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 odysseus75
Joined: 6/2/2011
Msg: 9 (view)
 
I need advice
Posted: 9/16/2012 9:09:15 AM
Yes they do - some even more that 100. For both of you - i bet you're sending messages like 'hi - how are you??' etc ? The same as evey other guy. Change it up. What do all the womens profiles say.. looking for 'fun'. Be the fun guy - offer them adventure and excitement - be confident and funny. Make them laugh and you're well on your way
 odysseus75
Joined: 6/2/2011
Msg: 5 (view)
 
Disillusioned??
Posted: 9/15/2012 9:40:52 PM
The problem here is that you don't understand men on a deep level. You say men are shallow but do you undersatnd why you think men are shallow. Do you understand what makes men tick. Have you ever looked into why men are the way they are.. i doubt it very much.. the reason why i think that is is i believe most women havent bothered. and the ones that have done a little research or are naturals still are complacent when it comes to how a man works. In short.. we're far more complicated than you think we are ... If you're confused as to why guys block you etc... well thats a bit suspect in anyways. if someone blocks you it means you're pestering or you're not who you say you are. In anyways don't feel too hung up about it. its cyber space
 odysseus75
Joined: 6/2/2011
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I need advice
Posted: 9/15/2012 9:22:32 PM
Here is the avice brother. you will send messages to a girl you like.. but that girl you like will get probablty 100 messages from guys in a day. So she willl be nice and respond to your msg. then you will msg back and wont hear from her agin.. why - cause she's responding to 100 generic txt msages.. what you do about it? dont beat yourself up about it. The woamen are trying to be nice. look if you want to be different from the 100 other mails they get in a dat then be fdifferent. Ask them what they want to hear - not what you think they want to hear...
 odysseus75
Joined: 6/2/2011
Msg: 21 (view)
 
Help with complicated relationship please?
Posted: 7/28/2012 6:16:55 AM
Hey nada - not sure you're looking for adivice here... Or what advice are you seeking from the story you told?
 odysseus75
Joined: 6/2/2011
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Help with complicated relationship please?
Posted: 6/6/2012 1:10:41 PM
Let me help you here brother.. You've given your power away too easily and too fast. You are now in the needy zone that women absolutely detest and form a subconcious defence to. My advice is to unplug the emotinal IV connection. I know its hard but its something you have to do. You need to get your power back as a man. You ever notice what happens a cat when it catches the ball on the string? It instantly becomes bored with it. You need to be on your toes with women constantly - Predicatability is the enemy of interesting. If you always act predicable then by definaition you're not interesting to her. All men are boring but its being able to notice this about yourself and constantly tweak it while interating woth a woman is what'll make you stand out. Cahnge her mood not her mind. Do some reseach - try undersatnd women better and the best of luck to you. Oh and move on - there's plenty of fish ;)
 odysseus75
Joined: 6/2/2011
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Chemistry
Posted: 2/22/2012 2:27:02 PM
But you asked about a spark or connection. So I'm refferring to the femaile response to attraction not nesesserily the male. And potential wealth and status refers to what women, in a primal sense, seek in a male. Not talking about a rock star or anything but a male who who has these attributes are what women desire on a subconcious level
 odysseus75
Joined: 6/2/2011
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Chemistry
Posted: 2/21/2012 4:36:16 PM
I really think the chemistry is what motivates women but to understand it you must understand men. Men don't look for chemistry on a first date. If a guy likes what he sees in the pics he's sold. Thats it. That is where the attraction is for a man. Purely visual - a primal thing - physical attaction and youth. The attraction for woman I believe is not something that is kindled straight away - it just happens or most times it doesn't on first dates. If a womans emotional triggers are not fired then attraction is a moot point. Potential wealth and potential status are something a woman would look for in a man. Thats the difference.

Conversations here are a joke as women have no idea hwta a man is about in therms of his writing. But you form a picture of how he would have a conversation with you that could be totally different in real world. My suggestion is start taking chances
 
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