I remember the movie "30 Days" or something like that.
The main character decides to go like a month without having sex.

I remember thinking "so the *u*k what???"
I have gone 28 years without sex!

I am a virgin, but sometimes it just plain annoys
me to hear people whine about going without sex for a few
months, or even a few years.

find it sad that people still view sex - of any kind, in many cases, but particularly perfectly consensual casual sex - as being demeaning and disrespectful toward women.

And while I think the exploitation of the opposite sex is obnoxious and often hurtful, I think it's absolutely ignorant to assign it as a purely masculine trait. While the scorecard-keeping swagger you refer to is typically a "frat boy" mentality, women have been using sex to manipulate men in other, more subtle ways for centuries.

Has it occurred to you that a woman who is up-front about her sexuality is actually being considerate in letting potential partners know that she's not going to be using it as a weapon or tool to get something else she wants?

There are any number of possible reasons:

1) He's gay
2) He doesn't fancy her
3) He's related to her
4) He's afraid his penis is too small
5) He's afraid he'll be crap in bed
6) He's afraid he'll catch something
7) He's afraid she'll catch something
8) He's afraid his friends will take the piss
9) He's gay
10) He is currently suffering from explosive diarrhea

There's a book out called "He's just not that into you". Haven't read it but I've seen the author on TV, and he cracked me up by telling the truth. I'm surprised nobody has come out with a companion book entitled "She's just not that into you."

For the people who make the "not clean" comments... all of my ex's have been cut and I can remember times when they'd get home from work or just at the end of the day... they'd have a stinky penis aswell. I'd say majority of the men cut or uncut know how to wash their manhood properly. If they don't... well that's called having a hygiene problem and maybe you should talk to your men about growing up and taking care of themselves properly