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Borneobabe

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Should i stay or should i go Posted: 11/24/2009 10:50:19 PM
Why are you single? I think thats your answer right there...

Borneobabe

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Meeting girls online or in person... Posted: 11/24/2009 10:34:09 PM
Issues? I'm sorry...I can't imagine why he would ever pick out my advice over everyone elses on this page...TALK...People like to talk..and that is what i'm doing...and that is what YOU like doing I see...

Borneobabe

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How do you use/view favorites? Posted: 11/24/2009 10:30:44 PM
I don't use it. _______________________________

Borneobabe

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Meeting girls online or in person... Posted: 11/24/2009 10:25:28 PM
If I had a better answer I would have used it... Besides, 31 is young compared to 41...He has loads of time Actually I don't even know why he's looking for someone at all...Relationships are more of a hasstle then anything else...

Borneobabe

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something strange Posted: 11/24/2009 10:17:51 PM
^^^^^Sherlock...lol

Borneobabe

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Dating cliches Posted: 11/24/2009 10:09:41 PM
haha...My whole profile is a cliche

Borneobabe

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Meeting girls online or in person... Posted: 11/24/2009 10:07:20 PM
Just be patient....there is no telling where you will meet the right someone

Borneobabe

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What does religion mean in profiles? Posted: 11/24/2009 10:05:12 PM
It means that i'm aware there's a big man upstairs... How he runs the show???...i'm still trying to figure that out.

Borneobabe

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Are there girls out there that like avg to shorter guys Posted: 11/24/2009 10:02:49 PM
I don't care how tall a man is. Only how tall is personality is... Sometimes a short man can seem very tall depending on his personatily...

Borneobabe

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Do majority of ladies hate rugged guys? Posted: 11/24/2009 9:58:47 PM
^^^^^Quite intense indeed

Borneobabe

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two different body temps and sleeping Posted: 11/24/2009 9:57:27 PM
I would just be happy to have someone next to me...

Borneobabe

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Have you ever received a Xmas present that made things a deal breaker? Posted: 11/24/2009 9:50:58 PM
My boyfriend and I were dating 4 months and he went on vacation for 3 weeks to New York... he brought me back a plain, white t-shirt that said "I (heart) Canada" I never even commented on it...The cheesiest gift I was ever given, but i'm not one for gifts anyways. I could could really have caredless if he brought me back anything.

Borneobabe

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Seeking Advice... Posted: 11/24/2009 9:45:48 PM
Move on... Post is too short... Again my advice is to move on ...Why waste your time?

Borneobabe

Joined: 12/3/2006

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How do you feel about this? Posted: 11/24/2009 9:43:41 PM
He is not all that into you.. Waiting for a better fish to come along...

Borneobabe

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sensitivity Posted: 11/24/2009 9:41:54 PM
...a plus to an extent

Borneobabe

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Please tell the truth Posted: 11/24/2009 9:38:12 PM
"woman will wear jeans she needs wd40 to get into and a pushup bra with two fresh baked biscuits of cleavage mounding out and be offended if a guy she doesnt find attractive takes a notice" That's a riduculous statement...I didn't look at your profile..but around 18 i'm thinking?

Borneobabe

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Do majority of ladies hate rugged guys? Posted: 11/24/2009 9:35:33 PM
I LOVE rugged men... A slight beard..yum...

Borneobabe

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how does one get replies Posted: 11/24/2009 9:33:37 PM
Stop writing attention seeking posts

Borneobabe

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Slightly suprised and confused. Posted: 11/24/2009 9:29:37 PM
I think she might just be interested

Borneobabe

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Please tell the truth Posted: 11/24/2009 9:16:59 PM
I don't usually look at other people in public places, though sometimes yes I do sense when someone looks. It does make me a bit nervous to tell the truth.... You gotta wonder if it's a good stare or a bad stare.

Borneobabe

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Caught looking.. Posted: 11/24/2009 9:11:34 PM
I'm sure it means nothing... If a girl was really interested she would respond positivaly to your approach...

Borneobabe

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Talking about sex before even meeting Posted: 11/24/2009 9:01:13 PM
This is disgusting and degradable. I've had it done alot. Disregard it and move along...

Borneobabe

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Is there any recourse??? Posted: 11/24/2009 8:58:34 PM
Nope, there is really nothing we can do. Good luck and happy fishing!

Borneobabe

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Is it worthwhile to date here? Posted: 11/24/2009 8:50:49 PM
It is probaly not worth while to date here....

Borneobabe

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Need advice on how to proceed Posted: 11/24/2009 8:48:23 PM
You can persue it but as you said, you are probably already in the friends zone... If I liked a guy...he would know it...

Borneobabe

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Whats wrong with people Posted: 11/24/2009 8:44:42 PM
It is possible.

Borneobabe

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Success, then utter disgusting failure Posted: 11/24/2009 8:32:03 PM
That's Hilarious...Too good... I'd Suggest you do another movie night with her....Just for a laugh

Borneobabe

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just to gather opinions,would you date a guy who said this? Posted: 11/18/2009 4:58:34 PM
Nope Never Absolutly Not

Borneobabe

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are having kids a must Posted: 11/16/2009 1:59:40 AM
Having kids is a mustn't for me. I don't mind if the guy already has kids, but I don't want to have any of my own.

borneobabe

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What does I want to be by myself means? Posted: 10/11/2009 4:29:08 PM
She's not into you. Let me rephrase that...I think she just needs time to herself. Very simple. She most likely is not sure how she really feels about you and is trying to figure that out first. Good luck though. Hope it all works out.

borneobabe

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our lasses best mate keep cuming on to me Posted: 10/11/2009 4:26:42 PM
"our lasses mate" -you and your guy friends "friend thats a girl's" friend thats a girl? or -you and your guy friends share the same girlfriend? or??? That really was a great post by the way. Loved it.

borneobabe

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So tell me.. what kind of signal is this suppose to be? Posted: 2/26/2009 9:58:58 AM
Havent read the responses so this might have been said, but it sounds like she is texting you everyday because you are "safe". You both established you have a friendship and nothing more, so because she knows nothing can come of it she feels its safe to move in a bit more intemately then just purely friendship. Women like that sometimes, myself included. The part where you both can be such good friends without the issue of sex or commitment. But who knows...I could be way off...

borneobabe

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Silent Sex Posted: 2/26/2009 6:50:40 AM
I am like that. I wont utter one word during. I also feel I get the full experience withough the need to verbalize it. I don't know why, some people are just like that I guess.

borneobabe

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are women willing to look past a mans flawed teeth. Posted: 7/5/2008 6:30:44 AM
NOthing is better than brushing with salt with baking soda ___________ Do you mean mixing the salt and baking soda together and brushing? I'll have to try that.

borneobabe

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First times Posted: 7/4/2008 11:32:50 AM
My first guy couldn't seem to get it up. So I ended up watching the soccer game while he went at it. Poor guy, he was a huffing and puffing, sweating so bad. It took a very long time but he finally got it in there. Best part was that we won the game, but his head kept getting in the way, and blocking my vision of the screen.

borneobabe

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Why have so many women never had an orgasm? Posted: 6/26/2008 9:37:48 PM
BUT IT CAN BE THE GIRLS UPBRINGING TOO SOME TIMES _______________ How can upbringing effect if she orgasisms?

borneobabe

Joined: 12/3/2006

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Is it getting to expensive to continue to live single? Posted: 6/26/2008 2:39:47 PM
I think the media is trying to scare us, and get us overly paranoid about insignificant things. Now, I do belive there is an economic crisis going on, and this is pretty significant as it effects us totally, but I don't belive in working ourselves up over it. No matter how afriad we might get, that changes nothing. If we could learn to take things in stride, do what you have to do to survive, and don't worry about all the paranoia floating around out there. Everyones going to die one day, you don't need to worry too much about it IMO.

borneobabe

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Do you believe we landed on the moon? Posted: 6/26/2008 1:18:37 PM
I don't believe they landed on the moon.

borneobabe

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THE DRUG COMPANY INFLUENCE ON YOUR HEALTH Posted: 6/26/2008 10:23:56 AM
Again, another good article. Hopefully we will wake up and start taking control over our own lives, instead of bowing to the media and doctors and the false crap they throw at us.

borneobabe

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Cave man days, bring'em back Posted: 6/26/2008 5:13:18 AM
Totally based on myself , yes...i'd say this is correct. Personally I LOVE it whe a man takes charge. Now, I don't mean where he is telling me what to do. But when he takes inititive to do something without always asking for my opinion, i'm all for that. Oh the other hand, I like to be that way too sometimes. So If two people can acheive this sort of equal agressiveness for a positive result, thats the best way. But when He is overly aggressive and never lets up, then no...that just won't do...lol

borneobabe

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Cultural Differences? Posted: 6/25/2008 1:25:22 PM
^^^^^^^^^^^^Bang on! (no pun intended)

borneobabe

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MICROWAVE COOKING is Killing You ? ? ? Posted: 6/25/2008 1:09:06 PM
I didn't read the whole post. But I do agree, that microwaves are extremely dangerous and I try to never use one.

borneobabe

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What was the best kiss you ever had? Posted: 6/25/2008 1:02:30 PM
It was with an Indonesian guy. Happened about 2 years ago. I actually had butterflies in my stomach and I had to stop. The most passionate and intese feeling i've ever had in contact with another person.

borneobabe

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Cultural Differences? Posted: 6/25/2008 12:47:44 PM
I've dated a few muslims before. You say: "My gut tells me he loves me. But, my brain is not agreeing" Your brain is right. You also say this: "The only time we spend is sexual and grabbing a quick bite to eat" Is this enough for you? If it is, then jump full into this relationship. But I wouldn't call it a relaitionship...Maybe a FWB. Which is all fine and dandy. My past muslim boyfriends have always made time for me, in fact they made a little too much time for me. Almost obsessivly. So I'd just go with your brain on this one. Gut feelings don't always work. Good Luck!

borneobabe

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I love you, do you love me? Posted: 6/25/2008 12:40:07 PM
Sorry, I don't love you...

borneobabe

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has a guy ever got you when your already in a relationship Posted: 6/25/2008 12:37:42 PM
Let's be honest. More often than not, girls are in relationships where they have little to no interest in the guy _______________ I think you got the order of that statement mixed up.

borneobabe

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has a guy ever got you when your already in a relationship Posted: 6/25/2008 12:29:12 PM
Nope, i've never been had while in a relationship. Sorry I couldn't offer any constructive advice. But its ok, this thread is 6 months old anyways You probally have already done and got the girl.

borneobabe

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Am I a bastard? Posted: 6/25/2008 12:12:12 PM
I think you did the right thing.

borneobabe

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Are very religious guys unattractive? Posted: 6/25/2008 12:08:04 PM
I wouldn't say they are unattractive, I've seen some pretty hot ones. But, I am learly of them for sure. Reason being, I don't read my bible every day, I don't go to chruch, I don't take communion, I don't even go to chruch on easter (can you belive it??) . But more importantly then that, I LOVE sex (even before marriage) , I like to have a drink every once in a while, I like wearing sexy clothes sometimes, I like things that most chruch goers usually don't like. So, in your terms, I guess I can say that religious guys are unattractive (but my first love was and is ExTREMELY religious..lol...and I still like him )

borneobabe

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Do girls have regrets Posted: 6/25/2008 11:54:00 AM
I never have regrets..ever. But I do wish sometimes I would have done things differently. It took me a long time to get over my ex, so at the time I was crushed. But now that its over, I know I let a " good one get away", but I also know he wasn't for me, so I can say "just as well "too. Doesn't mean it still doesn't hurt though, but I think its just a matter of moving on, when you can say "just as well".

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