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Joined: 11/5/2006

Msg: 149 (view)

retiring Posted: 4/15/2007 4:05:33 PM
Thanks for the kind words, cooky. Good luck with retirement.

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I’m a wanna be… Posted: 4/15/2007 3:16:17 PM
I'll admit it. I'm a wanna be rock star.

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validation, please Posted: 4/15/2007 3:12:11 PM
Hit me with your best shot, Cooky.

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How do you take your Coffee...? Posted: 4/15/2007 2:47:40 PM
p.s. I like my coffee like I like my sex: cheap and frothy, from a girl in a green apron.

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How do you take your Coffee...? Posted: 4/15/2007 2:44:43 PM
It's strictly tea for me nowadays, but back when I used to drink coffee like a mad man, I would drink it black (like my soul). However, I would usually counter the bitter taste of coffee with a delicious pastry. I dig the bittersweet thang.

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If you could travel back in time, what would you change? Posted: 4/15/2007 5:15:38 AM
I always wished that I would've killed Hitler when I had the chance. I'm still kicking myself for that one. But, seriously though... I want to see how all my stupid decisions culminate at the end of my life. I don't wish I could go back and make changes, but I would like the opportunity to live a whole new life after I die. That way, I can get a chance to make totally different stupid decisions and see how those turn out. This life thing is a pretty fun ride, and it sucks that we only get to do it once.... or do we? (deep, I know)

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In all fairness (cringe)) - what Beatles song are you? Posted: 4/15/2007 3:51:58 AM
hmmm.... "Why Don't We Do It In The Road?"

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From the MIDWEST Posted: 4/15/2007 3:44:27 AM
I'm from Chicago, born and raised. On the playground is where I spent most of my days...

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Which Tom Waits Song are you? Posted: 4/9/2007 11:52:59 AM
I would be "Chocalate Jesus."

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~BlOnDe Or BrUneTtE....??~ Posted: 3/28/2007 11:39:21 AM
Brunette.... Opposites attract.

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Is Height an issue to Men? Posted: 3/10/2007 4:35:42 AM
I prefer shorter women. On the average, I've tended to go out with girls who were around six inches shorter than me. I guess I just like to feel like a big strong man or something. Me Tarzan, You Jane.

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Do You Men Read Our Whole Profiles? Posted: 3/9/2007 6:05:55 PM
I definitely read the whole profile, a few times. I'm very selective about who I send emails to. We need to have something in common that I can start the conversation with. I know I'm probably in the minority here. It seems like a lot of guys just send out stock emails to every women in a 50 mile radius. That's just how some men are though. They try to cast the widest net possible. And it's not just on the internet either. It always amazes me how some guys can woot and holler/ ogle/ talk at EVERY girl who walks past them on the street.

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Have you ever dated an English guy/gal? Posted: 3/9/2007 5:41:04 PM
No, I've never dated and English woman, but I would like to. I love ladies with accents. I've been thinking about going to grad school in London. That would be good times.

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Difference between hot and cute?? Posted: 3/9/2007 5:10:04 PM
hot to me is not a good word. it means- sexual, sweaty, maxim style, tranny looking, vulgar, disgusting, cum inducing at least when in reference to women when i do use it for guys it means- sexually arousing. any guy that is cute in my book can be "hot" as well. and its not as negative as i see the word "hot" used on women..BUT the men that MOST women refer to as "hot" is given the negative definition from me. For example, Fabio, is hot. That means, hes bulky and gross and has wayy too much muscle for my liking. I would not call him hot, but others would...dont know if that makes sense. its hard to explain. When I say someone is hot i dont mean it in a degrading way, but when OTHERS say someone is hot i get a mental image of someone repulsive and overly sexual... Cute on the other hand = adorable, sweet looking, baby faced, handsome, gorgeous, breathtaking. It doesnt have sexual connotations and is more pure and innocent. its more concentrated on beauty than it is on libido Cute is better than hot I agree with lolnothnx on this one. All the girls that I'm attracted to are girls I consider to be "cute." "Hot" is a word that I don't really use. It definitely has an over sexualized meaning in our society. Porn stars and strippers, and any other women with her tits sticking out, and a "come hither" look on her face is referred to as hot. I like the cute girls better.

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Can a man overcome his fear of being smothered? Posted: 3/9/2007 4:21:28 AM
Staying the night is far from smothering. It sounds like this is more of uneven relationship (you're more committed than he is) than a case of smoothing. Unless, of course, you're leaving out important details such as your constant barrage of calls and emails everyday, asking "Whatcha up to? Who ya with? Whatcha thinkin 'bout?" "Smothering" tends to occur early on in a relationship. At the very beginning there's a newness to everything. Both people are ready to spend all day together and then talk all night on the phone. But once that honeymoon phase wears off, people slow down and take it easier. The smothering comes when one person doesn't slow down. That person still wants to see the other every single day. And that person still calls every night and expects to have long conversations... every night. The smothering person doesn't realize what they're doing is actually driving the other person farther away, rather than bringing the person closer. Smothering = Too much of a good thing.

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3rd date/5th date rule Posted: 3/9/2007 3:30:25 AM
3rd, 5th, 7th.... it doesn't matter. What really matters is that you don't have sex on an even number date. If you do, the relationship is doomed to fail and your babies will come out sideways. WARNING: not all odd numbered dates are good for having sex. It has to be a prime number (exluding #2, of course, since it's one of the forbidden evens). So the following date numbers are okay to have sex on: 3, 5, 7, 11, 13, 17, 19, 23, 29, 31, 37... etc.

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Does no one care about grammar and spelling on here? Posted: 3/9/2007 3:11:33 AM
Poor grammar is a big turn-off for me. It's wonder what's going through a person's head when they write a whole paragraph all in CAPS, and with no puntuation. How can you write five lines and not use a single period?

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Mirror Pics... N to the O Posted: 3/9/2007 2:57:04 AM
Is this an ironic thread? or just a stupid one?

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Question for the fellas Posted: 3/7/2007 6:42:25 AM
I haven’t sent out many emails at all. I’ve actually received more than I’ve sent, and I haven’t received many. I have to have something relevant to say if I’m going to email a girl. Several times I’ve seen a girl who looks cool, but her profile is only comprised of a couple of sentences. And those two sentences usually say nothing at all. One of those sentences usually goes a little something like this: “I like to hang out with friends and have a good time.” Really? You do? Me too! I never thought I would find anyone who likes to do that too. It’s like we’re soulmates! And most of the emails I’ve gotten are just as lame. “hey, what’s up?” or “hi there.”

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Women with a tattoo on their chest? Posted: 3/7/2007 6:12:31 AM
I don't care for tattoos on women. I can deal with a small one in a hidden area I guess, but tattoos on their breast??? That's a deal breaker for me, especially if it says the name of some guy! my sentiments exactly.

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Men with no car or license??? Posted: 3/7/2007 6:09:23 AM
I have a car and a license, and I even have insurance too! But I still ride my bike most of the time, which can be tough to do on the mean streets of Los Angeles. (I swear, it's like drivers are trying to hit you.) For a date though, I'm more likely to drive. Unless, of course, she's cool with riding on my handlebars...

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poor investment but what the heck? Posted: 3/7/2007 5:55:08 AM
I'm the only one at work who didn't contribute $5 for the group lotto fund. Which means I'm the only one at work who didn't throw $5 away. Although, if they had actually won, I would have felt very salty. That's right, I said salty.

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Interracial Relationships.. Posted: 3/7/2007 5:50:26 AM
I’m generally just attracted to girls outside of my race. I don’t really have an explanation for it. Maybe it’s just a basic biological desire to want to procreate with the most diverse gene pool? I’ve known couples who looked alike (as if they could be related), and it always freaked me out. If a girl looks remotely like me, in any way, it’s a huge turn off. *Sorry to let all you blue-eyed, blonde girls down. :) Anyway, to sum up this post: I’m for interracial lovin, and against inbreeding.

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Is it me, or does radio suck these days? Posted: 3/7/2007 5:00:37 AM
Let me prefix this by saying I rarely listen to real radio because I can't stand all the commercials. If I'm at home or work, I usually have Pandora running on my computer. Here in LA, INDIE 103.1 is the only radio station I listen to (other than NPR). They're not perfect; they have a habit of playing a cool new song to death, but they also play a lot of good stuff from a variety of bands that you'd never hear on other big stations.

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