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Will she be impressed?  Love to chat.... Joined: 11/28/2006 Msg: 197 (view)   Paying for dinner date with 2 for 1 coupon. Will she be impressed? Posted: 4/26/2007 4:29:44 PM Using a 2 for 1 is not the worst thing if he shared the cost...but doing this is just plain cheap...give the guy the boot. Personally, I think a coupon should be pulled out after dating awhile.  Love to chat.... Joined: 11/28/2006 Msg: 6 (view)   Why won't he let me go? Posted: 4/26/2007 4:17:03 PM Time and distance are great healers...put this guy behind u and in time u will get over him...u will probably think of him from time to time...but the only right person for u is one that feels u are important enough to treat u in the right way  Love to chat.... Joined: 11/28/2006 Msg: 79 (view)   Romance: Is it DEAD!!! Posted: 4/8/2007 1:16:23 PM Men that don't tend to the little things are not worth your time...move on...I have found that 90% of the men in my experience are romantic...so maybe your approach is not right  Love to chat.... Joined: 11/28/2006 Msg: 6 (view)   Dilemma Posted: 3/26/2007 6:15:45 PM This is why people end up jaded and fickle...you are doing something that you inherently know doesn't feel right to you...move on and let this girl find a guy that is going to treat her right...  Love to chat.... Joined: 11/28/2006 Msg: 64 (view)   what do women really want Posted: 3/26/2007 12:37:20 PM A real lady wants a rare commodity..... a gentleman  Love to chat.... Joined: 11/28/2006 Msg: 20 (view)   The waiting game Posted: 3/26/2007 12:34:27 PM You have waited too long... a guy will make an effort if he is interested and will play games when he is not...he is playing with you...  Love to chat.... Joined: 11/28/2006 Msg: 63 (view)   Does I'm busy always mean Not interested? Posted: 3/26/2007 12:31:43 PM 90% of the time...it means not interested....I will save the 10% for the honest folks out there...  Love to chat.... Joined: 11/28/2006 Msg: 11 (view)   Is this real or am I naive? Posted: 3/26/2007 12:29:43 PM Being naive is refreshing and a good quality in my books! Just be thankful that you did not get your daughter involved with this person. You should always protect your children from online friendships until you have developed trust for the person in person...even then it should only be after considerable time has passed.  Love to chat.... Joined: 11/28/2006 Msg: 20 (view)   don't understand men..... Posted: 3/26/2007 12:23:31 PM Many men just enjoy the chase...it sounds like this is the case...move on...  Love to chat.... Joined: 11/28/2006 Msg: 18 (view)   Knowing When To Trust the Recently Separated Posted: 3/26/2007 12:20:12 PM They need to be legally separated and completed their first rebound relationship...otherwise it is just a plain waste of time...  Love to chat.... Joined: 11/28/2006 Msg: 298 (view)   Do you want the world to know what a jerk he is? Posted: 3/26/2007 12:15:22 PM I think my jerk does a good job at letting the world know that he is a jerk so my help is not required.  Love to chat.... Joined: 11/28/2006 Msg: 21 (view)   Ever had the feeling you are being lied to? were you right? Posted: 3/25/2007 8:02:41 PM Most of the guys I have dated were good guys and very straightforward. I never had any doubts with them. It took me until my 40s to meet my first jerk...what a lier...must of thought I was naive...Fortunately though...he was my only one  Love to chat.... Joined: 11/28/2006 Msg: 45 (view)   How much can a passionate kiss lead to sex? Posted: 2/15/2007 3:21:47 PM Why don't you have sex without passionate kissing. That way, you don't need to worry about it happening the other way around. Why wait afterall?  Love to chat.... Joined: 11/28/2006 Msg: 36 (view)   should I tell him I know he was playing me? Posted: 2/15/2007 3:15:06 PM Basically, players have what I call 'psych issues' in that they do what they do because fundamentally, they're fuKKKed up (for lack of a technical term) and they're self absorbed, selfish people. So if you are going to involve yourself with one of them, AND allow it to continue, you're in for a ride where you're going to get hurt in the end. It sounds complicated, but it's not...YOU get hurt in the end... The above is good advice. Move on and find a guy that doesn't make you feel like this. You deserve better  Love to chat.... Joined: 11/28/2006 Msg: 2 (view)   Who stole the basics? Posted: 2/12/2007 10:23:36 AM If you are over 40, I generally find they are in relationships already unless they are widowed or their wife ditched them. If they are over 40 and those two scenarios don't fit...then look on the bright side...good sex, some sex...is better than no sex.  Love to chat.... Joined: 11/28/2006 Msg: 2 (view)   i hate being alone Posted: 2/12/2007 10:16:45 AM It is better to be alone than lonely with someone. You will find someone one day...hang in there hun!  Love to chat.... Joined: 11/28/2006 Msg: 722 (view)   Why men wont date independant women Posted: 2/12/2007 10:04:57 AM Maybe they haven't read the study that came out recently that showed that smart, highly paid women have more orgasms and more satisfaction with their sex lifes! LOL  Love to chat.... Joined: 11/28/2006 Msg: 890 (view)   What do you think of a guy who is in a relationship and is still active on a dating site? Posted: 2/12/2007 9:58:29 AM In one word - LOSER! There are always people that are going to cheat and the internet is giving them more access. Once a cheater, always a cheater. Better to move on and find a guy that is willing to take his profile down as a sign of respect. And yes, there are still some that are willing to do this.  Love to chat.... Joined: 11/28/2006 Msg: 199 (view)   what if a guy wants to move in right off the bat after meeting you Posted: 2/12/2007 9:37:14 AM Run for your life!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! They are probably emotionally unstable and needy.  Love to chat.... Joined: 11/28/2006 Msg: 188 (view)   IS IT WRONG TO SET A MAN UP TO CHECK HIM OUT?? Posted: 2/12/2007 9:29:48 AM If your only dating, yes it is wrong. If you are boyfriend/girlfriend, then heck...who the hell cares....better find out than waste your time with an idiot. But if you go to all the effort to set them up - you probably know they are an idiot already. I think if you have something special then the trust would be there.  Love to chat.... Joined: 11/28/2006 Msg: 52 (view)   Is it better to be with someone or to be single? Posted: 1/31/2007 3:51:23 PM Best to be on your own till you really know who you are and what you are about. After that, cuddling with someone at night is always better than sleeping alone.  Love to chat.... Joined: 11/28/2006 Msg: 30 (view)   Come and Meet Me Posted: 1/31/2007 3:44:59 PM A gentleman would come to see you at a place you feel comfortable meeting at. A man would meet you half way. Only a lazy jerk would ask you to do this. Don't waste your time.  Love to chat.... Joined: 11/28/2006 Msg: 123 (view)   O.K.....On a Serious Note,Do Women Think About Serious Relationships Anymore? Posted: 1/31/2007 3:37:41 PM Once upon a time.....but we don't live in Oz anymore. Times have changed and neither sex seems to be looking for a serious relationship. Why? Effort maybe? Or maybe the internet has changed our social values. Afterall, the grass seems to be always greener online. Disappointing for sure.  Love to chat.... Joined: 11/28/2006 Msg: 18 (view)   The Serial Monogomist or the Experienced Dater Posted: 1/27/2007 6:02:02 AM Handlethis, Actually, ....I agree with all your statements. The reality is that when you are 40, many of the good ones are gone (both men and women) so that is when I think we should date for fun but really look and hold out for the ones that are capable of a relationship and all that it entails even if it does not last a life time. A few years of something is much more meaningful than a couple of dates.  Love to chat.... Joined: 11/28/2006 Msg: 21 (view)   what is wrong ? Posted: 1/26/2007 7:11:17 PM Delayed ejaculation refers to an inhibition of ejaculation. The male is unable to ejaculate, either during intercourse, or with manual stimulation in the presence of a partner. Causes, incidence, and risk factors Most men ejaculate within 2 to 4 minutes after onset of active thrusting in intercourse. Men with retarded ejaculation may be entirely unable to ejaculate in some circumstances (for example, during intercourse), or may only be able to ejaculate with great effort and after prolonged intercourse (for example 30 to 45 minutes). The most common causes are psychological. Common psychological causes include: A strict religious background causing the person to view sex as sinful Lack of attraction for a partner Conditioning caused by unique or atypical masturbation patterns Traumatic events  Love to chat.... Joined: 11/28/2006 Msg: 17 (view)   what is worng ? Posted: 1/26/2007 5:02:31 PM First, too much information for a public forum. I am sympathetic but I think you will find it hard to find dates from now on. Go see your doctor and get help.  Love to chat.... Joined: 11/28/2006 Msg: 32 (view)   Women that won't work Posted: 1/26/2007 4:41:40 PM You seem like a good guy but who would want to work if they didn't have too.  Love to chat.... Joined: 11/28/2006 Msg: 7 (view)   The Serial Monogomist or the Experienced Dater Posted: 1/26/2007 4:33:43 PM Date the fun one till you find and marry the good one!  Love to chat.... Joined: 11/28/2006 Msg: 82 (view)   would you marry this man Posted: 1/22/2007 5:49:08 PM I agree with msg 78...call Jerry Springer for some airtime and can you fight while you are on the show?  Love to chat.... Joined: 11/28/2006 Msg: 10 (view)   She broke my heart Posted: 1/2/2007 5:17:02 PM Sorry hun...hang in there...the internet has changed the way we communicate...just as it is a means of communication to hook up with someone...it is also a means to say goodbye to someone...yes, in person would be ideal ...but most people (men and women) do not make that effort...because it has become a cultural norm...move on and don't take it to heart...she is not the one for you...  Love to chat.... Joined: 11/28/2006 Msg: 320 (view)   Why are older women not into younger guys??? Posted: 1/2/2007 5:00:08 PM Some younger guys are fun to hang with and make great dates and are potentially relationship material - just as guys who are the same age or older...just keep trying to you get a yes....  Love to chat.... Joined: 11/28/2006 Msg: 735 (view)   What do you think of a peron committing suicide over a broken heart?? Posted: 1/1/2007 7:55:42 PM Sad...and unnecessary...  Love to chat.... Joined: 11/28/2006 Msg: 19 (view)   what a way to end the year Posted: 1/1/2007 7:40:39 PM You have one life to live...do what makes you happy...and ignore the naysayers...a secret romance is one of the best types...second only to a real one that is out in the open...  Love to chat.... Joined: 11/28/2006 Msg: 16 (view)   Im so broken hearted Posted: 1/1/2007 7:36:28 PM Move on...you deserve to be treated much better...why go through life being treated that way...it is not worth it...someone will love you for who you are and appreciate you...it is a much better feeling and one to look forward too...  Love to chat.... Joined: 11/28/2006 Msg: 63 (view)   How do I decide between 2 great guys????????? :-( Posted: 12/27/2006 2:43:56 PM It really depends on what you want in your life right now...if you are looking to settle down forever...then think about who is more thoughtful...they are the ones that are more likely to do this for you in the future...if you are not looking forever but just a boyfriend to have fun with...then go for the hotty that you dig...your friends/family can't tell you who...but they usually know you well enough to point you in the right direction or save you from making a mistake...guy 1 seems to have more long term potential...  Love to chat.... Joined: 11/28/2006 Msg: 1096 (view)   Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met? Posted: 12/27/2006 3:44:04 AM I think it is possible to feel that you are falling in love with someone you never met....as so much of love is a meeting of the minds....and that is possible with talk/email/chat...but meeting in person determines whether that feeling is a reality or not....what if they are a really bad kisser... that will end things for sure...I had that experience anyway....  Love to chat.... Joined: 11/28/2006 Msg: 11 (view)   Can't get back to normal Posted: 12/27/2006 3:26:46 AM You know you are a little hotty....some girl is going to be nuts about you one day....and then you will for sure forget about this girl...  Love to chat.... Joined: 11/28/2006 Msg: 13 (view)   she died Posted: 12/26/2006 8:14:58 PM OP...please accept my deepest sympathies...you are a true gent...and obviously capable of great love and what a lucky woman your wife was to have had you in her life...she was truly blessed and I am sure she knew that...even with her illness...you feel love in your heart afterall... things will get better for you...and you will experience love and happiness again...it may not be the same...but you will go on...  Love to chat.... Joined: 11/28/2006 Msg: 99 (view)   Where are all the good guys? Posted: 12/26/2006 8:09:27 PM Unfortunately for us...most got married when they were in their early 20's...those are the really good guys...there are still some out there but we need to kiss a lot of toads to find them...which can be fun sometimes...  Love to chat.... Joined: 11/28/2006 Msg: 8 (view)   Can't get back to normal Posted: 12/26/2006 8:05:13 PM OP....time heals and you will find someone one day....I am concerned about you though ...if things don't improve....go talk to your doc...and get some support to come to terms with this...  Love to chat.... Joined: 11/28/2006 Msg: 21 (view)   life after loving a user Posted: 12/26/2006 7:54:21 PM OP...wow, that is quite the story...I feel for you hun...I know that things seem really bad right now but they will get better...there are good women out there ....you seem like you wear your heart on your sleeve...take a lot of time getting to know someone next time around...and I mean lots...if they really care for you...they will hang in there until you are ready to try again...but for now...take a break and concentrate on your kids...and yourself...  Love to chat.... Joined: 11/28/2006 Msg: 38 (view)   The 15 date rule.....0R date and dash... which is better??? Posted: 12/25/2006 2:32:36 PM OP...it depends on what you are looking for...if you just want a good time with someone you find attractive...then date, have sex and dash....if you are looking for sex within a committed relationship...then state that up front and have sex after that commitment is in place...  Love to chat.... Joined: 11/28/2006 Msg: 23 (view)   It's finally happened... Posted: 12/25/2006 2:22:11 PM Congrats...I have found that if the date goes well...ask her if she will go out with you again...if she says yes...then a simple kiss on the cheek will set the right tone for the next date...  Love to chat.... Joined: 11/28/2006 Msg: 269 (view)   Do Men REALLY Like to Cuddle? Posted: 12/25/2006 1:58:13 PM Men love to cuddle... not all will admit it though...generally they are big babies...and as sensitive as a baby's bum  Love to chat.... Joined: 11/28/2006 Msg: 32 (view)   Waiting till after New Years to say goodbye..... Posted: 12/25/2006 1:52:03 PM It is best to be honest and not lead someone on...let her go and find the man of her dreams! She will then know what fulfillment means....   Show ALL Forums