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 Author Thread: Do You Men Read Our Whole Profiles?
 bigjohn0309
Joined: 11/20/2006
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Do You Men Read Our Whole Profiles?
Posted: 12/3/2006 4:53:33 AM
OK, ive been on this site for a few weeks now, and have had barely anyone write to me, I had one person write to me and when i replied my reply got read and deleted, and no there was nothing odd in it, as it turns out i wrote to her again... result below....

On friday evening I decided to write a few emails out to people I think looked interested, of course i started with those who had photos, after all, theres no point writing to someone you dont actually find attractive. Yes im a male, and we do tend to go for looks first, thats the reason you girls always try to make yourselves looks as beautiful as possible when you go out!...

I also noticed that a lot of the girls profiles demanded a more than one line introduction, which is all very well, but once you have written a custom email more than 4-5 times, it does get very tiresome, and you do tend to start writing "liked your profile, theres more info about me on mine, id love to hear back from you"...

and before you all start saying, why are you writing to several people at the same time... well its the law of averages im afraid, and heres the stats:

20 mails sent, 8 have been read, 2 have been deleted, and i have had one reply, the one i mentioned above, and she read and deleted the message the first time around!!!

normally i probably would not have bothered with someone who read and deleted my message, as i would think they are clearly not interested, but im sorry to say girls, but it shows that persistance sometimes works!...

So now im considering writing to those that have not replied again.... probably with simple one liners "why didnt you reply" after all these are girls i bothered spending time, writing a decent email, with specific replies to the points in thier profiles, making connections where i there were some.....

I dunno if this helps much, but its just my experience....
 
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