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Thread: overhyped profiles
whebos
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overhyped profiles
Posted:
1/16/2007 6:41:34 AM
oh come on OP!!
Didn't you know that EVERYBODY on here is beautiful and are expecting the same? lol
whebos
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Profiles stating they do not want players. So why are they playing others then??
Posted:
1/16/2007 6:39:48 AM
It's quite funny. Ive noticed a few profiles stating the typical stories of "not wanting players"
This is a fair statement if the comment is genuine, however..... these profiles seem to have dozens and dozens of favourites and are online pretty much every time i check my mail on POF.
So who's the player?
whebos
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A Sexy Look For A Guy
Posted:
12/11/2006 6:13:52 AM
It seems fashion differs greatly between countries, or even states.
Here in Oz, most guys with a fashion sense would not go anywhere near 501's anymore.
It's all about designer labels nowadays.. and as for shirts as such, the fashion changes almost monthly!
At the end of the day, what suits one may not suit the next guy. As somebody mentioned earlier, check the latest mags for what works with certain body types.
whebos
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Internet Dating? Does it work? or is it all a crock of s**t?
Posted:
11/30/2006 4:50:28 AM
oh yeah.... check the testimonials.
it's rare but it does happen apparently. i think these days, real life encounters do not turn into "happily ever afters" as often as it used to many years ago.
these days the pressure from work, money struggles and temptation all equate to divorces more often than not.
whebos
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Internet Dating? Does it work? or is it all a crock of s**t?
Posted:
11/30/2006 4:44:28 AM
ermmmm... what was the question again?
whebos
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Kiss location.
Posted:
11/29/2006 9:01:08 PM
i think the date as a whole should be looked at.
There should be some signs as to how things are progressing.
Body language, flirting, eye contact. All of these should in most cases give you an idea of
what the other is thinking.
A kiss on the cheek is always welcoming at the end of the first date. As mentioned already, better than nothing! Imagine a hand shake? lol
A kiss close to the mouth or lips is not too forward. I think it's great to be shown blatant interest. Quite often us guys are left wondering if we can't read the signs.
whebos
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men in bed
Posted:
11/29/2006 8:48:23 PM
3 words
communication DURING sex
It blows me away how many people clam up during sex. We are at our most vulnerable!!!
Laugh, joke, talk dirty, hint to him what you like, do it all!
At the very least, if ya don't want to talk about what you like, how you like and dont like something, atleast hit him up for his credit card. He WILL say yes. lol
whebos
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whats the most interesting first date u ever been on?
Posted:
11/29/2006 5:53:10 PM
mmmnicky,
im not even going to begin to explain the greater picture.
Im not saying she was FAT (your words) She was much larger than i in all aspects of the word.
Very broad shoulders and the rest of it. As i mentioned before, she would ideally (i think) be better suited to a guy that has also a big frame... and not FAT!!! as you call it.
As for me being 90kg's.. This is by no means even close to being obese, large or big boned.
For your info, my 34" waist would not indicate "hefty"
Not exactly sure why you are even getting uptight.
The title of this thread is "what's the most interesting date you've been on?" and from my experience, i have stated this, not to point out that she is a larger girl as the main reason, but the lies and shocking attitude she displayed.
whebos
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Religion V's Assimilation in a foreign country
Posted:
11/28/2006 7:46:51 PM
And upon you be peace.
whebos
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Religion V's Assimilation in a foreign country
Posted:
11/27/2006 9:51:53 PM
In today's world, we seem to see more and more stories of religion vs assimilation (or lack of it)
Predominantly in the western countries.
If moving your life to a foreign country with different culture, religions, lifestyle and values... do u adapt or keep within your own religious and cultural boundaries?
As the media has shown in recent years, this has proven to be a huge problem between the immigrants, citizens and also first generation citizens alike.
Love to hear the thoughts and opinions of others.
whebos
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An Email in my Inbox
Posted:
11/27/2006 6:35:01 AM
i think he tried to describe "the perfect man" which doesn't exist in any case.
whebos
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Do women actually want to meet?
Posted:
11/27/2006 5:53:06 AM
Hey OP,
If youre giving out your # to users that have dozens and dozens of people that have added them to their favourites list, the chances are that you may simply become just another "favourite" amongst all of the others.
Many women (and men) on here are not into meeting everybody they chat with.
Exchanging dozens of emails is not neccesarily going to lead to meeting or phone calls.
Another approach would be to talk about exchanging numbers first. If you get the feel that the other party is not comfortable with giving you theirs... then they perhaps won't even go as far as calling you.
Ya just gotta get a feel or vibe about the person you are chatting with. I'd be reluctant to hand out my number to just anybody that returns an email. There has to be a deeper connection i believe.
my 2c
whebos
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Did I just get turned down nicely????
Posted:
11/27/2006 5:41:12 AM
Some guys dont even get replies.
Atleast she wasnt rude or shallow with her reply, unlike many on here.
What's her name? Might message her. haha!
whebos
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Has anyone been brave enough to meet someone with no pic at all?
Posted:
11/27/2006 4:42:47 AM
Ive had a meeting experience with someone with no pic.
Sorry if some of you may have already read this. Ive cut and paste this from another section of the forums where i originally posted this.
Ive had an interesting first date (only 1 date in this case).
This happened a few years ago.
Been chatting to this girl online for some time. She did display an attitude of perhaps being hurt in the past, or maybe it was an "im too good for most" kind of attitude.
Curiosity did get the better of me.
Although i did send her my picture, i was left hanging onto a description from her.
Description as follows..
Long dark hair
Blue eyes
Big red pouty lips
Big boobs
Will be wearing something red when we meet
5'7" in height
Eastern European appearance
Now i figured this SHOULD be enough to go on.
The date and venue was set for 8pm.
I turned up at 7.40pm just so i could get comfortable and scope the place.
Sat down at the bar and ordered my first scotch.
While sipping on the first drink, i did notice in the distance (next to another entry door) a
girl fitting the description. She was indeed a brunette, wearing a halter neck top, semi long skirt and a (RED) scarf and bag.
She appeared to be about the height mentioned but was too far away to notice eye colour,
or anything else she may have mentioned.
Seeing as i was early, i played it cool and continued to indulge in my drink, whilst looking back occassionally on the girl i had noticed earlier.
She was noticably waiting for someone but it's not quite 8pm so i kept a low profile.
Ive now hit the barman up for a second drink to build up my Dutch courage.
Now being very close to 8pm, i figured it's time to say hello.
As ive jumped off the barstool and taken 2 steps toward this girl, in the corner of my eye (and a second too late) ive noticed and accidently knocked over another girl whom had approached me from my left. As she lost her balance, she has grabbed my arm to regain her balance. I apologised for being careless and then proceeded to make my way to my date.
This girl that had almost gone ass over then called out my name. I had a second and third look. Realised that the girl i had originally spotted was not my date in waiting, but was infact the girl i had almost knocked to the ground.
The reason for my second and third look at her was to try to piece together the description she had given me. Her description was certainly NOT what was standing in front of me.
Well... she wasn't completely honest! A few (i think) important pieces of info missing.
Blue eyes? yes
Big red pouty lips? yes
Dark hair? yes
Big boobs? Hell yes!!
Red attire? Well... if you wanna call red shoes some kind of apparel, then yes i suppose.
A few things she didn't tell me.
She was indeed a big girl. (Nothing wrong with that so dont flame me)
Definitely curves in the right places. Lots of curves!
Now im not a BIG guy. Only 90kg and i consider myself slim to average. There has to be some kind of compatibility, no?
Anyways...
We sat down at a table adjacent to the bar. I ordered a drink for each of us (now my third and needing it)
Our conversation started well. She was showing absolutely no signs of her fiesty attitude.
Our small talk jumped from the weeks events to politics and religion. (i know i know... but it could have been worse)
Over her shoulder and towards the other end of the bar and exit was the original girl that i have been eyeing out. After about 15 mins of chitchat and our 2nd round of drinks, my date had noticed me looking over her shoulder at the other (original) girl at the door.
Things got sour REAL QUICK!!!
Now her true colours came out to shine!
She turns around to see who i glanced at.
she says to me "you wish she was here instead of me don't you?"
What could i say? I told her that during the time of knocking her ass over, i was just about to go over to this other girl and make an absolute fool of myself. haha!
She didn't see the humour in it.
Her stare could have killed!
She then started to rave on about how ALL guys are all the same, all dumping her ass and/or not showing up to dates at all.
After trying to calm her down (she was now making a scene), i did say to her that she should be a little more honest about her appearance, as there are plenty of guys better suited to her than myself. Perhaps a big cuddly bear of a guy would be asthetically better.
She continued to be rude and loud at the bar, bringing attention to our table from all corners.
I did end up calling it a night at about 8.30pm, finished my last drink and got up. At this stage, the original girl whom i thought was my date was also aware of the obnoxious behaviour coming from the "date from hell"
I left my date at the table and walked over the the other girl at the door (wish that was my date) and said to her quietly.. " ermm, as you can see, this is a first date that just shouldn't have happened. Do me a favour.... can we just look in her direction and chuckle a little bit?"
She obliged and we laughed whilst taking a glance at the girl who had now lost the plot.
Not wanting to create any more attention, i wished this other girl a good night and left the bar, never to return, as this bar was a local hang out for that individual.
Never again will i attempt to meet someone without the aid of pics. haha!
Oh God i hope she isn't a member here...
whebos
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whats the most interesting first date u ever been on?
Posted:
11/27/2006 2:05:22 AM
Ive had an interesting first date (only date in this case).
This happened a few years ago.
Been chatting to this girl online for some time. She did display an attitude of perhaps being hurt in the past, or maybe it was an "im too good for most" kind of attitude.
Curiosity did get the better of me.
Although i did send her my picture, i was left hanging onto a description from her.
Description as follows..
Long dark hair
Blue eyes
Big red pouty lips
Big boobs
Will be wearing something red when we meet
5'7" in height
Eastern European appearance
Now i figured this SHOULD be enough to go on.
The date and venue was set for 8pm.
I turned up at 7.40pm just so i could get comfortable and scope the place.
Sat down at the bar and ordered my first scotch.
While sipping on the first drink, i did notice in the distance (next to another entry door) a
girl fitting the description. She was indeed a brunette, wearing a halter neck top, semi long skirt and a (RED) scarf and bag.
She appeared to be about the height mentioned but was too far away to notice eye colour,
or anything else she may have mentioned.
Seeing as i was early, i played it cool and continued to indulge in my drink, whilst looking back occassionally on the girl i had noticed earlier.
She was noticably waiting for someone but it's not quite 8pm so i kept a low profile.
Ive now hit the barman up for a second drink to build up my Dutch courage.
Now being very close to 8pm, i figured it's time to say hello.
As ive jumped off the barstool and taken 2 steps toward this girl, in the corner of my eye (and a second too late) ive noticed and accidently knocked over another girl whom had approached me from my left. As she lost her balance, she has grabbed my arm to regain her balance. I apologised for being careless and then proceeded to make my way to my date.
This girl that had almost gone ass over then called out my name. I had a second and third look. Realised that the girl i had originally spotted was not my date in waiting, but was infact the girl i had almost knocked to the ground.
The reason for my second and third look at her was to try to piece together the description she had given me. Her description was certainly NOT what was standing in front of me.
Well... she wasn't completely honest! A few (i think) important pieces of info missing.
Blue eyes? yes
Big red pouty lips? yes
Dark hair? yes
Big boobs? Hell yes!!
Red attire? Well... if you wanna call red shoes some kind of apparel, then yes i suppose.
A few things she didn't tell me.
She was indeed a big girl. (Nothing wrong with that so dont flame me)
Definitely curves in the right places. Lots of curves!
Now im not a BIG guy. Only 90kg and i consider myself slim to average. There has to be some kind of compatibility, no?
Anyways...
We sat down at a table adjacent to the bar. I ordered a drink for each of us (now my third and needing it)
Our conversation started well. She was showing absolutely no signs of her fiesty attitude.
Our small talk jumped from the weeks events to politics and religion. (i know i know... but it could have been worse)
Over her shoulder and towards the other end of the bar and exit was the original girl that i have been eyeing out. After about 15 mins of chitchat and our 2nd round of drinks, my date had noticed me looking over her shoulder at the other (original) girl at the door.
Things got sour REAL QUICK!!!
Now her true colours came out to shine!
She turns around to see who i glanced at.
she says to me "you wish she was here instead of me don't you?"
What could i say? I told her that during the time of knocking her ass over, i was just about to go over to this other girl and make an absolute fool of myself. haha!
She didn't see the humour in it.
Her stare could have killed!
She then started to rave on about how ALL guys are all the same, all dumping her ass and/or not showing up to dates at all.
After trying to calm her down (she was now making a scene), i did say to her that she should be a little more honest about her appearance, as there are plenty of guys better suited to her than myself. Perhaps a big cuddly bear of a guy would be asthetically better.
She continued to be rude and loud at the bar, bringing attention to our table from all corners.
I did end up calling it a night at about 8.30pm, finished my last drink and got up. At this stage, the original girl whom i thought was my date was also aware of the obnoxious behaviour coming from the "date from hell"
I left my date at the table and walked over the the other girl at the door (wish that was my date) and said to her quietly.. " ermm, as you can see, this is a first date that just shouldn't have happened. Do me a favour.... can we just look in her direction and chuckle a little bit?"
She obliged and we laughed whilst taking a glance at the girl who had now lost the plot.
Not wanting to create any more attention, i wished this other girl a good night and left the bar, never to return, as this bar was a local hang out for that individual.
Never again will i attempt to meet someone without the aid of pics. haha!
Oh God i hope she isn't a member here...
whebos
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My two cents
Posted:
11/25/2006 9:55:54 PM
Hahahah!
im stayin out of this one.
good luck with your other avenues of search mate.
BTW, fat chicks need friends too. I think that's a little harsh. lol
I do however see your point. I made a very similar point in sombody elses thread.
good luck dude!!
whebos
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Why are you on here?
Posted:
11/24/2006 2:00:47 AM
Coz my doctor said it will do me some good.
Come to think of it, my bank manager told me the same thing..
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