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taylor97526

Joined: 11/17/2006

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Oh it hurts so bad! Posted: 12/15/2008 10:52:27 AM
What a loser. I have no sympathy for people like you at all.

taylor97526

Joined: 11/17/2006

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Is owning a home a positive or negative? Posted: 12/14/2008 9:58:41 AM
Owning your own house is a positive...Sure beats paying rent in a noisy apartment complex.

taylor97526

Joined: 11/17/2006

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Hell of a first post Posted: 9/26/2008 7:23:16 PM
hello 511 It will take time my friend. I know what you're going through and you have my sympathy. Just don't expect this to all change over night. You need the help of family and friends and take it a day at a time. In time all things fall into place. Take care and God bless.

taylor97526

Joined: 11/17/2006

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Getting Over Girlfriends Past Posted: 9/24/2008 2:37:43 PM
Hey we all have a past. I feel its none of my business what my partners done before she met me. Just like my past is my business. Some things are better off left alone. The past is the past so let it go. Its here and now is what important.

taylor97526

Joined: 11/17/2006

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How can men stop having feelings so quickly? Posted: 9/24/2008 2:28:40 PM
Believe me we hurt, but we try to keep it on the inside.

taylor97526

Joined: 11/17/2006

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How do I stop thinking about my expartner ? Posted: 9/24/2008 9:40:52 AM
Hey theres nothing worse than a deflated ego. But to be with someone else already is a rebound thing. Not fair to your new squeeze... Big difference between infatuation and true love.

taylor97526

Joined: 11/17/2006

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what to do about seeing an ex of less a year now engaged and wanting a kid Posted: 9/24/2008 9:33:01 AM
One of these days you'll meet a super nice man and push the ex right out of your mind. But hopefully you'll already have pushed him out long before the other guy comes along. It all takes time. The amount of time is up to you. Good luck.

taylor97526

Joined: 11/17/2006

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If you're single and not dating, what's your reason? Posted: 9/24/2008 9:11:56 AM
living outside a fairly small town is one reason. The other would be the women situation is very small around here. I don't cruise the bars at night. Most everyone I meet on a dating site lives some distance from here. And I would have to say I am very picky who I ask out. I know someone will come along one of these days....

taylor97526

Joined: 11/17/2006

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Going out by yourself. Posted: 9/13/2008 6:30:46 PM
Hey Marc: Nothing wrong with doing things by yourself. Go out for dinner more often and change restaurants every so often. Check your local newspaper for social activities in your area. We have a thing called first Friday here in town and its just packed with people. Look for car shows. As for the bars, well if they have a live band its cool. Get out there and make yourself available... good luck

taylor97526

Joined: 11/17/2006

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Husband Fights Charge of Having Sex w/ Comatose Wife Posted: 9/13/2008 2:34:52 PM
Thats sick.....

taylor97526

Joined: 11/17/2006

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Met, hit it off, she crushed me.... Posted: 9/12/2008 7:07:20 PM
I think we've all been there. My motto is "why want someone who doesn't want you". Hard way to put it I know. Just keep yourself busy and when she pops into your mind try to think of something else. Get busy and good luck.

taylor97526

Joined: 11/17/2006

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Hey What Do I do? Posted: 9/9/2008 11:14:33 AM
Hey dude, you blew the trust issue. A lie is a lie. Its up to her now. So kick back and wait and see is about all you can do. If she's still interested in you she'll let you know. If she's not interested in you, you'll find out in time. It's a hard lesson to learn but learn from it.

taylor97526

Joined: 11/17/2006

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He Won't Stop Calling... Posted: 9/7/2008 4:27:01 PM
He will only do what you allow him to do..wake up and listen to the other posts on here.

taylor97526

Joined: 11/17/2006

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why did he drop me and should I contact him after a month? Posted: 8/29/2008 5:54:29 PM
Don't call him. You deserve so much more than what he wants to give. He sounds a little unstable to me. Don't sell yourself short. You don't want to live with this up and down relationship. Good luck to you and please do not call him. It would be best if you just got on with your life and leave him totally alone.

taylor97526

Joined: 11/17/2006

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opinions needed Posted: 8/27/2008 1:21:41 PM
A lie is a lie no matter how you slice it. What would your reaction be if she lied to you. Sounds to me like it was a deal breaker. Good luck.

taylor97526

Joined: 11/17/2006

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Introduce Yourself Here. Posted: 8/22/2008 6:00:30 PM
hello everyone out in dating land. Very hard to meet anyone on these sites as everyone lives a distance from Grants Pass. But one never knows so have thrown myself out there. Good luck all.

taylor97526

Joined: 11/17/2006

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Did I get what I deserved Posted: 8/19/2008 9:51:08 AM
Vonnie you deserve better. A man doesn't do that to someone he cares about. Dump his ass and move on.

taylor97526

Joined: 11/17/2006

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North Texas school district will let teachers carry guns Posted: 8/15/2008 3:00:30 PM
Right on....................

taylor97526

Joined: 11/17/2006

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Money scams. Posted: 8/11/2008 8:04:34 PM
get that crap a lot on singlesnet.com They post a picture of some fox but nothing else matches up. Then the real person emerges and she's in Nirobi or Africa, have never had anyone on POF ask for money. I wonder how many lonely people out there fall for this scam.

taylor97526

Joined: 11/17/2006

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Ask a Widower/Widow Posted: 8/10/2008 3:54:26 PM
I lost my wife 34 years ago due to an accident. She is always with me in spirit and life does go on. You do go on to love again but somehow its different. Only someone who has lost a spouse can relate to this....

taylor97526

Joined: 11/17/2006

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BROKEN HEARTS Posted: 7/20/2008 2:02:04 PM
My take on this is very simple, "people will do what you allow them to do". I would have said goodbye alot sooner. I have to say he is either married or a player or just a plain user. Now you have a new admirer in the picture. I would say too soon for you to get serious again. Give yourself a time out and regroup. Good luck to you.

taylor97526

Joined: 11/17/2006

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recently dumped Posted: 7/19/2008 4:38:55 PM
sounds to me like your ego got bruised a little. I know it bothers you, but like I always say "why want someone who doesn't want you". Get on with gettin on and let her go. Way too many nice ones out there just waiting for you.

taylor97526

Joined: 11/17/2006

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Manson follower wants compassion........................... Posted: 7/16/2008 9:01:13 PM
Tough shit. I hope you die a painful death and then rot in hell. Why should anyone feel any compassion for someone like you. Bye ****...........

taylor97526

Joined: 11/17/2006

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How to let go? Posted: 7/6/2008 6:40:43 PM
Hi. It will take time and patience. I would try to find the book " rebuilding when your relationship ends" by Dr. Bruce Fisher. It helped me out a great deal. God bless you. It will all work out.

taylor97526

Joined: 11/17/2006

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second chances Posted: 6/24/2008 8:45:59 AM
people break up for a reason. The problems don't go away. Like they say, "theres no such thing as paradise revisited".

taylor97526

Joined: 11/17/2006

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am I making a mistake? Posted: 6/20/2008 7:07:57 PM
Hi Bath of Glitter Not much to add after reading all the other posts. But I will say "you're better than that". I would tell the man you aren't interested anymore and move on. Good luck to you.

taylor97526

Joined: 11/17/2006

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Does this sound weird to anybody else? Posted: 6/19/2008 6:46:23 PM
tigerlily1983 I would think by now, after reading all these posts, you would see you deserve so much more than this guy can give. I would have to say he's bi-polar by the way he's acting. The choice is yours to make. But ask yourself this question, is this the way you want to live your life. Relationships are suppose to be fun, warm, loving, without all the drama and BS. Good luck to you.

taylor97526

Joined: 11/17/2006

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Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ? Posted: 6/19/2008 7:20:44 AM
Yup there are..........................

taylor97526

Joined: 11/17/2006

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help/advice needed (pleeeeeeeease) Posted: 6/18/2008 9:46:09 AM
If you don't ask her out you will spend the rest of your life wondering what could have been. Its very obvious to me she is interested in you. Go slow and good luck to you both.

taylor97526

Joined: 11/17/2006

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The Death Penalty - When is it ever justified? Posted: 6/17/2008 3:18:45 PM
In response to Captain Girly girls post, even if it was one of your family members?

taylor97526

Joined: 11/17/2006

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How do I move on? Posted: 6/15/2008 7:12:19 PM
Life's too short for drama. Why want someone who doesn't want you.!!

taylor97526

Joined: 11/17/2006

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Advice needed please Posted: 6/14/2008 8:18:09 PM
ask yourself one question here, is this the way you want to live with this guy? I think you're better than that. Infidelity is just that. You deserve better. Good luck.

taylor97526

Joined: 11/17/2006

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Am I wrong, you make the call... Posted: 6/9/2008 5:59:24 PM
hey Mike, you really want someone like her around? Doesn't like sound she is worth the trouble. Her loss, not yours.

taylor97526

Joined: 11/17/2006

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Still not over my ex!!! Posted: 6/9/2008 5:53:36 PM
Hi: you are a nice looking lady. Don't let the man get to you the way he does. It sounds to me you were in a "go no where" relationship and its time to move on. Make yourself unavailable to this guy and get on with your life. Its easier said than done, but it needs to be done. What has always helped me is to make a list of the good points, bad points. If the bad outweigh the good then you are better off without him. Just tell yourself "I'm better than that". Good luck to you. Richard

taylor97526

Joined: 11/17/2006

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Should I walk away? Posted: 4/23/2008 5:30:27 PM
yes walk away. The handwriting is on the wall. Take the time to think about what he said and let it go. You sound like you are trying to make something happen with this guy and its not going to happen. Good luck to you in your quest..... Richard

taylor97526

Joined: 11/17/2006

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When the girl wants to be JUST FRIENDS Posted: 12/11/2006 11:17:21 AM
hey look at it this way... look at the $200.00 money well spent to get rid of her. "What goes around, comes around".. very true.....

taylor97526

Joined: 11/17/2006

Msg: 378 (view)

When the girl wants to be JUST FRIENDS Posted: 12/11/2006 10:50:10 AM
hey dude, been there myself so can relate. The only advice I can give you is to not worry about her and put all that energy into yourself. What would you really have if you did have her?? You're the good guy hear and she doesn't want that. The chemistry is there or it isn't. Just leave her alone and you'll find some nice, together lady when you aren't even looking. Nows the time to get to know yourself once again. Use the time wisely and good luck to you.

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