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Thread: Three wonderful weeks, now he's gone

Joined: 11/30/2006

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Three wonderful weeks, now he's gone Posted: 7/19/2008 11:27:29 AM
Hey bass girl, I read your profile and it indicates you are talented, intelligent, and diversified in your interests. You're a sweet girl who just experienced a beginning of a quality relationship. You knew it was temperary but that doesn't make it FEEL any different than if it had been a guy you knew living in the same town. You met a guy who struck a responsive chord for you, it felt good, you enjoyed giving and receiving the attention of another and now he's gone. Of course you feel bad. Don't worry about it but be reasonable about it and use it to help learn more about yourself. You lack self confidence like most folks who ask for advice on these threads. You're normal girl, maybe a bit naive in the ways of love, but it's all normal. You don't need advice from seasoned cynics who think they have a handle on who they are and what they want, let alone what you need and want. These folks lack the patience to allow a relationship to develop and evolve. Just read some of their outlandish profiles. Most of these folks are fast food addicts who equate relationships to the drive through at McDonalds---you want fries with that big mac?

Joined: 11/30/2006

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exotic dancers Posted: 4/13/2008 1:56:28 PM
Hey agent, aren't you on your high horse---you calvary? You should try getting the "what" not the "how". That young lady spells OK, short of a few inverted characters and ommitted punctuation which is not an indication of poor spelling necessarily but indicative of emotional interference or her mental capacity outpacing her physical typing ability. Either way your the kind of person she's describing.

Joined: 11/30/2006

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Why do guys always do this to me? Does anyone else have this problem?... Posted: 11/28/2007 1:32:45 PM
Wow. I read these forms periodically and have never felt a need to reply, until now. ShaunaDanielle you sound like a very sensitive and caring person, but naive. I would recommend you reevaluate and reframe your beliefs and values as to what constitutes a "relationship". Jokes, as mentioned are not funny, they are cruel and demeaning, and should never be considered acceptable behavior. Relationships are based upon trust---this would not be a trusting behavior. The guy has already related his intentions by blocking you and shutting off all communications. I'm sorry for your hurt but you have been used, if not abused. Find someone you can talk to, a minister, counselor, family, someone you trust with your life, so you can move on and not continue to subject yourself to this agony, but understand why it occurs so you can prevent and avoid it in the future. I wish you well, and you should know there will be many better days and relationships in your future.

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