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Thread: STUPIDITY AT ITS BEST
originalnw
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STUPIDITY AT ITS BEST
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11/27/2009 12:26:43 AM
As you learn to deal with life,you will grow. You had your taste of what might be,and ended up "holding the wrong end ". It happens to so many others,that at least you "know " you will be better from it. Don't start judging other males on what you have learned. Everyone is a single person that you will learn life from. By grouping them ,you have already are setting yourself up for a downfall relationship. By you going to school and work, you'll have time to sort these things out. But please don't hide from the male population,just take time to understand what life's about!
originalnw
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Just venting
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11/18/2009 6:54:45 PM
You need to stop worrying about yesterday,live in the time that you need(present) and leave the worries of what you had . Go out a find your "heart throb ". What you had is gone! Move on! Finding new hearts to play with is better than dwelling on "what was "! By moving on with your life ,you find a few toads ...and some smart as a "wise old owl" ,so be hoping for another to capture your heart is a lot better ,than to be hurting on what is gone!
originalnw
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for the guys
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11/18/2009 6:39:46 PM
It all depends on your comfort zone. Some might need a year to be ready again, others just a week or so! Not introducing the children to a" new possible" is totally in your insight. There really isn't any wrong statement to be said. Not being honest is the insult yourself or him. The first meeting is "always your choise " and not his. Being a mom and the protective mode is very common among all single parent. Give yourself a break! And go out when you feel your ready !
originalnw
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Just Curious
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11/17/2009 11:58:10 AM
Be "who you are", go forward on your goals,and enjoy the results.Some men enjoy the "fair chase laws ", others enjoy the open front line. Your request depends total on the present of you and him!
originalnw
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Am I doing the right thing?
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11/16/2009 10:40:20 PM
Stop the Press and read the paper...Man got taken by a sweet talking lady with game skills/computer talents. And that all young people want to go to " America ",when they live in differant countries. Let the lesson of life be learned..by the simple faults ,and heart strings played. Go on with your life, enjoy the person you want to be. Find another "skirt to enjoy " your time with!!!
originalnw
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when i say I love you I mean it .some people just say it
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11/16/2009 10:27:27 PM
It " Has been Written " or express many times on this site, if your partner has a alcohol/drug problem-you will not be able to change his ways! He has to do that choise alone. Even if he cut back,stopped partying,or passing out often...you could not help him if he didn't really want to change. You being with him gave him a crutch to lean on and someone that would " be understanding , when he was feeling the after effects of drinking. And he woulds "say anything/do anything " to keep up his side of the false world he enjoyed. It hurts now...but you'll be a better person later from this . You have been used like so many before you. Please don't go out and hide from the world or men around you. Be true to yourself,and move forward with your life. Your to special to all those others that are going to be calling you ,now that you dumb the bum!
originalnw
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single mom's pressured into lesbian sex
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11/15/2009 6:57:38 PM
It sounds like you need to "get out of the closet" or close the door tightly! It was told to me (A Lesbian) by a lady -that she is in totally agreement that one kind of lady is really turn on by another lady that enjoys that form of fun! The lady who told me is been with the same lady for over 15 yrs. And she hasn't had any hits from others that know her sexual being. She hasn't known anyone to be pressured to perform with another,it sound like a kinky thoughts from a boyfriend,or the lady hasn't come out of the closet either.
originalnw
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ok guys , how often after 3 months
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11/15/2009 7:30:40 AM
Some men donnot "public displays of emotional ties"( yes holding hands is one of them ) . And if he's having dinner with a friend ...is it a male friend? Or a female. Some men prefer to "be with his buddies night out " and leave the ladies home. If he does this "dinning out " without you more often than not, maybe your relationship isn't as strong as you think. Rethink your time with him,maybe it was fun in the beginning,now it's almost a slow ,painful death.
originalnw
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Should I keep trying or just give up?
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11/15/2009 7:20:18 AM
You should do what your heart is trying to say! Stop over thinking,and act upon what you feel! He seems to "actual " care,and is responsive to you in calling back! Act on your feelings and go forward.
originalnw
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Dumbest Messages
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11/14/2009 9:24:16 PM
A e-mail block would be your best choise.
originalnw
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what do MEN WHO ARE LEADERS find attractive in a woman?
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11/14/2009 9:10:39 PM
Most of the "certain types " you have mentioned prefer ...women that are not going to face-off with them on every turn. Being who you are now ,is more inportant then...trying to adjust the way you think for "them". Stay in your own way of thinking.and how you react to others. Changing yourself for others hinders what/who you really are. And I beleive that a lady is true to herself first,and that means that she takes control when she see fit. Right now ,just some fun, would come to mind!
originalnw
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do men your own age even like ya or older
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11/13/2009 9:50:06 PM
Younger men want "older women " to learn /teach them. People of your age have thoughts of younger teachable stock. Men who are older (that you haven't meet yet-hanging around candy stores) are then ones that don't always look for younger stock,or need to prove themselves,but you need to start being social...more than just eyeing some.
originalnw
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The one you love has a new love....
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11/8/2009 8:59:19 PM
Get out and find someone else. Your too new to be concern about the future. Go out and learn to dance ,learn new things about life in general. Concerning yourself about " what about " or if I did " this " ??? You need to go back in the world! Your ex isn't concerning about you, you need to start thinking about your new boytoy. That empty feeling in your heart will soon pass as you find that others aren't concern so much ,but what you bring into their lifes. I could dwell on what was lost in mine,cannot change the past,so I look for the future. Whatever it may bring.. I'm looking foward and not behind me of what was. Get out ! Start taking charge of you! Bring yourself up and go forth. Find a new toy/Boyfriend to enjoy life with!!!
originalnw
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What's wrong with me?
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11/2/2009 11:56:58 AM
" NOTHING " ! Finding the right one is hard . By letting " GO " is hard to do,but by finding someone else to be with,you are dragging your old doubts of you being tainted. This is common feeling that everyone goes thru after someone gives their heart and soul into a relationship. By listening to your heart you gave your ex a control over your self worth. You now need to move forward,forget the jerk,and find someone who will give the same equal time you desire. You way to new a dating to hide from the males out there that would glady love you. By giving yourself a break on the emotional upset,dropping the doubts that you collected, you" ll be ready to re-enter the world of love. Everyone out here on POF site has gone thru the same pain you are dealing with, Go out and be you!
originalnw
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What to do now?/
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11/2/2009 11:38:57 AM
It would seem that your ex is pushing "buttons " to upset you and using all the old tricks to keep you wondering. You need to talk to a "lawyer " for you options,and maybe a counselor for "certain " issuses you are dealing . You are going to be more upset with his tactics without legal advise,and he'll use every dirty,underhanded ,emotional "my side " controling facts that he can. You'll start to doubt yourself what is real and what is fiction. Be gathering /collecting any papers on his actions,you are protecting yourself and the children as well. Relationship will be strained to say the least ,but your paperwork to a lawyer will prove the twisted version to be false. He's fatherly concerns will most like turn to about more lies and such. Good Luck!
originalnw
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A hgih school sweetheart from 30 years ago??
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10/25/2009 4:59:55 PM
It sounds that your friend found " things stirring in his shorts and remembers what it was" like back then. Old memories of what was -isn't facing the facts of what is going on today. He will think on it...react to lost "lustful "thoughts,and he'll be seeing you again if you let him. Trying to react on past memories-is a waste of time. And you know that you can't dwell on the past ,while living in the present. If you had a choise..would you take a chance on making a future on what was??? Or would you stay in the present and look to the future?
originalnw
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Why do I care?
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10/17/2009 1:25:30 AM
You need to start looking at You! This last person treated you like dirt and pushed your buttons til it had to end. By using you...he took control over you. And your the one who is depressed...that an old trick called " passive emotional control ". It was a trick to contol wives/mistress as well as children. And when the it stopped the set-up left you emotional upset for months . You may need to receive counseling, and even your closes friend cannot really help, for the problem is deeper than you realise. Unless you can look back to where you start this relationship,see where he started the controlling act, you may have problems for months. I would strongly advise to get counseling to help you get over this person's mild brainwashing. As a person like yourself ,who was used to be by herself,now finds little simple things harder to do, and you revert back to him in your thoughts. Get the help you need,stop thinking of anyone but you. You need to be you again. GOOD LUCK
originalnw
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What a Nerve A Question for the men
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10/15/2009 6:34:26 PM
When Using the meanest foul words to hurt the other person, with the intent of remembering what was actually said. It was to cause verbal pain...Not to actually wonder what else was said along with that staement. It was totally wrong...there is no useless anyone or any professional would tell you.
originalnw
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No Contact even though we were never actually committed??
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10/15/2009 1:08:33 PM
As crazy as it sounds...you are is grounding rod. You can't be together ..he eyes are searching for younger talent. You maybe liked by his family, but to him you are not thought like that anymore. You feelings for him will fade as you have new person in your life. All he remembers is the comfort zone you coddle him in when you first arrive in his life. Let it go! your hurting yourself by taking time from your new friend. The old boy in your past will never understand what he lost, but will always be seeking out younger models for him to enjoy.
originalnw
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Is is wrong to tell?
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10/15/2009 12:53:59 PM
It has been said " That honesty is the best way to be informed....but the hardest to be heard. If you are comfortable with what you have now...why say anything. If you want more, think about your approach on the matter and present him . There is chances that he'll run away or move in closer. It's a crap shoot...! Good Luck !
originalnw
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Empty promises
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10/15/2009 12:46:43 PM
Meeting another person for the first time...is a " DATE" ! Your potenial boyfriend (s) had cold feet and was thinking to hard on what happens next! Your still very good lookin, and need not to dwell on a few that balk on you. Get back out...Show your self that you can still find a good one. Words only matter if they are said with meaning/actions. Not everyone around is ready for total commitment...but there are special ones near you .
originalnw
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Head scratcher.......
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10/14/2009 9:34:23 PM
Go on to the next question, who's is he seeing? By not answering his mail,all his time is focused on the new one. Or that he doesn't answer his mail daily, and his policy on the cell phone is ready to expire,or he used a lot of minutes up texing? Pick one! If the jerk doesn't respond soon, find another to play in your yard.
originalnw
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What's Up With This?
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10/14/2009 9:21:42 PM
Like the major part of us on many sites, we listen to many who have the same problem...Cold Feet is one answer ! Someone else younger than you is getting his attention! Or his family is sending him too many second thoughts on how things are going to get. And maybe his wife is getting nossy around his computer/cell phone. There are many more answers,but you did the right thing for you. You come first!
originalnw
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Is this a game or is he interested?
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10/14/2009 9:06:29 PM
Playing games ! It was part of the "old school " way of seeing if he/her was willing to take it to the next level. Not any more! With the time spent on find a heathy one,and keep back the jerks and such, most of us read to much into a statement and less toward the meaning. I'm guessing on the "playing part ". Keep on looking!
originalnw
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Having a moral dilemma
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10/14/2009 12:25:12 PM
Clean , rinse , repeat til all traces are gone from you.
originalnw
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Eating and kissing.
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10/14/2009 10:50:56 AM
Your mostly right a thisthought. But I enjoy a drink or coffee with my meal to wash downparticles left from swallowing my food. It would be upsetting to say the least to lip lock my lady before she had time to do the same.
originalnw
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Ok Guys Need A Little Help Here?
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10/14/2009 10:41:16 AM
Is he on-line for work- meeting dates,hotel or e-mailing his co-worker? Or is on-line for the ladies? If he cannot give you a straight answer to "why " he hasn't replied to you,chances are he's trying to be in someone elses playpen. Unless you "ask " ,you'll never know. And your time frame of doing things isn't always someone else.
originalnw
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poem
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10/13/2009 8:53:33 PM
Be true to your heart,and it will not fail,nor give the answers about un-opened mail.
originalnw
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omg!!!!!!!!!! I get in trouble for the littlest things!!! :(
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10/13/2009 8:45:51 PM
Like ever other wrote to you....It's time to party!!!! Other than that you are blessed with the good luck it ended ...having her dump you. It wouldn't surprise me in the least if you dumped her and found your tires slashed next morning. Your relationship with her has ended. Go out and find a new lady to be with. Somewhere out there...she's just waiting for you to say hello!
originalnw
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Chinese ladies are they scammers??
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10/13/2009 10:54:35 AM
It's not just one certain race , that seem to be out for your bank account , but all that have no real income . All trying to better themselves and get out of their poor way of life. You can't blame them for they were told of the "milk 'n' honey countries.
originalnw
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Is it weird not to be attracted to your own race?
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10/13/2009 10:21:02 AM
" Stay open minded", and "color blinded" and you will find more interesting men. The color sheild has faded away over time. Last century you would have beeb chastised for you statement - seeking men outside your color. The is some men today think that way. Being old fashion isn't being controlled by others way of thinking,but the proper way you would like to be treated. Go out and be friends with whom ever you enjoy...you'll find your heart soon enough. I have dated all the colors of the rainbow,many differant religions,and found some of the most beautiful women in the world . You are your own person and have the right to see/date/? anyone you choose. It's not "WRONG " by any means. It's only wrong to narrow minded people who want to control others by the way "they think " !
originalnw
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help me out
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10/13/2009 9:41:01 AM
Give him time to understand himself and your request. Keeping his account open bothers you...because it leaves a window open that you can't control,and that upsets you.Or he doesn't respond as quickly as you would like...that bothers you as well. Let him have his account for awhile more. And maybe he'll start to comply to your wishes.
originalnw
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Why are we all here?
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10/13/2009 2:15:43 AM
As far as I know...We are here to help others on this site. Or were you asking why we "keep on trying to find the right one to fill our lives". Some of us "keep " on trying to find the true meaning of love in our lives, while others are trying to love everyone they come in contact with. And others have lost their true love and are seeking a second -third chance at it. Now what was the question?
originalnw
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Computer History does it hold meaning?
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10/13/2009 2:00:37 AM
My whole story isn't saying for you to do any action ..but to stay away from people who " watch Child Porn". There's "big Trouble " brewing in being curious to say the least. And the police will check out every site he's sign on to as well as who he has contacted. It goes even deeper than most people even know. Please be careful!
originalnw
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Just confirming my intuition please be honest.
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10/13/2009 1:51:29 AM
Your friend has found a hole that he can get into...by using everything/anything to do so. Nor matter how simple,cunning,or pathetic it might be..it work for you! You are just on his list of who to enjoy next...and it will keep on going till you lock the door to that action. You have learned hopefully???
originalnw
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Computer History does it hold meaning?
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10/13/2009 1:42:02 AM
Will you care when they(police) raid his house/apt and take his computer,credit card stubs,grab anything that might hold information on his watching/reading child porn.It might be even your cell phone if you are there visiting. Then the local news will have your name on the list of users who know child porn watchers. Will you care then? Look at the history and the news teams that haunt anyone's house who might be a user . Each state /country has laws banning the ownership/sales of child porn. Would you care if it was close friends daughter on that site he's watching. If he's just curious tell him to check out the laws surrounding ...just watching . You would be amazed at who really get's off in watching that smut. It's not the shady man who lives alone and everyone around thinks he's weird...It's upstanding family men,lawyers, well to do buiness men, that nice guy down the street,and even that kind policeman that everyone likes. That what keeps the trade going,and that's the reason there are so many laws on the laws books. The police do not care for your income level,nor how many times you attend services/church. Just watching is bull#5 it. If he's watching ...I would strongly keep all kids away from this man. I am no saint ...but I really do know about the cruelity in what it took to make those films. If I had a choise in this matter...I would tell you to run to door and find another man to enjoy life with.
originalnw
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Being honest
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10/12/2009 1:28:50 PM
Trying to make him seem better than they are ,or being more of something. Lies..little or big ...always come back to haunt you. You have learned from your mistakes,and go on with life. Many people( women /men) use white little lies to mis-direct the issuses when they find the subject is too close to their area.Unless you have a instant recovery memory...you'll be caught. And then where is the trust to be given? It's not only men...it's not only women....but telling a fib is very common. And the more you tell them ...the more you need to watch your back. You'll find your heart soon ...Keep on looking!!!
originalnw
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I'm SO confused!
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10/12/2009 1:14:37 PM
If he has stopped drinking and doing other things that you didn't like it would show in his appearence,and he would have some sort of a support group to help stay sober. Is there times that he goes off to a meeting and returns feeling quiet? Or does he think he has the world on edge and everyone is against him? You may want to ask around if he's been seen out of bars/and staying away from old habit places. Check with the local police for any new records of him. A person that has a crimminal record ,can be checked with ease by the police. Your " X " is a powder keg waiting for a single matchstick. You must use extreme awareness around him. Doing lock-up for a few months isn't really staying sober. It's really on his part to show you that there's a change happening in his life. He's anger problem with the alcohol is a very dangerous to be near. All the tears that could fill a ocean...doesn't matter sqat...when he's in a drunkin rage and beating on you. If you are truly serious about " one more chance "....tell him "no Booze, no fighting,and no more pain. It's really easy to give forgiveness, but very hard to stay straight. You may even stay away from alcohol for a while to help him . I would contacted a drug/alcoholic counselor for you to understand how to adjust you life with him.They could give you a direction to other people who are dealing with the same sort of problems. Be very cautious on what you choise. He may be cool...but there's a dangerous problem when alcohol is near. So far you are the 70th person who has shown concern about alcohol problems this season.Contact me if you need more information . I was a in-house guard for a hard drug users. But that was a few years back as well.
originalnw
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Should I be insulted?
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10/12/2009 12:39:10 PM
Make sure it's not a "scam " from the cruise line . Also be sure that there are no hidden cost on your part- food /drinks /laundry . Also make sure that you are "not paying " for the ticket on your half of the trip. Make sure the place you are headed is ruled by U.S. Laws/restrictions. If you come up missing someone will actual care. Plan your cruise during the calmer months of the weather,instead of being trapped in your cabin because of the harsh weather. You can find out alot of the do's and don't by calling the Better Buisness people in your area to find out if the are complaints about this cruise-line. As for the feeling of being insulted-you may take that to the bank. But realise it's just a ploy of something that you have and someone wants. Now be "very concern " of what he wants and that of what you have to lose!
originalnw
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What does he want
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10/12/2009 12:21:15 PM
Well ...He gets the cake and icing to eat at will...why would he want to buy the bakery? It would appear that he enjoys your company,but if you stop him from getting his sweet tooth filled,would he be as interested as he is now? Right now he has a pretty lady to play with in all parts of the house,so why would he be worried about anything? Keep on talking to find out his goals and find out if they include you.
originalnw
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l have a young guy interested in a relationship
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10/12/2009 12:09:34 PM
It sounds like he wants a romp around your playpen. It's hard to beleive he wants a real relationship with you, when he stated that's he's going home . If you just want a playtoy-then he's right there. Maybe you should be looking elsewhere for long term relations,someone who's not thinking of leaving. The choise is yours alone to figure...Best of Luck!
originalnw
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Tomboy girls
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10/11/2009 10:01:17 PM
Some men like the "fair chase laws" to apply when they are chasing you. Some beleive once they bagged the game , they want to pretty up their prize to show others what they scored. It's not you..it's the men that chase you. It's stupid old un-written laws that men seem to follow. Most mature men do not do this , just the ones not knowing how to enjoy what they have. And when the do...it's too late for them. Stay as you are,be as you enjoy life, you'll find your right one soon enough ...too pretty to be free for very long!
originalnw
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Life after Divorce - a breath of fresh air
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10/11/2009 12:19:49 PM
Not everyone can have a "Blast from the past " with their ex partner. You present yourself a finer trimmer self, more self aware, and not to be a needy person. With the pains of divorce in the past, you were being you. That's why you had fun. Now watch out for yourself from having second thoughts on who to bed for the night in the future.
originalnw
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My Story...
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10/11/2009 12:11:33 PM
You have "learned " and now it's time to Live. Listen to your head ,not just your heart. What does your gut say as well? At best you had fun and are still here to tell. Get over your losses...move forward in life. If you want him ..go for it! If you are unsure ...find someone else. Life is way too short for long talks.
originalnw
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Why is he so sure am going to fall in love with him??
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10/11/2009 11:53:52 AM
Sounds like he's planting a "thought to grow in your emotions about him ". Time will tell you if "he's " the one. Many words are said after have sex..when it's good. Some people use the " L " word without really meaning it. You'll know yourself when/or how it it's said to you.
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he says its sexy when i shout at him.. how much will he take?
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10/10/2009 10:00:14 AM
He pushes your buttons...You push his..who's the mature adult here. Did you have fun making -up later? And since it got to be a form of forplay,one of you cross the line of just being fun(in a kinky way). Now bad words were spoken,feelings were hurt,replies were sent, and now you wonder if you should reply ? This would be Totally up to you! Doing the shouting match,seeing how to push the right/wrong buttons, what are your inner feelings for him? Is this what you want in a realationship? You can repair anything ! And wishing for a person to grow up...has been a life long dream of many divorced people. It 's not known to a common man to mature over a week/day/month. That will be full time job! Are you willing to teach?
originalnw
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If a 26 yo hot and foxy woman puts this...
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10/9/2009 11:32:47 AM
It totally depends on "WHO " reads the statements. Not many will answering if the article /answer read like this....Boring,over the hill,bald,beer-gut,not adventurous,poor monthly income,closed minded, person is seeking a person with same taste. The statement you gave, says the person is " Hot/Willing Adventurous". At least to a few out there. From the neck down is a key location that many only want to travel,myself it's about 75% of the face/mind attitude that attracts .
originalnw
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What happens when you don't let go
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10/7/2009 12:24:03 PM
If you don't let go...it will tear you up inside, you'll find less enjoyment ,you will be misable longer than you would have otherwise. You are a healthy lady that has gone thru the pains of a break-up. Get back out ...in the world of dating. You are not the first to go through this,nor will be the last. Pull yourself up,straighten yourself out, and go out a find a person that will help you to forget these bad times. You are worth IT! And let it be known that you should start to beleive it as well!
originalnw
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Momma's Boy: Is he or Isn't he??
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10/7/2009 12:09:53 PM
Maybe you should "ask " his mom if he's a take -charge-kinda guy. It would appear that his mom has a "lot " of interest in what or who is in his life. Being over -protective is what mom's do! So why does his mom have the codes of entry to his computer/cell phone and such? One would think that being concern goes only so far to a legal age male. My guess would be "that he asks what clothes to wear that day...from mom" !
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What is the point of getting exchanging numbers?
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10/7/2009 12:00:30 PM
I couldn't have responded better.
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