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Joined: 11/12/2006

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Can you make love to someone you are not in love with? Posted: 5/28/2008 6:44:18 PM
I have to say that you are sooo funny. It's too bad that we don't live closer together. I would love to meet you. I'm a bit of an off the wall person too. Life is to be enjoyed, not dreaded. Humor is the heart of life. Jack

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foreplay Posted: 2/14/2008 10:59:24 AM
The secret is soooo simple that we (men) don't see it. Always make love, not just have sex. Only think of pleasing your partner, not yourself. Believe me, when she experiences your lack of selfishness, she will respond in such great ways and you will be pleased as well.

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Reality check Posted: 2/9/2008 3:40:57 PM
That may be true for some of us guys, but not me! My Daughter ( 31 y.o.) have a rule: don't date someone within 10 years of the other. Speaking for myself, I can't see it anyway. Way common things would you have to talk about? A lot of younger people don't bowl. Many of us do. It just wouldn't be fair to either party to date too young or too old. I must admit that I tried it once. I just wanted to see if I still could get a date. It had been 7 years since my last one. She was 18 years younger. I felt soooo uncomfortable that it will never happen again. I'd love to meet someone my own age. I miss caring about someone.

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what does being a father mean to you Posted: 1/25/2008 1:48:40 PM
Being a Dad made a much better Man. I realized that, if my daughter were to turn out being a good person, that I had to lead by example. My Daughter is my gift to the world. She is such a wonderful woman! I can't believe how lucky I was, and am, to have a child so awesome!!

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What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love Posted: 1/15/2008 9:12:34 PM
When you care more about pleasing your partner than yourself.

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How long should good sex last? Posted: 1/15/2008 9:44:59 AM
Good sex is called "Making Love". That doesn't mean that you have to be in love with the other person though. It means that you care enough and respect her (or him) enough to put their needs above yours. For me, I just love pleasing my partner. That will, of course, cause her to make it better for you. See how that works!! Time limits should never be placed on human emotion. Maybe that's why I haven't had a real date in 3 years. Too many people are superficial and selfish nowadays. Oh well, I'll wait

Joined: 11/12/2006

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At our age, what is acceptable for contacting the guys? Posted: 1/14/2008 10:36:09 AM
Look at it this way----If you like to be contacted, so do we (men). There are so many positives about getting older. One, at least for me, is the wisdom to allow my emotions to show more.

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