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Joined: 2/3/2004

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When is flirting cheating? Posted: 11/30/2006 9:55:36 AM
Well, I am the partner that was in the dark until last week. So, lets just say it does hurt like hell. It makes you feel like you are not good enough, pretty enough. It makes you question everything you thought you had. My husband and I communicate and have great sex. I have no problem with him looking at porn, etc, as long as I know. However, last week I found pictures and I mean PICTURES, of a girl he meet on a forum. She is also married, and they chatted all week. I finally confronted him, and now he promises it is over. I am left feeling hurt, down and wondering if I had not caught them how far would this of gone. So, if you value your relationship, and respect your partner, talk to them, dont let them find out another way. It hurts to much. Perhaps, somethings missing and she is not aware? If you tell her I am sure she would be more than happy to change this, so you both are happy.

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Cheating the deinition of... Posted: 11/30/2006 9:49:07 AM
So sorry to hear about what happened to you. I am sort of going through this now. My husband was chatting and exchanged photos with another woman. Sad, because once the trust is gone, what do you have. Cheating does happen on all levels, but either way it is cheating. I always have said if you are going to walk outside a marriage, let me know, for its over. When you are living it - it is very different.

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Is It Cheating If Its Only Online???? Posted: 11/30/2006 9:37:07 AM
Well lets put it this way, when it happens to you it feels like he cheated and hurts. Heck he might as well of.The trust and respect is gone. I caught my man last week, with a ton of photos from a girl (shes married also) and I feel very hurt. I thought we were okay, I mean we had great sex, we talk, communicate, but obviously something is missing for him to do this. They were very detailed photos. I do not mind him looking at porn, or pictures, but I do feel this was crossing the line. I think chatting will lead to photos, and photos could lead to meeting the person. It would be okay if both of you were aware and willing to do this. However, if one is kept in the dark, its not fair. So, I do feel it is cheating in some level.

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Does True love Exist? Posted: 11/30/2006 8:30:05 AM
Perhaps thats true, but what a great ride while it lasts. I have loved and been hurt, sometimes more than I could bare, but I would do it again, to have had the experience of love. So, I still believe that True love does exist, perhaps it does not last forever but it does exist. AND YES, I still believe in Santa..lol

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When do you truly know someone? Posted: 11/30/2006 8:10:59 AM
You never fully know someone. I have been with someone for 7 years, and married for 6 months, and still learning things I did not know. Ending things can only be up to you. Theres always going to be good and bad, in any relationship. Question is how bad is it, and can you work on it and live with it. No one said relationships were easy.

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Does True love Exist? Posted: 1/1/2005 1:42:00 PM
I do believe it does exist. Although, nothing does last forever, I believe in making the best of everyday with the person you are with. I have had my true love, and even if you are no longer together, a peice of you stays with them.

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virgin girl who needs advice. Posted: 11/6/2004 8:43:58 AM
Take it from me, I waited till I was 24 and it was AMAZING> if you like him, and he likes you things will fall into place. Dont rush things, take your time. Sounds to me like he does like you, perhaps ask him out for a bite to eat? Be yourself, everything else will fall into place. PS/If a guy does break up with you, he only wanted one thing. Hey, theres other things you can do....you dont have to go all the way to have an amazing time.

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Re: The ultimate lubrication. Posted: 9/19/2004 11:01:34 AM
Honestly, never ever had to use any!!

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Re: Toronto Party.... Posted: 9/19/2004 10:50:29 AM
I think it would be neat to hold a get together at Hard Rock Cafe. Had a get together there a few months ago and had a awesome time. When is everyone thinking of getting together? Suzy

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