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double cabin

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Buddy: more than a friend? Posted: 11/16/2009 6:46:26 AM
Depends on how she's saying it. If she's looking you up and down from to head to to toe and licking her lips and adding an almost involuntary "bud eeh!" then you're gonna just have to wonder how many buddies she has. If she adds it as an almost afterthought to a request for coffee as you're on your way to seal her driveway after waiting in line for her concert tickets she's going to with a with stud from the suburbs then perhaps you should look for someone [like almost anything beyond anatomy not gender specific here] that understands the value of a good person's time. If you're not going to make a physical move and actually try and kiss her she apparently isn't going to set the stage for you.

double cabin

Joined: 11/29/2004

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What does it mean when............... Posted: 11/15/2009 4:03:56 PM
"What does it mean when you tell a women that you love her and she replies with a "Yeah,yeah,yeah,....". This means she doesn't care that you love her,Right? Or is it something all together different......" I think it means you're not the first to express their appreciation for her heavenly hummer.

double cabin

Joined: 11/29/2004

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People over 30 that are not taken - something wrong with them? Posted: 11/15/2009 2:28:58 PM
"It's ironic that not settling for disfunctional behavior and using self control as well as being reproductively responsible means you are branded as undesireable or worse that there is something wrong with you." Well said GQ Sunset. OP, We [men] are what we are. In the end its not age, station, nationality, or legacy that makes us worthy of your measure. Its something far more personal, inside. Its fine to have expectations, but its imperative to never succumb to ludicrous stereotype and reduce a man to anything less than an individual.

double cabin

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does he not like me? Posted: 11/9/2009 9:14:06 PM
^^^^^Yeah, let's right off all sorts of people in all sorts of professions based on one tiny piece of empirical data. LOL. OP, You're a beautiful young woman. Get off the internet and get on with life. IF you came here because you weren't finding "the one" two ideas: 1) Adjust your expectations. 2) Look for young men in different places. Church, volunteer, education, wherever. Good luck to you.

double cabin

Joined: 11/29/2004

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Next Election and Obama Posted: 11/9/2009 5:30:38 PM
Thanks for the note folks. As a lifelong Democrat who supported only one Republican canidate for President [Bush 41 in '88 only] nothing would make me happier than to see hardly fiscaly conservative "neocons" get Boobby Jindahl or Mrs. Palin the nomination. One felt qualified to perform an exorcism of someone that didn't goosestep in college, the other quit her job as a state's Chief Executive. Schweet!

double cabin

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Protection From Pedators Posted: 11/9/2009 5:23:29 PM
"If the bear keeps coming a firearm will do more to slow it down/stop it than spray will. It will also allow you to do so at a safe distance" Still don't want to address the statistical substantiation? You'd rather speculate an outcome contrary to the swubstantiated implication of the data compiled without any contrary substance whatsoever? You DO NOT know what a firearm is going to do to a bear, period. You do however KNOW Bearspray works [rational deduction from data] effectively far more often than a firearm, period. Shoot a Grizzly at a "safe" distance and you will be on the other side of those bars man. You'll also have a lot skinnier wallet. Thanks goodness hunters in Wyoming's grizzly country will soon be required to have bearspray so fewer grizzlies get shot from a "safe distance."

double cabin

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Next Election and Obama Posted: 11/9/2009 3:53:51 PM
Guess we can't edit our posts anymore? Edit: Mrs. Clinton wouldn't have taken the job of Secretary of State if she had the ambition. She would have stayed in the Senate focused far more on domestic issues. Unless the Republicans pick another septugenarian who's mental capacity had been drawn into question so effectively like McCain's was by the 2000 Bush 43 Campagin Mrs. Clinton doesn't have a prayer in hades of getting the nomination let alone the Presidency.

double cabin

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Next Election and Obama Posted: 11/9/2009 3:49:43 PM
The man has well over 3 years left on his first 4 year term. We can see a lot of unsubstantiated hatred for the President right here in this thread with all the nebulous assertions of poor performance. Given our economy isn't contracting anymore and that we should be adding jobs by the second quarter of next year my guess is rational Americans will be grateful after the myopic malaise of the previous Administration. As to "his" [LMFAO] war in Afghanistan: Americans in more than name only are LOGICALLY encouraged that this President is REALLY going after the mysoginst hypocrites that actually attacked us or harbored those attackers instead of the only quasi-secular nation in the region where women had assumed the highest levels of government along with Christians [Tariq Aziz] that only used "WMDs" with the tacit approval of a Republican US President. If this President ever gives hundreds of DOCUMENTED false statements like his predecessor some of you decietful and vitriolicly biased alarmists can get back to us, K? "Think! It's very Patriotic!" Edit: Mrs. Clinton wouldn't have taken the job of Secretary of State if she had the ambition. She would have stayed in the Senate focused far more on domestic issues. Unless the Republicans pick another septugenarian who's mental capacity had been drawn into question so effectively like McCain's was by the 2000 Bush 43 Campagin Mrs. Clinton doesn't have a prayer in hades of getting the nomination let alone the Presidency.

double cabin

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Are guys intimidated by independence? Posted: 11/5/2009 7:24:32 PM
"They are not intimidated by independent women but turned off by repeated proclamation of independence. You are both independent individuals, but for some reason some women feel the need to restate it. Besides, you can't be in a relationship and completely independent at the same time." Here's a woman that actually get it. Don't mistake self absorbtion for "independence."

double cabin

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Why a girl should never ask a guy this question ? Posted: 11/5/2009 1:07:55 PM
My standard response is tight labias and rationality. Unless of course she's already demonstarted those skills. Then I tell her someone like you but a jillion degrees hawter.

double cabin

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guy just wants to be friends for now... Posted: 11/5/2009 12:32:47 PM
If you want to pursue a relationship with a man that bases his understanding of "God" not on the word of any "God" but on that of dozens of men that rewrote, edited, adbridged, censored, and chopped up a tome at aminimum of decades removed from purported events over subsequent centuries you probably shouldn't have "partying" listed as one of your biggest interests. Not trying to be cruel, just succinct. Great luck to you young lady.

double cabin

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Intuition? Paranoia? Worry? Posted: 11/5/2009 12:24:18 PM
"Always trust your gut?" LMFAO. Its human to worry and be paranoid. Thing is before parenting in this country went in the kwapper children were taught much better to go through life reasoning with plausible premises within sound syllogisms. Just say no to irrationality. Much better than going off half koched because of your "intuition." Intuition is only as good as the empirical data within its foundation.

double cabin

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Protection From Predators Posted: 11/5/2009 12:19:26 PM
Wow, "chew on this." LMFAO. Touche. I was not aware of this product, thanks for the information. As far as I know the only products regulated for sale in my area, the GYE, are Counter Assault, UDAP, and Frontier, all labeled as Bearpspray, not "Bear Mace." You should however realize this "mace" you refrenced comes in a 9 oz container with far more pressure and a higher concentration of "mace" in the mix than the little one or two ounce canisters of "mace" women carry in their purses. If you still don't believe me I'm doing a lot of travelling in the next couple of months and could give you a personal demonstration. If after that you still held this irrational kenning I would indeed "chew" on it. LOL. As to how "humane" it is: The AK F & G study which none of you have offered a substatial let alone any rebuttal to clearly shows it "bothers" the bear enough for them to leave the sprayer uninjured with far greater frequency than if the "attacked" had used a firearm. Please, somebody, give me a bonafide rebuttal here? So given your concern with the "humane" nature of bearspray I take it you feel you need to kill the bear? You can't just prevent a violent confrontation and let the bear on its way, even though in so doing you dramatically raise your odds of surviving uninjured? You like shorter odds? LMFAO. For those of you willing to reason this out please don't take my word for it. Google the AK F&G study I've refrenced multiple times that unequivocally trumps the ludicrous and entirely delusional [IMHO and WADR] if not libelous assertions we've seen here.

double cabin

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Protection From Predators Posted: 11/1/2009 4:49:51 PM
TK, I'm not trying to pick a fight here, we might share a fire someday, you never know. Your suggestion of her being one of the most dangerous animals in all of nature made me deduce you thought she was at least the most dangerous of at least Grizzly Bears. Just the way I think man. My apologies. Their only recourses were firearms? Was it "too windy" and bearspray was not chosen to be deployed at immediate range? In all honesty I haven't heard about this. We're these bears shot at a distance? Make you a deal. I'll look into this if you look into the qualified findings from Alaska F&G? As much as the idea of far more people packing in crowded civilized settings like Old Faithfull makes me wonder where people get their "news" I wouldn't have had a problem with backcountry travellers applying and QUALIFYING for backcountry permits in pertinent parks like Yellowstone, Grand Teton, and Glacier. As irrational such a paranoia is [IMHO of course] that would be "OK" with me if in logical return we kept them out of drunken campgrounds and roadiside swimming holes filled with testosterone. Virtually any hiker that visits Grizzly Country has a far greater prospect of danger with every step they take in civilization than they do on any ramble on any ridgeline. Hikers have a saying: "Hike your own hike." If you want to carry a firearm as your first line of defense, where its legal, so be it. Just don't expect someone like me to buy into the idea that's it a logical, let alone practical, choice for a hiker to make. Thanks for the discussion. Have a great evening folks, John

double cabin

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Protection From Predators Posted: 11/1/2009 1:22:03 PM
A charging Grizzly MAY go through Bear Spray. That is true. You didn't look up the AK Fish & Game study did you Mr. Knight? Had you you would realize charging grizzlies have much better "luck" with firearms than Bearspray. LMFAO. Spreading undocumented and ludicrous assertions can get people killed Mr. Knight. With all due respect I SERIOUSLY suggest you think, if just a little bit, before posting next time. FYI, the most probelmatic Grizzlies in the GYE are adolescent males, not sows. Your "arguments" are unsubstantiated and are unequicvocally and statistically erroneous given the reality of the historical record. Bear spray works.. more often and as noted by AK F&G with unequivocally better results than firearms. Period. That is extent reality, not ignorant bravado, and why our hunting guides, including 2008s Wyoming Guide of the Year, take it with them on every hunt in our remarkably dense Grizzly habitat here. Life is so much more rewarding when we rationalize with plausible premises within viable syllogisms. Thanks for the discussion folks. Edit: FYI, Bearspray is not "mace." Whatever your limited empirical experience with Mace I encourage you too to actually absorb the statistical reality of this "debate." Please forgive my redundancy but these redundant falsehoods are of no service to anyone. I apologize for my arrogant tone but there is in fact no "argument" here.

double cabin

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for the gun control people Posted: 11/1/2009 11:36:12 AM
I haven't read the whole thread but I'd guess someone brought up the utterly irrelevant claims of Professor Kleck. There is a simple way to break down the efficacy of gun control. The United States has the most unfettered access to firearms in the developed world and unequivocally has the greatest gun violence problem in the developed world. Period. When that statistical reality changes get back to us, K?

double cabin

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smell me Posted: 11/1/2009 11:29:15 AM
You're a pharmacy technician and you ask this question of us? LMFAO. You're top interest is "working out" and the "demands" of your life make it difficult to meet women? You're 23, get you're head out of the sand and leave the narcacisstic kwap behind.

double cabin

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Protection From Pedators Posted: 11/1/2009 11:20:49 AM
With all due respect without confirmation that the young lady was concious at the time I have my doubts as to whether or not this was an act of predation let alone an "attack." As to guns and their effectiveness as a deterrent to animal attack: The woman could have made the choice to NOT hike alone. I do a lot of solo hiking but I'm not inexperienced and I'm probably twice the size this young lady was. I live in Grizzly Country. I carry bearspray and an airhorn. The Alaskan Department of Fish & Game did a statistical analysis that unequivocally showed bearspray is a far better deterrent against Grizzlies than a firearm. Think about it. A grizzly bear is on all fours charging you at thirty miles an hour. You have two vulnerable spots, the eyeballs. Are you that good a shot in that dramatic a situation? Really, think about it, please. +1 on not giving into utterly unfounded hysteria.

double cabin

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Hoping to find someone who has been through this Posted: 11/1/2009 10:56:37 AM
A mother with a 10 year old child had to give up her child because of "circumstances beyond her control?" Was she incarcerated for a crime she didn't commit? Was she in a coma? Why didn't she pursue contact with him? Just playing Devil's advocate for you. Great luck to your friend.

double cabin

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Where To Go To Meet Outdoor Enthusiasts On The Front Range? Posted: 11/1/2009 10:48:11 AM
My half a year in Wyoming is winding down and in two weeks I'll be back down on the Front Range and should be in the area for much of the winter. I am an avid hiker and wildlife observer and would like to meet more like minded people as more and more friends in my age group fade from muscle powered recreation and backcountry travel. I know about the REI Flagship store, I'm an AAC Member, and participate in a couple of outdoor forums. The Colorado Mountain Club is also a great organization and know of their great activities. That said I'd like to know of any other places out there I might connect with other outdoor lovers in an informal setting. I'm interested in anything from more local groups, volunteer projects, to bars. I'm of course interested in meeting a good woman but can always use more trail friends whatever their genetalia. Any help is greatly appreciated. Thanks, John

double cabin

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How important is facial attractiveness? Posted: 10/26/2009 8:01:31 PM
Thanks for your service OP. We have all seen spectacular sirens with guys like woody Allen . Women are often far more forgiving than many of us are. You seem directed in life. You don't have a hump in the wrong place. Just be a man and if you have realistic expectations the right woman will appreciate it.

double cabin

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I give up... Posted: 10/26/2009 7:51:55 PM
You were looking for talk/e-mail? Perhaps he was too? On the error net you have to remember that until we're flesh & blood there's no reason to invest too much in expectations. If you're really interested in someone meet them...sooner than later. Good luck to you and remember to "just say no to negativity."

double cabin

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Dating with a Service Dog Posted: 10/19/2009 8:22:44 PM
"Well Ms. CassaGo, I certainly am honest with myself. Take stock in your own body before critizing others, and try posting a current picture rather than one 20 years old. Just because you are insecure with yourself does not give you the right to insult others, that just makes you a BULLY." ____________________________________________________________ That post just makes you a self absorbed beoyotch...in denial to boot. Ludicrous projection like that will deter any sane man. Sometimes the truth hurts. you're overweight. Own it. Might help your balance too.

double cabin

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What does it take for a guy to be satisfied with one girl? And at what point do you become a couple? Posted: 10/14/2009 6:26:55 PM
From what I can see the internet and today's culture give many of us inane expectations whatever our genitalia. If you are "dating" guys that will not commit to you unless you're a self absorbed alpha female wannabe I would guess you are more than likely not giving those that would commit to you a chance. You're abeautiful young woman. Why are you on the internet? Think about looking for men in different real world places.

double cabin

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Question for guys... Posted: 9/28/2009 2:10:14 PM
Thanks for all the replies. It helps to have an outside objective viewpoint. I sent him a message and asked him for coffee one night. And since he knows I am interested in seeing him and I asked him out, he ball is in his court now so to speak. It's out of my hands and I am not going to think about it anymore. Don't you have to be a gentile to drink coffee at night? Oh, wait, coffee??? I get it. Never mind.

double cabin

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terms of second chances Posted: 9/28/2009 3:44:22 AM
Concerto said it very well about being talked about intesad of too. Beyond that every now and then I sit in front of this box and I'm simply shocked. The level of uniformed judgement adults can be cable of simply amazes me. We know VERY little about this young man. He could be the best thing that could ever happen to this young woman for all ANY of us know. Yeah, maybe he thinks she's out of his leauge now. Maybe he's bad news. NONE of us know. OP, as others have suggested, talk to him. Maybe the woman you've become is intimidating. Maybe he's not worth your time. Maybe he's a posterior orifice. Of course there's this only one way to KNOW. Bunches of us speculating with the little information you gave us simply isn't going to help you. Great luck to you OP.

double cabin

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just a curiosity! Posted: 9/26/2009 10:19:38 AM
OP, If I am missing something, a proverb, saying, anything from your culture here my apologies. From where I am your profile begins QUITE negatively. I would guess most women are here looking for their own fulfillment, they don't want to have to reapir the leaks in your tank, in other words they want partners with an alacrity for reciprocation to fulfill their own wants, desires, needs, aspirations, whatever. We are commodities to each other in the modern world. Share as much of yourself as you're willing too. There's Beatles song about this too. Great luck to you OP

double cabin

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Is it possible to break a date without being a schmuck? Posted: 9/26/2009 9:41:56 AM
Tell him there's a Redneck survivalist hopped up oin steroids in Wyoming that's chosen you for his siter wife. Tell him your hairpiece has manifested into herpes. Tell him...the truth. The schmcuk thing comes in with deceit. If he takes it badly that IS NOT your problem. You can only be genuine, he shouldn't have an expectation of anything more. Hope you got in some of our awesome creek season this past spring. I'm probably headed for the Taos box the end of March. Good luck to you OP.

double cabin

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What makes you sigh... and say I wish Posted: 9/25/2009 10:06:23 PM
You know I am quite fortunate to live in a spctacular setting. Although I wouldn't mind someone entertaining that IK could also bend over a hitch rail from time to time on a more regular basis.

double cabin

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Red State Socialists Posted: 9/25/2009 9:34:19 PM
"We just got inundated by 10-18 inches of God's liquid wrath not long after neighboring Gov. Sunny Perdue prayed for rain. The 4 plus year drought had them screaming to covet the rivers of neighboring states. Now, long lines of flood victims are again lining up for the public option of federal flood assurance. Our local con-gressman, Zack Wamp, is running for Governor of Tennesse, rallying his birthers, tea baggers, and anti-socialists under the banner of George Wallace's "States Rights" banner. What is up with all these formerly proud people lining up for federal bailouts when their house get's too wet? Just wondering. " Your one rhetorical sahm beotch, aren't you? Where were they when innocednt people were being put to death in real time in Kosovo? Hypocrisy ain't no bowl of blue ribbon chii.

double cabin

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Why do bisexual guys not want to admit it? Posted: 9/25/2009 9:26:07 PM
As much as I sometimes pride myself on my education I honor it by recognizing the fact however homophobic I am presonally bisexuality is natural among species far beyond our own. OP, some of us have trouble being social pariahs.

double cabin

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Would Guys Consider a Makeover? Posted: 9/25/2009 1:05:54 PM
The only way you can make this work is to seize your market. to do that you need to find successful wedding planners in need of your services. Odds are they already have folks doing it right now. I think you'd be much better off getting into the fashion industry for someone else and get the experience you need before making a huge investment in something you know pretty much nothing about right now. Good luck to you. Edit: I forgot: Men are not your market here despite your two friends motivations. Your market is women that want this for their men.

double cabin

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Sarah Does China.... Posted: 9/25/2009 9:02:30 AM
As a lifelong Democrat that's only voted Republican in one Presidentail Election ['88] I am more than happy with Sarah Palin purveying ignorance, hypocrisy, and inane social aspirations. I wouldn't mind AT ALL if her or Booby Jindahl were the nominee in 2012. LMFAO. Mrs. Palin tanked her political future with her entirely self serving resignation as governor. Don't worry about her, she's not worth it.

double cabin

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Opponent of Gov't. Health Care Receives It Himself Posted: 9/25/2009 8:41:22 AM
Many Republicans, and addmittedly some Democrats, are making a lot of noise about not wanting to "mess" with 1/6th of our economy; ie the healthcare and insurance industries. The 30 percent overhead of private insurers is apparently conservsative enough for them. LMFAO. Witthout a public option there is no healthcare reform, period. We spend far more than other developed countries for our healthcare and get FAR less despite any deceitfully unsubstantiated rhetoric you might hear. Government can run things right, its certain people in government that have an interest in not doing that. Reembracing accountability would address that. There are several industries I never would have supported the privatization of to the extent we have. Healthcare, Auto insurance [remember what happened with the proposed gas tax in California to cover EVERYONE on the road that would have kept people from going bankrupt from uninsured drivers], Highway construction, incarceration[that in itself is un-American] Public Lands fee collections... "Think! Its very patriotic." Great post OP, thank you.

double cabin

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Law of Attraction, aka The Secret Posted: 9/25/2009 8:30:01 AM
I know I can schtoop her. I know I can schtoop her. I kI know I can schtoop her. I know I can schtoop her. I know I can schtoop her.. ... Yeah, works for me. "Just say no to negativity." "Be the change in the world you wish to see."

double cabin

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does height matter? Posted: 9/25/2009 8:21:12 AM
"Ok so I am 5'0'' , really 5 feet **** all. I am really short. When a guy I meet for the first time sees this or finds out, He is shocked or doesn't believe anyone could be that short. Is a womans height a deal breaker? to tall? to short? please explain your answers! thanx!" ____________________________________________________________ As hard as this is for anyone here to admit the odds are they are actually "shocked" by your proportions, not your height. I'm pretty sure Anne Margret never had any problems attracting men. Sorry to be so harsh, but that's the way men are.

double cabin

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Am i just kidding myself? Posted: 9/23/2009 9:50:42 PM
Dude, You're 19. There's no time to debate pursuit. Do it...or not. Apparently I'm a terrible expaple of verbosity. Apparently I need to aspire to being one even more than that.

double cabin

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how interested is she? Posted: 9/23/2009 9:47:51 PM
Don't beat you head against the wall. Some women here juggle jillions of us at the same time. Well. That might be a bit much. Maybe only zillions? If I'm interested in a woman but can't engage her with my pen in a reasonable length of time I offer my voice. If she doesn't want to talk on the phone where are you really going? Unless you're one of the Chipmunks or have a loafer in your larynx women generally listen better than they read. Well, that's of course an unfounded stereotype but I'm sticking to it. Relax.

double cabin

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intimidation? or not interested.... Posted: 9/23/2009 9:37:27 PM
When we wonder if we're intimidating sometimes we just have to ask ourselves: Am I intimidating or do I simply have and project unrealistic expectations? You are in one of the greatest cities of the world. You are young. Get off this idiot box, go do the great things you can do in such cultural plentitude. LIVE! p.s. Lots of women hate camping. Thanks for f'n it up for those of us that know how to do it "right" guys. Camping is all about attitude and the application of empirical data. Enjoy. LOL.

double cabin

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What will she think to NO for Sex Posted: 9/23/2009 9:14:07 PM
"I would file her under "w" for whore and move on." Joel, the anger isn't good, let it go. You don't drink and you're looking for longterm. Let her look for what she wants in this free world of ours. Self serving judgement is something we need to let go of too. I think most ladies will say its not an attractive quality. Just my opinion man. The OP asks a rhetorical question and you guys fall for it. Wow, you made us all look great.

double cabin

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Islam Goes to bat for America Posted: 9/23/2009 2:48:09 PM
With all due respect holding more than a billion peaceful people accountable for the actions of perhaps a couple of thousand HYPOCRITES is unequivocally un-American. Anyone that seeks to prohibit ANY peaceful assembly is unequivocally un-American. We are far from a perfect people. We have mensa rejects waving our flag while simultaneously trying to deny rights to some people they already enjoy and already guarnateed to everyone by the Constitution. Are any of you aware we're Consittuional Republic and not a Biblical Theocracy? Sad the self absporbed and hypocritical among us apparently never developed any kind of an alacrity for critical thinking. Anti Muslim uneqivocally equals un-American. Period. "Think! Its very patriotic."

double cabin

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How do you get over someone who is wrong for you? Posted: 9/22/2009 9:21:14 PM
Guess you didn't get the memo this was actually a forum for everyone? With all due respect the validation express doesn't board here friend. Good luck to you and your myopia.

double cabin

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Age differences Posted: 9/22/2009 9:17:36 PM
"For older girls (in 30's and 40's) Do you think its right to date or marry a guy younger than you? For Younger girls (in 20's) Do you think its right to date or marry a guy younger than you? To all girls. Is it much better to date a guy older than you than dating a young one. Or do you only care about being with the person you love despite there age? even if a guy is 50 and your 20. I hear from girls that she will marry a guy she love and it doesn't really matter about the age." ____________________________________________________________ Given you have a very narrow age restriction I'm a tad confused with this? If we are phsyically attracted to someone and we're not consumed with spreading our seed we all have the ability to be the same age under the sheets. Life is to short for mathematical convention.

double cabin

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When should I spring the romance? Posted: 9/22/2009 9:07:42 PM
"I say do something special, go to burger king buy her a whopper, and biggie size it" He already said he'd bring his poke? Give her choices. There's more than one poke in the sea, right?

double cabin

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Will Love Find Me Posted: 9/22/2009 9:03:48 PM
"I hope I will find love again. Why is it so hard to run into that special someone. Tell me why its not like the movie Sleepless in Seattle and the MAGIC just happen. Where is a good place to meet that special one." In the Lithium line.

double cabin

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where is my message going wrong... Posted: 9/22/2009 9:01:45 PM
"I enjoyed reading your profile. I liked how you expressed yourself in your profile (and you have a lovely smile). I really liked how you said you like random spontaneous adventures? Where have you gone on your most recent adventure? I see that you are interested in medicine, me too. My ambition is to be a doctor, and I’m working towards becoming one. What are you studying right now? Anyway, I’d be pleased if you checked out my profile and let me know if you’re interested in getting to know one another. Best of luck to you. my name.. " ____________________________________________________________ So how many times a day do you cut and paste that each day? Want a woman's attention? They're not that different from us on this. They want to be treated like an individual, not a number. Respond to the profile, not the photograph.

double cabin

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Msg: 12 (view)

whats up with short initial emails? Posted: 9/22/2009 8:58:15 PM
"Ladies, I need your advice..Ive received 2 emails is the last couple days, theses are emails from 2 seperate woman who have sent me emails for the 1st time. One read, "Whats up"? and the other read "How are u?" Im not sure how to respond? Do I just say "Fine", anf go about my day, or do I say, "Im ok ,how are u?" Do i not respond? or do I go into my lifes history? Do they want me to take control of the coversation?, I know if I sent an email to a woman with Whazz up, I'll be certain to never receive an email back lol." ____________________________________________________________ Uhm you don't need a ladys advice on this one man. They're hookers. Or they are worthy of reciprocation and the opportunity to see where "it" goes.

double cabin

Joined: 11/29/2004

Msg: 16 (view)

question about dating in your early twenties Posted: 9/22/2009 8:53:08 PM
OK, You're "Christian-Other" and one of your favorite books is "Under the Banner of Heaven." Here's your problem: No matter how great religous conviction is it always must default to faith. However great it is is for some people faith is unequicocally irrational. Where's your intellect now? Are you sharing a real alacrity for the pursuit of real knowledge or are you patronizing young women based on decades if not millenia old words of menwho may or may not have communicated with a supernatural being? I'm just specultating man. Not much to go on here. Perhaps if you shared the substance of those philospohical leanings since religion doesn't fit in a syllogism and in the end its impossible to substantiate mythology?

double cabin

Joined: 11/29/2004

Msg: 6 (view)

How do you get over someone who is wrong for you? Posted: 9/22/2009 8:29:44 PM
"My dilemma… I just met someone here whom I like very much. We have dated several times and thing are going great. She is more than I could ask for! Unfortunately I still possess a longing for my last GF. Everything about this is wrong! I shouldn’t care about her because it is so over. We really were a poor match and to my detriment I know I stayed too long and was being used. Why can’t I get over this? I really need help soon because I’m afraid my feelings will wreck my new relationship. One that is so good for me." ____________________________________________________________ You and you alone decide when there is closure. You're done or you're not. Make up your mind. Its what men...and women do.

double cabin

Joined: 11/29/2004

Msg: 66 (view)

Kanye West; He's a Jackass Posted: 9/17/2009 9:43:43 PM
"People are still mad at Bush II over a war that over 90% of Americans supported in the beginning, and like all the Obama defenders say--once it's started you can't just say "we're done playing, lets go home". Obama "deserves a break" just as much as anyone else, and he's not going to get it. They didn't get it and neither will he. I think the media gave him all the break he's going to get during his election." ____________________________________________________________ With all due respect OP, are you freaking kidding me? LMFAO. Comparing A) dissapointment in a President that issued more than 200 of his Administrations nearly 1,000 DOCUMENTED FALSE STAEMENTS to muster public opinion [closer to 70% as I remember?] to invade and occupy a country with less than half the troops his own Joint Chiefs Of Staff told him he would need to "safely" do so with B) this little bit of celebrity tripe is unequivocally absurd in a lot more than my humble opinion. Do you understand what has happened in Iraq these last 6.5 years? Do you really? We have REAL problems in this country and around the world. We can engage each other with productive spirit and address those problems, or we can sink to the level of distraction and disinformation. Or we can even just try and assasssinate the character of those we find personally objectionable. Or we genuinely participate in this grand 233 year old experiment as Americans in more than name only. "Think!. Its very patriotic."

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