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Joined: 11/30/2006

Msg: 18 (view)

Longest orgasm Posted: 10/3/2007 7:11:22 AM
Why can't anyone just give her a straight answer. Longest I ever had was quite long (for a man) probably around 50 seconds. maybe only 40 or so. It wasn't so much a special technique, as it was I was under the influence. Which of course effects time perception, but she was sober, and that was her honest estimate. I definitely wish I could have those all the time. Usually very few of them would even clear 15 seconds. Gotta envy females for their ability to have em longer.

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Is Height an issue to Men? Posted: 7/26/2007 12:37:08 AM
They both have their benefits. Short chicks are fun to fling around in bed. Tall girls are way better for standing up positions.

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Should prostitution be legal? Posted: 7/22/2007 12:29:31 AM
I think it's pretty gross, but I don't think we have a right to forbid others. Kinda how I feel about seeing Adam Sandler films.

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Super short women wanting WAY taller guys? Posted: 7/22/2007 12:07:11 AM
A girl wanting a tall guy isn't just about how it's relative to her height. For most girls, tall is inherently attractive. It's not just how your height compares to hers, but also to all other men....just how it goes. ....to compare it. You don't have to be a fat guy to want a girl who's in good shape. The difference of course, being that men born short can't do much about it.

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People who just write how are you Posted: 7/21/2007 3:55:22 PM
Most of the opening line I receive are brief, and I'm fine with that. It's a pretty well designed site. If someone answers your brief opener with "that's it? you have to try harder than THAT!" there's a fancy little delete button, and you're good to go.

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The Best Part About Being single is.................. Posted: 7/20/2007 3:06:48 PM
Bathroom clutter is a thing of the past. Bye bye eyelash curler, make up kit, 4 kinds of lotion etc... EDIT: Oh, the BEST part? I just listed the first thing I thought of. Best part has to be being able to have fun with more people.

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Movie quotes NOT to use on a first date. Posted: 7/20/2007 3:03:59 PM
"Let's do the whole ***ing village!" -- Platoon Definitely would be in bad taste.

Joined: 11/30/2006

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People who just write how are you Posted: 7/20/2007 2:57:25 PM
I sometimes recieve rather plain opening messages like this. Nothing wrong with it. It conveys interest. I'm not going to be deciding if I like someone or not based on their opener.

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Accepting a compliment. Posted: 7/20/2007 2:53:47 PM
I do know what you mean. I tend to follow it instead with a "glad you think so".

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HOT pepper lovers!!! Posted: 7/20/2007 2:51:07 PM
I for one put Tapatio on way more food than is probably natural.

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Is your woman a backstabbing wench? And, do you care? Posted: 6/12/2007 2:56:52 AM
I briefly dated this girl who I met through a friend. She was always saying bad things...ABOUT OUR MUTUAL FRIEND, through whom I met her. Opted to stop seeing her.

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As a guy, I find it offensive... Posted: 6/5/2007 11:48:28 PM
Being offended is overrated.

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Play dumb ladies, Don't show how smart u really are, you might get a man that way. Posted: 6/5/2007 9:31:22 PM
Male intimidation is a myth. embraced and promoted by two sets of people: A. Extreme feminists who believe that men are interested in oppressing them, and fear them being anything but stupid bimbos. B. Women who are unsuccessful with men, and would prefer not to look inward to the cause. and of course, combinations of the two. oh and C. Spineless men who seek to suck up to and please women, by identifying themselves as the enlightened exception. As for the rest of you? Don't feel too bad if you bought it. But you're doing yourself a disservice the longer you let it remain in your head.

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Do You Believe Playing Hard To Get is Important? Posted: 6/5/2007 8:56:03 PM
"Are women turned off by men who are too easy to catch" Usually " Or men turned off by women too easy to catch?" Seldom. There are 3 reasons that women often play hard to get. 1. They without meaning to assume the same laws of attraction that apply for them, apply for men. 2. They enjoy the flattery of being chased, they want to feel they are worth chasing. 3. They want to prove to themselves that a guy likes them enough to chase them. 4. They've been misinformed, that it's a good idea. Hmmm..waste time chasing a girl because she A, doesn't undestand men, B wants her ego stroked, C wants me to "Prove" my affection D. Has had her head fillled with nonsense. OR have fun with this girl over here who knows what she wants, wnats me, and doesn't care to fuck around......easy choice.

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So please tell me...what is it with (some) men that think younger women are better??? Posted: 4/1/2007 7:01:12 PM
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The Sex Mistake Posted: 4/1/2007 6:33:30 PM
A man can be lured or enticed by sex, true story. When it comes to a man wanting a more substantial connection with a woman, she has to score well in other qualities. Some girls, if they should fail to keep the interest of a particular man, choose not to address these qualties, but rather blame the sex, and the male mind's connection to sex. To me this is akin to hunter who is a terrible shot, and misses a duck. As he watches it fly away he throws his...duck...call...whistle thingy in the water and curses it. then he goes on letsshootducks.com and tells everyone that they shouldn't use a duck call, and that they should try to shoot ducks WITHOUT one of the greatest duck lurers in the...duck...lurerer/shooter...guy's arsenal......and thusly be in touch with his inner duck shooting goddess.

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I'm Through with this Posted: 3/28/2007 7:12:00 PM
that wooby person said it pretty well

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I'm Through with this Posted: 3/28/2007 8:09:00 AM
a scenario like this does take a lot of the "human" element out of it. We're all kinda on paper, and in statistic form. how tall? how heavy? how old? kids? no kids? how good a job? How good looking? those things all apply in the real world too, but here, that's all right up front, and in click click next format. I imagine it can feel pretty vicious to some. So you can try your hand in the real world again where personality matters a bit more (hope you've got a good one) or you can try to upgrade yoru stats

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What if their not mine? Posted: 3/27/2007 7:00:11 AM
so she's decided not to have them. I'll not comment on that decision in and of itself. But i'll say that I hope this doesn't cause your fearful and weak mind to drop the issue, and say everything's ok. Devil woman tried to trick you. And while she IS deciding at the last minute, NOT to chance her trick not lasting, and her being stuck. While you ARE escaping that fate, don't think you can keep wearing blinders and not face serious consequences.

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Are men wired to cheat? Posted: 3/26/2007 6:51:41 AM
It breaks down pretty simple. there's seldom sin without deception. Whatever two people agree on is fine. Be it monogamy or multiple partners stuff. But obviously if someone trusts you and you betray that trust, it's vile. as far as the natural predisposition argument? Yeah, we are naturally predisposed to do a lot of things, including ****ing whoever we can. But there are a lot of insticnts that we surpress, that's why the guy who cut me off right before a stop light, still has all his teeth.....it's a good thing. you said yourself: <div class="quote"> Love is jumping in front of a bullet for someone, love is when there is only one thing in the house to eat and your broke and your spouse is hungry as are you but you let them have the last bit of food. Love is sacraficing things you could use in order to help a loved one. so if monagamy is special and important to whoever you love, then there's no question about it. if not.....have fun

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do women really like really skinney guys? Posted: 3/26/2007 5:46:12 AM
I'm currently a bit leaner than I like to be (as you can see) When I'm disciplined at the gym I'm a big guy, when I'm not for a long time, I've still got a bit of definition, but a little skinny. In my experience, has been similar to what I've seen here. Skinny fit girls smile and touch your abs, while girls who are a bit chubby don't dig it. I once dated a girl who was a little bigger, and she said " I need to fatten you up, you make me feel too big." ....that was...about the sweetest way I could have possibly learned: you CAN pay for someone else's insecurities. But then again, it isn't always about them being chubby, a lot of girls just plain like big, more than they like lean and carved....which is why I'm gonna hit the gym tomorrow

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How can you tell if he's genuine or out for sex? Posted: 3/24/2007 6:21:50 AM
Respecting you, and having sex be a priority in his life, are not mutually exclusive.

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Do men really mind dating women with children?? Posted: 3/24/2007 6:14:02 AM
Generally a guy wants: A. Long term relationship B. Short term dating stuff or C. Just sex If the guy wants B. A single mother is not a good choice. You said yourself that you work, and go to school, and have kids to raise, and don't havea lot of time... That means however much free time he has, the odds of you being free on a day he'd like to see you : not great. If he wants A. One loses a lot of freedom when they become a parent. If your significant other is a parent, you're losing that freedom too. Plus the idea of, to one degree or another, raising another man's children. So a LOT of men are filtered out. and in many cases, a woman with children is left with just the guys who want C. and some C's would even be discouraged. such is my understanding.

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Stretch Marks .... Posted: 3/24/2007 6:03:52 AM
definetly not a big deal. - one tenth of a point at most.

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Define Good Girl v. Bad Girl Posted: 3/24/2007 5:50:24 AM
Good girl: Honest Sweet Not selfish faithful Minimal promiscuity Bad Girl: Dishonest selfish unfaithful Highly promiscuous.

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Msg: 58 (view)

What if their not mine? Posted: 3/23/2007 12:35:45 PM
Putting expectations on each other in any way is not fair or understandable. ......Sure it is! We all have expectations, obvious ones like "don't steal from me, or kill my pets" all the way down to little personal things that are important to us. buddy, you need to have some sense talked into you. I wish I was physically there with you to shake you violently and talk some sense into you, frankly there should be someone else who can do it for you, don't you have an older brother or something, or a buddy named Jim? Apparently you don't, so i have to try and fill in. Little story, man: *************************************************************************** There's a girl who has lots of drama filled relationships with X number of guys, she also has trouble at home. She gets pregnant from one of these guys. She resourcefully finds a guy, who is of a disposition to fall in love quickly (the kind of guy who might join a dating site and say "be the reason i can get off this site") She tells him she's madly in love with him. She tents her fingers and says "excellent" she's gotten out of the home she hates being in, and she's found someone to help raise the children she would have been greatly challenged to raise on her own. All for the nominal fee of her soul, and betraying this poor stard. But she doesn't care much about the latter of the two. Maybe a tinge of guilt here and there, but clearly not enough not to do it. Either she didn't know who the father was, or knew he wouldn't stand by her. For reasons I won't presume to know, she didn't want to get an abortion. This guy really loved her, and when he had reasons to think the child might not be his, he was greatly bothered by it. Living in the modern age that we live in, there is a way that he could find out whether or not those were his children. Uhoh. This threatened her plan. Not only would he find out that the children were not his, but he would thusly find out that she'd been lying all along. That she had attempted to trick him into something terrible that would change his whole life for....the majority of it. She had to nip this in the bud. FAST! She put up her hurt feelings face, and said "I feel you don't trust me, and that feeling gets stronger when you say you want a test!" And this guy...being of the disposition that he was... felt terrible that he had hurt her feelings, with a lack of trust, and was so scared of A. hurting her feelings more and/or B. losing her that he put aside the concern that he might spend the rest of his life ....which is something that most men have a harder time imagining. apparently he never even thought to himself " If she IS being honest with me, then it's a shame I hurt her feelings, though, you would think that she would understand that there are viable reasons for me to have this concern and...since she's so sure, she could lay this fear to rest for me, and then, address the whole issue of, -you didn't trust me? that hurts- in fact it would be proven to me that I can trust her......" But he being of an uncommon disposition, did not say these things to himself. Nor did he say "while it is possible that they are my children, and they are developing at a freakish rate that would trick one into thinking they were concieved earlier than they were.....it is not likely.....and....while it is possible, that during the first 2 weeks, of having sex with my new girl friend, using two kinds of birth control, she got pregnant (with my super rapid magic sperm)...it's not likely" Sadly none of these thoughts did he allow to take hold in his mind. For it was his disposition that he could be thusly handled. *********************************************************************** I don't know you lightstorm. So I don't have any way of knowing whether you're smart or stupid. Frankly it's not an issue. Because even if you are stupid, no one is in fact this stupid. It's right in front of you, and you CAN see it. You've been tricked, and that's a shame. You were tricked, and you wasted a few months of your life loving a deeply evil woman who was preparing to decieve you and use you for years of your life, all the while smiling at you and telling you she loves you. It's up to you whether you'll waste the remainder of your life in this. I hope that you'll take a firm stance on the paternity testing, and when it proves you're not the father I hope that you won't allow yourself to believe that her betrayal is anythig less than total. That you won't rationalize or compartmentalize. Wanting to take care of and love and protect a girl is a good thing. but not a girl like this. and if some point you come to the conclusion, or someone else harrangs you into such an idea: That the real concern here is the well being of these children....if somehow you perscribe to the idea that the well being of children is something that's worth sacrificing a big part of your life for.....that's....not something I'm prepared to argue with, but if you should perscribe to that. Consider the fact that there are children will be much more in need of the help of a loving selfless guy than the children of this she-beast. You need to grow a spine. If you want to know that the children you will be raising are your own, if that's something that's important to you, you have a right to it. and you shouldn't let anyone try to shame you out of that. But of course this is well beyond that, and you know it. They aren't your kids. I'll lay you 100 to 1. My ex girlfriend and i were together for 2 years, we always used pill OR condoms, seldom both. know how many times she got pregnant? zero. While it is not IMPOSSIBLE that your girlfriend got pregnant in the first 2 weeks of you two being together, while you were doubling up on birth control.....it's possible in the sense that....anything is possible. I'll say it again. You've been tricked, and that's a shame, don't let her take your WHOLE life. One more word on the issue of obsessive ex boyfriends: Most of us date a # of people in our lives. There have been a few girls who I decided to stop dating, and a few girls who decided to stop seeing me. Of all those girls, a few of them, did call a few more times after wards than was really necesary, hoping to try again, but now none of them ever were obbsessive and "in the picture" later in life. The same is true of most people, they won't experience that. The truth is it's a select minority of the world (thankfully) that's wierd enough to be that sort of person. and no, your girlfriend is not a magnet for odd occurences in this universe, she did NOT happen to recieve multiple of them. She's the common factor, if they're still around it's because she allows that and or wants that, and anythng else she tells you is jive. she is not the epicenter of bizzare occurences in this world. She doesn not have an uncommon percentage of crazy dudes who obsess over her, and she does not have an uncommonly efficient womb, and no she didn't get pregnant during 2 weeks of doubly protected sex. and to everyone who keeps telling heather she needs to do what's best for her.....she is, don't worry about that. worry about this guy. well, that's it man. There's the talking to you needed, sorry Jim couldn't do it. Man up, accept that something sad has happened, you love her, so accepting that truth will hurt, but accept the full scale of it, so that you don't make things worse. find someone worth loving.

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Why do guys ask for a girl's phone number... Posted: 3/22/2007 10:26:26 AM
A. they changed their mind about whether they are interested in you B. They met a girl(s) who they are more intersted in.

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A stare with no smile from a guy Posted: 3/22/2007 10:25:10 AM
maybe he doens't like his smile much, and maybe he's also kinda timid and was embarrased when yo caught him looking.....dunno.

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How soon should i call this guy? Posted: 3/22/2007 10:21:45 AM
Waiting to call doens't apply. He's a man. Men do not become more attracted to a girl by having to wait for her to call.

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Can your man be best friends with an ex? Posted: 3/22/2007 9:59:43 AM
I think the fact that you're losing sleep over it should tell you plenty A. You're right, and it's a crappy siutaiton to be in becuase of how it makes you feel or B. You're wrong, but it's a crappy situation to be in, because of how it makes you feel. I wouldn't stress too much over the "who's right?" question. better questions: we're gonna walk down a little path here, and if the answer to all these quetsions is "no" then you should date someone else 1. trust him 2. Can you get over this thing? 3. (if no to #2) would he stop seeing her for your sake? (even if he knew he was not being unfaithful)

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Come here go away. Posted: 3/22/2007 9:51:28 AM
my opinion: that strong, independant, strong willed, woman who knows what she wants in life and where she is going I hear a lot of women proudly displaying these traits about themselves as a badge honor on their profiles. You seem to think that these are the things that a man wants in a woman, and, from reading around here, so do a lot of other women. The truth is, that those afforementioned qualities, are clearly qualities that you pride yourself on, and that's great, rock with that. But the things that we are most proud of about ourselves aren't necesarily the paramount points of attracting the opposite gender. I've made peace with the fact that girls aren't aroused by my amazing ability to walk on my hands....and i'm probably better off for it. Strong? well, yeah, that's better than weak, .... independant? well...yeah, that's better than excessively clingy and whatever, sure. But, no that's not what we look for. a man wants a woman who is: attractive enjoyable to be around trustworthy a good lover smart (to name a few) those traits you've listed....they aren't bad things, they're closer to good things, but they aren't really the priority. And I believe many of them men who would claim they ARE priorities....are doing so because they know their audience. It doesn't take a genius to realize that a girl who is so jazzed about being "independent, strong, and knowing what she wants" that she puts that in her profile on a site for meeting a guy; will be approve and be interested upon hearing a guy say " i love women like that!" again, those things youre so proud of there, they're GOOD things, and you SHOULD be proud of them, but no, they don't make you irresistable, they're worth a couple of points, and that's all. so keep things in perspective when a dude says "oh, yep., i dig independent women" If you do that i'll promise not to marry the first girl who says "you can walk on your hands? that makes me so horny!" i think we'll both be better off. One more note: If you ARE independent, and strong: Prove that, by not demeaning every man who doesn't fall in love with you with the term "intimidated" it's......I digress

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cant or wont talk about his feeling? Posted: 3/22/2007 9:25:27 AM
You sould consider the possibility that he's not hiding his feelings from you, but rather that he currently isn't experiencing any of these thigns you women call "feel-ings" A man's addressing, and expressing his feelings is generally a much (much) more succinct process than it is with women, so succinct in fact that you might miss it. We don't experience feelings in the same complicated way that you do (to be honest, from an outsider prospective, the way you people experience them sounds torturous), and we don't express them in that same way because of it.

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The Sex Mistake Posted: 3/22/2007 9:15:49 AM
I have to disagree with the main premise of this article. Different men want different things, and sometimes a man will want different things at a different point. A man wants what he wants. My point: Down playing or up playing your sexual side does not alter whether or not a man will want you for just sex, or more than sex. What does affect these things? two things: 1. His predisposition (as discussed above) 2. whether you have the kind of looks and personality that make you the type of girl he'd want to do more than have sex with. You can't artificially boost your personality, by trying to ignore the sexual aspect of it. And no, you don't obscure your personality when you appeal to a man sexually.

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