years in marriage and 3 years before that. Most of those Years, were Very Happy Years!!! Plus we had 2 Great Daughters. So the Moral of this Story is Go For It!!! You Just Never Know!!! He thought that he was the Luckiest Man in the World. I also feel that I am Blessed to have known Him in a Very Special Way!!
Plus I Strongly Feel the Imperfections we have are also some of the most Intriguing Qualities, of a Person!!!
Again it's what's Inside that Count's the Most!!!!
 Hopesangel402
Joined: 10/30/2006
Msg: 34 (view)
 
Why are women over 40 so desperate to get married?
Posted: 10/15/2007 11:30:35 PM
Dear OP,

I am going to try to help you understand, that you Might of Been Blessed to
have found these 2 women. After reading your Profile, it clearly state's that
You think that you are loyal. Huge Red Flag!!! Among other things, that are on your Profile.
Several Red Flags.
I think the chances of finding women with this Attitude is very Slim if NOT
IMPOSSIBLE!!! I am in my 50's and the thought of getting married too any
man, right away, is not a No, but a Hell NO!!! I was married 31 years, and
Strongly Believed in Marriage. I can Honestly tell you, that your not going
to find many women that will want to Sign, that Piece of Paper Again. Let alone
Jump to sign that Paper. Without Knowing in her Heart that they have found
a Man that is Everything to Them. That takes Time!! I am looking for a Long
Term Relationship, but Marriage again is almost Impossible for me. Unless
I find a Perfect Match. Or what I would consider to be someone that was perfect
for Me. Women today are so Much Brighter and realize that they don't need to
Sign any Paper to find what they are looking for.
The National Statistic State the Biggest Decline in Marriage Ever, at this time.
To Sum this up, Jump at Marriage or Stand in Front of a Firing Squad.
Most would Jump In Front of the Firing Squad, Yelling Hurry Just Shoot Me!!
 Hopesangel402
Joined: 10/30/2006
Msg: 72 (view)
 
Size versus Frequency
Posted: 10/12/2007 7:54:53 PM
OK I am going to be the Selfish One!!! I thought about it and I figured Out
it was Too Hard to Choose. So I want it all!!!
I want the Length and the Girth and Frequency!!!!

OK if I have to Choose Just One, the Length!!!!!!
 Hopesangel402
Joined: 10/30/2006
Msg: 984 (view)
 
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 10/11/2007 5:12:53 AM
I know a lot of women that date and even marry younger guys!! I think, that it mainly depends on the Maturity Level of the Younger Man. I prefer younger Men, because I have found that most Men my age and older are set in their ways. I still love to go dancing, and many activities that they just are not into. I try not to date anyone that is more than 10 years Younger than me. I married my Husband who was younger than me, and the marriage lasted 31 years. I have found that some Younger Men will lie about their age and say that they are older than they are. Why do you men do this?
 Hopesangel402
Joined: 10/30/2006
Msg: 243 (view)
 
Circumcised vs Un-Circumcised...
Posted: 10/9/2007 10:15:01 PM
Yorkie!!!! I am Very Happy for You, that you have had no problems, and that your very Happy about being Un-Circumsized!!! There are higher risks of infections, and also there are risks for the woman. I am not here to debate this or my Preference!!
I am just Stating Facts. However if you have not experienced any Problem's that is Great!!!!
 Hopesangel402
Joined: 10/30/2006
Msg: 49 (view)
 
why do guys try to be friends with their exes?
Posted: 10/9/2007 6:07:01 AM
I see nothing Wrong with being Friend's with your EXE, if you can handle it! However it could be difficult to be Friend's if the Breakup was Bitter. Although time sometime's heal old wound's. I think that it is Healthier to be Friend's than to go through life hating them.
Everyone is different and it should be dealt with the way that they see fit.
 Hopesangel402
Joined: 10/30/2006
Msg: 237 (view)
 
Circumcised vs Un-Circumcised...
Posted: 10/9/2007 2:48:08 AM
I am very Amazed by the outcome of this Question. I never realised that so many men were uncircumcised. I can Honestly say that I have Never been with a Man that was Not Circumcised. So my preference would be Circumcised!!!! I have seen the Difference, and I also know about the Health Risk's.
 Hopesangel402
Joined: 10/30/2006
Msg: 67 (view)
 
Normal for a man to get aroused by a woman other than girlfriend/wife?
Posted: 10/9/2007 2:05:14 AM
I feel that it's very Normal, and it's not just Men that do this, Women do the very same thing a lot!!! I would also like to mention that he did not have to tell his partner, about what happened, and I think that his Honesty show's that he is Sincere.
 Hopesangel402
Joined: 10/30/2006
Msg: 21 (view)
 
NEED ADVICE :women...dating..f*ck friends
Posted: 10/6/2007 9:16:58 PM
WOW confidentlyhumble after reading your Post and than your Profile
I am Surprised that your allowed on this Site. You have some Very Serious
Issue's.
 Hopesangel402
Joined: 10/30/2006
Msg: 28 (view)
 
how far away is to far?
Posted: 10/6/2007 8:25:47 PM
I would never limit something like that as, True Love knows no Boundaries. I would relocate as I have on my Profile, and Would even leave the Country, if I were to find what I was looking for. Being that I was married for 31 years, to the same man. I know that Commitment's can and do work. To Find that Kind of Love again, is Priceless!!!
 Hopesangel402
Joined: 10/30/2006
Msg: 32 (view)
 
Why do women AGREE to a Friends with Benefits situation?
Posted: 10/5/2007 8:04:08 PM
I think that the one's that are persuing that type of relationship, really do not understand the Concept of Friend's with Benefits. This is not something new its been around for a very long time. You don't go out and look for a Friend with Benefits.
Its A Friend of the Opposite Sex, that you are already Friends with. It could be someone that you dated and liked each other a lot, but realized a relationship with Marriage would not work out. Yet, you still enjoyed each other's company, which makes you now Just Great Friends. I have had this kind of relationship, and it was discussed right up front that if we got together for a movie, or a party that we could spend the Night together. With No Strings Attached. It Worked out fine, and I don't feel guilty about it at all, it was just Friends having sex. Since neither one of us was in a committed relationship. Believe me, your very wrong about the woman wanting marriage out of it. I feel that this is a lot better than a one night stand, which I would never do!! I have to know someone before I would ever have sex with them. I am not judging anyone that is able to have a one night stand, and I don't want to be judged for having a Friends with Benefits Relationship. It worked out Great, and there were no problems, since it was understood between both parties, what it was, and what it wasn't. So it's not unusual to see your Friend out with someone else laughing and having a Good Time. It never Bothered Us, in fact we were Happy for the Other.
We are still Great Friends to this day, but have ended the Benefits.

To those that are just meeting someone and looking for a Friends with Benefit's, the key is to be up front about what you want. Don't lead someone on, and than pull the I thought that we were Just Friends with Benefits, that is when you will run into all kinds of Problems.

Plus if your Insecure or the Jealous Type, this is not for You!!
 Hopesangel402
Joined: 10/30/2006
Msg: 306 (view)
 
Sex or the Superbowl?
Posted: 10/4/2007 6:50:12 AM
WOW The Superbowl, only happens Once a Year, plus I love Sport's. I would think that it was Cruel to make him even choose. I say Watch the SuperBowl and Half-Time,
and all the Great Commercial's and than have another Party, AFTER THE GAME !!!!
 Hopesangel402
Joined: 10/30/2006
Msg: 364 (view)
 
whats with women and harleys?
Posted: 9/27/2007 12:19:45 AM
I would rather be on a Harley any DAY!!! Although I do not live to Ride as some do.
The Harley Screams with Pride, and has a Rumble that is not matched!!!
Also as far as the HA they do a lot of Great Things, Yes they get involved in crimes where in America, can you go where there is no Crime!!! Where in the World, can you go where there is no Crime!!!
 Hopesangel402
Joined: 10/30/2006
Msg: 11 (view)
 
It doesn't add up
Posted: 9/19/2007 1:05:31 AM
I totally Agree with Smart-Blonde, there is a role reversal going on, and it has been for quite sometime. Age does not account for maturity, in any way. I have dated Younger and Older, and found that Maturity is lacking in both Groups. I have also found that Maturity was Abundant in Both Groups. If one is looking for Maturity, it has nothing to do with age at all. I have a Male Friend, that is now in his 70's and he told me that he always dated older women, since he was in High School. He also married a woman 20 years older than he, and they are still together today, as Happy as Ever..
So really this isn't all that new at all, its just talked about more now. However I will say that I think that its Happening More Now than Ever. If the Guy is Mature I have No Problem dating Younger Men, or even marrying one, and the same goes for Older Men. However I have found that I still love to go out Dancing and Having Fun, and a lot of Older Men are no Longer Interested in those Things. Also Today Women are More in Style and Keep up with things, more so than Our Mother's did. It is a Fact that Younger Men and Older Women are Dating and Marrying and Making it Last Today. Read the New's Paper's and Magazine's.
 Hopesangel402
Joined: 10/30/2006
Msg: 103 (view)
 
Is it wrong to want a Friend with Benefits?
Posted: 9/14/2007 12:47:59 AM
In answer to a Question that does not seem to be Sinking in, is Friends with Benefits is not something that you go out looking for. I am someone that would Never Put Out on a First Date. I like to get to know someone first. So Friends with Benefits would be with someone that you dated and got to know, and than had Sex and it was good. Yet you have reached a point in the relationship, where you realize that this is not a LTR. Yet you still have a Friendship and you have Already had Sex.

Also if one or the other meets someone, YES, you do tell the Friend with Benefits!!
Also the Sex Stops. Yet your Still Friends!!! Now lets say that the new person you meet is a Keeper, than the Sex is Over. Yet the Friendship is still there. Remember the two of you have already discussed how much you care for each other, but know that it will not work for a Marriage. So you have other things in common besides Sex, like a Great Friendship.

Also if the person is not a Keeper that you stopped the Sex for, the Sex can resume if that is agreed upon by both parties, that are Friends first with Benefits. It Works, although someone that is the Jealous Type, should not even attempt this. However it can work Wonderfully if you totally understand and discuss the Relationship. After all your Close Friends so you should be Happy if one or the other Finds what they are looking for. Also I would like to point out that your more than just FB, as there is not a Great Friendship there. Its a casual date. I find this much more Moral than having Sex on a First Date. And Never Seeing that Person Again!!! At least you have a History with the Friend!! Or you would not be Friends with Benefits. FRIEND'S FIRST BENEFIT'S SECOND!!!!

 
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