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flytattendant

Joined: 11/5/2006

Msg: 32 (view)

Don't want to look like a stalker Posted: 6/14/2008 7:16:07 AM
Maybe your bull is reading this forum and asking WTF? 1. It is polite he has answered your email. 2. He said he hoped to hear more from you. 3. The stalker comment .. . . .. . .... seriously? ~fly

flytattendant

Joined: 11/5/2006

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spots of age??? Posted: 6/10/2008 10:06:29 AM
I earned every age spot and wrinkle and gray hair ~ covering or getting rid of them is just a personal option ~ whatever makes you comfortable in your skin (no pun intended). ~fly

flytattendant

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Over 50 And NO Fun ! Posted: 6/10/2008 10:02:58 AM
they can't take interest in anything that doesn't involve nascar and budweiser Hey! I am way over 30 and I love NASCAR and BUDWEISER! As far as the bar scene? If this is what you like, then Party on! ~fly

flytattendant

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you remove your profile but he does not remove his Posted: 6/9/2008 10:41:59 AM
If you have spent "alot of time talking, etc.", maybe you should "spend a lot of time talking" about the friends he talks to on a dating site. That's all I got to say about that. ~fly

flytattendant

Joined: 11/5/2006

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Should I give up on him? Posted: 6/9/2008 10:36:55 AM
Honey puhleeeez. .. . He is messing with another online and he has trust issues with YOU? Interesting concept ~ reread your post ~ gahhh. .. yuk. Enough back and forth! You wanna live your life with wishy washy? Nahhh, say bye bye, see ya! That's all I got to say about that. ~fly

flytattendant

Joined: 11/5/2006

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Learning How To Be Single ... Posted: 6/2/2008 8:26:44 PM
Accepting being single? Not a chance ~ which is why I turn to POF to have some sort of "interactions" with other adults my age. It is not easy nor is it my choice to be single, but yet here I am. .. . . still fishing (smiles). I read the forums and sometimes I reply. I do find comfort in knowing that others are out there in the same boat, so to speak, and we all search for acceptance and a chance to maybe, someday meet the person our dreams are made of. Never give up and never let the past swallow you. There are so many good people in the world and POF is a big circle of 'friends'. Hoping you will soon find your inner peace. ~fly

flytattendant

Joined: 11/5/2006

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Need help with a predicament Posted: 6/2/2008 7:36:13 PM
OP ~ The way I see it is this ~ If your girl#1 is all about getting 'more serious', but she knows about girl #2 , and you choose to go on this trip with girl #2 ~ That is probably gonna put a big ole mess right in the middle of your relationship with girl #1. On the other side, since girl #2 doesn't know about girl #1 but is expecting you to go on a trip with her and you do go on this trip and she finds out about girl #1 (and she will find out) ~ Well, it's just gonna get ugly. Thats all I got to say about that. ~fly

flytattendant

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Was I wrong or was there another option?? Posted: 12/3/2007 6:53:08 PM
zman ~ You totally did the right thing. If she is in treatment and still using (the stuff in her jacket pocket), what else could you have done? I hate to see you second guessing yourself ~ You were in a really tough situation. BIG HUGS ~ fly

flytattendant

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What have you learned . . here . . ??? Posted: 10/17/2007 5:33:39 PM
I have learned what 'Activity Partner' means to some ~ ewwww! I have learned that some people put single on their profile ~ forgetting their spouse? I have learned that to some, your profession means you could totally come 3,000 miles for dinner ~ NOT. I have learned a lot from reading the forums ~ it's a big world out there.

flytattendant

Joined: 11/5/2006

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For Shift Workers Posted: 10/9/2007 2:25:39 PM
As a Flight Attendant ~ gone for days at a time, relationships should not be this hard. ~fly

flytattendant

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POF Party – Saturday September 1st 2007 – Statesboro, GA Posted: 8/12/2007 6:11:16 PM
Hey ~ Count me in ~ sounds like lots of fun!

flytattendant

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SouthEastern, GA Posted: 8/12/2007 5:59:34 PM
Hi there HB12 and all, I am on St Simon's Island ~ about as southeast as one gets! Hey everyone!

flytattendant

Joined: 11/5/2006

Msg: 91 (view)

When is it Okay to start dating when your marriage has failed? Posted: 7/5/2007 9:31:58 PM
Is this one of those 'troll' posts? The OP has not commented again. Maybe he has gone away ~ wait, maybe he had to go tend to his 'hopeless situation'? As if .. .. .. ~fly

flytattendant

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Diamond vs Pearl... Posted: 7/5/2007 6:19:23 AM
Do you think you are open enough to accept something that may be exactly what you NEED or would what you WANT blind you? What I want and what I need are one in the same. I guess I don't categorize men into separate categories .. . . I would like to meet a man who would 'see me' as his diamond, yet invest the care and maintenance into our relationship, as if caring for a pearl. ~fly

flytattendant

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When you start to fall for someone Posted: 7/1/2007 5:49:28 PM
Now I am reluctant to have another relationship because I feel I am going to keep my gaurd up, and that would not be fair for either person......so what do you do? rbann ~ you will meet someone who makes you want to put your guard down and leave it down. then it will happen .. . ... you will fall for her. .. .. .. hard. ~fly

flytattendant

Joined: 11/5/2006

Msg: 126 (view)

Do women really get abused as much as they say or do they make it seem worse then it actually is? Posted: 6/21/2007 4:44:51 PM
There are many relationships that end due to ... .. . .. . . whatever. Abusive endings are not pretty,whether it is physical or mental or emotional. I think men are 'abused' as much as women are. Blame can go both ways for sure ~ and leave scars for the future. Men and women both can be too overbearing, too manipulative, too demanding, and too needy. It is not just gender specific.

flytattendant

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Some interesting news... Posted: 6/13/2007 6:58:44 PM
zeesmuse, That is awesome news! Congratulations and count me in for the book signing! ~fly

flytattendant

Joined: 11/5/2006

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What's your line of work? Posted: 6/11/2007 3:11:54 PM
After being furloughed from Delta Air Lines, I am now a bartender ~ imagine that!

flytattendant

Joined: 11/5/2006

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What are you doing for vacation? Posted: 6/11/2007 3:09:01 PM
zeesmuse ~ I have been up and down the east coast touring lighthouses myself. It is way cool ~ almost as though those lighthouses are placed in the best little towns. And the people you meet are awesome ~ that is a great vacation! ~fly

flytattendant

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Opinions..POF Party, September 1st Posted: 6/11/2007 7:55:10 AM
Hey Ricky ~ Count me in! Sounds like fun. ~ fly

flytattendant

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2007 Summer Splash & Road Dog Run Posted: 6/10/2007 4:55:05 PM
Hey, how cool is this? It sounds like a load of fun and just down the road from me! I don't have a motorcycle, but I would love to come!

flytattendant

Joined: 11/5/2006

Msg: 366 (view)

can you trust some one once they cheat? Posted: 3/31/2007 2:39:14 PM
Once trust is broken .. ... .. .H*ll no.

flytattendant

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talking about serious stuff Posted: 3/21/2007 8:36:59 PM
I kinda spew 'real' things about myself fairly quickly ~ it's just me. No wonder I am still here ~ ~fly

flytattendant

Joined: 11/5/2006

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flashing,forgive or not Posted: 3/21/2007 8:12:56 PM
Am I missing something here? Your friend was only on the second date with so called flasher, who has been mowing his lawn. ... .. so he is not ready for her to be there, obviously. .. ... and she has to wait for him to get ready for their SECOND date? I don't think that is sexual harassment or a sign of affection. Just kinda a sign on where his intentions are with your friend. just my .02 ~fly

flytattendant

Joined: 11/5/2006

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OK guys,,, what the heck!?!?! Posted: 3/21/2007 8:02:29 PM
Hey Stumped in the South ~ The way I see it . . . ... .. If he was on fire and wanted to call ~ he would find a way. And one more thing ~ He said "you'll never believe what happened last night!" and he is right ... .. . .. you probably won't. just my .02 ~fly

flytattendant

Joined: 11/5/2006

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Corpse Travels in First Class Posted: 3/20/2007 10:47:14 AM
What do you think their policy or procedure should be if someone dies en route? As a flight attendant, there is no easy answer .. .. . .. and believe me, you cannot make it right ~ somehow, all answers to the problem are just wrong. Supposedly, If a death occurs inflight, lock the body in the lav and close off the area. Now you have the grief stricken relative to deal with, as well as a plane load of passengers, who are no doubt, upset . .. . . there just is no easy answer. Putting the corpse in first class may have seemed the only thing to do at the time, considering the lack of options on an airplane. I don't understand why the woman kept falling to the floor. .. there has to be more to the story than what is written on the link. I certainly would not want a dead person next to me for a few hours. Ya think? When you are 40,000 feet, You do the best you can ~ nuff said. ~fly

flytattendant

Joined: 11/5/2006

Msg: 175 (view)

Do you think fate will bring that person into your life? Posted: 3/14/2007 5:51:33 PM
I can only hope that 'person' will be brought into my life really soon! I think that just from being on POF, most of us are trying to give fate that big ole push it so needs! And as far as the giving up thing . ... ... . never. ~fly

flytattendant

Joined: 11/5/2006

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Who is from S. Georgia Valdosta, Tifton, Adel, Hahira? Posted: 3/10/2007 7:38:04 AM
Hi All ~ I am on St Simon's Island! Glad to see some fellow Southern Georgia POFers! ~fly

flytattendant

Joined: 11/5/2006

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Lost Marbles? Posted: 3/9/2007 7:02:41 PM
Ok, so what she did is just wrong . . . .but you allready knew that. Gather those 'marbles', get it together and get a little tough love going on. Every city is pricey to live, but find you a new place now and make it yours. No memories around and all ~ a fresh start to get on with your life. Just my .02. ~fly

flytattendant

Joined: 11/5/2006

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Being sweet Posted: 3/7/2007 2:21:10 PM
Have you ever been called sweet if so how did it make you feel? I think in this day and age, having someone actually take the time to call you sweet says a lot for your character. . . .it's a good thing. I have been called sweet many times, and I always take it as a compliment. I have called others sweet as well. Believe me, I notice an act of kindness and many times, it is sweet. So, I just say so. . . .It's a compliment. Why would you think otherwise? You could'a been called something really negative ~ being called sweet is a positive I think. ~fly

flytattendant

Joined: 11/5/2006

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Help!!! In love with a commitment phobia! Posted: 3/3/2007 4:12:32 PM
He did go to counselling but it never lasted. Sorry, but if he cannot even commit to therapy, he will not commit to you. I think you have been there for him. . . . .it's time to move on. Just my .02 ~fly

flytattendant

Joined: 11/5/2006

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Open realtionships is it just cheating Posted: 2/22/2007 7:01:53 PM
Ok, so the way I see it is this . . . . . to take the question in context . . . . One of the definitions of 'open relationships' would be that both partners agreed to see others. One of the definitions of cheating would be to hide truths from their partner(s). Open relationships may just work for those who know how to work them, and maybe just cause you don't believe in having that type of relationship, maybe slamming it isn't the thing to do. After all, there are some who are happy with it. I try real hard not to prejudge something I have never experienced. Doesn't mean it's wrong, just means it's not for me. ~fly

flytattendant

Joined: 11/5/2006

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Instant Turn~Ons! What turns your head? Posted: 2/21/2007 5:19:03 PM
There's totally something hot about a man in uniform.

flytattendant

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Is the past really relevant? Posted: 2/20/2007 6:59:04 PM
Things that make you go hmmmmm. . . . . I believe my past is totally relevant on who I am today. Like lessons learned and 'don't be stupid' kinda life experiences. I try very hard not to let my past 'rule' me, but guide me. My likes and dislikes, my 'what I can deal with and what I can't deal with' stuff. I do believe that if not for our past, our future would be going backwards. ~fly

flytattendant

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Baffled Posted: 2/20/2007 6:49:08 PM
Tink ~ I hate those big red flags, but this one is totally RED! Ask him where he spends Christmas ~ I will just bet it is 'outatown'. I agree with the postings here ~ Vague is not good on a dating site ~ best just to come on out with it all. You take care and follow your gut. ~ fly

flytattendant

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Can a person deeply love someone and have doubts about their love at the same time? Posted: 2/19/2007 8:43:10 PM
Can a person deeply love someone and have doubts about their love at the same time? Sure, a person can deeply love someone and the doubts about that someone may come from many different things, i.e., jealousy, lies, deceit . . . . so yes, you may love someone, but you may also doubt the one you love. Can a person who never felt that strong initial attraction for someone love them deeply and at the same time be pulled in another direction by initial attraction? If you love someone and find yourself pulling towards the so called "strong initial attraction", it doesn't mean they feel the same way. . . .you may be attracted to them from the getgo, but that is no guarantee they feel the same. And then the same person may run into another at any moment and feel an initial attraction enough to dump you. Move on. just my opinion ~ fly

flytattendant

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Has anyone had any luck on this site? Posted: 2/17/2007 5:18:26 PM
I have had good luck and bad luck on this site ~ and now my good luck turned to bad luck and I am back looking to get lucky again! Hmmmm, that doesn't sound just right, but there you go. The answer is yes.

flytattendant

Joined: 11/5/2006

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Truck or car, what kinda guy do the ladies like? Posted: 2/17/2007 5:14:42 PM
Heck, I'd just like to meet a man who would pick me up at my door ~ I don't care what he is driving!

flytattendant

Joined: 11/5/2006

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Good Night Georgia, Any End Of The Day Thoughts? Posted: 2/16/2007 4:08:09 PM
My day has ended fairly well I think ~ I mean I am still standing. Lots of changes and lots of adjustments to be made . . . . maybe only to my attitude. I will have to look into that when I am not quite so tired. Good night to all and happy dreams! fly

flytattendant

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Visit to The Wall -- April 2007 Posted: 2/16/2007 3:59:38 PM
My sincerest Congratulations to the both of you!

flytattendant

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Lost and Found Posted: 1/21/2007 2:11:29 PM
Uh, man I'd like to help you, but apparently there is no love for this thread. Hey now ~ I love this thread! Totally love it!

flytattendant

Joined: 11/5/2006

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Has anyone had any luck on this site? Posted: 1/19/2007 6:20:24 AM
BTW, she's been monitoring this thread and she, like me, doesn't see what the fuss is about...why can't someone (male or female) chat and meet with more than one person BEFORE a commitment to developing a serious relationship is made...it doesn't make you a PLAYA!!! If you really want to bring it up again. . . . As stated before ~ just one female opinion about those things ~ and opinions are like ***holes, we all have one. I would just prefer my 'date' to be a bit more into me. . . . it really says a lot about the person you are meeting. Once again, that is just MY opinion ~ Good luck to you both!

flytattendant

Joined: 11/5/2006

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Southern Quotes and Phrases Posted: 1/18/2007 3:34:19 PM
Anyone remember 'tabacca beads' ~ beads of sweaty dirt around a childs neck from playing outside . . . . . . .How bout ~ You are one sanwich short of a picnic! . . . . . High as a cat's back ~ drunk

flytattendant

Joined: 11/5/2006

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Good Night Georgia, Any End Of The Day Thoughts? Posted: 1/15/2007 6:54:54 PM
Flightattendent,I always know what im talking about.But you on the other hand seem like you have not a clue. Thanks again Wolfie for sharing your little wisdom! You rock!! btw ~ it's FLYTATTENDANT

flytattendant

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Msg: 76 (view)

What are your favorite flowers to be given by a beau? Posted: 1/14/2007 6:39:23 PM
I melt with pure white calla lillies ~ oh, and I love the old fashioned red or white roses. When a man gives or sends you flowers ~ that is the ultimate "I am thinking of you". A girls gotta love that!

flytattendant

Joined: 11/5/2006

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Why can't women just be honest? Posted: 1/14/2007 6:30:16 PM
Well to be honest with you ~ I am a liar Just playin!

flytattendant

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Good Night Georgia, Any End Of The Day Thoughts? Posted: 1/14/2007 5:48:17 PM
patience grasshopper

flytattendant

Joined: 11/5/2006

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Has anyone had any luck on this site? Posted: 1/14/2007 5:44:57 PM
back to the original question. . . . Hell yes I have had a lot of luck lately!

flytattendant

Joined: 11/5/2006

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Has anyone had any luck on this site? Posted: 1/14/2007 5:35:10 PM
oh little boy Wolfie888 ~ you are charming yawn. And once again, you have no idea what you are saying. Thanks for the laugh.

flytattendant

Joined: 11/5/2006

Msg: 162 (view)

Has anyone had any luck on this site? Posted: 1/14/2007 5:02:16 PM
I never said he should give up meeting women on this site, nor did I say anything about hiding his 'past' meetings ~ what I said was, as a female, if I were meeting him for the first time and were reading his posts to meet with other women, it would bother me. I am curious as to your concern about cutting him slack? I was just making an observation. He stated that since he is fairly new to dating, after 31 years of marriage, he appreciated the help. . . . now, what is your problem with this?

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