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 Author Thread: Blue balls: Your experience with it?
 Blusty
Joined: 11/3/2006
Msg: 52 (view)
 
Blue balls: Your experience with it?
Posted: 4/10/2013 11:52:12 AM
Agree it is real, none of my partners had that problem.
By the way women can also suffer from no or not enough satisfaction-called pelvic congestion, yes it is painful.
 Blusty
Joined: 11/3/2006
Msg: 198 (view)
 
Shorter man Taller woman
Posted: 4/7/2013 12:25:29 PM
If you like each other, it should not matter, I am 5'3 and the tallest for me would be 6', that is my preference.
 Blusty
Joined: 11/3/2006
Msg: 99 (view)
 
How valued are men?
Posted: 4/7/2013 12:14:48 PM
Thanks MsMikki, could not have said any better.
 Blusty
Joined: 11/3/2006
Msg: 47 (view)
 
If you were the other woman - would you want to know?
Posted: 4/6/2013 2:10:05 PM
Yes I would want to know.
 blusty
Joined: 11/3/2006
Msg: 60 (view)
 
Woman who sucks at sex!!!!
Posted: 4/2/2013 11:52:56 AM
It takes two for awesome sex, some things should be discussed prior to becoming involved. Preferences, likes, dislikes and things that are way off limits. After that ongoing communication helps ...
 Blusty
Joined: 11/3/2006
Msg: 44 (view)
 
Being sexually honest when looking for new partner
Posted: 3/25/2013 4:35:50 PM
Totally agree with the above, best to discuss things before the bedroom. Likes, dislikes, even hard limits-things you will not do. Communication should be part of adult relationship.
 Blusty
Joined: 11/3/2006
Msg: 26 (view)
 
Not Sexually Compatible? Devestated...
Posted: 3/23/2013 9:09:34 AM
Everyone is different, have you had this happen with other partners? I tend to discuss these things before hand. Yes my size preference as it does take a certain size to hit my g-spot and have no idea where a larger penis 8 + would fit, likes, dislikes, limits etc. Still will not know till the first time at least basics were covered.
 Blusty
Joined: 11/3/2006
Msg: 33 (view)
 
What position you get the Most pleasure???
Posted: 3/23/2013 8:58:50 AM
I enjoy variety, different positions, favourite would be, lover on a chair me straddling, allows for kissing, eye contact, body contact and seems to hit my spot oh so nicely.
 Blusty
Joined: 11/3/2006
Msg: 23 (view)
 
Ladies I need your input on this.
Posted: 3/17/2013 9:29:24 AM
Only once in his life why was there no second time?
Are we talking about a really young male? I am not interested in robbing the cradle.
Or as in only one partner? I have had a relationship with someone like that and our 3 years together were awesome.
 Blusty
Joined: 11/3/2006
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Attraction to lesbians
Posted: 3/17/2013 9:06:24 AM
Perhaps you are thinking that you will be the one male to change their mind, or see it as a challenge?
Or have common interests.
 Blusty
Joined: 11/3/2006
Msg: 8 (view)
 
How does a woman successfully teach a man how she likes to be touched?
Posted: 3/12/2013 2:30:47 PM
This is a discussion I have before hand. This is not an age thing, some men can listen and follow directions/guidance others not so much. Communication is key and good luck.
 Blusty
Joined: 11/3/2006
Msg: 229 (view)
 
Guys: Tgirls hot or not??
Posted: 3/2/2013 12:20:41 PM
This should have been mentioned prior to going to anyone's place. Not all surprises are good or happy.
 Blusty
Joined: 11/3/2006
Msg: 79 (view)
 
Boyfriend of 3 years wont have sex with me anymore
Posted: 3/2/2013 12:17:48 PM
If you are staying together for your son, even at his young age can sense that something is not right/has changed. Please look after yourself so that he has a happy and healthy mom.
 Blusty
Joined: 11/3/2006
Msg: 141 (view)
 
Too Tall?
Posted: 3/2/2013 11:53:20 AM
This is a personal preference, I am 5'3", and not into heels, think 6' is the tallest I would want in a man.
 Blusty
Joined: 11/3/2006
Msg: 22 (view)
 
Explaining High Sex Drive?
Posted: 2/13/2013 12:25:29 PM
Sex is also very important to me, and I bring it up early on. As there are men and women that are happy with as little sex as possible.
 Blusty
Joined: 11/3/2006
Msg: 30 (view)
 
She says sex isn't important. What does that mean?
Posted: 2/5/2013 4:14:41 PM
It is important to me. There are men that feel that sex is not important as well. I married one like that-yes it ended in divorce.
 Blusty
Joined: 11/3/2006
Msg: 8 (view)
 
Loss of sex drive
Posted: 2/2/2013 12:57:22 PM
Everyone is different, some women sex drive goes into high gear while pregnant. Was the delivery tramautic?
Have you both been to see the Doctor?
 Blusty
Joined: 11/3/2006
Msg: 11 (view)
 
Outdoor nudity
Posted: 2/2/2013 12:48:06 PM
Perhaps it is illegal where they live. Most countries seem to have nude beaches and nudist clubs so alot have gone further-yes including myself.
 Blusty
Joined: 11/3/2006
Msg: 24 (view)
 
Unable to masturbate to completion?
Posted: 2/1/2013 5:10:57 PM
Still only takes edge of at best.
 Blusty
Joined: 11/3/2006
Msg: 1464 (view)
 
Can men deal with NOT getting blowjobs?
Posted: 1/30/2013 12:39:31 PM
Best discuss this with potential partner before hand. Some men do not enjoy receiving oral sex others could not live without it.
 Blusty
Joined: 11/3/2006
Msg: 6 (view)
 
Unable to masturbate to completion?
Posted: 1/30/2013 12:27:57 PM
Perhaps he is telling the truth, as I can not satisfy myself either. Not hung up about touching myself, as I wash, trim etc. At best my masturbation takes the edge off, yet come easily for partners fingers, mouth and penis. Wish I could find a solution for my problem..
 Blusty
Joined: 11/3/2006
Msg: 89 (view)
 
Oral sex during period?
Posted: 1/19/2013 12:56:30 PM
Do you know that possibly you can get STD's from kissing.
 Blusty
Joined: 11/3/2006
Msg: 88 (view)
 
Oral sex during period?
Posted: 1/19/2013 12:51:27 PM
Take a shower together, seems to slow down the flow, and if you stay in shower, mess is easily cleaned up.

If you are comfortable with it-go for it. Sex can alleviate some of the symptons that come with the period.
 Blusty
Joined: 11/3/2006
Msg: 58 (view)
 
Is it wrong to tell a guy right off the bat that you have no interest in sex?
Posted: 12/10/2012 4:28:06 PM
Honesty is the best policy, perhaps you could find a man who does not have much interest in sex.
 Blusty
Joined: 11/3/2006
Msg: 238 (view)
 
my date told me they were kinky but it was too much
Posted: 11/24/2012 9:51:59 AM
I prefer to discuss these things prior to meeting. That to me is very disturbing.
 blusty
Joined: 11/3/2006
Msg: 100 (view)
 
Bareback Sex!
Posted: 11/21/2012 3:54:29 PM
I also prefer bareback in a committed relationship, how do you know she is D/D?
 Blusty
Joined: 11/3/2006
Msg: 162 (view)
 
Showering together.....is it intimate?
Posted: 11/11/2012 9:19:40 AM
Love both, can easily turn into foreplay and more.
 Blusty
Joined: 11/3/2006
Msg: 1021 (view)
 
guys who don't like blowjobs
Posted: 11/11/2012 9:05:20 AM
Yes I have met onw who does not like it.
Tried asking why-still not sure.
Could be many reasons, I was not ever a big fan of receiving, till I meet a man who was gifted, love it. Now to find a man to repeat that with.
 Blusty
Joined: 11/3/2006
Msg: 58 (view)
 
Woman doesn't like penis's and semen, would you date her?
Posted: 11/10/2012 3:30:15 PM
A woman that does not like a penis, might be a lesbian. Once I encountered a man whose sperm I did not like, if it went any where on my skin, left a rash and felt burning sensation, we had to use condoms. he did eat alot of spicy food-perhaps that was why?
 Blusty
Joined: 11/3/2006
Msg: 83 (view)
 
Can a person kiss with dentures?
Posted: 11/6/2012 4:26:18 PM
Money is always dirty, I wash or use hand sanitizer after handling money always. Ever rolled coins and looked at your hands?
 Blusty
Joined: 11/3/2006
Msg: 267 (view)
 
have you ever tasted breastmilk?
Posted: 11/6/2012 4:22:56 PM
We both have out of curiosity, neither of us really liked it, glad the baby did.
 Blusty
Joined: 11/3/2006
Msg: 31 (view)
 
Feeling raw and sore after sex.
Posted: 11/6/2012 4:19:26 PM
Were you aroused? How do you feel after round one? is partner experiencing any symptoms? Have you tried peeing shortly after having sex? Best ask Doctor
 Blusty
Joined: 11/3/2006
Msg: 139 (view)
 
Do men secretly hate being used for sex
Posted: 11/6/2012 2:51:36 PM
Then there are men that just do not enjoy sex, was married to one.
 Blusty
Joined: 11/3/2006
Msg: 494 (view)
 
How to find out penis size
Posted: 11/4/2012 7:14:38 AM
Lots has been said here, she could ask the man in question, why not I get ased about my bra size.
Size does matter, not saying bigger is better. Old saying different strokes for different folks.Lots of other factors are important, I do have a prefered size 6-7 in. Honestly under 6 will not hit my gspot.
 Blusty
Joined: 11/3/2006
Msg: 172 (view)
 
Do men really care if a woman has an orgasm????
Posted: 10/31/2012 2:32:44 PM
Speaking from my limited experience, some do and some do not. If they do not, they will not be around me for long, as I am multi orgasmic, crave and need more then one.
 Blusty
Joined: 11/3/2006
Msg: 314 (view)
 
SEX AND WOMEN OVER 40 OR 50?????
Posted: 10/31/2012 2:28:41 PM
That is one woman's life and not by choice. Can not tell how old you are, but sex drive does decline for some males as well. Perhaps that is why older women now also enjoy younger men. Myself I have always enjoyed sex and probably will till I die.
 Blusty
Joined: 11/3/2006
Msg: 84 (view)
 
Women who say they want it just as bad
Posted: 10/16/2012 2:36:01 PM
Mine seems to be higher then most mens. I miss having it every day. Our current style is doggie, I sit up and beg and he rolls over and plays dead, sad but true. Also get get cranky when I do not get it, which explains my sour mood LOL.
 Blusty
Joined: 11/3/2006
Msg: 17 (view)
 
Adventures in bed: A man's view
Posted: 10/16/2012 2:31:37 PM
Some men appreciate that, not all. Some think they want someone like that and once they have them , change their mind.
 Blusty
Joined: 11/3/2006
Msg: 9 (view)
 
Oral sex during vaginal
Posted: 10/16/2012 2:14:49 PM
Can be very hot, no different then kissing him after he goes down on me.
 Blusty
Joined: 11/3/2006
Msg: 73 (view)
 
Waking her up with sex
Posted: 8/7/2012 7:59:26 AM
Can not speak for anyone else, myself anytime is a good time for sex.
 Blusty
Joined: 11/3/2006
Msg: 416 (view)
 
Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 8/6/2012 3:40:42 PM
Well not all men are good at it, after my divorce men would offer me oral and I would turn it down. The ex had gone out of his way to make it painful. Then I met someone more gentle and he kept persisting , wow never knew it could feel so great, perhaps they also had bad experiences?
 Blusty
Joined: 11/3/2006
Msg: 31 (view)
 
Is there a correct way of mentioning sex in a profile for a relationship?
Posted: 8/6/2012 11:00:35 AM
looked at your profile, as other posters mention fatal flaws, all I see is that you rather see them without too much make up. You have not revealed what it is sexually that you enjoy. There are things a little different about me sexually, and I mention them early on as it is not everyone's cup of tea. I rather find out sooner then later.
 Blusty
Joined: 11/3/2006
Msg: 23 (view)
 
After Oral is a women satisfied?
Posted: 6/10/2012 3:59:32 PM
Same sentiment as MsMikki, best discuss with potential partner, very early in the game.
 Blusty
Joined: 11/3/2006
Msg: 532 (view)
 
Do women like men who like Feet?
Posted: 5/8/2012 4:35:13 PM
Sure I like men who like feet, as long as the rest of my body gets attention also.
 Blusty
Joined: 11/3/2006
Msg: 296 (view)
 
Shaving = Pedophilia?
Posted: 5/8/2012 4:30:32 PM
Some have mentioned already mother nature knows best.
Personally i prefer neat and trimmed and will gladly go bald for a change.
Have you offered to do it for her? Can be fun to trim each other.
 Blusty
Joined: 11/3/2006
Msg: 1021 (view)
 
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 5/8/2012 4:17:25 PM
If the partner or SO does not know about it, then yes it is cheating.
Threesomes, as long as all parties involved and their partner know, not cheating.
 Blusty
Joined: 11/3/2006
Msg: 90 (view)
 
Is it uncomfortable for women to have sex during their period?
Posted: 3/31/2012 11:57:38 AM
If you are both comfortable it is a great thing, for me it also helps with the PMS symptomps and cramps. Could take a shower together...
 Blusty
Joined: 11/3/2006
Msg: 453 (view)
 
girls with high sex drive
Posted: 3/31/2012 11:54:22 AM
Honesty is the best way to go. I also have a high sex drive, and this was discussed prior to the start of the relationship. Reality now I still want it way more often then he does, hence the reason for my being here
 Blusty
Joined: 11/3/2006
Msg: 99 (view)
 
Squirting
Posted: 2/18/2012 11:23:49 AM
Yes I am one of those women, your desription is pretty close .

First time it happened at 34 y. was embarrassed, thought I had peed, yes I smelled it, not pee. Luckily my partner knew right away what had happened, he was pleased and coaxed more out of me.

Trust and relazing are key.

"Most men will feel it as a hot flush", my partner was sitting on a chair and I straddled him, I soaked his lap, the chair etc. all fluid came out of my vagina.

I will cum way more then 5 or 6 times in an hours, each orgasm is stronger then the last.
 Blusty
Joined: 11/3/2006
Msg: 157 (view)
 
Squirting is such a different feeling
Posted: 10/19/2011 2:42:52 PM
Sigmund, just like your cum changes with diet, so does the female version.
Sorry you had a bad experiece.
 
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