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you are mine Posted: 7/10/2006 10:39:25 AM
it seens so long ago that i lost hope things closed in all around me life was very hard to cope so deep was my pain all alone with a broken heart not caring nor thinking of tomorow than you came into my life your soul moved within me sending rays of hope as deep as the ocean hope soaring as high as a eagle in the sky a true love that was mine in times of ups and downs reaching out saw us through is it any wonder love why i love you so much

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love Posted: 7/10/2006 10:32:15 AM
to love someone is nothing to be love by someone else is something to love and be love by someone else is everything when you love there is no such thing as loving a little but loving all the way love will not ask you to give up your life but will ask you to make sacrifices i promise if you give me your heart i will love you until the end i will be there when life makes you cry to hold you in my arms to wipe your tears away with tender loving care no matter what tomorrow shall bring i will be there by your side no matter what to the end of time i don't know why God bless me with you i don't know why you want to honor me by giving me your heart and the love your heart holds but i am thankful to God and to you for allowing me to find my angel that was heaven sent just for me i cannot promise you that i will be with you forever for i know God will call me home but if i was giving another chance at life i will find you again and fall in love with you over and over again until the end of time

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is love blind Posted: 7/8/2006 10:42:20 PM
love is not blind it just sees what other's cannot see love is not blind for love is the only thing that can see the truth love is blind it can be hurt and pain when it is not shared by two people love is blind for it only sees what really matters love is blind hard to find compilcated to understand impossible to let go of love is blind for it is not meant to be seen through the eyes but it is meant to be seen through the heart

Joined: 12/9/2004

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is love true Posted: 7/8/2006 10:35:47 PM
love is that one person no matter what they do or say no matter how many time they hurt you,you cannot let them go they are the first thing you think about when you wake up they are the only thing you think of while you are awake they are the last thing you think about before you fall asleep your dreams will be about them you know it is true love for you only have love for that person and only that person no matter what tomorrow shal bring you will want to be there by their side holding them in your arms you will say to them here is my heart,take it for it is yours to love or to break here is my love for it is true love for as long as my heart beats my love for you will forever be true for i will love you with all that i am with each beat of my heart with each beat of my heart my love for you will grow for as long as my heart beats my heart will only beat out love for you when my heart stops beating my love will live forever in your heart

Joined: 12/9/2004

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Death by suicide Posted: 6/17/2006 8:31:47 PM
the thing is not everyone is help by meds nor treatments if you go to websites about mental health they will tell you not everyone is help by meds or treatments the thing is to understand that what works for one may not work for someone else,not everyone is the same yes it is true we may go through life dealing with the same things but we deal with them in differt ways,what has worked for you or someone else,may not work for someone else we all are differt and that is the key understanding that we all are differt,just because something helped you does not mean it will work for someone else i sat before a psychiatrist when he had to tell me it was sorry that he could not help me.he could not find any meds nor treatments that would help me he knew i was taking my meds cause once a week i had to have my blood tested so they will know i was taking my meds it is bad when counselors,doctors or psychiatrists look you in the eye and tell you they are sorry they cannot help you the thing about mental health problems is they do not know all of the answers,they have yet understood how the mind works and why the mind gets sick or break down the mind to man kind is still a mystery they can only guness how it works,what will work or will not work the thing is to understand that we all are differt and we have to find out own way to deal with life.understand that what works for one may not work for someone else the only thing we can do is accept each other as we are and for who we are,to understand each other and to let each live their own life,to be there to help someone when they ask for help you may not know nor understand how to help them,the thing is to be there for them

Joined: 12/9/2004

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Is it lying? Posted: 6/16/2006 11:28:15 AM
a relationship is suppose to be built on trust if you lie to someone than how can they trust you if you tell 1 lie how many more are you going to tell what will happen when they find out you have lie to them what will happen if they lose their trust in you once they lose trust in you most likely they will leave you than will you regret that you ever lie to them that is the thing about life some how the truth comes out in the end where there is darkest light will shine where the light shine there is no darkest the thing is each person must be able to trust each other if they cannot trust each other than the relationship will not last is not part of love is being able to trust the person when you tell someone you love them are you not placing your heart and the love your heart holds in their hands,are you not trusting them not to break your heart if you lie to them than how can they trust you with their heart

Joined: 12/9/2004

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Is it necessary to spill your whole history to a new g/f or b/f? Posted: 6/16/2006 11:23:00 AM
when 2 people meet,their past does not matter what does matter is where they want to go what someone did before they meet the other person does not matter it is in their past and it should stay in the past you cannot go back and change the past the only thing about the past if you have learn by the mistakes you had made when 2 people met it is a new beginning for each one it is a new start on life it is a new chance to find true love once and for all the thing about the past it is in the past and it is best to leave it in the pass

Joined: 12/9/2004

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Why do guys always do this to me? Does anyone else have this problem?... Posted: 6/16/2006 12:56:28 AM
let's see maybe cause some man now not all man the only thing they are after is sex.once they get what they want they leave,they stay as long as it takes for them to get what they want here is the thing here in true love the person does not care about the outside,nor do they care about sex,for that is not what they are after they are after the honor of winning the heart and the love the heart holds,they will prove to you their love is true,they will prove to you that you can trust them with your heart see what some people do not understand a relationship is not something you can rush into,for when you rush into a relationship you get your heart broken it takes time to get to know someone and to know if you can trust them with your heart.take the time to get to know the person they are on the inside and not the outside take the time to know the real person and not the person you think they are or the person they want you to think they are if it is true love they will wait on you to take the next step and they will not rush you into doing something you do not want to do for you see a true heart holds true love and you will know that love is true for your soul will tell you see if a man really love you he will take his time to get to know the person you are on the inside,he has gotten past the outside and he will not care about what is between your legs,for that is not what he is after he is only after 1 thing and that is 1 of the most precious thing in life,he is after the honor of winning you heart and the love your heart holds

Joined: 12/9/2004

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I'm so hurt I can't sleep Posted: 6/16/2006 12:47:58 AM
yes it is true 1 part of your life is over it will take time for your broken heart to heal but before you can heal you must bring out the pain you are holding in once you can bring the pain out you can deal with it once you can deal with it,than you can overcome it once you have overcome it than you are ready to move on with your life you have to be willing to take the time to let yourself heal you have to take the time for your broken heart to heal in time all things heal if you let them heal once you let yourself heal than you will understand that yes 1 life is over but it is also a new beginning it is a new start at life for you it is another chance to find true love,to find a love that will not end when you cry do not stop crying for crying is a way that the body heals it's self you must be willing to let the hurt and pain come out and leave your body you must be willing to release your pain so your body can heal it's self it is sad something life this had to happen and you are hurting and in pain it is sad that someone had to break your heart it is sad you are crying cause you are in pain but in time you will come to understand it is a new beginning and not a ending it is another chance to find true love and in time you will once again seek true love i pray 1 day that you will find that love you seek but first you must be willing to let yourself heal so you can move on with your life

Joined: 12/9/2004

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confused Posted: 6/16/2006 12:40:38 AM
a real true relationship takes time to grow first both of you have to know which way you want to go some stay as friendships while others go on to something else in order for it to work both of you have to want the same thing you have to be willing to sit down and talk to each other you have to be able to tell each other how you feel where you want the relationship to go you both have to be on the same page and want the same thing in order for a relationship to work it has to be taken in steps and they have to be baby steps.which mean you have to take your time and not rush into something you might regret doing sometimes we do not see the whole picture we only see what we want to see or we see only what they want us to see.we have to see the real true person they are inside. be able to get past the outside and see the person they are on the inside sometimes in order to see the whole picture you have to step back and stop doing what you are doing.in order to see the whole picture once you see the whole picture and you see the truth.than ask yourself honestly is this what you want in order for it to work both people have to be willing to take the time to get to know each other,the real people you are on the inside remember it takes time for true love to grow,you cannot rush it,for true love grows with each beat of the heart,for if it is true love it will never end for it will grow stronger with each beat of the heart it takes time to build a lasting relationship and it cannot be rush into

Joined: 12/9/2004

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Death by suicide Posted: 6/15/2006 10:35:16 PM
here in the USA they have a law called the baker act in some states it goes by a differt name it is a simple law and sometimes misused it gives the power to counselors,doctors,psychiatrist and the police the power if they think someone is 1) a harm to others or 2) a harm to theirsvles it also gives the power to people but in most states it takes 2 or more people to do it if they person does not got and seek help theirsevles than the baker act will be carry out what happens a judge will sign it than it will be sent to the police no matter where the person is the police will go and pick them up once the police pick up the person they will be taken to a mental ward or a mental hospital where they will be held against their will for 72 hours once the 72 hours are up they have to decide to keep them or set them free if the person is suicidal they will be place on a suicide watch where they will be watch all of the time,they will not be left alone now this law giving the power to the people can be misused and everyday it is 1 way is by when a couple is geting a divorce and 1 of them knows about the law the night before the court date they put the other person in the mental hospital by taking out a baker act against them now what happens when the person cannot show up in court the next day you can go to google.com and type in baker act and they have websites to tell you about it it was set up as a good law but people abuse it but now they are trying to change it and take the power of it out of the people's hands now when people go down to take out a baker act they do not check id nor do they check to see if what they are saying is true for the law tells them they do not have to,the law tells them if someone wants to take a baker act out on someone else they have to let them now what most people do not know nor understand is this when the police goes after someone who they know has any kind of mental problem,they do not take any chances with them.for any reason they will shot to kill with no questions ask so for you who do not understand about people like me,put yourself in our place knowing if you went to get help it can either get you locked up in a mental hospital against your will or you can get you killed the web is full of places that will educate you on all mental health issues it will also tell you what to do when you are facing someone in a crisis here is the thing here if someone comes up to you and they tell you they are suicidal they ask you for help but instead of helping them you made fun of them and told them no but worst of all you told them to go ahead and do it the next day you found out they did it cause you live with yourself knowing you might have been responsible for their death believe it or not it has happen and it happens all of the time for some it is hard for them to live with knowing they was responsible for someone death all because they did not want to help them but here is the thing we are put here to help each other out

Joined: 12/9/2004

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Death by suicide Posted: 6/15/2006 6:30:23 PM
the key to everything to life is knowledge,with knowledge comes understanding without knowledge you have ignorance,where there is ignorance there is no knowledge where there is no knowledge you have no understanding the thing here is people have differt beliefs,ideals,opinions and views and they have the right to express them no one has the right to tell someone else what they can or cannot say no one has the right to disrespect or offend someone else there is a way to talk to each other and share each other's beliefs,ideals,opinions and views. there is a way to do it in a non offending and respectful way even if it is agreeing that you can disagree and leave it as that the thing is each one of us the the right to live our lives the way we want to no one has the right to tell us how to live our lives we have the right to have and express our beliefs,ideals,opinions and views no one has the right to tell us we cannot do it if you really want to know why someone commits suicide educate yourself better yet find someone who has been there and ask them what made them do what they did but listen to them to what they will tell you,if you do not understand what they are saying than ask them to explain it to you than maybe you might be thankful for the life you have and you do not have their life you may walk away with a little more understand of the people you are puting down and making fun of 1 thing is life that is true some things in life we are in control of while there are things in life that we are not in control of it is like we can only control what we do or say we cannot control what someone else does or says 1 thing most people do not understand is this some of the mental health issues is hereditary it is pass down from 1 generation to the next this is why when you go to the doctor the ask you about your family history if everyone took a honest look into their family history they may be surprize at what they find the thing is why we do make fun at someone or something we do not understand why is it easy to make fun of someone than it is to try to understand them for some there is help while for others their is no help while some have people around them to help them others do not have people around them to help them i am a suicide survivor for those of who reads this stop and think about what that means when i commit suicide there was no one there for me there was not one there that i could turn to there was no one there to help me so you see not all of us are bless as others are but the key is that suicide is not the answer what the answer for you is you have to find that answer for yourself no one can help you unless you want the help there is help for you but you have to be willing to ask for that help once you ask for help you have to be willing to accept that help you have to be willing to do as they tell you to do to be willing to talk to them honestly and openly tell them how you feel do not hold nothing back let everything out once it is bought out in the open than you can find a way to deal with it once you find a way to deal with it than you can find a way to overcome it once you overcome it than you can move on with your life trust me i know it is not easy i know how it is to walk in hell everyday of your life but i also know suicide is not the answer life is and always will be the answer

Joined: 12/9/2004

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Death by suicide Posted: 6/15/2006 3:17:22 PM
to understand why someone commits suicide takes knowledge and understanding it does not take ignorance what i know about suicide i know by personal experience for it was not a love one nor a friend. for it was me who commitment suicide for i have seen my own death certificate and live to tell about it my death certificate was sign for there reasons 1) my heart stop beating 2) my brain stop functioning 3) all attempts to resuscitate me failed making it legal to declare me decease abling my death certificate to be sign cause of death suicide before my suicide everything was tried to save me life but all things failed years later they found the answer why i commit suicide they call it being bipolar and some who are bipolar also becomes suicidal.some seek help when they are while others do not and some do commit suicide leaving people asking and wondering why if you want to understand why someone commits suicide educate yourself and not speak out of ignorance seek knowledge and maybe you will understand that people do not ask to be how they are.for they understand that there are things in life that is out of our control.we do not ask our brains nor our bodies to break down if you understand that the body will get sick and things will happen to it,than while don't you understand the brain can get sick to.the only differt is when the body gets sick sometimes they can fix what is wrong but when the brain gets sick there is nothing they can do if you know anything about mental health you will understand that it not only affects the person but also the people around them,that is why they have support groups set up for people who are dealing with people who has a mental health issue so they will understand and know how to deal with them it is not only hard on the person but it is hard only the people around them.do not think they do not see the hurt and pain they are causing the people around them,do not think for a second they do not wish they do not cause them any hurt or pain understand that person is going through hell and they know they are puting the people around them through hell too.you say they are selfish for commiting suicide.but you are the one who is selfish for asking them to go through the hell they are going through if you really love someone you want to be out of the hurt and pain they are in,if you really love someone you do not want them to suffer day in and day out understand that there are some people that counselors,doctors nor psychiatrist can help,with all of the meds and technology we have today.yet still man kind has to admit there are some people they cannot help there are some people that they cannot do nothing for before you judge or put down someone for who they are walk in their shoes for awhile,walk in the hell they are walking in,feel the pain they feel and just maybe you will not judge someone so fast would you want to be locked up in a mental hospital for the rest of your life to be protected from yourself,for that is the only thing they can do for you.there is no meds nor treatments that will work for you look in our history and see the people who has and learn how to deal with their mental issues and see what they have done for man kind and you might be surprize who these people was than maybe you will understand they are not weak but they are some of the strongest people there are,for even with all of the problems they have,even living and walking through hell,they are able to reach out and help someone else they are able to reach out of their own hell and help someone up from their's.instead of making someone feel bad about theirsevles they try to help someone feel better,instead of knocking someone down,they help them pick theirsevles up why do they do it cause they know every human life is precious and when 1 is gone you cannot replace it

Joined: 12/9/2004

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Single Dad and Daughter - Need help with Birds and Bee's Posted: 6/14/2006 9:13:03 PM
find a woman who you trust to sit down and talk to her about it it is easier for a girl to talk to a woman about sex and starting her period if you have a doctor for her ask them if they have a nurse that she can talk to some schools now a days have sex education classes for kids to take now and learn all they need to know about sex talk to the principal ask them if they have a teacher than can talk to her but you might find out she knows all about sex but didn't want to talk or tell you children now a days are getting alot smarted than they use to be and they know more than they are letting on if you have to be the one to talk to her do not do as i done with my daughters i cracked up laughing and it made it worst

Joined: 12/9/2004

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my X justin~ i think he haunts me! Posted: 6/14/2006 10:46:14 AM
i wonder since it is being talk about and it is being done in a good respectful way how many knows by first hand experience what it is like to be suicidal yes suicide has touch many lives and it will keep touching many lives until people understand that it is not the answer.but getting help is i am bi polar what comes being bi polar for some people is being suicidal, it comes in 2 stages the high stage and the low stage.when some people are in the low stage of it they become suicidal some get help for it,while others do not some live to see tomorrow and it is sad some do not suicidal came be bought on by many reasons,sometimes it is bought on by dealing with a broken heart.for the heart is the weakest point in human beings.some can get hurt and have their heart broken they find a way to deal with it,once they deal with it they can move on with their lives while there are some who cannot deal with it,without being able to deal with it they cannot overcome it so they can move on with their lives sometimes it will destory them suicidal thoughts can be bought on by a physical problem where the pain is too much for them to live with suicidal thoughts comes on from other forms of mental health issues,they do not know yet all the reason why someone commits suicide,all they know is when someone is suicidal they are in a life and death crisis they know if the person does not seek help there is a good chance that they might not live to see tomorrow but honestly how many people knows or they think they can help someone who is suicidal if someone came up to you and said i am suicidal will you know how to help them,without pushing them over the edge

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Single Parents Are So Busy....huh? Posted: 6/14/2006 10:25:59 AM
in order for a single parent to date,they must have someone they can trust to watch their children not every single parent has someone they can trust to watch their children not every single parent has a support system made up of family and friends around them as my children was growing up i never had someone to watch them so i could go out where we lived people was not set up to watch 5 children at 1 time no one has seen nor heard of a man having full custody of his 5 children most people who lived around us only had 2 children and sometimes they had problems taking care of them for some people it is easy to date while others it is not

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Single Parents Are So Busy....huh? Posted: 6/14/2006 12:22:01 AM
now i know this is going to sound stupid but what is a date anyway.it has been so long since i have been on one i don't remember what it is on Dec 17,1993 when i was giving full custody of my 5 children my life as i knew it ended.for the past 13 years now my children has and always will come before myself and anyone now with 5 children sometimes you do not have no free time to worry about dating cause you are too busy taking care of your kids. first you have to find a woman who is willing to look past your children and see the man behind them,than she has to be willing to take the time to get to know you,than you have to find out if you can trust her around your kids.it is like a woman has to know if she can trust the man around her kids i am a full time dad and there is no days off,my ex does not want nothing to do with her kids it is a full time job 24/7 with no time off and if you want to do something you have to do it when your kids are in school but most of that time is spent doing the shoping,cleaning the house,paying the bills,doctor or dentist appts or anything else that comes up.even when you are sick you have to get up and take care of the kids,for there is no one else around to do it.you do not have no one you can depend on to help you out when you need it sure i wish i could go on a date but first i have to find someone to date someone who understand that children come first no matter what

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Has anyone been brave enough to meet someone with no pic at all? Posted: 6/13/2006 11:58:48 PM
if you was blind would you care about how they look would you care more about how they treated you if it is true love it will never fade away as the outside does over time for if it is true love it will last forever with true love the love grows with each beat of the heart

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do men actually exist that date women with kids?? Posted: 6/13/2006 11:52:20 PM
i always thought that it was a packages deal it does not matter if it is a woman or man with children.it is a packages deal you take the whole packages or you take nothing at all i never had a problem dating a woman with children,as long as she didn't have a problem dating a man with children i have always dating a woman with children i always looked at it as a ready made family.who is missing a part of it.they are just waiting for the missing piece to come along.once that missing piece is found after time it will seen like it has always been there

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Custodial dads how much money did it cost you to get custody? Posted: 6/13/2006 11:46:24 PM
my was free people wanted to see the impossible done they knew at the time it was impossible for me to get custody so along the way people volunteer to help,i even got children services to help with them on your side no one can beat them cause the judge will listen to them before they listen to anyone else on Dec 17,1993 when i walked out of the courtroom with full custody of my 5 children people saw the impossible was possible,for i didn't give up no matter how many times i tried nor did i listen to people when they told me it was impossible to do you know it is bad when you find a lawyer to take you case.the first time you meet her she gives you a 50-50 chance of losing.but she found out that miracles do come true.for the past 13 years i have been living that miracle i would not trade it for nothing in the world and if i had to do it all over again i would do it in a heart beat

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IS THERE SUCH A THING AS HONESTY IN A RELATIONSHIP Posted: 6/12/2006 10:47:16 PM
a relationship is to be made out of honesty and trust if it is not than it will not last

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Single dads with full custody Posted: 6/12/2006 10:45:27 PM
it does no matter who pays or do not pay child support what is more important is the children are being put first and their basic needs are being met do they have a place to live,clothes to wear and food to eat. when the parents argue and fight the children are caught in the middle cause they still love both parents,i am learning though my children as they grew older then have always knew what was going on the knew which parent love them,they knew which parent cared about them and they knew which parent was there for them when they get older the other parents who was never there nor help take care of them,will find out what that child or children thinks about it,in my ex wife case it was not nice what my children had to say to her as 1 by 1 they got older to tell her what they thought of her i never put her down nor allow anyone else to put her down around my children,i let my child decide theirsevles what they think of their mom when i first went down to the child support office cause the state made me go down there,they treated me like crap and i have full custody of my children,i am not the one who has to pay it,if i had to pay it there will be no problem for anything my children needed i will make sure they had it but there is not only so call dead beat dads around but there are also so called dead beat mothers around too

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if you ever need me Posted: 6/11/2006 10:37:50 PM
if you ever need me i'll be right here to chase away the sadness and wipe away a tear if you ever need me i'll be tow steps behind to follow in your footsteps and hear what's on your mind if you need me you'll never have to fear that your presence isn't important and your love isn't dear if you ever need me i'll always be around to bring the laughter where deep in your heart it's found you'll never have to owrry for i'll always be here to chase away the sadness and wipe away a tear i am here for you now,always and forever

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our 2 hearts will beat as 1 Posted: 6/11/2006 9:39:33 PM
every second i spend with you really is a dream comes true when i am with you i feel do free i truly an as happy as can be when i see you my heart races i could spot you in a millon faces whenever the phone rings or my mobile dings or i can a e-mail i hope and pray it will be you telling me your love is true my life without you would be a mew i would be in total distress so i am sending you this to say i love you more with every day soul mated we are forever and ever let's hope one day maybe we can be togther until our life here on earth is done our 2 hearts will beat as 1 now,always and forever

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true love Posted: 6/11/2006 9:33:03 PM
love comes through the eyes that help me see this wonderful surprize i see this wonderful woman whom of which i can always stand love comes through the ears that never hears fears they help me hear the words from you and help me pull through love comes through the hands that makes you my woman your touch creates chills which makes me go through thrills love comes through the mouth that will 1 day make you my spouse you say that right things at the right time which helps me keep my state of mind love comes through dreams that make us gleam i dream about life with you in it and everything seens fine love comes through smiles that extend for miles you can see all the joy that comes from my heart love comes through the heart that makes me want to never part your heart is all i need to get by without making me cry love comes through each one of us that makes us a must i don't think i make it without you and your love so very true

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love blooms like a rose Posted: 6/11/2006 9:16:21 PM
when you first fall in love you'll feel good all of the time each morning sun's arrival will find you feeling divine i believe the magic of love affects most of us the same way we often find it difficult planning schedules for our day love blooms like a rose it's beauty of a special kind you can fall in love one moment and it will last your lifetime

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what do u think of a single dad... Posted: 6/11/2006 2:42:21 PM
since 12-17-93 i have been a single father of 5 children yes it is hard for a man with children to find a woman to date him but it is also hard for a woman with childen to find a man to date her you just have to keep looking and who knows 1 day you will find her no one knows what tomorrow holds but sometimes when you are not looking for something is when you find it most of the time when you find it,it have been under your nose all of the time but you was too busy looking else where to see it

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do men actually exist that date women with kids?? Posted: 6/11/2006 2:38:39 PM
let's turn it around are, there actually woman who date men with kids ? life is a 2 way street what comes around goes it around yes it is hard for a woman with children to find a man to date her but it is also hard for a man with children to find a woman who will date him i never had a problem dating a woman with kids all the woman that i have dated had kids and we didn't have any problems

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Sex Talk and Children Posted: 6/11/2006 2:35:29 PM
being a single father of 5 children 3 girls and 2 boys,i never had to worry about talking about sex to them.most schools now a day has sex education classes that teach children about sex which is how my children learn about sex,besides what their friend at school told them i had a hard enough time talking to my oldest daughter when she got her first period i was alreayd prepare for it,but it was hard for me to talk to her about it and keep a straight face.i knew she was upset already who wants to go to their dad and tell him they started their period but i had people standing by who knew more about it than i did and i just let them talk to her about it.

Joined: 12/9/2004

Msg: 29 (view)

How soon can you introduce your kids to a date? Posted: 6/11/2006 2:28:51 PM
when you know your children will be safe around them when you know you can trust them to be around them when they have proven that you can trust them around your children to cut out problems between your children and them ask your children what they think about you dating someone how they feel about you finding someone to share your life with to be there for you as you are for them to love you as you love them most parents forget that what affects their lives also affects their children lives i have always put my children before myself and anyone else i have learn when it comes to dating it is best to ask your children what they think of it if they do not like the person you are dating than you will run into problems between your children and them if your children are not happy than you will not be happy you cannot make your children accpet and love someone just beacuse you want to

Joined: 12/9/2004

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Single dads with full custody Posted: 6/11/2006 2:23:20 PM
on 12-16-92 i was giving full custody of my 5 children now about child support i did not ask for it,but the state went after her for it i did not want to go through all of the problems that comes with it

Joined: 12/9/2004

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WHEN I LOOK INTO YOUR EYES Posted: 4/23/2006 9:34:09 AM
1 day when i looked into your eyes,i finally seen and understand what i have been missing,yes i know i am slow and you been waiting all of this time for me to see it.you been waiting for me to understand what i have been not seeing and to understand what i was missing you knew all along what i have been missing and you been waiting for me to find it,when i look into your eyes and found what i been missing,it made me realize,what it was i have been missing,for that day i seen for the first time,i have understood when i have been looking into you eyes,i have been looking into the eyes of a angel that was heaven sent just for me.i ask myself what have i done to be bless with you and why did you pick me to give your heart to. for the first time when i look into your eyes and i see the love your heart holds for me,i realize and understood that i have been bless by God when you gave you gave your heart to me,i understood that time that your heart holds unconditional love for you never put any conditions on your love.i understood that you have acept me as i am and for who i am,even the times when i can be a butthole. you still love me you know i am not prefect and i will make mistakes,but yet when i do you still love ,e and you forgive me,when times gets hard you are always there by my side,you are there to share the good times with me and you are there in the bad times,no matter what life brings you are there by my side,holding me in your arms,as i am there for you holding you in my arms,what ever life brings to you. when i look into your eyes i see the angel that heaven has sent for me,i wonder in my heart what did i do to be bless by you,what did i do to you for you to give me your heart and the love your heart holds,to open your heart up to allow my love into your heart,to allow it to grow with each beat of your heart. for you must know in your heart that my love for you is true,you must know in your heart that i will not do anything to hurt you,nor cause you any kind of pain,you must see something in me that no one else does.for you to share your life with me,i know your heart holds as you know my heart holds, love,caring and understandering,you know my heart as you know your heart,you know in my heart i hold true unconditional love,you know with each beat of my heart that love grows for you,you know with each beat of my heart that love grows stronger for you,you know with each beat of my heart that love will not stop,you know when my heart stops beating.my love for you will live forever in your heart,for with each beat of your heart my love will grow for you. now it has come time to say thank you,for finding me when no one else wanted me,thank you for giving me your heart and the love your heart holds,thank you are allowing my love to enter your heart and grow with each beat of your heart, as i look into your eyes feel your heart beat against my i know in my heart,when i look into your eyes i am looking into the eyes of the angel that was sent down from heaven just for me,you know before you fall alseep you hear me say i love you now,always and forever. you hear me pray thank you God for allowing me to find the angel you have sent down from heaven just for me,thank you Lord for giving me another day with her,to show her how much i love her,thank you Lord for allowing me to find the angel that you sent down from heaven just for me

Joined: 12/9/2004

Msg: 1 (view)

love is Posted: 2/18/2006 2:45:02 AM
love is compassion cause it cares about the other 1 and their feelings,love is unconditional for it has no conditions in it.for it does not say do this nor do that.it does not try to change the person into something they are not,nor does not want to be.nor does love try to change someone into someone who they do not want to be.for love accpets the person as they are and for who they are.love has no ending for love is infinte.for love only has a beginning it starts when you allow it into your heart and let it grow with each beat of your heart.love is made up of compromises that both agree on and it suits both of their needs.for love is not 1 side but 2 sided.love is faithful for it always stays true to the other peron.love pure for it is always and forever true.love is understanding for love knows the other person is differt and it accepts them as they are and for who they are.love is consider of the other person and their feelings and needs.love is patient for it waits until the other person is ready to take the next step.love does not rush the person into doing something they do not want to do.love does not say do this if you love me.for love does not make someone do something they do not want to do.nor does it rush them into something they are not ready for.for love waits on them to dcide on what they want to do and when they want to do it.love is not selfish for it puts the other person,their feelings and needs before theirs.love makes everything possible,for there is nothing impossible that love cannot do,if you are willing to let love work.love is kind for love does not cause hurt nor pain only people who do not know what love is cause hurt and pain.for if you really love someone you do not want to cause them hurt nor pain but you want to keep them safe from them.with love you can use it to find the common ground that both of you can share.than you can use this common ground to build a bridge that will bring you togther,than once you are togther you can see where it will lead you.love does not care about the inside for it knows the outside is not important.for love knows the only thing matter is what is on the inside,for over time the outside will fade away but if the inside is true than it will never fade away.but it will only grow stronger with each beat of the heart.for love does not end only people who do not know what love is ends love.love is not ungrateful,for it appreciate everything you do for it.love is enduring for it endures all things.love is forgiving for love does not hold a grudge,only people do.if it is true love it will not end,for it will only grow with each beat of your heart.if you let it love will last forever and ever amen.....

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