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blueangel1023

Joined: 11/23/2006

Msg: 17 (view)

Karaoke And D.J. Party for Plenty of Fishers-Riverdale, New York Posted: 9/16/2008 10:58:37 PM
I hope to make it as I will be working. This would be my 1st POF meetup, but I can never pass up karaoke (even though I'm no american idol) hehe, I'm only a few mins away from the bar, so I can just throw on some clothes and see u guys there :)

blueangel1023

Joined: 11/23/2006

Msg: 759 (view)

Favorites List????? Posted: 7/23/2008 9:58:58 PM
I don't think anyone on my fav's list ever contacted me...The more I delete, the more people who keep adding me back! Ahhh, it's the neverending cycle! I feel like part of the garbage pail kids collection

blueangel1023

Joined: 11/23/2006

Msg: 389 (view)

Why do guys put DIVORCED when they SEPARATED... Posted: 7/23/2008 9:36:20 PM
Separation is often a misunderstood term. There is more than one reason behind this confusion. First off, individuals have their own assumptions about what the word means in regard to divorce. Secondly, all 50 states also have a unique definition for the word. In NY, you have to be legally separated for one year (as a cooling off period) before the divorce is final. Even if you already signed the papers, it takes months to process. Simply put, separation is when two people cease living together as a married couple through their own agreement or a court decree. But even this definition is up for debate. Most people think that if he/she is separated, it'll scream out rebound or they're just vulnerable and not looking for a LTR. I believe as long as the person is honest after admitting he/she flubbed up on their profile or what not...they should be given a chance no? If not, then I sure you can both move on as adults. No hard feelings! I've been seeing this guy for a couple of wks and his profile said he's "divorced" He was genuinely sincere and he didn't seem like the 16 yo teen who would jump down my panties the 1st night. Long story short, the 1st time we met up we hit it off really well. I then finally asked him "so why the divorce?" in which he told me upfront that he's separated for almost a yr and the divorced papers were signed already, but just waiting for the paperwork to finally be "a ok" He wants nothing to do with his ex-wife and they both moved on with their lives. I did appreciate his honesty, and for a guy who's 29 yo, he married young and did not know what sh*t he got himself into...lol, but luckily he has no kids. While marriage and kids isn't anywhere near my future, I told him I don't mind just seeing him. After all if he's not fully divorced, he shouldn't even jump into a relationship so quickly. We're pretty much on the same boat since I recently broke it off with someone a few months back. I believe as long as both parties understand each other, there shouldn't be a problem IMO. (Unless the ex-wife is an axe murderer and wants your head on a platter)

blueangel1023

Joined: 11/23/2006

Msg: 162 (view)

asian girl who has never dated or had a asian bf before Posted: 7/20/2008 8:17:36 PM
Wow, this thread is totally off topic...lol. I believe the MAIN point of the topic was asking if it's ok to date an asian girl who only dates or has a white guy as a bf. As I'm sure some people have their preferences, I don't think it should matter just as long as she's dating you because she likes YOU, not because of your race being a factor. Although I do prefer dating caucasians, I have dated hispanics as well. I did give dating an asian guy a go, but it did not work out well...lol (Reasons I do not want to disclose for I will run this thread off topic again) However, it is a turn off when a guy tells me "All I date were Asian women" It just goes to show you're picky and you don't give anyone else a chance out there. Not to mention the yellow fever craze is so overrated. I don't go telling my dates "I love white boys" If they must ask about the guys I usually go for, sure I'll tell that a majority of them are white. However, I don't running my mouth and start giving a lecture on why I prefer white guys over everyone else. Just let it be, damn! Oh and btw kit901, my dad was born in the US in 1957. My grandfather served in the US navy as a chef. I'm sure there's quite a few Asians who are born in the US that are around your age. Maybe you just never encountered any who would give you the time of day, or perhaps as you would say "are too shy to ask you out"

blueangel1023

Joined: 11/23/2006

Msg: 140 (view)

asian girl who has never dated or had a asian bf before Posted: 7/13/2008 9:52:43 PM
The type of Asian girl who goes for Caucasian men tend to be Plump, have a ridiculous tan, somewhat dumpy looking with an overly loud voice, annoying opinionated and "proud" of her heritage in an obnoxious whitewashed expert way but doesn't really live it. And if she's isn't dumpy, she'll probably get a boob job and a ridiculous fake tan (ahem Tila Tequila). So all of sudden Tila is automatically the spokeswoman on behalf of all us asians? I admit I'm on the plumper side. I do have boobs and an ass (I don't need surgery for the future) but I don't fake 'n bake. I do tan easily outside, but it's au natural. Tila is Viet and they tend to be more "proud" of their heritage than other asians. I don't go yelling out "W00t! Azian pride 4eva!" I guess I must be the overly loud, annoying, dumpy, and opinionated asian you speak of? Wow, who could've thought...no wonder why asian guys hate me. Oh sh*t, guess what? I'm size 7.5 in shoes. Take that!

blueangel1023

Joined: 11/23/2006

Msg: 133 (view)

asian girl who has never dated or had a asian bf before Posted: 7/9/2008 12:00:40 PM
Some of you guys really sound like this guy... http://www.holytaco.com/2008/06/27/the-douchiest-phone-message-in-history/ Haha, that was the most funniest thing I've heard all day... I don't think there's anything wrong with an Asian girl dating a Caucasian guy much less any other race (aside from Asian men) To each their own. A lot have been living in a more westernized society and are white washed. I'm basically 3rd generation here and some of the asian girls I knew at school were only 1st gen and possibly 2nd gen. They never got along with me since there would be an English barrier. If I said it's raining cats and dogs, they'd look up at the sky and think I'm going crazy. Sure, they might think a Caucasian guy is attractive, but in a way it'll be a taboo if they brought them home to their parents. If they make money, what's some Benjamins between the color of your skin? (I keed) Most of my cousins married white guys and even a guy cousin of mine married a nice Italian women (who recently had twins) and are happily married. I think if two people get along physically and mentally I don't see the problem. For me, it's hard to find an Asian guy who likes my carefree attitude and sense of humor. Not only that, but I'm 5'8...I'd say 90% of the Asian guys are about my height if not shorter. That certainly puts a damper on things. I usually feel the guy who brought up this issue is a guy who can't get an asian girl, or an angry asian guy who think the white man is stealing their women. Haha, joking of course. Don't get mad at the twinkie! >_<

blueangel1023

Joined: 11/23/2006

Msg: 98 (view)

What exactly does hang out mean Posted: 7/9/2008 10:18:22 AM
Most often or not, men has the misconception of "hanging out" thinking sex would be involved in some way. I've been on POF for quite awhile and I noticed when I had my profile status as "hanging out" I get a lot of guys wanting to do some activity together (ie. movies, dinner, etc) and then later going boinking. That however isn't my intention at all...to just jump into the sack with someone I hardly know. In some circumstances maybe we hit it off really well, but after awhile they automatically think "oh yea, every time we hang out I'll be getting some!" I once dated a guy for a few weeks and he always msg'd me saying "hey wanna hang out tonight?" I then asked "did you really want to hang out...like to watch a movie, or did you just want sex?" He thinks about it for a minute (because it's such a hard question) and then replies..."How about both?" shakes head Men will always been men. I believe even if you put dating or activity partners, there's still some chance they're getting some booty. After all, why not have your cake and eat it too right? Of course there's some nice guys out there who are looking for more than just FWB and actually want a relationship. It's like finding a needle in a haystack with those ones! Haha

blueangel1023

Joined: 11/23/2006

Msg: 126 (view)

i hate being alone Posted: 7/7/2008 11:11:31 PM
wow..and you picked all of those 4 relationships?? O_O wow..how does that work?? sounds to me like you attract negative kinds of guys I did not pick those relationships. Had I known a guy was to cheat or become a druggie, I wouldn't be in a relationship with them in the 1st place would I? lol I wouldn't know how it works considering I'm not with them anymore... Yes, attracting negative guys is right. I'm the epitome of bad karma.

blueangel1023

Joined: 11/23/2006

Msg: 125 (view)

i hate being alone Posted: 7/7/2008 11:04:48 PM
I might have believed you, but: The first guy I dated was a druggie and verbally abusive, the 2nd and 3rd guy cheated, and the 4th guy decided his job was more important than me. You immediately describe having had 4 boyfriends. So no, I don’t think that anyone is going to believe you. I don't think you were grasping the concept. If I remember correctly, I said I "dated" I don't think that constitutes as being exclusive with them. I suppose depending on the time frame I could've dated someone from a week to a couple of months...if dating someone means they're my bf, I would've had over 20 bf's by now. That is one too many for my brain to handle :)

blueangel1023

Joined: 11/23/2006

Msg: 121 (view)

i hate being alone Posted: 7/7/2008 10:22:45 PM
I hate being alone...... why is it that when 2 people meet and they like each other....the other one runs? Do guys really get scared? I'm attractive and funny, but just can't seem to meet the right guy....what do i have to do to meet him? Truth is nobody likes to be alone...just be patient and the right guy will come along. If two people like each other and one runs...lol, well more than likely you just weren't meant to be. Keep yourself busy and stop stressing over the situation. If you really feel that lonely, get a pet. I've had my dog for 13 yrs and she's everything I have. She's loyal, she wouldn't cheat or talk back to me. Everyone finds it hard to believe I never ever had a bf. The first guy I dated was a druggie and verbally abusive, the 2nd and 3rd guy cheated, and the 4th guy decided his job was more important than me. I've had my fair share of disappointments...but I'm not going to let that get the best of me. Keep your head up and be strong. There's plenty of fishes in the sea and there's bound to one for you that strikes your fancy. I was always trying to find Mr Right but I'm tired of looking...If he's out there, he'll look for me :)

blueangel1023

Joined: 11/23/2006

Msg: 37 (view)

Why is it that most of the wemon i attract are large? Posted: 7/7/2008 9:20:56 PM
OP: It is most likely your location, so... move. :) I actually laughed out loud when I read that! My cousins live in greenville, SC and I have to say a majority of the people there are often overweight. Unlike us new yorkers who walks at least 1/2 a mile each day in the city, you guys have only malls and you NEED to drive to go to supermarket. My cousin got upset I made her walk 10 blocks in nyc...that wasn't even a workout! She just wasn't used to the walking...hehe. 135lbs is a bit on the underweight side of being 5'6. I'm about 2 inches taller than you and 20lbs more. I always thought I'd end up dating a guy who would be heavier, but in truth I always dated guys who are slimmer. I guess they're just more flexible in some ways, and they don't tire in and out of bed so easily...haha To each their own. Perhaps right now you're just not used to dating heavier women. Don't knock it til you tried it! A woman who's 5'8 and 200lbs is a bit extreme. She'll be a giant compared to you. Try someone who's more around your height or shorter. Good luck :)

blueangel1023

Joined: 11/23/2006

Msg: 222 (view)

Tattoos on the breasts Posted: 7/7/2008 8:51:57 PM
I have 5 tat's and I would never tat on my breasts. Imo, I just find that kind of tacky...but to each their own. I'd admit on some women it might look good if it's something small, but I would avoid getting anything on my bosoms and my booty.

blueangel1023

Joined: 11/23/2006

Msg: 597 (view)

If someone emails you with misspelled words and bad grammar, do you respond? Posted: 6/28/2008 11:30:08 PM
Most of my friends know me as the grammar and spelling police...haha. It's a pet peeve of mine if you can't put together a proper sentence. It's understandable to get maybe 1 or 2 words misspelled. After all, some people type fast on their computers and typos do occur. I give them a benefit of a doubt. However, when a guy "TyPes LyK Diz" and start saying "holla atcha boi shorty" That is such a major turnoff...not cute at all. Don't expect a reply from me either

blueangel1023

Joined: 11/23/2006

Msg: 56 (view)

I love you, do you love me? Posted: 6/28/2008 6:20:04 PM
I'm not big on words (especially the four letter L word) I'm more of showing then acknowledging it through speech, and it seems that some guys would ask that into a few weeks of seeing each other. Of course I usually tell them the truth and say "I like being with you and that's all that matter right now" but they get upset like their egos have been bruised. I believe honesty is the best policy. I'm not going to tell a guy I love them if I don't actually mean it. I think being in love has a deeper meaning and since my heart has been broken a few times in the past, I just don't reciprocate saying it so easily.

blueangel1023

Joined: 11/23/2006

Msg: 35 (view)

So, where do you 'hide' your condoms? Posted: 6/28/2008 5:52:21 PM
I keep them on my computer desk or my nightstand. Once had a guy who kept his in the drawers behind his Harry Potter book...lol, I couldn't stop chuckling. Had them in my suitcase when I go on trips, but no more considering my mom likes to borrow my suitcases. She wasn't too happy when see found 'em to say the least :P

blueangel1023

Joined: 11/23/2006

Msg: 16 (view)

Healthy? Arguement first few months of relationship Posted: 6/23/2008 10:27:19 PM
Personally I'm not a big fan of getting into arguments. I rather avoid it if possible...haha, but sometimes the truth finally comes out once the bickering starts. Resolving an argument is one thing, but accumulating them into several arguments is another. For me that just spells out immaturity. It's always good to speak out about each others pros and cons and resolve it amicably. Communication is the key to a healthy relationship. However, I don't think it should progress into a heavy argument. First arguments are natural, and bickering once in awhile like you guys are a married couple is ok too. Just don't let it get out of control :)

blueangel1023

Joined: 11/23/2006

Msg: 28 (view)

Does he or doesn't he???? Posted: 6/23/2008 9:58:52 PM
I'm glad you made the decision to move on. I understand he may have an obligation to his kids but they're in their teens...not toddlers. He should have cared enough to know that he's got to give a little in a relationship. I don't think it's that hard to commit to a date once a week to see someone. I've been in a similar situation before...he valued his job and spending the weekends with his family more than me. A lot of cancelled plans and what not. That really left me no choice but to move on since he couldn't get his priorities straight. Since you mentioned him being divorced twice, he might've decided to take this one slow. I mean, look at Carrie Bradshaw. She had to wait 10 friggin yrs to finally tie the knot with Mr Big. Ok, so Sex in the City isn't RL but would you want to wait for someone to finally come to their senses? Just my 2 cents.

blueangel1023

Joined: 11/23/2006

Msg: 209 (view)

Disappearing Act - How Did You Feel? Posted: 6/23/2008 6:29:37 PM
This has happened quite a few times to me before...haha, so I know where you're coming from. Most men just like to play games. They think "ok, she's so into me that I'm going to play hard to get" Well you know what? Do not waste MY time. Don't expect me to answer your calls, emails, txt msg's as if nothing happened. You went MIA and then get pissy faced when you don't get your way. I'm glad to be rid of some losers I had went out with...if they can't be upfront about something, then there's no point in continuing to see them. They did me a great favor of pulling a Houdini

blueangel1023

Joined: 11/23/2006

Msg: 10 (view)

Never Orgasmed Posted: 6/23/2008 12:01:14 PM
Two words. Self exploration. Sometimes you need a woman to do a man's job...ahh, the great use of fingers or you can have him do some finger play. It works wonders :)

blueangel1023

Joined: 11/23/2006

Msg: 118 (view)

Not even spit, so forget about swallow.... Posted: 6/23/2008 11:54:14 AM
12+ yrs is a long time...did it take you 11+ yrs to realize she never swallowed? I would've brought the situation up in the beginning but if you stuck by her for that long, obviously she's doing something right (minus the swallowing) For some women they just rather not. I've dated someone before who doesn't like anal sex and another guy who wouldn't go down south. I don't mind the swallowing and having it anywhere else on my body as long as it's from the neck down. After a friend told me about her man shooting her in the eye by accident, I got freaked out in case that ever happened to me. So swallow yes, facials NO (lol yea weird I know) To each their own.

blueangel1023

Joined: 11/23/2006

Msg: 35 (view)

Why do men stop messenging when you refuse the sex Posted: 6/23/2008 11:34:18 AM
Men are well...just being men. Haha, I would say more than 90% of the time a guy would engage in sexual connotations with you online. Least it is for me. While that may be ok, that does not bruise my ego in any way. I could just easily block them and move on. On the other hand, there's a few guys I did go on dates with, and they want to be on me like white on rice by the 2nd date (if they're lucky to get one) Since this site is free, in their heads they're saying "hey if I can get free sex out of it, why not?" Of course, it's not just men since I'm sure some women are totally up for it. However, don't sell yourself short. Just because he ceased talking to you, does not mean you have to do the horizontal polka with him just so you can keep him at bay.

blueangel1023

Joined: 11/23/2006

Msg: 21 (view)

Personal Hygiene/First Impressions Posted: 6/23/2008 11:06:05 AM
Bad hygiene is definitely on the top 3 of my pet peeves list aside from being "flaky" I once dated this guy who was the nicest person and not too shabby in the looks dpt but once he spoke OMG, I felt like the dead resurrected up from the grave...Can you say 'tic tac'? Haha, at my workplace I keep spare mints in my locker, drawers, and lunch table. Apparently everyone knows they're mine, since I'm the person who's crazy enough to carry 'em around wherever I go. C'mon guys, be on top of your game with good hygiene when you're seeing a girl!

blueangel1023

Joined: 11/23/2006

Msg: 66 (view)

Where has all the romance gone?? Posted: 6/23/2008 10:48:56 AM
Most relationships fail romantically because they rarely are given a chance to develop before jumping in the sack. We ladies are just as guilty, if you expect romance first you'll probably get it and weed out some bad apples in the interim. I totally agree. Sure every women wants Prince Charming, but how far would that go? Over time some woman find that too cheesy or eventually they tire of it and think it's borderline clingy having someone call you 3x a day. Most often or not, guys WILL charm their way into jumping in the sack with you...and sadly, once they get "nookie" there's no more time for being charming. They already got what they wanted. Wham, bam, and thank u maam...or the thanks will be skipped followed by excessive snoring. These days in age, women are more liberated. They believe in paying for part of their meals and they don't need anyone to tell them what to do. If you're looking for the romantic type, and he's just not cutting it for you then move on. There's plenty of fishes in the sea and believe it or not there are some romantic guys. They're just a 'rare' type of species

blueangel1023

Joined: 11/23/2006

Msg: 17 (view)

Before I die I would like to.... Posted: 1/21/2007 2:06:44 AM
find me a sugar daddy to pay off my credit debt. lol, i kid I would like to travel all over the world go swimming with the dolphins

blueangel1023

Joined: 11/23/2006

Msg: 18 (view)

She made her My Space profile private,,,,,,,,, Posted: 1/21/2007 2:01:05 AM
I don't think you're wrong for wanting to see her profile. However, you both mutually agreed that you would not be on each other's friends list and not look at each other's profile. The whole basis of being in a "relationship" is built on trust. It's not wrong of you to doubt her, considering she did say "You might be jealous of what you see" which did sound sort of shady. However, maybe you shouldn't have gave her the ultamatim. A girl doesn't like to be pressured into having to explain her intentions and justifying her reasons. Ahhh...myspace can be so silly sometimes. People need to smell the coffee and get back into reality.

blueangel1023

Joined: 11/23/2006

Msg: 41 (view)

OK....What is everyones definition of dating? Posted: 1/21/2007 1:43:29 AM
"Seems like most men I talk with want exclusive right off the bat....." I don't know what type of men you're asking...but here in NYC nobody talks about exclusitivity unless the mother is inviting them over for family dinner and calls you over to fix a leaky faucet. lol To me, dating is just a "hang out" and getting to know one another more. Maybe eventually leading on to more frequent dates, (casually dating) but not yet exclusive. If it lasts more than a few months, maybe he could be a potential bf...but even so, that could be a disaster waiting to happen. hehe, jk

blueangel1023

Joined: 11/23/2006

Msg: 1 (view)

waves Posted: 12/4/2006 1:19:31 AM
Hey, just joined POF like 2 wks ago or so. Just started getting used to the forums. You'll see me popping around from time to time just because I often like to comment or say random things. Don't mind me. hehe

blueangel1023

Joined: 11/23/2006

Msg: 1 (view)

Different types of sex Posted: 12/4/2006 1:01:43 AM
Got this mail from a friend of mine yesterday. Made me laugh, so I thought I'd spread the joke. Enjoy! -------------------------------------------------------------------- SOCIAL SECURITY SEX > Two men were talking. "So, how's your sex life?" > > "Oh, nothing special. I'm having Social Security sex." > > "Social Security sex?" > > "Yeah, you know; I get a little each month, but not enough to live on!" > >-------------------------------------------------------------------- > LOUD SEX > A wife went in to see a therapist and said, "I've got a >big problem, doctor. > Every time we're in bed and my husband climaxes, he lets >out this ear splitting yell." > > "My dear," the shrink said, "that's completely natural. >I don't see what the problem is." > > "The problem is," she complained, "it wakes me up!" > >-------------------------------------------------------------------- > QUIET SEX > Tired of a listless sex life, the man came right out and >asked his wife during a recent lovemaking session, "How come you never >tell me when you have an orgasm?" > She glanced at him casually and replied, "You're never home!" > >-------------------------------------------------------------------- > > CONFOUNDED SEX > A man was in a terrible accident, and his "manhood" was >mangled and torn from his body. His doctor assured him that modern >medicine could give him back his manhood, but that his insurance >wouldn't cover the surgery since it was considered cosmetic. The >doctor said the cost would be $3,500 for "small, $6,500 for "medium, $14,000 for "large." > > The man was sure he would want a medium or large, but the doctor urged him to talk it over with his wife before he made any decision. > The man called his wife on the phone and explained their options. The doctor came back into the room, and found the man looking dejected. > "Well, what have the two of you decided?" asked the doctor. The man answered, "She'd rather remodel the kitchen." > >-------------------------------------------------------------------- > > WEDDING ANNIVERSARY SEX > > A husband and his wife had a bitter quarrel on the day of their 40th wedding anniversary. The husband yells, "When you die, I'm getting you a headstone that reads: 'Here Lies My Wife-Cold As Ever'." > "Yeah," she replies, "when you die, I'm getting you a headstone that reads: Here Lies My Husband - Stiff At Last.'" >-------------------------------------------------------------------- > WOMEN'S HUMOROUS SEX > > My husband came home with a tube of K-Y jelly and said, "This will make you happy tonight." > He was right. When he went out of the bedroom, I squirted it all over the doorknobs. He couldn't get back in. > >-------------------------------------------------------------------- > ELDERLY SEX > > One night an 87 year old woman came home from Bingo to find her 92 year old husband in bed with another woman. She became violent and ended up pushing him off the balcony of their 20th floor "assisted living apartment" .. Killing him instantly. > Brought before the court on charge of murder, the judge asked her if she had anything to say in her defense. She began coolly, "Yes, your honor, I figured that at 92, if he could have sex .. He could fly."

blueangel1023

Joined: 11/23/2006

Msg: 129 (view)

Favourite insult Posted: 12/4/2006 12:53:41 AM
"I may be sober tomorrow but you'll still be ugly for the rest of your life"

blueangel1023

Joined: 11/23/2006

Msg: 8 (view)

Should there be a cutoff age for playing video games? Posted: 12/4/2006 12:38:25 AM
I don't think there's anything wrong with the older generation playing vid games. My dad is 47 and he still plays his xbox. Sometimes we battle and he'll kick my butt. Of course my mom does get a bit pissed when he plays all day and doesn't do anything around the house. Then there's a BIG problem. Live life to the fullest I say. You're never too old!

blueangel1023

Joined: 11/23/2006

Msg: 59 (view)

Thin fella's and bigger women!! Whats the deal ?? Posted: 12/3/2006 11:25:23 PM
More cushion for the pushin? For the guys that is. As for the girls, I'm sure they don't want a 300lb guy on top and then collapsing on them in the aftermath. Talk about having pancake for breakfast. Pass the maple syrup please!

blueangel1023

Joined: 11/23/2006

Msg: 35 (view)

Who dominates in your bedroom????? Posted: 12/3/2006 11:09:52 PM
I'm more of the submissive type. Although if he doesn't mind being the submissive, I always like to give minimal spanking

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