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Thread: If a guy is dating a girl who has kids, should he help her out financially?
If a guy is dating a girl who has kids, should he help her out financially?
Posted: 7/31/2011 10:15:39 AM
I'd like everyone's opinion, but mainly this question is for any single women with kids, and single men who might date women who have kids.
Here's my feeling on it. Call me old fashioned, but if a man makes the decision to exclusively date a woman who has 1 or more children, he has a moral OBLIGATION to help provide for her and her children.
She is making a sacrifice in giving him attention while she's already busy with her kids, so, him helping her with her expenses is the LEAST he can do. I feel he OWES it to her, if he is going to make good relationship material for her.
Thanks in advance for your feelings and thoughts on this!
Should you force yourself to have sex just to make your partner happy?
Posted: 7/31/2011 9:30:45 AM
Thankfully I've been selective enough of my partners over the years to have found women who have had every bit a healthy libido as mine.
But if it's okay, I'd like to answer from the point of view of any guys out there who feel pressured by their women to perform ( instead of the other way around ). ...
... When a man agrees to enter into a marriage/live-in situation, he's supposed to be going into the relationship knowing full well that he has certain responsibilities and duties as a boyfriend/husband, and he is obligated to live up to his responsibilities.
With that being said, operating under the assumption that he is in good cardiovascular and penile health, he is, at least spiritually, OBLIGATED to provide his girlfriend/wife sexual intercourse anytime she needs it, no questions asked.
And there are 2 simple reasons for that. First, when a woman becomes a live-in girlwife/wife, it AUTOMATICALLY becomes her RIGHT to expect and have intercourse with her man anytime she needs it, as this is the right she has as a woman and it's the unchallengable ENTITLEMENT she has earned. So, it's not up for negotiation - she has all rights to the intercourse she needs, no matter how frequent or how much duration, with no objections from her boyfriend/husband.
And the second reason, when the man becomes the live-in boyfriend/husband, his main priority in life is making his lady as happy as he possibly can, and because part of his lady's happiness comes from having her man provide intercourse for her, it's his DUTY to provide the intercourse when he is called upon by her to do so. Again, this is his obligation, it's not up for discussion.
If he thinks before he goes into the relationship that this might not be for him, then he should do the right thing and simply not get into the relationship. But if he does get into the relationship anyway and doesn't fulfill his obligation to his lady for her entitlement of sexual intimacy anytime she needs, he is dishonoring her and they will have many more problems to come, and that's definately a bad thing.
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