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joesey

Joined: 11/6/2006

Msg: 168 (view)

Would you date someone who is disabled? Posted: 8/4/2008 11:39:52 AM
this is a common thing now days and I am sure it has its ups and downs like every other disability .. I have Lupus ... the problem with your disability and mine is they have no idea what causes it and therefore there is no cure... I choose not to use the steroid meds that are suppose to keep this in check... sometimes the cure is worse than dealing with the disability ... some days are much worse than others but I have learned to deal with all the things that go along with lupus,,, you sound like a very brave man, putting it out there is always a risk of rejection... im not quit that honest, to look at me you would never know, so I tend not to put it out there ... doesn't make me a dishonest person, it just saves alot of disappointment ... keep your chin up and smile ... and to answer your question, yes I would date someone who is disabled ... the worse thing is the people that won't are mentally disabled ... and to me that is something I would not want to deal with a mental defective is the worse kind of disablity .........

joesey

Joined: 11/6/2006

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Baggage vs Life Experiences ??? Posted: 8/1/2008 8:27:05 AM
just my thoughts on baggage ... three x husbands and two children and don't consider any of it BAGGAGE.. I MORE LIKE TO THINK OF IT AS MY LIFE... to say that it is baggage is negative ...im not sorry for any of it ... my life has been full and very hectic and I would not change a single thing,, I keep by baggage in the closet where it belongs and never do I open it or inflict it on anyone ... like you said its more like getting on with my life , anyone who has to keep talking about there x or a broken life is not burdened with baggage ... just the inability to move on and unpack that bag .. and fill it up with new experiences ....

joesey

Joined: 11/6/2006

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Ex moving on... Posted: 7/2/2008 10:13:04 AM
lucky you only a years worth of memories to forget, i had twenty and he moved right on , never looked back, i have to wonder did he care at all to be able to move on after twenty years ...lots of memories and lots of things i will never forget.. its very hard to do, but you answered your own question hun, how into you was she if after a month she could move on? you have to ask yourself, and why can't you move on as quickly? think about it ... she probably had him before the break up ... i know mine had someone else for about 9 months before i found out ... and the best thing for you too do is move along, a hard thing to do, but it will get better if you look at it that way... it wasn't you ... it was her who lost... good luck and don't stop looking !!! thats the worst thing for your ego ... to stop !!!living

joesey

Joined: 11/6/2006

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Dumped before the date! What's going on? Posted: 7/1/2008 7:17:10 AM
i like your attitude .........

joesey

Joined: 11/6/2006

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Dumped before the date! What's going on? Posted: 7/1/2008 7:16:14 AM
who really understands why, it could be he's just a jerk, or maybe he isn't ready for ANY relationship... either way he did you a favor, i had one show up after months of planning ,,and he got out of his car telling me that he wasn't ready for this,,, I said what ? meeting me or dinner or what ? he just ran away like I had the plague ...very disturbing, for about 5 minutes then I laughed all the way home... you shouldn't be upset at all, better now then down the road ...weak character there out there trust me ! try to screen alittle better next time, questions like, "hey are you gonna wennie out at the last minute " ? if so let me know now before I shave my legs !!!

joesey

Joined: 11/6/2006

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How do you just stop loving someone ?? Posted: 6/3/2008 12:14:34 AM
oh my goodness hun, this is a real bad feeling you have about yourself... i really don't think that this guy is going to give you the love you are needing ... and to me if thats what you want then thats what you should be looking for ... everyone has faults ! explain the tea argument to me.. might have been a small thing, but it blossomed which usually happens when there is already discourse ... my advice is take more time before you go head over heals ... it took me about two years and alot of heartbreak to get over my husband, and I didn't think I was ever going to find that love we all need ... I haven't found it yet and everyday I have to tell myself that he may be just around the corner.. don't give up! you sound like a very nice person and im sure that if you look in the right place , the right man will be there.. someone to hold you when your scared and not just pay your rent ... thats what we all want !

joesey

Joined: 11/6/2006

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Is this weird or am I living on another planet? Posted: 6/3/2008 12:01:17 AM
sounds to me like your letting yourself be these womens "emotional tampon" I dont mean to be harsh, but you need to get a clue about the women you get involved with .. the fact that she admit's the other guy was here bread and butter, theres a red flag, why would you want to be involved with any one who uses a man that way?

joesey

Joined: 11/6/2006

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Should marijuana use be a deal breaker? Posted: 5/28/2008 1:37:39 AM
I to would like to see the medical proof that it hurts you or make you sick in any way.. and Worse than cigarettes ? I don't think so... show me that study and who conducted it ... not to be a poo poo head, but that remark was really alot of BS .... so far only medical benefits ... thats all ... get your facts straight or show me the proof !

joesey

Joined: 11/6/2006

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Should marijuana use be a deal breaker? Posted: 5/28/2008 1:30:03 AM
I must say I agree with the fact that it should be legalized ... lots of good people are punished for using it .. even thought it has medicinal benefits ... I know because I have been around lots of cancer patients who depend on it for relief from the nausia ...check that spelling ! but from my experience it does no harm nor does its use make anyone act or behave in a manner that they would be a threat to you or to your relationship .. I would ask her if its something she is willing to give up and if not why? like anything else in life there are some things that are just not worth losing, lets hope your one of them ... it doesn't sound to me like you have a problem with it, but if her friends do and they are making you think its a bigger problem than it is for her? then maybe you should ask her and of course you need to observe her behavior when she is HIGH before you do anything else ....

joesey

Joined: 11/6/2006

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was I wrong?!?!?!? Posted: 5/15/2008 11:11:55 AM
exactly!! but for some reason I don' t think she will want to hear the truth ...seems to be what every one is saying..

joesey

Joined: 11/6/2006

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was I wrong?!?!?!? Posted: 5/15/2008 11:05:30 AM
remember it was his best friend .?... some things cannot be fixed if there wrong to begin with ... when you let him come between you and his best friend the ball started rolling and once a guy knows your head can be turned so easy ..after six years with his friend" you layed the ground work for him to mistrust you forever... nothing you can say or do will get that out of his mind ... sorry hun, but thats the way it is !

joesey

Joined: 11/6/2006

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Just how important are compatible views on religion and politics? Posted: 5/15/2008 8:49:35 AM
i got a grip a good one..... just because I don't like bush doesn't mean I don't have a grip ... how judgemental are you ?... you don't know me and im not the reason so many young boys are dead and gas prices are high and the economy sucks and immigration is depleating our social services ... but then you probably voted for him and are feeling a bit guilty ... right?? sure im right and you think I don't have a grip.....lol thats hysterical and so was your thread ...

joesey

Joined: 11/6/2006

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Just how important are compatible views on religion and politics? Posted: 5/15/2008 8:43:10 AM
just my opinion, and I can tell I must have stepped on your toes alittle? maybe your a bush fan? but then this is why we post things isn't it? everyone has an opinion.. yours is .. that my opinion is a MESS ..... well again all I have to say about that is ... have a good day Simplelady???? and im sorry I stepped on your toes ... i'll try not to do it again... but just for the record thats how I would handle a difference of opinion ... one that is so completely idiotic It warrants no response ... have a good day !

joesey

Joined: 11/6/2006

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Why men don't date strong women... Posted: 5/7/2008 12:08:55 AM
that all sounds so good to a strong independant woman, but your the exception... trust me.. I like strong independant men, and I always thought that they appreciate a woman who can take care of herself and is intelligent enough to hold a conversation ? but lately it seems too many of these independant thinkers are stuck on stupid.. guys are looking for a simple minded woman who does not know how to do anything but look good and say YES ! ... oh and big boobs are a real plus ! foget about a 401 K I know from experience a smart woman cannot hold a candle to a dumb blond with big boobs .... so i'll leave you with that thought Brains Or Boobs ? which one would you rather snuggle up too ?

joesey

Joined: 11/6/2006

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Why Do People Cheat ? Posted: 4/23/2008 12:05:43 AM
think you nailed that one right on the head .... cheaters are usually in the same class as liar's ... its comes natural....

joesey

Joined: 11/6/2006

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Just how important are compatible views on religion and politics? Posted: 3/28/2008 12:17:31 PM
here here! I am the worst.. I have a picture on my frige of me and barack obama .. met him 7 years ago when he was being groomed by the democratic party to be the next dem in office... and if I date a man and were getting along great and he opens his mouth and puts his foot in it .. Like saying Bush is a good president ! I get up and walk out .. i'll leave my l;obster bisque sitting.. sorry if your a conservative thats your problem, when you tell me you like bush it becomes my problem and i have to get out ... here's the way I think .. if you think that he was a good choice for president then you are living in a cave and should go back there ... which is where we will all be thanks to mr. I have an agenda Bush ... hope this doesn't turn all you bush lovers off ... im kidding !!! anyone who is a bush man is either an idiot or just plain IGNORANT ..definition HAS NOT LEARNED THAT THE WORLD WAS A BETTER PLACE BEFORE THIS MAN AND HIS EGO TOOK OVER ... when I hear him talk I feel like im listening to a ten year old on the play ground and he's the one with the glove and all the marbles and when the game gets going good .. he takes his shit and goes home and leaves every one standing there with nothing left to play with... isn't that what he's done... I just feel sorry for the next guy or girl who ever takes over has the world to fix and will be criticized if its unfixable.. which I think it is ! never in history has one man caused so much harm to this country ... check the stat's if you have any doubts .. by the way I work for the government and they don't like him either he's what they call a shitty boss .........

joesey

Joined: 11/6/2006

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On dating a cheapskate. Posted: 3/27/2008 12:09:36 PM
very well said violet. and that guy with the coffee ? god I hate when that happens ... there is a big difference between cheap and frugal (sp) all I know is that cheap men are such a turn off to me.. im not a big spender and do my own nails, hair and pedicures i never buy anything retail and can make a gormet meal out of nothing, and none of my husbands ever complained about the way they lived but when a guy stands there and watches you fumble for a 2.50 cup of coffee ??? i just can't imagine the embarrassment that would have caused me ... what a doofuss ! and I am sure with my quick wit and bad temper I would have had to embarrass him right back ... thats cheap hun sorry but you can call it what you want and sugar coat it that thrifty bull crap butits just plan cheap

joesey

Joined: 11/6/2006

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i met my boyfriend on this site, not sure if hes interested in me. Posted: 3/27/2008 11:05:53 AM
after two dates and a week you call him YOUR boyfriend? wow did he even have a hook on his line... ??? just baffels me that a intelligent person can be so nieve about this web site... you don't know anything about him,. other than the b.s. he's throwing your way.. sounds to me like you need to spend alittle more time with a guy before you assume that he loves you after two dates... drop back and regroup and don't give him another shot at your heart... he's not the one trust me .....

joesey

Joined: 11/6/2006

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What do men feel about Gemini women? Are we too much? Posted: 3/27/2008 5:19:45 AM
ah the twins ! i use to think it was the taurus women that men can't handle ... but twins? twice as much fun ..you just have to know which one your dealing with on a day to day basis .... only way to stay on top of a gemini ...woman or man ! its all the same sign ..... have fun with it !

joesey

Joined: 11/6/2006

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April 19th Carters Place Lockport Posted: 3/20/2008 3:04:56 AM
finally one of these a bit closer to home, great place ! and to anyone who is not familiar with the 9th st. bridge, it will be closed.. i work for the lockport highway commissioner and I am not looking forward to the amount of traffic problems that will come with the closing of this bridge.. necessary however ... .see you all there ...

joesey

Joined: 11/6/2006

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World's shortest date? Posted: 11/2/2007 12:25:18 PM
it happens..... I made arrangements to meet a guy at one of the local pubs,, about a year ago, I took about 2 hours getting ready and looked magnificent ... as I was walking from my car I noticed a guy sitting in a truck watching me... come to find out it was my "date" he proceeded to get out of his truck and tell me after seeing me he was not interested.. I was devistated for about 2 seconds,,, then I realized i must have been too much for him lol one must know there limitations .... after leaving I stopped by my sisters pub for a few shorts ones... and was telling the story about what had happened ... no one believed me .. which tells me it was his problem ,,, you have to kiss alot of frogs so to speak .. and this guy must have been a toad .... I have told that story so many times and we still get a good laugh over it... some guys are just to insecure to have a good relationship with a smart good looking woman ... there loss

joesey

Joined: 11/6/2006

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Everything was above perfect except the sex. What would you do? Posted: 11/2/2007 11:19:42 AM
everything perfect? not so , the trouble with perfect women ... not so perfect ...especially if that is important to you , I to am perfect lol... no BA but then I do have a good job working for the government ... my own teeth and my own hair , no botox and no baggage ... only one thing different .. I LIKE IT keep looking, sounds like she likes looking the part... thought ! all that meat and no potatoes ... a new BMW with out the wheels,,, where ya going?

joesey

Joined: 11/6/2006

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OK - I'm a bit flabbergasted Posted: 11/2/2007 9:22:11 AM
wake up and smell the diviates ... there out there... and on this site, I don't think I have had anyone that bad, yet except I may know the guy who wanted your number after two minutes,, and if it is please dont give it to him.... he is a pain in the butt, I have told him probably a dozen times "your not my type" but being the worm that he is, he doesn't get it... just like he argued with you about giving up your number, a real jerk would do that... if a guy does not want to wait till your comfortable giving him your number then he shouldn't have it ... a real moron would argue with that logic.. lets you know what the future holds with a guy like that.... ? absolutely nothing but grief .. please e-mail me and tell me this guys site name .... don't want the world to know but Im willing to bet its the same guy...

joesey

Joined: 11/6/2006

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women on this site are kidding themselves Posted: 10/27/2007 10:51:16 AM
well sweetie you asked a question, Why? Im going to tell you and you might not agree, but then who cares... im not out to please anyone ...but the people I love ... now to get to your queston. when you go to the store to buy fruit, do you pick out the peices that are already rotten ? enough said : much the same way with men, I would not , given my choice, I want a man .... even a man with baggage can still be a man .............. stop feeling sorry for yourself, and maybe some of that baggage will dissappear ........... every one has baggage, were all human " at least I still would like to think so, having three x husbands doesn't make me a bad person, it makes them stupid... i set that baggage to the curb along time ago ... and refuse to appologize for their stupidity ... or even claim it as my baggage ... get it?

joesey

Joined: 11/6/2006

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women on this site are kidding themselves Posted: 10/27/2007 10:48:14 AM
well sweetie you asked a question, Why? Im going to tell you and you might not agree, but then who cares... im not out to please anyone ...but the people I love ... now to get to your queston. when you go to the store to but fruit, do you pick out the peices that are already rotten ? enough said : much the same way with men, I would not , given my choice, I want a man .... even a man with baggage can still be a man .............. stop feeling sorry for yourself, and maybe some of that baggage will dissappear ........... every one has baggage, were all human " at least I still would like to think so, having three x husbands doesn't make me a bad person, it makes them stupid... i set that baggage to the curb along time ago ... and refuse to appologize for their stupidity ... or even claim it as my baggage ... get it?

joesey

Joined: 11/6/2006

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Have you ever had a serious relationship with someone you met from a bar? Posted: 10/5/2007 7:24:43 PM
i married a man I met in a bar, we stayed married 18 years.. ...

joesey

Joined: 11/6/2006

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Has anyone been brave enough to meet someone with no pic at all? Posted: 10/5/2007 11:59:56 AM
yes,only it was him who met me with no pic, and I told him the very same thing, that not to worry I was not ugly and i had not lied about anything,, so he drove down here from milwaukee and we played golf at the country club it was an all day thing.. we fell madly i love, and when i asked him why he would ever meet someone without a picture ,, he said he fell in love with me not my looks, but when he saw me for the first time, he gasped and responded , your better than i could of ever hoped for, and I felt like a queen ... what a man... just what i was looking for A real MAN ........ so you have to believe there out there, and by the way he was the first man I responded to on this site, and he was every thing he said he was ... no bull shit no pretence ........

joesey

Joined: 11/6/2006

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The New USA War.....Illegals.... Posted: 10/5/2007 7:35:42 AM
i have so much to say on this subject i;m affraid it would cause a big problem if I told it like it was... I agree with the thread and have much much more to add ... lets just do something about it... everyone ... I am going to give you one quick scenerio .. I was recently divorced and lost my insurance,, I have cancer .. I could not see my doctors because of financial reasons,, so I decided to visit my local health department for much needed medicine and treatment... I was the first one there at 8 am when the doors opened .. I was told to fill out the form and sit down... I did that and by 12;30 pm the room was empty and I was still sitting ..no less then 200 none english speaking mexicans entered and were taken care of all needing an interpiter ... all leaving with bags of whatever they needed within 20 minutes of arriving ... I was very upset and decided to go to the desk and find out when it would be my turn... I was told by a mexican that I was not on the list,,, then they could not find the list which no mexican had to sign in the first place .... so she rudly told me to sit down and she would find out what and why,,, I politley asked why I was in first and out last, was it because i had all my legal papers and did not need an iterpitor ... i then was told "by a mexican that there was nothing they could do for me ... i cried all the way home thinking about the illegal situation and how many american citizens are waiting in line behind them because they need special treatment,, i am in the process of writing a book "non fiction" the title will be: press 2 for english ! guess what it is about.????? it gets alot worse and the future is really looking bleak for our children who are going to be denied ... have you noticed that every young mexican girl is pregnant ... that law must change if we are to survive...

joesey

Joined: 11/6/2006

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Oh well I tried POF. Time to go Posted: 10/5/2007 7:11:27 AM
very sad your opinion . I have been on here for about a year now, not really paying attention,, I answer just about everyone who writes, im polite, I have met some very interesting people and even found love once... granted there are alot of wierd people out there and I agree with you about several points you made... but you sound like a nice guy and I just can't imagine a nice guy not meeting a nice woman, internet or otherwise ! I guess it depends on what your looking for and your expectations ... don' t give up ...you have nothing to loose

joesey

Joined: 11/6/2006

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What would you think if it were your partner? Posted: 10/5/2007 7:03:06 AM
do you really want the answer? just think about it for a minute and you will see what every one who reads your thread ...sees he's a liar and you already know that about him, why wouldn't he lie to you ???... liar's have no preference !!!!!!!!! take care and get smart

joesey

Joined: 11/6/2006

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Why do so many men IM/message you and then hardly talk? Posted: 10/3/2007 8:30:48 AM
its simple , they are very shy and have nothing to say... otherwise they would be out and about meeting women in person, instead of on line ......... I experience the same thing. I must get 20 a day only saying HI , like your profile and pic... whenI write them back to say thanks, thats usually the end of it .... go figure!

joesey

Joined: 11/6/2006

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I think I need to write a book.... Posted: 10/2/2007 6:53:13 AM
chapter's 8. do you want me? 9. im almost divorced 10 actually just seperated 11 im only talking to you 12 whats a nice girl like you ? 13 press two for english and finally my favorite "lets see if we click " which should read ! lets see if I can get you in bed on this first date... I have been researching for a book on here for about a year now, and believe me it will be a best seller... some good stuff out there... people need to know just exactly what goes on in the world of internet dating .... first one to get published wins... ready set go ......

joesey

Joined: 11/6/2006

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MEET MY TRUE LOVE ON HERE AND HE BROKE MY HEART Posted: 9/24/2007 7:53:01 AM
I just wanted to tell you that your heart will mend, and there are other men out there who want what you want and would be more than happy to give it to you ,,, this man obviously wasn't the one ... or he would not be with someone else... a man that can't m ake up his mind is worse than one who has no mind at all ... seems to me like once he decided to go along with the plan, he was on too someone else... and if you want him back your foolish.... he will not change and sooner or later his true colors will show,, maybe 5 or 10 years down the raod when you have those precious children you want... then your life would be so much worse off, and the children too, I have a son who is 34 and wants no children ,,, the women he dates sometimes for years , end up leaving him for a man who does... he asscepts that ! its his choice and he won't change his mind no matter how much he loves them.. he doesn't want children and to me he is a very good man to be honest about it and not bring unwanted children into the world,, are you getting my drift here? why force a man to give you kids he doesn't want ? the only advice I am giving you right now , is forget him and move along ... he wans;t worth it... especially now that he is doing someone else .thank god he did it now, like I said before ..... been there ! thank your lucky stars for finding out NOW !!!

joesey

Joined: 11/6/2006

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my ex is dyeing with cancer what do i do Posted: 8/29/2007 11:41:03 AM
you sweet caring compasstionate woman, if every one was like you the world would be alot better off, I too have experienced the same situation, only I gave up on him and he died 13 months after we split and I was crushed, and still have a hard time dealing with him being gone, and his boys also, I feel guilty sometimes thinking maybe if I had taken care of him he would have gotten better and would still be around, you do what your heart tells you too and you will be doing the right thing,,, also remember to take care of you first, and if there is any time left over for him ? then give it to him, but make sure you are first, or you will feel no glory in the sacrifices you make for this man, only remorse ... good luck and god bless, remember you have to be first .... he's a lucky man

joesey

Joined: 11/6/2006

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Ladies, can a man cheat on you and still be in love with you? Posted: 8/29/2007 6:58:34 AM
I loved your response, took the words right out of my mouth .... three husbands they all cheated and they all tried to convince me it was just sex... nothing personal... I took it very personal... three divorces !!!

joesey

Joined: 11/6/2006

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i found a letter Posted: 8/21/2007 9:08:49 AM
you poor man, I would give it too her with a nice smile and tell her thanks for the memories ... I am a woman and just had my husband stolen from me after 18 years of marriage... no I did not even suspect him,, never did anything like that in 18 years... but still he did it and I was deserted for about 8 months before I filed for a divorce... yes I found out it had been going on for a few years... talk about being stupid... give it to her so she can burn it... but I would not hesitate to let her know you know .... you will be ok trust me, there are nights when i lay awake and cry thinking about how terrible he treated me .. and now he lets his new wife harrass me... but hey, I get up every morning and thank God he is gone and know that there is someone out there who will love you and treat you the way you should be treated ... no lies no cheating .... just respect and love...

joesey

Joined: 11/6/2006

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What Women should never wear on a date Posted: 8/21/2007 8:58:54 AM
makes sense to me, only I bet it wouldn't bother you if those granny panties covered up a perfect butt, and the boots were attached to some long gorgeous legs,,, and how about if the hat was on a perfect head and face.... would you mind then ? i think not!

joesey

Joined: 11/6/2006

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Men don't like TALL women Posted: 8/7/2007 8:05:09 AM
im only going to say this about that, your abolutely correct in your reasoning,, they re intimidated by tall women, I get my share of short men, and it clearly states in my profile, I am tall and want a taller man than myself... the tall ones ! well like you said they are intimidated and need a tiny woman to feel superior ... must be a epidemic..

joesey

Joined: 11/6/2006

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''See where things go'',exactlly what does that mean?..... Posted: 7/31/2007 9:18:00 AM
thats the catch fraze of the century ... I here it every time I talk to a guy on here ... you are correct in assuming that it means if your doable and I can get in your pants on the first date then it has been worth all the idle chit chat I had to do to get you there... this site has alot of those kind of guys on it .... my advice to you is to respond in this way . oh see where it goes ? well I'll tell you if i like you then maybe i'll see you again, and IT doesn't refer to your private parts, there not going anywhere, on the first date ... works every time ... they will either show you there true colors and not talk to you anymore, or they will convince you that its not about IT ...........

joesey

Joined: 11/6/2006

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Compulsive Liars need not apply Posted: 7/27/2007 11:17:28 AM
compusive liars are a serious problem... first of all the behavior is considered to be a sociopathic problem ...most liar's find it easier to lie than tell the truth,, and a good one adds this behavior patern in every thing they do... i think you will find out "if you get back with him, that its not just the lying that is a problem, he has a bunch of stuff going on that you cannot fix,, don't even try ,,, thank God you didn;t get any std's from the guy, who knows how many other woman have been lied too... trust me your not the only one,,, he's been doing it all his life ...that you can be sure of..the elaborate stories ...??? well takes time to sit and make up stuff like that ...think about it ,,,a real sicko .................... goodluck

joesey

Joined: 11/6/2006

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Why do young men think older women are interested in them? Posted: 7/26/2007 6:51:06 AM
another good point, but I will tell you that most of the younger men on here are looking for a onenighter... they can say what they want, and I have heard it all, I told one guy :i'm old enough to be your grandmother,, he laughed and replied .. you don't look like anybody's gramma .never the less, I have sons in there 3o's and when a 22 year old comes on and insist he has alot to offer, a 59 year old woman, i have to laugh, the mind set of these guys is unbelievable.. i have nothing in common with a man "boy" who is 40 years younger than me ... and my sons would have a cow... after all is said and done , the young girls out there are pushing these guys to look for a more mature woman with experience ... i married a man 5 years younger than me and after 18 years, he ran off with a younger woman ... so my advice is to leave the boys on the playground alone ......

joesey

Joined: 11/6/2006

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Every woman on the planet should read this Posted: 7/26/2007 5:45:24 AM
i did and its all true, but hten again I knew that ! the best part is "men like women who like themselves and are confident and sure ... think about it girls ! there would beno lonely people in the world if they will listen to what they just read ......

joesey

Joined: 11/6/2006

Msg: 12 (view)

do u ever really know a person??????? Posted: 7/25/2007 10:13:47 AM
no you dont ! i can tell you from experience ... after loving and caring for a man for 18 years ... being his rock, and his shoulder ... thinking it was never going to be anything but him and me ... forever! well guess again married 18 years and he found a girl that had six kids that needed a daddy ..he left me , without ever looking back 18 years... i would have bet against him ever doing anything like that to anyone... but hey he say's it was male menopause ... hell 2 years I would have laughed , but after 20 not so funny ... keep going till you find he right one... he wasn;t it ,, better now than wait till the well goes dry .....

joesey

Joined: 11/6/2006

Msg: 190 (view)

He Says Lose 30 lbs and He Will Give you an Engagement Ring.....Would Ya???? Posted: 7/25/2007 8:56:20 AM
why the women are worried about engagement rings ,, the men are looking at skinny women.. this is my honest opinion ! if a guy that I had been with for 2.5 years said he would give me a ring if I lost 30 lbs, I would be heart broken,, obviously he's a bit of a jerk,,, but when a man says he loves you ,, thats exactly what he is suppose to do LOVE U and the size 16 is all part of that.. let me just say that I am not a arrogant person, but if it were me I'd find a man who loves me and my big butt... thats like telling a short man to grow 6 inches so you can be happy with him.... just can't see myself doing anything like that, have to make yourself happy first and if shes happy being size 16 then tell her to get off the diet pills, they will hurt her eventually ... sounds like they already have... which does he want a crabby skinny woman or a happy size 16? he's got a problem ... let him figure it out,, and stay healthy ... diet pills are not the answer and he needs to drop back and regroup ... tell him to look inside first ... sounds like shes a wonderfull caring person, to risk her health to make him happy is just plan stupid no one is worth that

joesey

Joined: 11/6/2006

Msg: 19 (view)

They have a skanky picture, looking for longterm. Posted: 7/23/2007 5:21:14 AM
your correct in your assumtions ...

joesey

Joined: 11/6/2006

Msg: 51 (view)

Please Somebody Help Me Deal With This Posted: 6/11/2007 11:34:17 AM
well here it is and your not going to like it.. you missed a very important part of a relationship,,, first of all she was only with you out of need... sometimes we want to think its love, but trust me it is not... I was married to a man for 18 years, then his parents got sick, they live in another town about 300 miles away, he was an only child, and his parents were always a problem, very needed ,,, when they could not take care of themselves, they were put in a nursing home, and in that nursing home there was a aid ...I'll call her rhonda! who decided that not only would she take care of his parents needs but his also, he left me high and dry, after 18 years, becuase he needed a woman who would and could take care of mom and dad ... she had a husband and six kids also, who were shattered when she left them all for my husband,,, I was left with nothing not even a good by after 18 years of being his wife and taking care of him ...very well, I just couldn't fit his parents into my life , so he found someone who could , even though it was her job...now he is married to her, and him and her and her six kids and mom and dad are all elated ... I however will never be the same, I dream about him, I long for him, I still love him and did not want my marriage to end but when a man or a woman treats you the way we have been treated ... you need to get to a point in your life where you believe that there is another man or woman out there who will appreciate all the time and effort you put into her and her fatherless child... she should be worshiping you not dissing you ... until you realize that she wasn't worth anything, and you do deserve better then you will always feel the pain hun... it took me two years to finally see that I was worth something and derseving of alot more than I got from my husband. you will too , just remember that she was the looser, and I here that all day long, things like oh my god, he left a wonderfull woman like you? yes he did and I am telling you the same thing ,, what was wrong with her,,, ??? taking responsibilty for her child and seeing her through all that ? and then being treated like yesterdays trash? no hun you need to move on and if your half the man I think you are, you are so much better off and the pain will go away ....as soon as you realize that ... Im getting better and I was a mess hun, I lost 30 lbs i did not need to loose , stopped eating , cryed all day and all night , sleep brought only nightmares and no matter what words of comfort were thrown at me I did not believe ... my pain was too great .. I can honestly say I still miss him, but now when I think of him I think about only the bad things ,, and about him making love to rhonda... it helps cause I know right now he is missing me and let me tell you rhonda is no trip to hollywood and after having six kids I know the sex isn't as good, so now he is feeling bad about his life and he calls to vent once in awhile ... i listen and laugh ... tell him good luck with all those kids and rhonda, you got what you asked for .. and so it goes,,, and you my friend need to let her go .. if I am correct , most women want what they can;t have, make yourself unavailable to her for a few weeks and see what happens... maybe by that time you'll realize she not worth a minute of your pain....

joesey

Joined: 11/6/2006

Msg: 327 (view)

red hair and green eyes and freckles Posted: 6/11/2007 10:53:01 AM
oh my, your talking about me ...and then there is the very fair skin ! not even irish ...

joesey

Joined: 11/6/2006

Msg: 19 (view)

Why do people say you shouldn't get back with an ex? Posted: 6/11/2007 8:20:57 AM
yes three times, and after 18 years, he finally decided not to come back, or maybe I should say I decided not to take him back ..I don't know if its the right thing or the wrong thing in your case, but in mine, he just thought that I would take him back no matter what ... funny but I think back to how I felt sorry for him and took him back for that reason every time... I guess pity is the wrong reason to stay with anyone... right?

joesey

Joined: 11/6/2006

Msg: 36 (view)

Is this girl a tease or what Posted: 6/8/2007 8:05:35 AM
tease ? sticks and stones , I think I could get over that alot faster than a dose of V>D> or worse. so funny how stupid some people are.... call me a tease , you would be absolutley correct and I feel real good I am around to here them .....

joesey

Joined: 11/6/2006

Msg: 75 (view)

Would you get a divorce if ... Posted: 6/4/2007 6:53:05 AM
you all sound like your divorce lawyers...lol... heres one for you, what if permanent maintenance is awarded ??? that means the guy really screwed up lol what it means is , maintenance is continuious no matter how many times she gets married... tell him to pay the charge off, and get rid of her, she probably never loved him anyway or she would not have shown such disrespect for his credit .......

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