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blargal

Joined: 11/4/2006

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Anyone else feel like giving up because of being unsuccessful? Posted: 8/1/2009 10:42:54 PM
I'd like to say never give up never surrender but ya know...nah not with this one i'm in the boat of gave up and moved on section. I know I know...don't bother looking at my profile its old and outdated I don't really come on here all to much anymore, but I haven't been in much else then a one date thing in over 8 years now and the only relationship I had way back then was only 8 months long. I have my reasons but I chose the path of being by myself and I am perfectly happy with that path, all my friends say that I should find someone, they all say I should get laid, they all say this and that about relationships but I keep telling them its not for me. They are all in relationships every one of them, hell I think in the next four to five years i'm going to be going to 5 weddings lol! Its all fine and dandy that my friends are all in happy long lasting relationships but you know what I myself have no intention on ever finding "the one" or even just a woman to go out with for that matter I am the type of guy who is happy alone you all can say that i'm full of crock or am just spewing out nonsense but for me its true. I mean its my life let me live it the way I want right?

blargal

Joined: 11/4/2006

Msg: 106 (view)

When a man is a porn pervert and lies about it what to do? Posted: 8/1/2009 10:30:02 PM
Every one has their own fantasies that they know they very likely won't be able to ever get in real life, hence the porn to at least help a bit. Porn is one thing but live camera while dating someone I would think as a bad thing but everyone man and woman watches and has at least a little bit of porn of some sort on his or her computer weather in a relationship or not. The only time I actually got mad from something like this was when a friend of mine (female) got on my computer without my permission while I was in the bathroom, started browsing around my files and finds my external hard drive full of anime. She freaks out saying something along the lines of "OMG you watch cartoon porn thats so gross!" I just sighed and clicked on one turning it on showing her it was ANIME not all anime is hentai. In fact that 500gb hard drive is full of just plain anime lol. Anyway as for the woman in that relationship i'm sorry but in my eyes she is more in the wrong then the man, she put a keylogger and such on his computer. I know for one I wouldn't let her on my computer let alone browse around on it and if I found her on it then next find a keylogger that was from her i'd very likely break up then next step would be pressing charges. She invaded personal space of the guy, I mean how would you like us going around your closet and drawrs moving around all your cloths and personal objects?

blargal

Joined: 11/4/2006

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How many women here prefer short/skinny men? Posted: 5/24/2009 1:33:04 PM
Short and skinny? No way... From a "shallow" point of view... a tall guy may or may not have a small package but a small and skinny man... er.. ya can be almost 100% sure ya getting a small package... Why? Its only logical... "Where" to put it? Not a lot of space "there" if a man is too small and skinny... I take no offence from this comment but I object whole heartedly, I am only about 5'6 mabey 5'7 in height and i'm on the skinny end (though I work out so at least I got some tone on me lol) and I can tell you and any other woman that thinks this now that it dose not matter 100% ever on the man and his size to tell what size he is down below, I am a very well endowed man down below even though i'm short and skinny! Hmmm if a lot of women think this perhaps this is one of the reasons why I find it so hard for me to find any partners lol.

blargal

Joined: 11/4/2006

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I've realized something... Posted: 3/31/2009 4:46:54 PM
You know i'm not sure what to think on this one, I am 23 and a virgin however I did have a gf in my past...like 9 years ago now but because of how that one ended up it took myself years to trust women again. I do not find sex a waste of time but nor will I go and find a hooker I think to highly of myself for doing that. The way I see it is this, i'm 23 and a virgin yes but if I just keep on looking I will one day whenever that might be find a girl who is going to make me happy, and when we both are ready and willing that time will come for my first time having sex. Until then i'm not going to brood over it i'm going to continue my life how I have been, hanging out with friends and having fun, going to work and earning money, and every so often make a girl blush and smile by complimenting her while i'm at work or something :P. Now only if I could take it a step further and gather the will and balls to go "hey wanna go out for a cup of coffee or something when I get off work?" Anyway in my opinion don't brood over it just take your time and gather the courage to ask a girl out, eventually people like you and I will find a woman worth the long wait!

blargal

Joined: 11/4/2006

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Guys - Last longer/shorter when masturbating vs. sex? Posted: 3/16/2009 11:43:11 PM
Hmmm...Well I don't really know, i'm in your boat on the whole virgin thing but long story short i've been told and know I can out last most people, i've been known to go for hours without cumming once heh one woman said I had a will of steel. But in the end i've also been told when my time comes to have sex i'll very likely not cum at all which I think is true, sure i'll last however long the woman needs me to but in the end it will be only for her I know i'm already doomed on my end lol.

blargal

Joined: 11/4/2006

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Sexy Stockings Sightings.....When was the last time YOU saw a woman in hot Nylons?? Posted: 3/16/2009 11:33:21 PM
This is an easy answer, today actually I saw a pretty lady in a very nice pair of nylons. They were striped where one stripe was see through and the other was black, they looked very nice on her.

blargal

Joined: 11/4/2006

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a year later...i still can't read him Posted: 3/16/2009 10:20:20 PM
Hmmm in my opinion I belive he is one of those men who try to pick up women at bars have a fun night and have them to leave the next day. Ugh....I don't like men like that it gives us good guys a bad name! I actually have a friend whom no matter how much I agrue is like this, he works as a bouncer at a bar....constantly he takes nice girls to his home, gets laid, and even worse then sending them home the next day RIGHT after they are done with it he just gets up and say "that was fun, its time for you to go now." I wanted to slug him when I heard what he dose with women.....arg now i'm mad lol! Anyway I say don't continue with him in fact don't go to that bar anymore, find a new bar or place to hang out he dosen't seem like the kind of man that will make your life happy, it will just as someone else stated make you end up in tears.

blargal

Joined: 11/4/2006

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Age Gap? Posted: 3/16/2009 10:13:54 PM
I really think it all has to do with your own preferance in this matter. I personally want a woman around the same age as myself, but still in highschool is a no go for me. Where as I have one friend who just loves women who are very much older then ourselves, a good example of that is that he is going out now with a co worker of ours whom has a son who is about our age. I personally don't agree with him going out with people with that much of an age gap at all but like I said thats just me, so in the end it just all pertains to your own preferance. If you wanna go for it if he is 20 years older then you then go right ahead lol.

blargal

Joined: 11/4/2006

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A head full of bricks is no good at all. Posted: 3/16/2009 10:05:59 PM
Alright, i'm putting this hear as I think this is the right area as I would like my question answered from a womans point of view. So i'll try to make this short and not boring, anyways I just recently went from having long hair about the length you see in my pictures to very short hair think shorter then you see in my short hair pictures nicely neat and close on the sides and back and a bit longer up top, enough to put in some pomade and scruff it up to have that messy look. Well it looks quite good on me and I keep a nice short goatee as well.....ok anyway this is getting off point on what I want to ask all of you nice ladies. My point is with this hair cut of mine I look a lot cleaner and all week while at work I have been getting flirted at by women left and right and its not so much annoying as just very confusing and in reality also over whelming to me, it goes from someone just simply talking and looking at me constantly while not wanting to leave, to even some winking at me with a smile. I am kind of a shy man and hid behind my hair I guess you could say, I know that i'm rather handsome (and not trying to sound like a snob or anything mind you) looking man but suddenly being bombarded by all of these flirts is overwhelming, I mean I AM looking to get into a relationship but I don't know the first thing to knowing if they really are interested in me, I mean have I missed some of their flirts and should of asked for their number or what? Arg i'd like some of your help on getting situated and knowing what to look for if a woman is interested in me or not, as I am rather not good at knowing how to flirt or being flirted at heh. Also....keep in mind that yes I know this sounds bad but i've not had much experiance under my belt, I may be 23 but the last time I actually had a girlfriend was back in my highschool days around 2001 soooo yea....any tips and help is very much appreciated, thank you very much in advance ^_^!

blargal

Joined: 11/4/2006

Msg: 127 (view)

Way to a womans heart.. Posted: 7/9/2008 11:19:09 PM
I saw this thread and just had to respond to it! A group of friends and I were on a subject much like this on a night of just hanging out and getting drunk and the response from one of my friends was this. "dude, there isn't any way to a womans heart they decided long ago to all get together at a slumber party take the key to their hearts and lock it up tighter then a thong on a sumo wrestler then all on the count of three drop their keys into the toilet and flush it down to never be seen again." Ah that was a good laugh at the time.

blargal

Joined: 11/4/2006

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Do you ever think maybe it's not your fault that you're single? Posted: 7/5/2008 11:53:03 PM
You sir remind me of myself awhile back i've been single for uhh counts on his fingers 8 years now and counting my experation date has come and gone but I decided instead of being frusterated and misrable (forgive my bad spelling i'm tired and about to head to bed heh) I will work on the other things in life that need doing, I hang out with my friends, work hard at my job (which has resulted in many raises and two promotions) I smile and try to make someones day as well, the way I think about it is like this if I can't find a woman to go out with and be my lover then so be it i'm already very near 23 years old whats another year going solo going to hurt right? Anyway if I can make someone who is down and depressed smile and be happy for even a little while once a day then it makes me more happy as well sure once in a great while i'm going to feel a bit down from flying solo for so long and getting older and still being a virgin but I over come it and stay busy with my life when the time comes it comes thats the way I like to see it ^_^.

blargal

Joined: 11/4/2006

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Is height important guys? Posted: 7/5/2008 11:40:18 PM
Ya know I was going to start with "haha look at me i'm short so no!" But I thought about it for a second and said "hey wait I do" I am only like 5'6 5'7 so in fact I would wish to have a woman my height or shorter then myself cause if I was with a woman who was about 6ft tall or even taller....i'd feel very strange indeed. I'd prolly feel like I was hanging out with one of my guy friends instead of a girlfriend cause most my friends who are men are 6ft tall or taller heh.

blargal

Joined: 11/4/2006

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IS HE SCARED OR JUST CANT HANDLE A GOOD THING??? Posted: 7/5/2008 11:35:18 PM
I can't read anymore of this this is a redundant thread as she posts something asking for help and then refuses most the people who voice something to try and help hence I think rockoflove isn't worth giving some advice to, however I wish to state that you said you two went out for three months...THREE MONTHS is hardly nothing and don't start throwing a tantrum saying stuff like "you don't know how it is until you have felt something like this" I have and guess what hun I got over it. Imo just be happy with the memories you had of him and start looking for another man as we all like to say here "there are plenty of fish in the pond." I wanna say more but I won't i'll end it there heh.

blargal

Joined: 11/4/2006

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Explicit erotic poem.....my FIRST Posted: 5/23/2008 10:29:59 PM
That poem was simply erotic as hell! Good work I say save that and give it to your special someone in the future :P.

blargal

Joined: 11/4/2006

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Been here quite a long time but never said hello! Posted: 5/23/2008 4:36:46 PM
As stated in the title i've been here on pof for quite awhile, i'm sure some of you have seen me posting around the fourms every so often but as I was saying hello to some new people I remembered that I never posted in here and said hello to all the fishes in this sea! So hello to everyone out there in this vast ocean of an internet. I'm a fairly outgoin man and actually shall be 23 fairly soon so uh..yay for getting older? I tend to try and stay active by going out with friends when I can and not get myself overstressed from the daily chore called work, and when I am not hanging out with some friends I tend to browse around the internet and that is when i'm usually also here on pof, I remembered coming here on a whim of one of my online friends as she insisted I come here and possibly have luck at meeting the right woman as she found her future man here. However I haven't had any luck thus far on fishing and i'm surpised I haven't gone hungry yet but ah well mabey one day I shall catch a big one! Anyways hello to all and enjoy your day ^_^.

blargal

Joined: 11/4/2006

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Another newbie Posted: 5/23/2008 4:31:28 PM
Yo welcome to pof its a rough see out there but as long as you know how to swim you should do alright :P. Good luck fishing hope you catch a big one!

blargal

Joined: 11/4/2006

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HELLO Posted: 5/23/2008 4:28:22 PM
Hello and welcome just one word of advice for ya, make sure to turn off the cap lock button many people find it rude and I personally tend to ignore people who use all caps sometimes.

blargal

Joined: 11/4/2006

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Is God a morphodite? Posted: 5/23/2008 4:11:32 PM
Don't see why not anything is possible. I get told all the time I look like an evil version of jesus :P.

blargal

Joined: 11/4/2006

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reincarnation - does it actually happen Posted: 5/23/2008 3:48:03 PM
I belive in reincarnation I like the idea of being able to start over again and start fresh and have a new life to live. I mean in all honesty IF there is a heaven up there I mean cool it would be great and all but like with everything else after awhile of being there, after seeing all you could see meeting everyone you could ever want to be it family or what not wouldn't you get bored? And if there was no such thing as reincarnation what next then? Just sit there for all eternity being bored out of your mind yeaaa i'd find that my own personal hell i'd much rather just be reborn I actually kind of like the idea of perhaps when you die choose when you want to be reborn and what as for example i'd be up there time has gone by and I finnaly choose to leave and go back down to earth and i'd choose I dunno to be reborn a female sure I wouldn't remember any of my past memories but I would only find it fair as I was male that time around so it would be only right to bear the fruit as it were to be a woman the next time around, anyway thats juts my two cents on this matter.

blargal

Joined: 11/4/2006

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Men in tight shirts Posted: 5/23/2008 2:26:23 PM
Hmm swear I posted in this already, prolly another "tight" fitting shirt thread. Personally I like wearing a shirt that is form fitting, not the spandex tight look but just tight enough to show off my body a bit, I won't ever wear tight pants I like some room for the gents to breath please lol! Anyways I don't think I look half bad I work out every so often and I know i'm not overweight actually prolly a tad bit underweight (curse of the fast motabilism) and it works for some and not for others shrugs i've gotten a few looks when I dress nice.

blargal

Joined: 11/4/2006

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When women wear skirts... Posted: 5/23/2008 2:18:47 PM
wistles olive since when did this become a debate about how americans act? I can say that some men think like this all around the world weather it the US, Europe, Japan, China, ect ect! Were human, every one is diffrent some shy some rude some quiet some tame and some are loud and outgoing were all diffrent and no one acts the same simple as that but takin it down to "god he is an american no wonder" peeves me off a bit sorry...

blargal

Joined: 11/4/2006

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why aren't men more open to anal play? Posted: 5/23/2008 1:59:16 PM
Eh i'm simply going to state that i'm not against it so long as the proper lube is there like another poster said not crappy ky or spit lol. If its the right woman and i'm in the right mood i'd be up for it and I am also straight not gay or bi and can say this I don't have ties to the homophobia many men have with anal play it seems.

blargal

Joined: 11/4/2006

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Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ??? Posted: 5/23/2008 1:50:38 PM
GAH WHAT DO YOU WANT FROM ME?!?! Ok kinda kiddin a bit but seriously? I work at a gas station and see all the time women coming in with low cut shirts on (and some practicly naked but those were the drunken ones in the early morning lol) I try to be a gentleman and do the right thing and of course not look, but if they are practicly hanging out there for all to see i'm going to take a quick glance like any other straight man will! However when you do come up to me and i'm taking care of you I will only look you in the eyes which oddly enough seems to make some women mad that i'm not taking a knowtice to their chest lol. Really its the men who make rude gestures or comments that piss me off, i'm there taking care of a rather cute woman and all is well with the world when suddenly a man walks up and goes "hey baby if only I were younger i'd so be in your pants right now!" thats only one of many things i've heard from some guys...I mean come on...right in front of her and even if she wasn't there and they said something after she left i'd still find him a pig I guess I was just raised diffrently I guess heh.

blargal

Joined: 11/4/2006

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Booming car stereo systems... Posted: 5/23/2008 1:38:20 PM
Eh I don't have a good sound system in my car anymore, back when I was in highschool I did have a very good sound system in my car that made people in other cars honk and go "turn that shit down!!!" and flick me off lol! Ah good memories, however my friend whom I drove back and fourth to school with to save myself some gas money also had a great sound system in his car, but he played music (mostly punk) that wasn't meant for base....yeaaa I found out that i'm 20 something percent deaf in my right ear and i'm pretty sure that his car was the cause. I just got about two months ago a new car a 2002 ford taurus sound system isn't to great in all honesty but I don't need anything loud anymore I don't feel like having hearing aids when i'm older lol.

blargal

Joined: 11/4/2006

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Does not having sex while very young damage you?, Thoughts on this-no scorn Posted: 5/19/2008 5:42:39 PM
Yea i'd have to say becoming more social in general is more important then finding a chick right now, go out with your friends, have fun and don't worry about your being a virgin belive me the sad truth is most your friends prolly don't care that you are one. Heck man i'm going to be turning 23 in nearly 2 months and i'm still a virgin, but I don't let that get me down I still am social I go out and have fun i'm just one of the few that hasn't had much luck meeting a worth while woman around here, sure I could of caved in back in the highschool years with a few women I went out with and had sex but I didn't and I don't regret it. One day you and I both will meet a woman worth it, she will accept that your a virgin and together the couple will learn the ways of foreplay and sex. Until then look up books and online stuff to help you learn about foreplay and sex read up on it I have and know the general idea on how to do some things but nothing will be as good as actual pysical learning. I'm looking forward to that day and get all the time from friends both irl and online the line "I can't belive your a virgin?!" from all the stuff I know :P ANYWAY point is get yourself up out of the gutter and improve the way you think about yourself and better things will happen just wait and see ^_^.

blargal

Joined: 11/4/2006

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What do you look for on first contact Posted: 5/19/2008 4:05:29 PM
I agree with the photos it will help. Mine are so crappy but i'll be getting some new ones fairly soon :D.

blargal

Joined: 11/4/2006

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Men and cooking Posted: 5/19/2008 3:58:30 PM
I love to cook and its more for enjoyment then for the person if I had a gf and I knew she was coming over i'd cook for her just for fun or let her cook with me. I've been cookin since I was 7 i've worked in many resturants some of my favorites to work at was steve and rocky's which was a 4 star resturant worked there for two years or so and morels which was dealt in catoring which was really fun to do. But I decided cooking isn't for me as a profession but still for friends and at home and loved ones i'll cook to my hearts content ^_^. Just haven't found that one special woman to cook for :P. And if I did just cause I found it funny to think it right now cause of what the site were on is called I think i'd make a nice light dinner of fish and steamed broccoli. The fish would be fried on the stove top with a little of butter, however before setting your fish in the butter to cook put lightly on the fish a bit of lemon, garlic, salt and pepper, basil and a pinch of cyan pepper for a bit of a kick. Lightly brown the fish. The starter would be stuffed mushrooms, simply a mushroom without the core in it you take minced crab a bit of cream cheese with salt pepper and a bit of pepperica (sp) mix it together and put it in the mushrooms on top you will put breadcrumbs put it in the oven until the breadcrumbs are lightly browned belive me they are amazing! hmmm what would I do for desert lets seeeee. I think i'd go simple and make a banana cream pie with home made crust of course nothin store bought in any of my meals I make that are going to be special like that. And of course i'd buy some wine for the meal or if she would rather have something like a fruit smoothie i'd make her one of those instead. Sorry just felt like writing up a meal plan lol.

blargal

Joined: 11/4/2006

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What do you look for on first contact Posted: 5/19/2008 3:33:40 PM
Well all i'll say is best of luck with you here, who knows you might get lucky. As for me i've already starved to death from my evidently very poor fishing skills lol! I haven't mailed many girls here prolly in all my time of being here a total of 10 or so and only the ones that I think look like i'd get along good with weather to look for a relationship or friend. However in my own opinion don't belive them when they say they love long messages to them that makes em think that the man read their profile, cause thus far from what i've seen is that I don't even get a response or no thanks back like most men here and thus far as I know of i've written out more then a "hey your interesting lets talk" to every woman i've mailed here. So Yea good luck fishing cause it seems that this pond is fairly empty :P.

blargal

Joined: 11/4/2006

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What kind of curves are we talking about here? Posted: 5/19/2008 2:38:25 PM
Ya know I can summon this up in three simple words. "Hour....glass...figure!"

blargal

Joined: 11/4/2006

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A girl in an adult career Posted: 5/19/2008 2:30:32 PM
In the end its just everyones own opinion IF you decide to go for it then go ahead and do it! But I do think that if this is just some random man who says he has a "company" and wants you to model like this for him then be weary. However if this is a legit company you have been with for awhile now and know they are all real options and not an attempt to like....enslave you or...uh...something then its in the end up to you. Yes doing this might affect your future outcome with your family and future husband and such but if the man you one day might want to marry can't put up with the fact that a beautiful woman like you was/is a model then he dosen't deserve ya! I for one have no problem with it I don't see most of my family having a problem with it but then again its my mother she always is strange like that but she would warm up to the woman reguardless of whom she was once she knew how much we loved one another and such. I have a friend who is an model of sorts she only dose it to earn some money on the side and they are photos with her 99% naked and I for one never saw her as my type attractive yes but not my type and she showed me some of the photos that man took of her and WOW...I tell you some Photogfers can bring out the beauty in anyone! So in the end just think about it and choose which path you want to follow tis all up to you in the end.

blargal

Joined: 11/4/2006

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I had to go smell mine, thanks! Posted: 5/19/2008 2:03:58 PM
thats....a lot of tools man! I wish I could afford even the most basic of tools needed for daily life (but a good brand like craftsman or somethin) ya wanna know what I have? I got a screwdriver...one of the really cheep ones that comes with like 6 diffrent connections for it and thats it, years and years ago my father took all the tools including MINE in the divorce and I can't really afford much its going to be a pain in the butt when I eventually move into a house again and really will start needing tools again heh...

blargal

Joined: 11/4/2006

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Question about lawn mowers... Posted: 5/16/2008 4:22:53 PM
Back when I had a house (things have happened and now I live in a townhouse I MISS MY SOLITUDE!) I had two lawn mowers in my time er three....one was an old push lawn mower I can't even remember the name of but the first riding lawn mower I had actually came with the house when we bought it and was a craftsman it ran great for an older lawn mower and then I had a john deer really recommend lookin into those as well. I say just go and take a look and get what you will like best don't let the person there push you into buying something that HE/SHE wants you to get. And take a friend with you, one who knows about lawn mowers a bit and can help you choose ^_^.

blargal

Joined: 11/4/2006

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Why the whistle? Posted: 5/16/2008 4:01:45 PM
I growl under my breath and say, "damn!" I would never do it at an audible level. At least sober I pretty much do what he dose however it really sickens me when i'm at work and see a man say something to a woman that makes tons of women find all men pigs. Just a few days ago while at work I was taking care of a rather attractive woman just taking care of her like any other costumer and this older man walks up next to her at the other cash register, looks at her and says "damn hunny if I were only younger i'd so get in your pants." I was speachless I mean how down right rude of ANY man to say to a random woman right? When she continues to ignore him he says "thats right hunny I caught you glimpsing at me, I was talkin to you alright!" I just looked at her and whispered sorry to her and gave the guy a rude look luckly he left soon after that and I got to say sorry again to the woman as she waited with me until we saw the man get in the car then leave. I was afraid i'd have to kick someone out for once lol! Anyway yea lots of men whistle, I find it rude with the loud whistle but every man says "damn" in his head at least when seein a cute woman lol. And I bet lots of women also say the same when they see a sexy man walking by I mean its only natural to do so imo.

blargal

Joined: 11/4/2006

Msg: 82 (view)

Why do some girls have to be so rude? Posted: 5/16/2008 3:38:47 PM
There are lots of rude and strange people out there...I work in a gas station....enough said on that one.....see I got a little list in my head and what to do about them at least where I work. Person on cell phone-either two things here, one be loud and annoying to them or don't even talk to them and see if they do anything about it. If option two happens and they hang up the phone GOOD FOR THEM you can now ring them up and get them out. person who complains about gas- oh belive me we hear about it day in day out we don't need to hear it anymore, YES gas is high NO I don't get a discount YES gas is only going to get more expensive..ahem anyways if they complain just say "its the gas company sir/miss not me." and no more. Person who is rude for no reason-don't talk to them don't lash back just get what you have to get done and get them out but make sure for what ever reason they got mad at you for which is 9 times out of 10 not your fault say "thank you sir/miss have a GREAT day" makes them even more mad. The chitchater- yes folks we do know some of you out there love to chat it up but do realise that even if your content and trying to make our day or whatnot that we are at WORK and need to keep the line moving, the longer you stay, the longer the line gets, the more stress that gets put on us working there. The underaged teen- look dude i've been there done that but there is NO way i'm EVER going to sell you cigs and lose my job I don't CARE if you have a your fricken highschool id that just dosen't cut it (actually had a girl try that one morning lol) you gotta be born on or before the date of --/--/1990 to get em. Anyway hope that made some of you laugh I got tons more but it would make this way to long lol. Yes us people who work as a cashier at any kind of store like myself create a kind of "I don't care" sheild i'll ring you up say is that it and have a nice day and thats about it and move on to the next customer, i'll try not to be rude about it but darn it when I hear all day about gas prices being to high or someone being an ass because THEY think THEY are right (customer is always right my ass lol) all day long wears me down like it would anyone else, working a job like that makes you know how many people are rude and inconsiderate towards others. IF you do have that big a problem about it call up the place and report her its very likely what I would of done.

blargal

Joined: 11/4/2006

Msg: 8 (view)

The Perfect Love Letter Posted: 5/16/2008 2:51:19 PM
I've never gotten a love letter sadly enough. I made one a few times in the past but never got past the nerve to give it to the women I wrote them for heh. My friend read one of mine meant for this woman who liked me for awhile who I also had a crush on (this was back in highschool) he said that letter would of made her mine in a second...never got the balls to give it to her ah well shrugs

blargal

Joined: 11/4/2006

Msg: 63 (view)

Kick in the balls? Posted: 5/14/2008 7:08:04 PM
I guess i'm dead down there or something, cause I don't feel the "pain" most men do when hit down there, last time I got hit in the nuts the guy thought I would be down...well he ended up with a chase down and broken nose instead but hey it works on most guys I guess so if they look as if they are after you to harm ya go ahead and hit em in the nuts, if its just because your MAD at them yell and scream all you want even hit them or something but imo unless they 100% deserve it don't hit em there lol. Hmmm mabey it was all the mountain dew I used to drink that made me immune rofl!

blargal

Joined: 11/4/2006

Msg: 224 (view)

Watching Men Pee Posted: 5/14/2008 2:02:34 PM
rofl tinkle...haven't heard that word in awhile lol. As for me I have yet to experiance any woman really wanting to go and watch me pee or hold it while I pee but I don't think i'd have a problem with it I mean i'm just going to the bathroom shrugs now taking a crap is another matter you even try to walk in and it would be like "WTH GET OUT!" lol.

blargal

Joined: 11/4/2006

Msg: 156 (view)

What's A Good Vibrator ? Posted: 5/11/2008 8:47:29 PM
Ya know this got me thinking a little bit, why DON'T they create a toy for men that can imitate a woman giving him head? I mean when you think about it it prolly wouldn't be to hard think of it this way you see and test all the time those chairs that massage you and you feel the rolling ones right well just make a really mini version of that but of course make it so that it would go around the mans member like a pocket **** then somehow make it so that when you push a diffrent button it would cause a small amount of suction, and then also add whatever kinda life like flesh stuff that they like to use for the pocket pussies (dunno never used one actually...hmmm should get one heh.) and there you have it a pocket BJ machine. It very likely wouldn't be good for travel but it would be good for the home. Yea I like that idea they really should I mean the women get all diffrent kind of toys (not complaining) so its really only a good thing to add another option for the men who have only a few options to begin with, dunno about you but the hand dose get rather boring after awhile i'd like to enjoy what one of those toys if made could do.

blargal

Joined: 11/4/2006

Msg: 57 (view)

Curved penis? Posted: 5/3/2008 7:16:51 PM
I have a normal curve nothing sever just a slight curve not to the left right or down but upwards as I like to call it its the G spot curve ^_^.

blargal

Joined: 11/4/2006

Msg: 32 (view)

Why does everyone assume women have better orgasms than men? Posted: 5/1/2008 11:03:55 PM
I wasn't going to post on this thread till I saw a comment on sticking a metal rod up a mans penis. All I can say is...No..no..no..nonono NO way in heaven or hell am I ever gonna go that far to experiance a mind blowing orgasm lol. I mean the prostate thing i've experianced a few times with myself in that area but with no success i'm fully content letting a woman play around there if i'm comftorbal enough with her, then again lets just say I lack a lot of experiance with the other sex thus far shrugs mabey one day lol.

blargal

Joined: 11/4/2006

Msg: 166 (view)

Guys with facial hair. Posted: 4/30/2008 12:11:03 PM
As I saw from a previous poster he said he goes back and fourth just to keep things diffrent, I pretty much do the same. I had a full beard all winter but kept it nice and trimmed and I was suprised by how many compliments I actually got on it. But now that it has warmed up i'm back to a goatee. I have a goatee because I have a double chin... by growing out my goat, I give myself a defined chin.. dude ya know whats sad, thats actually true lol!

blargal

Joined: 11/4/2006

Msg: 27 (view)

is a long distance relationship just lust? Posted: 4/30/2008 12:30:20 AM
Oi been there done that on long distance relationships! Never again I tell you never...and yes I do say they are just lust and belive you me they just leave you high and dry and horny most of the time. Don't get me wrong i'm not saying the arn't good i've met a few where online long distance relationships ended up working out for them. Heck I met one woman who lives in australia (I live in michigan lol) a few years ago and I have to say she was one of the greatest women i've ever known and it would of worked out well if it wasn't for one thing. THE DISTANCE! shakes his head I can't see myself doing another long distance relationship i'm at that point that when I want a relationship I want to know that I can call her up and go out and have a good time not go "hey i'm gonna go home and get on my computer to talk with her all night." because that or calling gets boring after awhile lol. Skin to skin and face to face yes please :D

blargal

Joined: 11/4/2006

Msg: 72 (view)

I have a thing for men... Posted: 4/30/2008 12:19:17 AM
I think costume wise that was sexy if you could count them were only two one was last year for holloween at my friends house where he was holding a party. I didn't have much money so I pulled out my newish green camo pants and jacket put on a wife beater and tucked it in put on my leather belt and tied the jacket around my waist, took off the glasses and put in my contacts, and put on my old steel toed boots. I actually had some women staring at me all night with that outfit on rofl! The other was just for fun really I have this hat that looks like the one from the indiana jones movies so I put that on put on a pair of jeans and just put on a plain buttoned shirt but left that open it didn't end up looking so bad. OH and I have a whip to so I had that on me as well heh.

blargal

Joined: 11/4/2006

Msg: 47 (view)

Why do so many men neglect their dental health Posted: 4/30/2008 12:00:27 AM
Hold it hold it from what i'm hearing you see a guy with bad teeth and assume he spends it on "toys" instead? I'm sorry but that of course isn't always the case for there are some people out there like me who just very recently GOT dental for the first time again in years (haven't had time to make it in yet since then though) and spent out of my pocket nearly 2 grand JUST to get SOME of the cavities taken care of before I got dental again, and i'll tell you what my teeth are bad just because I was unforunate in the genes of that department i've got friends whom have great teeth and no cavities, hardly brush at all and haven't seen a dentist in years where I even look at a pop and bam 2 cavities....don't get me wrong I use mouth wash, brush twice a day and floss I just have weak teeth but what really gets me going is how everyone these days expects everyone to have pearly white, perfect, straight teeth. I'm just happy that I got my two front teeth that unforunatly had facial cavities fixed and when I smile i'm happy even if my teeth are a bit yellowish I know I got another huge facial cavity on my second to last tooth in the back which I hope isn't to late to fix without a root canal. sighs sorry i'm getting to into this but i've just been hearing a lot about teeth over and over lately some of us just don't got the money to be taking care of things like teeth bills and staying alive take over before my teeth becoming perfect white pearls that make people squint when I smile at them lol. As for myself however I will first get that one bad cavity I mentioned before fixed and get my teeth cleaned but thats the BEST I can do I can't afford all the special whitener crap people buy these days lol. Ok i'm done with my ranting.

blargal

Joined: 11/4/2006

Msg: 441 (view)

Curvy Vs Slim Posted: 4/29/2008 9:46:51 PM
I gotta say I like em curvy the skinny stick like look dosen't do it for me, I prefer the nice curvy woman nothing gets me looking more then a woman with a nice rump and legs ^_^

blargal

Joined: 11/4/2006

Msg: 237 (view)

How many women suck their own nipples? Posted: 3/12/2008 9:44:47 PM
Hmm interesting thread, funny to AND has been going on since 2005 now thats gotta be a record? I can almost reach my nipples and thats impressive for bein a skinny man, what can I say I was blessed with the toung like the singer kiss :) And years ago when I actually tried and had a better back I used to be able to give myself head and before you ask ladies I didn't spit or swallow I finnished off with me hand lol! Anyways its been years of not doing much flexing like that and such and my back isn't as good as it was when I did it all those years ago and so now i'm afraid to try to do it again as I might hurt my back in trying but ah well it was fun while it lasted lol.

blargal

Joined: 11/4/2006

Msg: 198 (view)

How Many Men Out There Can Actually Cum Orally? Posted: 2/24/2008 8:41:48 PM
I envy you, that means you can last longer, most of us are so sensitive anything warm and wet can set us off....it can be disappointing..... yea I gotta say i'd feel sorry for any man that sensitive, but i've got the oposite problem belive it or not, i'm so insensitive that well sex I don't know i'm still a virgin (has no problem sayin it) BUT I need a lot of visual stimulation while tossing the pool stick it takes forever if at all some nights actually. I've had oral only once and though it was ok...it did take a very long time for me to cum I think she actually wanted to stop heh. Anyway it makes me worry that one day when I do eventually come to the point where I will have sex that I won't cum at all as i'm so insensitive, after all sure a man who cums to soon is no good but a man who either takes to long or dosen't cum at all is almost if not just as bad right?

blargal

Joined: 11/4/2006

Msg: 21 (view)

how and when do I tell this guy EXACTLY how inexperienced I am romantically and sexually Posted: 2/24/2008 8:12:30 PM
Indeed i'm glad he is going to give it another shot, means he really wants this to happen :) And they are all right just go with the flow. However this thread in a way reminds me of how much fun I get to have when I tell new friends or coworkers or whomever I wish to tell that i'm a virgin. Like today actually I told a coworker that i'm 22 years old and a virgin, straight in the eyes and no joking....took about ohhhh 6 hours to actually make her belive me lol! I mean really now how hard is it to belive a 22 year old man when he says he is a virgin, what man would even admit to it unless he really IS a virgin right? lol ANYWAYS i'm sorry this is about you not I, happy to hear that you two are going to set another date, and I hope you didn't get sick from nerves that wouldn't be to good now would it :( ok i'm done rambling good luck to ya!

blargal

Joined: 11/4/2006

Msg: 37 (view)

why don't more guys give massages? Posted: 2/20/2008 7:28:03 PM
Funny this kind of thread poped up, cause I for one like to give massages out. Ok sometimes not all the time I mean keep in mind the other persons mood, if you have had a bad day at work and just want to come home and be by yourself a bit and relax would you want to give a massage? Chances are that its a no. However when in the right kind of mood I love giving massages, i've been told by many people i'm actually really good at it, I take it slow and take my time over whatever parts of their bodies they want me to massage (not the private parts mind you, unless it was my woman and she wanted that, however haven't had a gf it so long that it dosen't matter atm) I have taken into thought of actually going to college to become a massuse of one form or another. Massage if done right is also a great way to relax and actually take sexual pleasure to new heights. Like for example did you know that massaging your foot the right way and kneeding your toes and paying close attention to the areas right above your toenails can help relive headaches? There are many points in the body and all help in one form or another with massage. I recomend looking it up online if your interested in taking your partner to new heights of sexual pleasure or just wanting to help your partner relax more. Also a great book that helps that I own is called "whole body massage" by Mitya Lacroix, francesca rinaldi, sharon seager, and renee tanner. I'd also like to add that of course while giving a massage pay attention to the person and their body, where they like it the most, how hard or soft they like it, things like that. Tune your breathing with theirs and relax if your not they won't be either. Whelp i'm done rambling now hits the post button :P

blargal

Joined: 11/4/2006

Msg: 126 (view)

Muscular women... Turn-on or off? Posted: 2/20/2008 7:04:11 PM
Well if its the type of woman who is a profesional body builder then it might be a turn off for me however I gotta say I have been turned on more then once by a nice looking lady walking by with a nice set of fit legs, I mean some of those track runners mmm nice! I myself could go for a nice gym to go to however I don't have any near me where I live but I do keep myself a bit fit by doing some reps of push ups and sit ups every other day so I stay at least somewhat toned, but cause i'm a bit on the skinny side it really dosen't show to well till the cloths come off lol! Ah takes me back a few years ago when I went swimming with my long time ago ex gf and my brother with his gf, my brothers gf looks at me as I approch the water and says "god damn it steve how do you do it?" Me not knowing what she meant said "huh?" she replies "look at you, how do you keep looking so good?" I just shrug at her and she goes "amy your damn lucky." and amy goes "yep I know." however that was a long time ago and though i'm still of the same build as then i've still kept my virginity so I guess she wasn't so lucky huh? shrugs anyway yes fit is a plus avarage is a plus to me as well, unfit and well...chances are I honestly won't be looking your way, and I mean if you are majorly unfit as in stuff your face every day with a thousand twinkies unfit lol! Ok ok i'm done now i'll stop typing before someone hits me.

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