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 Author Thread: Why do women always put someone to make me laugh in their profiles?
 aggers
Joined: 11/6/2006
Msg: 11 (view)
 
Why do women always put someone to make me laugh in their profiles?
Posted: 12/13/2006 9:02:10 AM
Apparently i WAS being harsh!

I might not have explained this too well.... what i was getting at is that a man tends to put in his profile that "a sense of humour is important" in a woman, whereas a lot of women put "be able to make me laugh" and it is the subtle difference between those that i was hinting at.

The implication in the second one being that it's the woman who expects to be doing most of the laughing.

You all make valid points and of course to a degree i am stereotyping but as the old saying goes - a cliche never becomes a cliche because there is some truth in it to begin with.

I'll stop digging now.
 aggers
Joined: 11/6/2006
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Why do women always put someone to make me laugh in their profiles?
Posted: 12/13/2006 6:05:27 AM
It was of course a rhetorical question!

But it does beg the question why so few men put the same requirement on their profiles? Perhaps some of you girls see it as our job to impress and entertain you, rather than being a two way process?

It's true that spontaneous humour indicates both intelligence and a warm personality in a man, but a woman who wants to be on the receiving end, without being capable of returning it, is soon going to find the bloke losing interest.

In my experience it tends to be the less attractive women who display a sense of humour because they can't just get by on looks like the barbie dolls. Or am i being harsh?
 aggers
Joined: 11/6/2006
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Why do women always put "someone to make me laugh" in their profiles?
Posted: 12/13/2006 2:56:43 AM
And if the ability to make a woman laugh is so important, how come there aren't large gangs of female groupies hanging around out side comedy clubs waiting for the stand-up's to emerge??

As a wise man once said "Ive never heard a woman say 'oh darling, you're so funny.... come over here and take your clothes off immediately'!"
 aggers
Joined: 11/6/2006
Msg: 1006 (view)
 
Do You Men Read Our Whole Profiles?
Posted: 12/6/2006 1:20:45 AM
Hello everyone.

Well i'm fairly new on here, so i still read profiles, but i'm quickly coming to the conclusion it's pointless. Even if i message someone who clearly has lots in common with me, i've now come to expect not even get the courtesy of a reply saying "no thanks".

The women on here are as bad as the men. They write loads of guff in their profiles about the personal qualities that they want in a man, but when it comes down to it they simply look at the pics and press the delete button without reading OUR profiles!

Mind you, which woman is going to write a profile asking for Mr Perfect.... caring, sensitive, funny, gentle, warm, loving, intelligent...... and then add at the end "oh yes, and you have to look like Johnny Depp or George Clooney or the other stuff doesn't matter".

Perhaps if the site had a facility to show how many messages people had received and not replied to it would encourage some manners! And equally if it showed how many messages blokes had sent to different women in the previous 2 weeks, it would discourage the "players" bombarding loads of women just hoping to get lucky!
 
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