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 Author Thread: Does a man's scent/cologne do anything for you?
 frijolera_ninja
Joined: 4/11/2011
Msg: 16 (view)
 
Does a man's scent/cologne do anything for you?
Posted: 9/4/2012 1:18:35 PM
Nothing beats a shower and deoderant. But a nice light cologne that you have to be close enough to smell is nice . Too much will make you gag and you should never be able to taste it!
 frijolera_ninja
Joined: 4/11/2011
Msg: 44 (view)
 
How did you choose your screen name?
Posted: 9/1/2012 11:46:13 AM
Frijolera means beaner, although Im not mexican I am hispanic from the southwest and I love martial arts and the old epic movies ... plus it just sounds silly!
 frijolera_ninja
Joined: 4/11/2011
Msg: 53 (view)
 
How Far Would You travel to meet someone?
Posted: 8/31/2012 11:21:05 PM
Anything more than an hour driving ( measure time wise not miles ... l.a. traffic) I work 12 hour shifts so its almost impossible to meet anyone when Im working. Days off the last thing I want to do is sit in traffic.
 frijolera_ninja
Joined: 4/11/2011
Msg: 5 (view)
 
Whats better a funny person or organised?
Posted: 7/1/2012 7:03:58 PM
Look at the bright side at least your organized!
 frijolera_ninja
Joined: 4/11/2011
Msg: 366 (view)
 
Should Guys pay the full amount on the first Date/Meet?
Posted: 6/23/2012 12:19:38 PM
I think spending 150 bucks on a 1st date is nuts! Unless you guys have been building up a relationship on line, phone, cam, texting etc and live a distance from eachother! You should be just doin meet n greets for a 1st meeting coffee tea walk at the park something like that. Any guy that does that when hes never even met me I would think hes either trying too hard or mismanages his funds. Even if he was a trust fund baby I think its still a lil inappropriate.
 frijolera_ninja
Joined: 4/11/2011
Msg: 97 (view)
 
yet another reason why republicans are hypocrites
Posted: 6/23/2012 12:08:45 PM
[quote I totally agree. The hypocrisy is that women who have elected to have unplanned children vs. abort them are damned if they don't, but when they need help and support they are damned if they don't

Is it hypocrisy to think a woman could abstain from sex? Or maybe use birth control? Or how bout her partner use a condom?
 frijolera_ninja
Joined: 4/11/2011
Msg: 7 (view)
 
Bad sex
Posted: 6/16/2012 1:57:03 PM
Communication is key! If your relationship is that good hopefully you guys can have a decent convo she may not even realize what shes doing (or not)
 frijolera_ninja
Joined: 4/11/2011
Msg: 48 (view)
 
What are your thoughts about doing background checks on potential dates?
Posted: 6/16/2012 1:54:04 PM
Even though they pass a background check doesnt mean something in their life has changed since to make them snap men and women alike!
 frijolera_ninja
Joined: 4/11/2011
Msg: 114 (view)
 
Naughty pictures to the wrong number
Posted: 6/16/2012 1:48:29 PM
Im still crackin up about the guy that drunk dyk'd his mom months ago!
 frijolera_ninja
Joined: 4/11/2011
Msg: 12 (view)
 
'Looking for a female to mate with'
Posted: 6/16/2012 1:21:31 PM
female / male is more like breeding terms for the animal kingdom! Just sounds ghetto to me. I dunno I dont care for it. Someone refers to me as ma'am or female I dont think Id want to go out with em just sayin ...
 frijolera_ninja
Joined: 4/11/2011
Msg: 106 (view)
 
my bf has a best friend who is female how do you handle this
Posted: 5/10/2012 7:53:13 PM
Im too lazy to go through 5 pages did she dump him yet?
 frijolera_ninja
Joined: 4/11/2011
Msg: 8 (view)
 
Found out he has a double life
Posted: 5/8/2012 10:43:30 PM
lmao 40 bucks for wasting her time huh ... id be rich if that were the case!
 frijolera_ninja
Joined: 4/11/2011
Msg: 19 (view)
 
Single or married?
Posted: 5/5/2012 9:51:58 AM
Knowing you could get a divorce with or without her... Id be more worried why she has to cling to you like that and that you let her!
 frijolera_ninja
Joined: 4/11/2011
Msg: 89 (view)
 
Is he being serious?
Posted: 5/5/2012 9:18:20 AM
I think hes married or living with someone. Wifey thinks hes away on business while hes with you. You really want to talk to someone that called you a dbag? Once he heeds to the more communication your going to realize he was doing you a favor!
 frijolera_ninja
Joined: 4/11/2011
Msg: 9 (view)
 
Should I be worried and is it ok to be worried?
Posted: 4/28/2012 5:58:55 PM
Classic ... hes married!
 frijolera_ninja
Joined: 4/11/2011
Msg: 27 (view)
 
California in trouble?
Posted: 4/24/2012 8:49:30 AM

Wow...opposed to the conservative turds that think women should hold an aspirin between their knees and stay in their place, the kitchen? There's just no joy in this world when everything is a stereotype.


I am pretty sure that went out with the 50's. I am a conservative and I never heald an asprin between my knees. Last I heard that won't fix a hangover.. lol


Wont fix a hangover or prevent pregnancy but will get you that much closer to an ulcer and liver failure! (haha thats my jab for legalizing mari j)
 frijolera_ninja
Joined: 4/11/2011
Msg: 23 (view)
 
What are your thoughts about doing background checks on potential dates?
Posted: 4/23/2012 12:00:06 AM
I have to go through extensive background checks for work so it doesnt sound too outragious for dating. (Might be weird if he cut my hair for a drug test though!)
 frijolera_ninja
Joined: 4/11/2011
Msg: 9 (view)
 
After meeting a guy u like at what point would u deactivate ur profile?
Posted: 4/22/2012 1:52:32 PM
If I was to be in a serious relationship id be upfront about the account. Discuss it with him how he felt about it. I enjoy the forums but if he asked me to take my picture off or delete the account I wouldnt have a problem with it.
 frijolera_ninja
Joined: 4/11/2011
Msg: 52 (view)
 
HAS ANYONE MET A WOMAN WHO'S BREATH SMELLED
Posted: 4/22/2012 1:04:54 PM
ew worst combos cigarette / coffee, cheap beer / cigarette, kimchee / coffee / cigarette. The last combo is the absofreakinlutely worst!
 frijolera_ninja
Joined: 4/11/2011
Msg: 26 (view)
 
should weed be legalized whats ur true opinion
Posted: 4/22/2012 12:53:24 PM
Parents should be controlling their young. Doesnt matter whats legal or illegal whatever your standards are. As opposed to people driving under the influence ... if the current laws havent stopped anyone, do you really think more laws will? Not just police should be policing the streets but friends and family should intervene the best they can if someone is about to drive. As hard as it is and if you arent confrontational then call the cops and tell them which way theyre headed! I dont know anyone using marijuana for pain management go into liver or any other vital organ failure... unlike acetaminaphen, alcohol and others like it !
 frijolera_ninja
Joined: 4/11/2011
Msg: 13 (view)
 
no charges for elementary schoolgirl fight
Posted: 4/21/2012 1:44:41 PM
I still encourage something for the parents... counseling or parenting classes. Without any kind of intervention the parents will never decide anything in regards to gang afiliation and education. For those that have been raised that way know no different its an us vs them mentality. Theyve been profiled their whole lives, some can rise above it and some get left behind. But all kids deserve to be exposed to what good can prevail and without representation they may never get a clue.
 frijolera_ninja
Joined: 4/11/2011
Msg: 9 (view)
 
no charges for elementary schoolgirl fight
Posted: 4/21/2012 12:15:36 PM
Some one bullied someone to escelate it into a fight. True no one had a weapon but same tragic ending and they didnt accidentally get in a fight.


it was the girls from certain kinds of backgrounds that were the ones having physical aterncations


What kind of background are you referring? Cultural, religious or socioeconomic? So if its black on black, brown on brown its ok as long as they kill eachother?

I think the parents should offer to at least pay the funeral just to be decent. If your child is under 18 the parents need some kind of repercutions. If your kid tags up a wall you get fined but if your kid kills another ... nada? Just doesnt seem right.
 frijolera_ninja
Joined: 4/11/2011
Msg: 10 (view)
 
should weed be legalized whats ur true opinion
Posted: 4/19/2012 10:21:49 PM
They wouldnt just gain in extra taxation but letting all the people behind bars out for posession or intent to sell. They'd save millions but then the prison system would collapse and the prison guard union is one of the strongest. Too many changes and too many practical solutions will never happen with the elected officials in politics today!
 frijolera_ninja
Joined: 4/11/2011
Msg: 1 (view)
 
no charges for elementary schoolgirl fight
Posted: 4/18/2012 11:08:30 PM
http://news.yahoo.com/no-charges-death-calif-girl-10-fight-181753182.html

I think I would agree with the parents of the little girl who died. But cant help but wonder ... about the girl who killed her. No counseling or probation fees or a fine for parents maybe parenting classes I duno. Wheres the public outcry for these little girls? No rallys, protests or prayer vigils not even anything on bullying! 2 lovely young latinas and no one cares?
 frijolera_ninja
Joined: 4/11/2011
Msg: 109 (view)
 
George Zimmerman (watchguard) is in FBI custody!
Posted: 4/13/2012 4:48:26 PM

She's up for re-election. It was a campaign speech.


I think the media is stirring up all the racism it can muster up for the presidential election.
 frijolera_ninja
Joined: 4/11/2011
Msg: 48 (view)
 
Why is it so hard to have a good conversation?
Posted: 4/9/2012 3:05:51 PM

^^^I know, and I enjoy reading it. Just that money thing is starting to get a little grating...IMHO. ;)


I agree Thinking ... Steve your so handsome, funny and smart but its almost like your sabatoging yourself with those remarks like a self fullfilling prophecy kind of thing... Im so glad for this woman to come into your life at this specific time! I was realy beginning to worry about you.
 frijolera_ninja
Joined: 4/11/2011
Msg: 68 (view)
 
Would this be an issue for you? Should it be an issue for anyone?
Posted: 4/5/2012 1:27:01 AM
Id be more concerned about his close proximity. If he does come up with mommy issues is he going to be spying on you? Thinking if your not with him you must be seeing someone else? I dont see him so much as a cheater as much as I do being needy. You said hes good looking, accomplished and have a lot in common with all that said I think your going to try him on for size anyways. You have gotten a lot of info to consider so you can enter into this relationship with your eyes wide open make sure you keep an open mind as well. Good luck let us know how things turn out!
 frijolera_ninja
Joined: 4/11/2011
Msg: 15 (view)
 
Help on a weird conversation please?
Posted: 4/5/2012 1:01:09 AM
If in fact she is that busy then she has no time for dating... I really think she was shining you on. If she was interested she would of gotten back to you or texted you at least. Chalk it up to experience at least you tried now time to move on.
 frijolera_ninja
Joined: 4/11/2011
Msg: 60 (view)
 
Unbelievably (bad) date, so ridiculous I had to share
Posted: 4/3/2012 4:30:15 PM

It is obvious he was a big idiot. With that said, people do make mistakes and I am sure he regrets it. Up to you if you decide to give him a second shot. He may make up for his actions.


Ya hed make up for his actions by cutting out her beating heart! No second chances for someone that angry or arrogant. Even if he never got physical who wants to give up their time to someone who is verbally abusive?
 frijolera_ninja
Joined: 4/11/2011
Msg: 96 (view)
 
Date left when she saw what was for dinner :(
Posted: 4/1/2012 12:56:40 AM
I think it was a nice gesture on your part... duno bout the fat ass comment but hey if she was a fatass hopefully you put some thoughts in her head to eat healthier
 frijolera_ninja
Joined: 4/11/2011
Msg: 57 (view)
 
First date and she asked me how much I make a year...WTF
Posted: 3/31/2012 3:47:04 PM
Funny how you guys think the woman is a gold digger. 3/4 of the men on here right off the bat ask what I do for a living and 1/2 actually ask how much I make! I think most of them are just curious and add it to the other questions in random conversation. Im sure some have a plan how much of it they can spend however they see fit.
 frijolera_ninja
Joined: 4/11/2011
Msg: 44 (view)
 
Unbelievably (bad) date, so ridiculous I had to share
Posted: 3/31/2012 3:22:56 PM
There are people that drink the blood of a fresh kill. The thought gags me but its an old school tradition to do that with the 1st kill and some kind of passage to manhood. Yuck, anyways ... I wouldnt have left quite like that but your instincts proved correct by the messages you recieved. You should do a background check on him to see if he has priors if so you should notify his p.o.
 frijolera_ninja
Joined: 4/11/2011
Msg: 11 (view)
 
A date with the unemployed...
Posted: 3/30/2012 9:03:23 AM
Nows the perfect time to get to know someone you have plenty of time to spend with her!
 frijolera_ninja
Joined: 4/11/2011
Msg: 44 (view)
 
why do ladies hate hairy chested men ...
Posted: 3/26/2012 2:04:31 PM
You could always go get waxed as your 1st date!
 frijolera_ninja
Joined: 4/11/2011
Msg: 5 (view)
 
So what are we supposed to do when you're mad at us?
Posted: 3/25/2012 8:10:12 AM
ask her whats wrong or remind her to take her meds ...
 frijolera_ninja
Joined: 4/11/2011
Msg: 4719 (view)
 
Our New President
Posted: 3/23/2012 2:21:01 PM
Jeez their trying to unionize medical marijuana! So no one will be able to afford their pain meds along with the medical care they wont be getting!
 frijolera_ninja
Joined: 4/11/2011
Msg: 2 (view)
 
My Matches
Posted: 3/21/2012 7:33:41 PM
omg im sorry for laughin but for fooks sakes thats funny!
 frijolera_ninja
Joined: 4/11/2011
Msg: 30 (view)
 
Photo Voter ID's - For or Against?
Posted: 3/20/2012 11:07:06 PM
They'd still do it they'd just do it illegally ... just like now. Of course theres laws against it but whats a law if it isnt enforced?
 frijolera_ninja
Joined: 4/11/2011
Msg: 12 (view)
 
Conversation/messaging etiguette
Posted: 3/18/2012 12:58:54 PM
haha nice save Rich!
 frijolera_ninja
Joined: 4/11/2011
Msg: 8 (view)
 
Photo Voter ID's - For or Against?
Posted: 3/17/2012 7:36:11 PM
My point was there supposed to show id when they vote (Ive never been asked ... I show it anyways ) and that would be our drivers license or state id's and yes illegals and felons have all been caught voting now mind you those are just a few that were caught how many havent?
 frijolera_ninja
Joined: 4/11/2011
Msg: 2 (view)
 
Photo Voter ID's - For or Against?
Posted: 3/17/2012 12:21:34 PM
Its a waste of money all they have to do is look at our drivers license or state id card.
 frijolera_ninja
Joined: 4/11/2011
Msg: 39 (view)
 
HAS ANYONE MET A WOMAN WHO'S BREATH SMELLED
Posted: 3/17/2012 10:12:59 AM
The 1st guy I met from here his breath smelled like sour laundry! I didnt have the heart to tell him. When leaving I hurried up and got in my car. Later he texted me I wanted to give you a hug but you left like a bat out a hell!? Super handsome, nice, funny, good job perfect in all other areas ... just couldnt get past that! My loss Im sure.
 frijolera_ninja
Joined: 4/11/2011
Msg: 32 (view)
 
help me plzz
Posted: 3/14/2012 2:37:10 PM
My guess is the poor s.o.b. went to mexico to get away from the crazy witch!
 frijolera_ninja
Joined: 4/11/2011
Msg: 6 (view)
 
How many of you have gone on successful first dates from people met on pof?
Posted: 3/14/2012 2:21:40 PM
Her pics down my guess is she was a porn bot...
 frijolera_ninja
Joined: 4/11/2011
Msg: 42 (view)
 
What does your ideal relationship look like?
Posted: 3/12/2012 11:30:19 PM
I been with guys that were my type. Didnt turn out too well (doesnt say much for me does it ) Now Im hoping to find (or he find me) someone no where near my type. Hopefully we can learn, share and experience eachother respect our differences and finish growing old together!
 frijolera_ninja
Joined: 4/11/2011
Msg: 854 (view)
 
Not giving sex away without the relationship
Posted: 3/12/2012 3:31:14 PM
I been participating here n there and I dont think I bashed or was being antagonistic towards anyone so my post must of been insignificant to you. No you didnt get my goat it takes more than this to get me peeved. Just tryin to get you to look at things in another perspective is all. I dont always have to have the last word and I dont always have to prove my point to the point of brow beating someone to make them agree. You let them get to you that was your only mistake. Opinions are like a holes everyones got one and none are the same.
 frijolera_ninja
Joined: 4/11/2011
Msg: 852 (view)
 
Not giving sex away without the relationship
Posted: 3/12/2012 2:54:42 PM
"Stop thinking of it as lying and faking it and think of it more as encouragment!"


Are you 2 sh1ttin me!! Please tell me you didn't just say that? Or are you going to tell me you have NEVER read these forums, and see how women view men who lie?


Yup I did say it sorry if youve never been in caring relationship But theres women out there that actually can care for a man, love, respect and support him in whatever it is hes doing. Not all women treat men as objects or stepping stones and if you can relax for a second you might find someone on these forums that can support you and lol "encourage" you too! Scroll up the last few pages n read all your belly achin. (read it objectively do you come across as being compromising? would you be in a relationship with yourself? )
 frijolera_ninja
Joined: 4/11/2011
Msg: 850 (view)
 
Not giving sex away without the relationship
Posted: 3/12/2012 1:47:38 PM
Stop thinking of it as lying and faking it and think of it more as encouragment! For cryin out loud at least theyre doin it and not bein a dead fish while doin it. Its a relationship give n take. You do things to please your partner. Maybe go see a movie you would rather gouge your eyes than go see or maybe a restraunt or even one of their friends you loathe but you do it to please them. Its being kind, considerate and caring when you do it out of love.
 frijolera_ninja
Joined: 4/11/2011
Msg: 48 (view)
 
Make me one of your Favorites but never send me an email.
Posted: 3/12/2012 12:31:22 AM
I think a lot of guys favorite you when they want to go on the chat thingy ... I had chat off and some guy told me to set it to favorites only. Duno for everyone but thats why he did it.
 frijolera_ninja
Joined: 4/11/2011
Msg: 820 (view)
 
Not giving sex away without the relationship
Posted: 3/11/2012 6:06:03 PM

Why in the world would you stay in such a relationship?


Shes single now, so obviously she didnt.
 
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