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 Author Thread: is he backing off - should I leave well alone??
 dino_freebird
Joined: 11/6/2006
Msg: 10 (view)
 
is he backing off - should I leave well alone??
Posted: 6/2/2008 9:39:39 AM
Excuse me for being so blunt, but what ever happened to communication? You really should be asking/talking to him, and not posting this on the internet. I understand that it is important for women to "network" per se over issues in their lives. But if you can't communicate with him, how could you ever expect your relationship to prosper? Something like "I hope you weren't offend by my comment/request the other day, but I wanted you to know that it really was too much information..."
 dino_freebird
Joined: 11/6/2006
Msg: 4 (view)
 
What's the real risk in meeting?
Posted: 5/14/2008 10:40:41 AM
I've had several scary encounters! Then I learned to "decypher" the pictures that they post. 8 head shot pictures means that they are probably not h/w proportunate, and possibly have some self-image issues. Live and learn...
 dino_freebird
Joined: 11/6/2006
Msg: 22 (view)
 
This girl has a girlfriend??
Posted: 4/9/2008 8:02:27 PM
And I thought only women over analized! Sheesh
 dino_freebird
Joined: 11/6/2006
Msg: 111 (view)
 
What’s the most important thing that men don’t understand about women that they should
Posted: 1/29/2008 1:09:43 PM
I read the book "Men are from Mars, Women are from venus" and highly recommend it to any guy that REALLY wants to know about the women in our lives.
Not trying to "fix" your woman when she justs wants to talk (vent) to you. It takes some major adjustments, but if you're a caring, considerate guy who really wants to make his life better, pick up the book and read it.
 dino_freebird
Joined: 11/6/2006
Msg: 32 (view)
 
getting a girl to let loose
Posted: 1/29/2008 12:56:34 PM
Sounds to me like she's selfish. I am not into Necrophilia, so it soundes like she wouldn't be around much longer
 dino_freebird
Joined: 11/6/2006
Msg: 45 (view)
 
I'm Done and even more frustrated
Posted: 1/29/2008 12:48:46 PM
Sex is sex; Intimacy is intimacy. There is a big difference.
I believe that 90% of sex is mental (intimacy) and 10% is physical (the actual copulation). Especially for a woman. I know this sounds crude, so I apologize in advance, but I have always said that if you can get in a woman's (partner/significant other...) mind, there isn't anything else that you can't get into.
You're young. You're probably dealing with guys your age, who are still out for only one thing, and probably have the attitude of "Hey! I don't know whats wrong with you, but we both started at the same time!"
It sounds to me that your twisting yourself into a knot. Relax go with the flow, and don't be in such a sure-fire hurry to get on with your life.
 dino_freebird
Joined: 11/6/2006
Msg: 7 (view)
 
Another Houston POF party? Anyone?
Posted: 1/21/2008 12:19:17 PM
You'll have to count me out. These things are way too much fun and I don't think I can handle another wardrobe change.
Well, I guess I can try and make it...
 dino_freebird
Joined: 11/6/2006
Msg: 2 (view)
 
Houston Event Oct 13 - PICTURES
Posted: 10/15/2007 2:55:30 PM
What happened to the breakfast pic(s)? And when did you change my name to "Dink"?
The "Rocky Mountain Horror Show" was great! Some of us remember who kept calling it that. I sat between two ladies (Kathie and Donna) and if I missed any dialog (because of over exuberant audience participation), these two know the words by heart! I for one had a great time, and me thinks Kathie did too!
 dino_freebird
Joined: 11/6/2006
Msg: 34 (view)
 
Houston POF Get Together - Saturday October 13
Posted: 10/14/2007 10:13:34 AM
ok, where are the damned pictures summer! lol
 dino_freebird
Joined: 11/6/2006
Msg: 40 (view)
 
curiousity
Posted: 9/4/2007 7:50:59 AM
"if you cant or wont answer dont put any thing ok!"

ok, but I can and will... duhhh
 dino_freebird
Joined: 11/6/2006
Msg: 18 (view)
 
Houston POF get together - Friday Sept 21 - Sam's Concert Pub
Posted: 8/30/2007 11:02:51 AM
Gas, Grass, or Ass, nobody rides for free! Right biker trash...

 dino_freebird
Joined: 11/6/2006
Msg: 18 (view)
 
What Drives You Away From A Woman?
Posted: 8/29/2007 12:10:44 PM
When you are having a conversation and she ignores what you just said and continues on with her thoughts, like your opinion doesn't matter. I've hung up on women that way before.
To me, a conversation is a dialog between two (or more) people, not just one of them talking, and one of them feining interest...
 dino_freebird
Joined: 11/6/2006
Msg: 3 (view)
 
Houston POF get together - Friday Sept 21 - Sam's Concert Pub
Posted: 8/28/2007 6:14:55 AM
I just may be able to squeeze this one in too. Imagine that...
 dino_freebird
Joined: 11/6/2006
Msg: 26 (view)
 
What's wrong with the brush off?
Posted: 8/20/2007 8:27:53 AM
Because most guys are chickenchit and don't want to offend you. The same could be said of some of the women on this site too.
 dino_freebird
Joined: 11/6/2006
Msg: 23 (view)
 
What to do when a guy gets scared after he says he's attracted to you?
Posted: 8/20/2007 8:24:10 AM
Sometimes early on in the relationship I want to see if she's interested in me, and so I wait to see if she'll call/contact me. How long it takes is indicative of her interest level, or even a statement of the type of relationship she wants.
If she doesn't contact me in a few days or so, to me at least, she's not interested. It doesn't make for a lasting relationship if both parties are not on the same playing field (per se). I'm not going to be with anyone who shows indifference to me or our (potential) relationship. I'm too old for games and tired of wasting precious time.
BTDT = Been there, done that...
 dino_freebird
Joined: 11/6/2006
Msg: 5 (view)
 
how do u find a good guy??
Posted: 8/20/2007 8:11:38 AM
You must kiss a lot of frogs before you find your prince...
 dino_freebird
Joined: 11/6/2006
Msg: 12 (view)
 
When guys talk about their girl to their guy friends
Posted: 8/20/2007 8:05:16 AM
I've never really been a "kiss and tell" type of guy. I do mention some things to my best friend in passing, but as for all the lurid details, nope.
 dino_freebird
Joined: 11/6/2006
Msg: 46 (view)
 
Foreplay.....rough or soft?
Posted: 8/20/2007 7:56:42 AM
I have to agree with "spence56" (post 4). Women are like a "moving" target. My experiences are like his. What's good one day, might not be good another day. Communication is important, especially on the woman's part, for a pleasurable experience.
Some times I'm a little more into a more "manly" touch, a little more firmer than the normal caress. But I would expect my partner to let me know if I'm too rough.
 dino_freebird
Joined: 11/6/2006
Msg: 22 (view)
 
is it necesarily wrong to read kama sutras and sex guides
Posted: 8/9/2007 12:38:57 PM
Hell no! She was just probably uptight about the issue. I'd even bet she was the type that you had to turn the lights out too!
 dino_freebird
Joined: 11/6/2006
Msg: 26 (view)
 
Horrible kisser = deal breaker????
Posted: 8/9/2007 12:29:31 PM
Yes, especially after trying to discuss the situation with them. If you are at the begining of your relationship and this "bugs" you now, then imagine how this will get under your skin after the "newness" has worn off, and you're less willing to forgive those little flaws.
 dino_freebird
Joined: 11/6/2006
Msg: 23 (view)
 
confused
Posted: 8/9/2007 12:26:16 PM
Learn to punctuate...
 dino_freebird
Joined: 11/6/2006
Msg: 47 (view)
 
Do guys like cowgirls and tomboys?
Posted: 8/6/2007 1:20:41 PM
You asked this a while back didn't you? Me thinks you're surfing for attention...
 dino_freebird
Joined: 11/6/2006
Msg: 48 (view)
 
What are you attracted to 1st? Big jugs or pretty face?
Posted: 8/6/2007 1:16:41 PM
Believe it or not, face. I must be part of the minority because I think more of a woman that her chesticles. In fact, if I view a profile, and all she has is shots accentuating her chest, I close her out thinking that that's all she thinks she's worth...
 dino_freebird
Joined: 11/6/2006
Msg: 10 (view)
 
Gilfriend vs friends?
Posted: 8/6/2007 1:08:51 PM
Men, just like women, are as different as fingerprints. What "floats someone's boat" to one could be something completely different to another. I think that we all take our past experiences and use those as a criteria in who we date. I usually call those my "deal breakers". Some things I absolutlely refuse to compromise on. I have very few of theses "deal breakers" but they are all based on negative relationship experiences from my past.
Another thing that really gets me, is most people are asking the forum residents for an answer before they ask the person they have the problem with. How can you have a "healthy" relationship without communication?
Pattern? Look at the common denominator (you) and see if there is something that you are doing (refer to communication) or not doing.
Ther is a reason that pride is one of the 7 deadly sins.
 dino_freebird
Joined: 11/6/2006
Msg: 5 (view)
 
how to get over the love of your life?
Posted: 7/31/2007 3:25:33 PM
My simple little rule in life is: If she don't show an interest, I don't want to be around her". Try applying this to your life.
 dino_freebird
Joined: 11/6/2006
Msg: 19 (view)
 
Am I suppose to be chasing you?
Posted: 7/31/2007 3:09:12 PM
If I am not interested in someone, I will thank them for their e-mail and then give my reason for not persueing them. Otherwise, I will flat out say that I am interested in getting to know them a little better. Honesty and communication always work for me.
 dino_freebird
Joined: 11/6/2006
Msg: 16 (view)
 
Moving on..
Posted: 7/30/2007 10:36:22 AM
It all depends on how long "dating awhile" means. And the level of attachment. Most people attach differently, depending on what they are looking for in a relationship. So then most people would react differently to splitting up.
 dino_freebird
Joined: 11/6/2006
Msg: 13 (view)
 
What are your red flags?
Posted: 7/30/2007 10:29:42 AM
Lying! Lying! Lying!

Double standards. This goes both ways actually.

Lack of maturity.

Lack of communication.

Lack of desire.

Lack of common interests.
 dino_freebird
Joined: 11/6/2006
Msg: 20 (view)
 
Why do guys?????
Posted: 7/20/2007 8:16:40 AM
I personally don't add to favorites without prior permission.
 dino_freebird
Joined: 11/6/2006
Msg: 14 (view)
 
Have you ever tasted male ejaculate?
Posted: 7/20/2007 8:14:20 AM
I think that the world is full of double standards. If I went down on my SO and then kissed her afterwards, how can I refuse to kiss her after she goes down on me? So in answer to your question, Yes I have.
 dino_freebird
Joined: 11/6/2006
Msg: 3 (view)
 
Should I back off?
Posted: 7/20/2007 8:12:03 AM
^^^^^ right on. Give it some time.
 dino_freebird
Joined: 11/6/2006
Msg: 12 (view)
 
This question has always bugged me guys...
Posted: 7/20/2007 8:09:46 AM
I can only speak for myself, but in answer to your question, yes I could (and would) delete my profile.
It would take time for this to happen, for the relationship to mature, but once I find that one lady who mentally stimulates me, I would not need to find stimulation elsewhere.
 dino_freebird
Joined: 11/6/2006
Msg: 22 (view)
 
Am I being rude?
Posted: 7/20/2007 8:03:30 AM
No, I don't think you are. When I get responses like that, I am somewhat confused as to whether they are actually interested in conversing with me, or if they are just responding, so as not to appear rude.
I think that if you are interested in them, you should also include this tidbit of information too.
 dino_freebird
Joined: 11/6/2006
Msg: 78 (view)
 
why do guys tell so many lies on here
Posted: 7/16/2007 1:42:54 PM
"why do guys tell so many lies on here"

The same reason women tell so many lies on here!
 dino_freebird
Joined: 11/6/2006
Msg: 12 (view)
 
If you were blind what would attract you most about a woman?
Posted: 7/16/2007 1:39:33 PM
Not a single written word. Unfortunately, too many have a tendancy to "expound" on things, and omit others. I personally don't think you match with somebody like that.

Now if you had asked something like "if sight was the only sense you lacked, what would you find attractive in the opposite sex?" kind of question, Post 4 hits pretty close to the target for me. I would only add her touch to my list.
 dino_freebird
Joined: 11/6/2006
Msg: 12 (view)
 
The looks of the woman is really of secondary importance ...
Posted: 7/16/2007 1:29:33 PM
No! just try telling your woman that she needs to lose a few pounds... or that she could use a breast lift.
Just goes to show you that you can not stereo type anyone...
 dino_freebird
Joined: 11/6/2006
Msg: 17 (view)
 
The myth of doggie style
Posted: 7/13/2007 2:17:04 PM
I just love the position. It's my favorite!
 dino_freebird
Joined: 11/6/2006
Msg: 27 (view)
 
Anyone drive to work naked
Posted: 7/10/2007 6:00:51 AM
No, but Me and my best friend, at the time, went into Whataburger (inside) in nothing but jockstraps. Needless to say, we were drunk... The whole story is funny as hell, just not at the time.
 dino_freebird
Joined: 11/6/2006
Msg: 88 (view)
 
Noise, grunts and sex, why?
Posted: 7/9/2007 1:43:54 PM
Why, because I'm not into necrophilia! Lack of any noise at all would be a definite deal breaker for me. Shoot me if you must, but I can't be with someone who is mute in bed.
 dino_freebird
Joined: 11/6/2006
Msg: 24 (view)
 
Do you have a type?
Posted: 7/6/2007 3:48:28 PM
Breathing helps alot... Not really into necrophilia
I prefer short hair, or someone who puts their hair up. The sight of their neck drives me wild.
She's gotta have a smile that will light up the room.
The physique that I am most attracted to is slim.
I prefer brunettes.
Huge chesticles are a turn-off.
 dino_freebird
Joined: 11/6/2006
Msg: 245 (view)
 
What are the side effects of using the vibrator too much???
Posted: 7/3/2007 1:29:29 PM
You mean there are side effects of using it too much??? lol Is it anything like "you'll get hairy palms" our parents warned us if we "abused" ourselves too much? lol
 dino_freebird
Joined: 11/6/2006
Msg: 16 (view)
 
What do I have to do to get you to care?
Posted: 7/3/2007 12:52:20 PM
I would think that that might work if the guy was very into you, But if you tried this on me in the very begining, or even after a few conversations, I'd think that you lost interest and stop trying to get to know you. I make it perfectly clear that I am interested and would require the same back.
If the man has grown in maturity, you should expect him to give a "rat's ass" about your needs for (or in) a relationship. But if it's all take and no give by one party in a relationship (either by the male or female), then it's "don't let the door hit you where the good Lord split you!
 dino_freebird
Joined: 11/6/2006
Msg: 26 (view)
 
Wich would you prefer?
Posted: 7/3/2007 12:16:35 PM
Sometimes I use my left hand to make it seem like someone else is doing it!
 dino_freebird
Joined: 11/6/2006
Msg: 11 (view)
 
female O-question
Posted: 7/3/2007 6:02:26 AM
I prefer to please her first because I actully derive most of my pleasure from pleasing her.
 dino_freebird
Joined: 11/6/2006
Msg: 8 (view)
 
Better to be honest??...or make something up??
Posted: 7/3/2007 5:59:08 AM
Keep being honest, which sounds like you'll be true to yourself.
 dino_freebird
Joined: 11/6/2006
Msg: 14 (view)
 
Did he lose interest/fall off the earth
Posted: 7/2/2007 9:45:28 AM
He met you, and obviously found something lacking. On top of that, he doesn't have the cahones to man up and tell you he's not interested. Sorry, but it's time for you to move on.
 dino_freebird
Joined: 11/6/2006
Msg: 11 (view)
 
Men would rather be the first to make contact?
Posted: 7/2/2007 9:42:12 AM
You mean on the fantasy site where the woman I contact actually replies???
It doesn't really matter to me anymore, but I have been on here long enought to have already e-mailed all of the "potential" ladies, so if there is someone who takes a fancy to me, tell her to bring it on!
 dino_freebird
Joined: 11/6/2006
Msg: 3 (view)
 
telling someone they are not the right fit for you....
Posted: 6/28/2007 3:00:43 PM
You did the right thing by being polite, you just happened to run into an immature butt-munch.
 dino_freebird
Joined: 11/6/2006
Msg: 36 (view)
 
What would you do if you got into a relationship and her children were hostel?
Posted: 6/28/2007 2:57:13 PM
I think the most influential part of this equation is how the mother handled the situation.
A little background... I met my second wife and dated her for two years before we wed. She had a daughter from a previous marriage. I adopted her when she was 12, but had known her since she was 6 years old. Shortly after the adoption, the daughter went thru puberty and really started acting out. The problem was, my ex never believed that her daughter "lied" to her. Me, I had an uncanny ability to see right thru the BS she was trying to feed us. The problem that reared it's ugly head was that my ex would never back me up. My daughter could see that, and she played it for all it was worth!
The moral of this story is that if the mother allows stuff like that (disrespectful behavior) then I would be gone in a heart beat. But if I see that she is trying to guide them to respect their elders, or have consideration for others, then she would have my support and presence.

Also now my daughter and I laugh about how gullible my ex was and how I always saw thru everything she tried to pull. But it was a real tough 5 years!
 dino_freebird
Joined: 11/6/2006
Msg: 17 (view)
 
Houston Live Band Event June 23 - Pictures
Posted: 6/28/2007 9:53:16 AM
too much fun to miss another one!
 
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