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 Author Thread: I don't want to be the jealous type.
 frankiesinatra22
Joined: 4/12/2011
Msg: 39 (view)
 
I don't want to be the jealous type.
Posted: 5/5/2013 1:49:34 PM
Jealousy can be a healthy. You're feelings are justified. Take action accordingly.
 frankiesinatra22
Joined: 4/12/2011
Msg: 41 (view)
 
It's been a year, he won't give me oral!
Posted: 4/18/2013 12:07:55 PM
I was once with a girl who didn't reciprocate. After putting the car seats back up I said, "B****, get out of my car. You can walk home at 1:00am from behind the alley way of this BBQ joint." It was really romantic. LOL
 frankiesinatra22
Joined: 4/12/2011
Msg: 36 (view)
 
It's been a year, he won't give me oral!
Posted: 4/18/2013 8:19:12 AM
Maybe there something he experiences down there that you're not aware of. First thing I would do is visit a gynecologist, and make sure everything is fresh and healthy. If he gives you the green light, then you got a bone to pick with your b/f. If he's self conscious about it, try giving him some direction in a sexy way (not like you're instructing a lecture hall), and boost his confidence about it, but also making sure you're enjoying yourself.

I don't understand how somebody can accept oral without being available to give it in return. If all of the above fails, consider getting a second opinion from somebody else. ;) Someone else who has the manhood to back up the meat and potatoes dangling between their legs.
 frankiesinatra22
Joined: 4/12/2011
Msg: 19 (view)
 
Kinda have a crush on a good friend
Posted: 4/12/2013 1:01:22 PM
Although it depends on how long her previous relationship was, it does seem a little soon to do anything. I wouldn't worry too much about "ruining the friendship", I say just take the plunge when you think it's the right time. If you're interested in her romantically, the "friendship" is already over. The only thing is this other guy she's seeing, if you wait too long, she may end up with him for a long time. He's probably just a rebound. It's up to you. Remember, no regrets. Overall, I say, go for it.
 frankiesinatra22
Joined: 4/12/2011
Msg: 361 (view)
 
Beards??? What is going on?
Posted: 4/10/2013 9:23:29 AM

I see beard growing as a choice, rather than an unavoidable condition


Hahaha, for most men beard it is absolutely unavoidable, it keeps showing up everyday. Although you do have the choice to shave it. Eating Tortuga rum cake slathered with butter rum cream on the other hand is avoidable, unless it magically floated into your mouth while you slept/unconscious and you had no control over it, and you had to heave it up or burn off the calories in the every morning to get rid of it. So it's a little different.

But that is a good analogy between weight and beards. With eating, where do you draw the line? Same with beards I guess.
 frankiesinatra22
Joined: 4/12/2011
Msg: 354 (view)
 
Beards??? What is going on?
Posted: 4/9/2013 12:52:17 PM

but if it were so silly, then why wouldn't he compromise on it?


That's a good point, and it shouldn't make that much of a difference.

So the man will have to choose a life time of,
-You, shaving cream, razor blades and burns, aftershave, hairy bathroom, time wasted
or
-None of the above
 frankiesinatra22
Joined: 4/12/2011
Msg: 349 (view)
 
Beards??? What is going on?
Posted: 4/9/2013 6:59:33 AM

FrankieSinatra: yours barely counts as a beard!


Hey, I grow mine out now and then. I go lumberjack in the winter. And it's glorious.


people who don't like something, try and make everyone else adopt their point of view.


Right on brother. "Beards are gross, men should shave them", What does that have to do with you?
 frankiesinatra22
Joined: 4/12/2011
Msg: 345 (view)
 
Beards??? What is going on?
Posted: 4/8/2013 6:29:03 AM
Again I say, Beards are Gods gift to man. But I just thought of something. What about hipster girls? They're seems to be a whole community who loves beards. Gender sweeping comments fail.
 frankiesinatra22
Joined: 4/12/2011
Msg: 57 (view)
 
I can hear my roommate and his gf have sex, what should I do?
Posted: 4/4/2013 8:22:21 AM
Fight fire with fire. OH YEAH!!!
 frankiesinatra22
Joined: 4/12/2011
Msg: 186 (view)
 
Dealing with cigarette smoke
Posted: 4/4/2013 8:09:58 AM
Hey Paderic, don't confuse the pineapple up your ass with Truth. That's very bold and obnoxious for you to claim.
 frankiesinatra22
Joined: 4/12/2011
Msg: 110 (view)
 
Guys that shaved their arms and back...what do you think?
Posted: 4/3/2013 10:04:41 AM
Hey, my body hair hasn't caused any problems yet. I'm Italian. I get along with the hairy Italian girls. We don't have time to shave, too busy making passionate love. As free as a bird!...or bear.
 frankiesinatra22
Joined: 4/12/2011
Msg: 108 (view)
 
Guys that shaved their arms and back...what do you think?
Posted: 4/3/2013 6:26:45 AM
In contrast, unshaven men are not psychos or serials killers, they're lady killers! In the looser sense of the word of course...Oh yaaaaaah.
Hey, if evolution is setting us on a path of hairlessness, why don't enjoy it while it lasts? But I'm even sure how that works, given I'm hairier than my dad, and me and all my cousins have stronger beards than our parents.
 frankiesinatra22
Joined: 4/12/2011
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First meet, won't do something brief like coffee?
Posted: 4/2/2013 4:24:02 PM
If he was just giving a casual alternative, just let him know you'd prefer a coffee meet instead. If he's pushing the issue and you really don't like it, then just call it off. Personally I think it's best to keep things loose on the first meet in case something goes awry. You don't want to be stuck.
 frankiesinatra22
Joined: 4/12/2011
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Dealing with cigarette smoke
Posted: 4/2/2013 1:34:16 PM
realitycktable4one, is right.

whippedboi,

People get away with saying a lot of things, whether it's right or wrong. Freedom of speech has allowed that.

In fact, a countless amount of products, food, and chemicals have been labeled as carcinogens, including:

high intensity heated foods, u/v ray sunlight, drinking water, stored grains/nuts, preservatives, hot dogs, whole milk, toasted foods, doughnuts, french fries, processed meats, crackers, white flour, sugar, salt, farmed fish, aspartame, deodorant, bars of soap, toothpaste, hair spray, detergent, air fresheners, some art and craft materials, lysol disinfectant and other cleaning agents, the glue in carpets, automotive supplies, dry cleaning, gasoline.....

All of which most of us are exposed to everyday. It's safe to assume that the cost of living in our modern society seems to be a high exposure to carcinogens. Yet people are experiencing record lifespans. I lost my train of thought at this point, I think I need another smoke, but we should be traveling the path of least resistance instead of abolishing everything that allows the human race to thrive at record populations and standards of living thus far in human history.
 frankiesinatra22
Joined: 4/12/2011
Msg: 52 (view)
 
What was dating like before cell phones and pagers?
Posted: 4/2/2013 9:04:11 AM
They used to pick up babes in their 1569 Mustang horse. Or if they were big timers, they would pull up in their 2 horsepower luxury Victorian carraige. That was a sweet ride. Sanded 12 spoke wooden wheels, what a smooth ride, made the 2" stones feel like 1.5" stones. That would get the woman down to her full body pajama under garments. Doesn't get better than that.
 frankiesinatra22
Joined: 4/12/2011
Msg: 159 (view)
 
Dealing with cigarette smoke
Posted: 4/1/2013 5:28:57 PM
It's hard for people to quit because it's so awesome.
 frankiesinatra22
Joined: 4/12/2011
Msg: 74 (view)
 
For women: Why is it so important that the man drive a car?
Posted: 4/1/2013 9:20:21 AM


I wonder how females are going to handle a man if his car breaks down and he doesn't have the money to fix it right away. What, is she going to break up with him because the car broke down?


Where I live, if your car breaks down, you won't have a way to work. So, you have two options: either borrow money to send the car to a mechanic or get under the hood yourself until it is fixed. Whichever choice you make, it will happen within a day or two of the car breaking down.


Exactly. The best option is if a guy can fix the car himself before the end of the day, by turning a $400 repair job into a time saving $70 repair job and greasy hands. Your chariot awaits...
 frankiesinatra22
Joined: 4/12/2011
Msg: 147 (view)
 
Dealing with cigarette smoke
Posted: 4/1/2013 7:44:14 AM
Even as the walls close in, at the end of the day, the morality of human kind won't allow the abolition of their rights and freedom to continue to diminish. There's always a breaking point, and smoking is one of those freedoms. Just like the fight against marijuana, it can't be quelled. People will grow tobacco plants in their back yards and greenhouses. "Illegal" grow ops will spawn, and the now contraband tobacco will start flooding in. But it will never come to that. It just wouldn't make any sense to implement. The magazines and anti-smoking campaigns play their games but are powerless against the mass population and democracy of the people who legitimately want to smoke. I'm not sure why but there is quite a misconception about the frequency of smokers around us. From the CEO's running our economy to the lowly laborer, there is smoking. The people who work where you don't see them, like in industrial areas, construction yards, logistic networks, concert halls, executive offices, are smoking. And you'll never be able to take it away from them. Short of a totalitarian state, that amount of mass control is pointless and highly improbable.
 frankiesinatra22
Joined: 4/12/2011
Msg: 81 (view)
 
how come some women are man magnets and others perpetually single?
Posted: 4/1/2013 7:18:33 AM

frankiesinatra22: everything you aspire to be? Like, including girlfriendless? 8^O

ED BEAR

Balding?




Go with debt-free. I think that's my best feature.


Yes. If I could have the security to know that someday I'll be like you, I wouldn't have a care in the world today. The only thing I would add is a rockin' beard.

Andreabeaumont: There's tons of accomplished Middle Easterns that would love the chance at you. Go for them.
 frankiesinatra22
Joined: 4/12/2011
Msg: 318 (view)
 
Beards??? What is going on?
Posted: 4/1/2013 7:06:48 AM
The beard is the opposite of hiding. It's revealing your true self. Short of mass genetic manipulation, the beard is a permenant fixer within every man that's never going away, and so be it! A beard is like music from the pores. Long live beards and bearded men! The glory is abound!

Ponder on these proverbs:
A face without a beard is like a tortilla chip without salsa - pointless.
Some fathers teach their sons to shave. Others teach them to be men.
Shaving is the shackles made to keep a man from truly living.
At the top of every beard grows a man.
Beard: the difference between Mr. And Sir
Without man there can be no beard. Without beard there can be no man.
Shaving: because the weight of manhood was just too much.
 frankiesinatra22
Joined: 4/12/2011
Msg: 145 (view)
 
Dealing with cigarette smoke
Posted: 4/1/2013 6:19:47 AM
Hey Gods Gift, you must have been severly hurt by a smoker, or you live a very small sheltered life. I think you're confusing smokers with homeless meth addicts.
 frankiesinatra22
Joined: 4/12/2011
Msg: 252 (view)
 
Guys: Tgirls hot or not??
Posted: 3/31/2013 6:31:46 PM
Gender, orientation, identity........whatever, it doesn't concern me and it's none of my business. If you are a dude/were a dude, I'd want nothing to do with you sexually. If I ended up in that situation, I'd probably go home and pull an Ace Ventura.
 frankiesinatra22
Joined: 4/12/2011
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Tell me if i'm wrong, I stormed out of her apartment because she is trying to get a male roommate.
Posted: 3/31/2013 5:52:28 PM
I agree with premed 100%. That animalistic mentality doesn't fly with me either. As for you situation, it sounds like a mess. Just drop the whole thing and find some one else. Who cares if you stormed out, because the solution now should be never seeing her again.
 frankiesinatra22
Joined: 4/12/2011
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Bf rarely wants sex
Posted: 3/31/2013 5:31:11 PM
On the forums we can only speculate from information we're given. It can be many things like people have already pointed out. But one thing is for sure, is that if you're getting frustrated, don't just sit by and bottle it up. Sexual frustration can be mind numbing to deal with, especially in a marraige. There might be something he's not communicating to you. Whether its his attraction to you or something personal he's dealing with. So deal with it delicately, and unfortunately he doesn't want to go to counseling with you, but that can be the best course of action to open up communication lines. If it's just a matter of low libido and he doesn't want to change, then at that point it's up to you whether you can deal with it or not, and perhaps you'll have to find someone else to express your passion with. I knew somebody whose husband never wanted her, and it drove her crazy. Eventually he ended up being physically abusive to her and the baby for some reason of powerlessness. Just don't let it turn into something worse as time passes.
 frankiesinatra22
Joined: 4/12/2011
Msg: 98 (view)
 
Guys that shaved their arms and back...what do you think?
Posted: 3/31/2013 2:13:54 PM
I'm pretty sure men that shave themselves are not the norm, as much as we might think. I'm pretty sure the majority are still not giving a crap. The important thing is, to just let people live free and how they want, without pressure to satisfy your personal desires one way or the other.

I think TheTruthSon's post says it all.
 frankiesinatra22
Joined: 4/12/2011
Msg: 50 (view)
 
Insensitive or just trying to help?
Posted: 3/27/2013 4:38:57 PM
If you like the abuse and him putting down, then he sounds like a fantastic guy.
 frankiesinatra22
Joined: 4/12/2011
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Spotting and dealing with a tease
Posted: 3/27/2013 4:30:16 PM
All I got to say is, WATCH OUT FOR TEASES. That's bad news bears right there. Anybody should be able to spot a tease from a mile away.
 frankiesinatra22
Joined: 4/12/2011
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how come some women are man magnets and others perpetually single?
Posted: 3/27/2013 1:53:08 PM
First off, I just want to say that Ed Bear looks like the COOLEST MOTHERF***ER ON THE PLANET. You are everything I aspire to be.

But concerning the post, I get confused sometimes about that too. Some guys or girls I know seem like such a catch and don't want to be single, but have never seen them with anyone. One of my close friends in particular has everything going for him. But the best part is his physique and education. Unfortunally, he's the most insecure person I know, beyond my understanding. Some people do seem too picky, and never end up with anyone. I have a certain standard of maturity and what it means to be an adult that I feel 50% of girls my age group don't have (like even a modest interest in celebrities personal lives), which otherwise I would be interested in.
 frankiesinatra22
Joined: 4/12/2011
Msg: 127 (view)
 
Dealing with cigarette smoke
Posted: 3/27/2013 9:52:05 AM
Hey BabblingBrookes, do me next!
 frankiesinatra22
Joined: 4/12/2011
Msg: 124 (view)
 
Dealing with cigarette smoke
Posted: 3/27/2013 8:36:22 AM
Too many people bashing smoking on this thread. Leave smokers alone.

There's a few choices on this subject. He has to be willing to quit, or you have to accept it. Or, third option, find a middle ground, where he can have the freedom to smoke, just less, and not around you. When I was dating a non-smoker, I smoke to my hearts content during work (which was only a few a day) but when work was out, that was it for the day. And it worked out great. And it's a habit I carry with me to this day. Because I cared about her needs too, I had no problem letting go and found enjoyment and satisfaction in limiting myself and being in control. People find enjoyment in smoking in different rates. Some people can't stop, others (like my neighbor) smokes twice a day, one smoke in the afternoon, and one after dinner.

He should be able to consider that. Everyone gets the best of both worlds. The freedom to smoke, the freedom to not smell smoke, and the freedom to LOVE.
 frankiesinatra22
Joined: 4/12/2011
Msg: 22 (view)
 
Play it by ear dating
Posted: 1/6/2013 11:38:25 PM
That's how you're supposed to date. Why would you do anything else than play it by ear? You meet someone you like, you spend time together, if you fall in love, great, if not, break it up.
 frankiesinatra22
Joined: 4/12/2011
Msg: 148 (view)
 
Anyone else growing old alone?
Posted: 9/6/2012 6:47:01 AM
Maybe he was the sensible one. Take the time to reflect on it.
 frankiesinatra22
Joined: 4/12/2011
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controlling husband! please help need out
Posted: 8/6/2012 10:26:31 PM
I'm always skeptical on these subjects, although more details would help. Nobody can really know the truth even if they hear both sides of the story, they'll need to actually observe the interactions, and it's almost always two sided. But giving you the benefit of doubt, I'd say draw some firm lines on what is acceptable behavior from him towards you, and literally standing up to him and getting right in his face. Don't ever be afraid, unless you're in real physical harm, but that's a whole other subject. Just don't be afraid. Even before that, observe what might have caused this behavior to develop, and then go from there. That's all I can say for now.
 frankiesinatra22
Joined: 4/12/2011
Msg: 54 (view)
 
How to be less shallow?
Posted: 7/16/2012 3:37:23 PM

men are visual creatures


This line is regurgitated way too much, and is a misconception. Anything with eyes is a visual creature, thinking men are more so than anything else is not true, and it's not scientific fact. People have to stop using that as an excuse for their self centered horniness. So don't listen to those types of comments.

Relating to the poster, there are a few ways to stop being shallow.
-Getting your ass beaten within inches of your life might help you appreciate the value of life itself and perhaps the lives of others as well through the practice of empathy. Try to find someone who can do that for you.
-Eating a pile of day old human shit can put a taste so bad in your mouth the sight of a fat old hairy woman's toes will make your mouth water.
-Prodding your eyes with any kind of sharp object, preferably a pencil, will help you appreciate your sight, and the beauty that surrounds you.
-Screw a goat
-Find of picture of the hottest man in your opinion and post it on every mirror in your house. When you approach the mirror, compare ruthlessly every time. (The picture cannot be you)
-Study the biology of humans and psychology of the human mind to appreciate it's complexity of awesomeness in even the simplest of people
-Study, listen, and read romantic poetry, music, paintings, sculptures and all other forms of romantic art
-Stop watching tv, and popular movies
-Stop looking at porn
-Walk in public naked
-Take a break from video games
-Use a mirror or camera to see the backside of yourself. Prepare to discover additional imperfections you could have never imagined.
-Re-consider your sexual orientation through thought or experimentation

The possibilities are endless. Let me know if you need more examples.
 frankiesinatra22
Joined: 4/12/2011
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How Long would you wait to meet?
Posted: 6/29/2012 8:16:37 PM
Exactly one week max. If at least a date is not agreed upon after one week from first pof message, it's a no go.
 frankiesinatra22
Joined: 4/12/2011
Msg: 129 (view)
 
Whatever happen to the sweet and innocent girl?
Posted: 6/24/2012 9:00:17 PM
I have a general idea of what you're saying OP, but I think obviously the majority of women you're going to see are the party girls if you're picking them up as a taxi driver. I don't think this subject goes too much beyond that. Teusweet also makes a good point,
<div class="quote"> Nice gentle kind women like myself own my own car and dont need a cab! I was going to say that too.

I also feel like on a general scale there's an imbalance in self confidence between the male a female genders. From my experience, it seems like males as a whole seem to have a lot less self confidence in their female counterparts. Women nowadays seem to be exuding confidence, especially younger girls in their 20's. Why? And where do they get it that males don't? Where ever they get it, I'd like some.

SC67:

She's sitting in a chair outside family court, waiting for her ex to explain to the judge why he can't pay child support.


This also makes me sad. I've seen so many people destroyed by their spouse or each other after a premature marriage. It f*cks things up big time. And it's not fair when there's a victim. But I have a quick fix. I feel like we should raise the marriage cap to 25. Yup, illegal to marry until you're 25. Perfect.
 frankiesinatra22
Joined: 4/12/2011
Msg: 60 (view)
 
Lonely... need help i guess.
Posted: 6/8/2012 3:20:27 PM


don't pay attention to the people who are patronizing. it seems to me from reading these responses that people seem to think you're looking for advice, but miss the point what you're actually saying.

reading this post reminded me of a book that i read called the lucifer principle. in this book it talked about human and animals. there were tests on rabbits and the rabbits that did not get love or human contact died much quicker than the rabbits that recieved love and human contact. humans do need love, and they will actually die earlier without it. just like a couple who have been married for a long time. when one partner dies the other dies rather quickly. the lonliness and heartache actually causes them to die an earlier death. so yea to love and to be loved is very important for good heath and well being to a person, and anyone who denies that is in denial or want to put up some kind of fake facade that makes them seem strong just like some of the posters here.

good for you for saying what every single person craves. good for you that you are not a coward.


I think you put it perfectly, and thanks for your response. Love is essential, like food, water, and oxygen. Thank you again for understanding my post.
 frankiesinatra22
Joined: 4/12/2011
Msg: 36 (view)
 
Lonely... need help i guess.
Posted: 6/7/2012 11:07:52 PM
^^^Here it goes again. The assumption ridden, shaking up and "BE HAPPY" speech. "I'm happy, you be happy!" speech. At least add some class and express it in a late 80's Jamaican/American reggae acappella fashion.
 frankiesinatra22
Joined: 4/12/2011
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Lonely... need help i guess.
Posted: 6/7/2012 7:24:53 PM
Yes, I've actually become desperate, and apparently it's a crime deserving of the most brutal and ostracizing social punishment. It's a crime to have a burning desire to love and be loved to the point of feeling depravity. If someone in front of you is DESPERATE for food, wouldn't you feed them? If they're DESPERATE for water, wouldn't you give them a drink? If someone is DESPERATE for medical attention to the point of impending fatality, don't we as a society take care of each other? What if someone is DESPERATE to love and be loved? The kind of love that can only be shared between a significant other. That hole that really nothing else can fill. Physical contact, honor, respect, partnership, romance and perhaps more that can be shared between two people. I don't just want it, I CRAVE it. I NEED it to the point where this life cannot be worth living without it. But of course not. Denied, shunned, guilty for having a soul, for feeling something, for the thought of hope, for being human, to know my emotions. If my word is worth anything at all, I`d spend all the riches on the earth worth of it in solid gold to prove my honesty, and deepest hearts desire. I just need someone to take it from me.
 frankiesinatra22
Joined: 4/12/2011
Msg: 20 (view)
 
Lonely... need help i guess.
Posted: 6/7/2012 6:57:30 PM
A lot of people have responses but no real answers. I feel the same way as you Novelty. It's not that easy, you just want a companion, there's nothing you can do, at least nothing I can do for it myself. That's what I want, a companion. Nothing is going to fix that except for a companion. I can fill my time with EVERYTHING there possibly is, I can work 80 hour weeks, dismantle my car engine and reassemble it, go to pubs, go socialize, nothing works. There's no pill, there's nothing you can change in your profile, HAHAHA, hats don't make a difference, that's the most ridiculous thing I ever heard.

Although Walts is right, drinking does help. lol. Except we can't all be alcoholics.


<div class="quote">Being miserable isn't a really good turn on
That's been said a million times on this forum. That's the lamest excuse. Just because someone is down, doesn't mean they're a downer. When anyone I know is down, I have the compulsion to lend them a hand instead of running away in disgust.

Person 1: "I'm lonely"
Person 2: "You suck"
Person 1: "Will you spend time with me?"
Person 2: "Never, lonely is disgusting."
Person 1: "But if you spent time with me I wouldn't be lonely."
Person 2: "Too bad for you. You must be happy all the time"
Person 1: *commits suicide*
Horrible tragedy

Its frustrating.
 frankiesinatra22
Joined: 4/12/2011
Msg: 5 (view)
 
What do you think?
Posted: 6/6/2012 8:17:18 PM
They're being polite, or they have a different definition of a few extra pounds than you. Either way they find you attractive and like you, so just roll with it.
 frankiesinatra22
Joined: 4/12/2011
Msg: 26 (view)
 
Learning to take a hint
Posted: 5/27/2012 6:23:01 PM
School is the lamest excuse ever. I don't buy it.
 frankiesinatra22
Joined: 4/12/2011
Msg: 550 (view)
 
You are Hot!!!
Posted: 5/27/2012 12:56:59 AM
You know what else it can be...sometimes when a guy see's a woman he finds really attractive, he gets a tingly feeling in his balls. If it's more so than usual, he feels for the interest of others that he should express it. Kind of like when you see something that really puts you in awe. Like a beautiful night sky, or the West Virginia Mountains. You just turn to the nearest person and say, "Isn't that amazing?". In the case of a dude calling you hot, I guess the appropriate response would be to agree, disagree, or reciprocate the gesture.
 frankiesinatra22
Joined: 4/12/2011
Msg: 3 (view)
 
nerves or just avoiding me.
Posted: 5/25/2012 11:52:06 PM
Actually, the way you described it can be nerves. It's hard to say without knowing the type of person he is. ALTHOUGH if you've already been on numerous dates, it sounds fishy that he's still nervous. That doesn't sound right. It's hard to say without knowing more details.
 frankiesinatra22
Joined: 4/12/2011
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View on relationships
Posted: 5/25/2012 11:45:51 PM

He was a great guy but I didn't see myself ever marrying him and only developed feeling for him as a good friend.

That line disturbs me. Pretty much your army buddies are 100% correct, except for maybe the part about saying it's a waste of time. Whether it was a waste or not is perspective. If you feel it wasn't then it's not. But other than that, I would say those guys were being 100% honest. The truth is hard to swallow, but perhaps, (and I'm not saying this in a mean way), but perhaps you should consider what they said, and reflect upon it. That's how we learn and become better people. Nothing is gained by rejecting our impulse to doubt ourselves. You can unlock powerful new parts of yourself you never knew you had.
 frankiesinatra22
Joined: 4/12/2011
Msg: 15 (view)
 
Wants to meet
Posted: 5/25/2012 11:30:43 PM
Yah, people are so weird. Fussing about the meet me feature. Holy smokes, why does it bother you so much? "WHY DO THEY CLICK ME??? AAAARRRGGGGGHHHH!!!!! MAD!!! SMASSSHHH!!!!" LOL. When that happens, maybe it's time to lay off the dating websites, or settle for the first person who looks twice at you, or just stay off the internet all together. Go read a book or something.

bucsgirl:

You know, not many people have a good sense of what type of people might be attracted to them, whether it's men or women. They tend to just write to people who they're attracted to, that's why it's not mutual so often


THAT is very interesting. Never thought of it like that. But I like it a lot.

 frankiesinatra22
Joined: 4/12/2011
Msg: 534 (view)
 
Called Hot but nothing to burn?
Posted: 5/24/2012 6:11:01 PM

No, I don't - however I know plenty of men and women who are single that have kids/a family (to me they are one in the same), so not being on a mission to pair off to me isn't connected with that. If you want kids badly enough, there are ways to accomplish that.


Ahhhh, makes sense. So I guess that's one of the issues people are discussing here. It seems to me that some people are more independent and in the long term, don't mind it, while others have a STRONG inclining to find a partner. I guess those two different type people shouldn't try getting into a relationship.
 frankiesinatra22
Joined: 4/12/2011
Msg: 532 (view)
 
Called Hot but nothing to burn?
Posted: 5/24/2012 5:38:21 PM

I don't know, what ABOUT children and a family? I don't get the question.


To womaninprogress:

You said you'd be ok single for the rest of your life. My question was what is your view on children and family? Do you want those things? I guess you wouldn't.
 frankiesinatra22
Joined: 4/12/2011
Msg: 522 (view)
 
Called Hot but nothing to burn?
Posted: 5/24/2012 7:54:49 AM
To previous poster:
What about children and a family?
 frankiesinatra22
Joined: 4/12/2011
Msg: 520 (view)
 
You are Hot!!!
Posted: 5/24/2012 4:40:44 AM
What about, "You're everything a woman should be. You're the definition of a woman. When I see you my heart throbs like a rolling ball of thunder, ripping me at the seems of my chest with the anxiety and anticipation to get close to you if only for a moment. When we're apart my mind is consumed at the thought of you with the type of blissful intoxication that can only be compared to the experience of all the majesties of the universe and beyond."

But you have to mean it when you say it or else it has no value. That's better than "you're hot"
 
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