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Joined: 12/4/2006

Msg: 85 (view)

cost of dating Posted: 9/9/2007 5:57:48 AM
Call me a princess, call me whatever I have standards...I know we all have bills to pay and obligations thats fine...as I said Im not expecting him to pay a fortune. 80-100 is way too outlandish for a first date. Im no gold digger, Im am romantic and the best dates cost next to nothing. I love the outdoors and festivals... mostly no cost. If he asks me out he's going to pay unless we discuss it ahead of time. If I ask him out I will either pay or split the bill, if he is a gentleman and old school like I am he wont let me pay. Thats my way, I dont expect anyone to do as I do...but thats what works for me. I always have money in case he forgets his wallet or he is cheap. If he doesnt have the dough he won't see me again. First impressions are everything. If hes cheap with dating hes going to be cheap in other areas and that's not cool with me. Seriously men who have a grudge about spending money shouldn't be dating..they just want a cheap and easy ride... 9 times out of 10 when a guy asks me on a coffee date, he wants to know where I live and if we are going to have sex afterwards...hearing that so many times. I refuse to have a coffee date with a man. Coffee is the buzz word for one night stand. Im so turned off. They dont want to work hard to impress a woman ...not the type of man that I want to associate with. Im VERY GENEROUS I spoil my man to no end so he has to go through this first test...Im a giver he has to be too, Period!

Joined: 12/4/2006

Msg: 95 (view)

Spousal Support Posted: 5/16/2007 8:59:30 PM
Equalization is not about making one parent richer and the other parent poorer Its about giving a child what they would have had if their parents had stayed together. Why should the child be punished or shortchanged because the parents are not together? Thats the bottom line. Lets not make it into something that it's not.

Joined: 12/4/2006

Msg: 63 (view)

cost of dating Posted: 5/14/2007 5:15:01 PM
just coffee, no thanks if someone isint willing enough to talk to me for a while and take the risk of spending a few bucks...forget it. I am not asking to go to the Revolving Restaurant in the CN tower. I am not asking for a guy to spend a fortune. I am not superficial in the least I buy my own clothes, pay my own bills, put the roof over my head. No one takes care of me. To me dating is special, its an event. I am old school when it comes to dating. My time is precious...a real man will make the effort to impress me..from day one. No cheap men please. Coffee I can do with friends thats too mundane for my taste.

Joined: 12/4/2006

Msg: 31 (view)

cost of dating Posted: 5/9/2007 4:50:36 PM
where are these men who like to take women out on dates? Id like to meet one... Im patient

Joined: 12/4/2006

Msg: 32 (view)

Phone No. In First Message? Posted: 4/23/2007 10:24:17 AM
people who send their number in the first message from my experience they are : 1. are just looking to get laid as fast as possible 2. desperate 3. messed up in the head 4. all the above

Joined: 12/4/2006

Msg: 77 (view)

People who have a backup partner... Posted: 4/23/2007 10:20:41 AM
to each their own but this is the reason why I stay single for long periods of time and refuse to touch anybody its too gross out there seriously

Joined: 12/4/2006

Msg: 421 (view)

My 14 yr old dating a 20 yr old and on the pill Posted: 4/23/2007 10:18:13 AM
a Child that age shouldnt be involved in such activities period should be hanging out with the girls and focusing on school the boy involved should be looking elsewhere and should know better

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Msg: 314 (view)

are women leery of guys over 30 who have never been married? Posted: 4/22/2007 11:00:08 AM
men over 30 no but over 40 I have to wonder not everyone is going to get married though

Joined: 12/4/2006

Msg: 452 (view)

so, why are you still single? Posted: 4/22/2007 10:59:10 AM
I have a family so it doesn't bother me I get asked why hasnt a man snatched me up cause I am a nice lady though. I take that as a compliment.

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Msg: 368 (view)

Better SEX: Before or After 30? Posted: 4/22/2007 10:57:27 AM
yes practice makes perfect always learning...

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Msg: 33 (view)

woman in their 30's never looked so good Posted: 4/22/2007 10:56:03 AM
I agree women in their 30's are looking hot its the new 20's and 40's are the new 30's life is treating us well

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Msg: 72 (view)

A Touch of Grey Posted: 4/22/2007 10:54:44 AM
it works really well on some people

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Msg: 23 (view)

The Artistic Nude... Posted: 4/22/2007 10:45:24 AM
Yep I have done it nothing private showing its classy and beautiful it was done by a professional and I love it!

Joined: 12/4/2006

Msg: 41 (view)

question about interracial dating ... Posted: 4/15/2007 11:25:08 AM
Ill date men of any race and have but I will not accept drama or disrespect...period.

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Msg: 38 (view)

question about interracial dating ... Posted: 4/15/2007 11:17:57 AM
Hmm do you work with people? All kinds of people? Ive seen people of other races have more temper tantrums and hold grudes a lot longer than many black women I know ...just saying

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Msg: 160 (view)

Is it easier for men? Posted: 3/11/2007 3:14:45 PM
For the most part I think yes and its partly hormonal the rest is nurture and personalilty but men do have feelings I know this by raising 4 of them Now in general men have been taught to suck it up and not be a baby about things they learn to deal with it in other ways

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Msg: 54 (view)

My Ex Husband is now dating his Ex Wife ?? Posted: 1/17/2007 12:58:16 PM
I want to tell you I understand the feeling of being betrayed and lied too. If it was someone else it wouldnt have stung like that...would make you wonder what he's being doing all those years and if he was cheating all along. Its just not cool. your ex doesnt sound like someone of good character he did you a huge favor they deserve each other... what goes around comes around. they will get theirs and the best thing that you can do right now is treat yourself and your children better than you ever have.. revenge is living well you can do it 17 years is a long time...its going to take time to heal remember that do not make nice with these people be civil for the sake of your children and out of love for your children thats it! hugs

Joined: 12/4/2006

Msg: 288 (view)

OFFICIAL TORONTO NYE PARTY, karaoke@ The Groundhog Dec 31/06 Posted: 1/17/2007 12:46:46 PM
MAE B OMG you shoulda! Hes doing well girlfriend.....Ill mail you my msn addy

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Msg: 29 (view)

Respectful ethnic question Posted: 1/15/2007 9:05:33 PM
lypiphera I hear you on that one. to me is downright insulting when someone calls me exotic. A History lesson is in order. Its not called mother africa for nothing

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Respectful ethnic question Posted: 1/15/2007 9:25:13 AM
depends on who you ask babe guys are always telling me what they heard about black women being wilder more passionate sensual and have more stamina. It annoys me when a guy says I am exotic...grrrrr! Yes I am openminded I enjoy sex and make sure my partner enjoys it too. It depends on who you ask...you can find a lousy lay in every race and the opposite...its not limited to race. I learned that pretty quickly that personality is the key ...if you are going to experiment at least give them the benefit of knowing thats what you are about. we are all people..with feelings...and I know for myself I dont want to be used by anyone because I am black. I have before and its not cool

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Msg: 41 (view)

friends with benefits.... Posted: 1/15/2007 9:14:56 AM
No way for me Just say no they can keep their cooties! the search continues

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Msg: 278 (view)

OFFICIAL TORONTO NYE PARTY, karaoke@ The Groundhog Dec 31/06 Posted: 1/2/2007 6:29:08 AM
Oh my gosh I had a wonderful time....this was the 3rd event Ive been too the planners did an excellent job everyone was so nice and friendly thanks all mochahoney aka cammydoll Happy New Year to everyone!

Joined: 12/4/2006

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Why do women use the term can't date guys that a better looking than me? Posted: 12/9/2006 9:07:34 AM
that sounds kind of backwards its natural to seek someone who looks good...instincts how can you compare the two anyway? I say bring on the pretty boys. I have no problem dating someone who looks hot! the inside is more important but there's nothing wrong with a good looking package Ill pass on rotten contents

Joined: 12/4/2006

Msg: 34 (view)

Ladies What Do You think Of Mens Profiles That List Their Toys,Cars,Boats,Etc. Posted: 12/9/2006 9:03:58 AM
Some people dont have kids so their cars are important to them some are just shallow some are into cars as a hobby it really depends

Joined: 12/4/2006

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Favourites etiquette Posted: 12/8/2006 7:03:29 AM
I dont understand why people add you to favourites with no intention of talking I have actually messaged people to say hello, people who are on my favourites... then they read my message and delted it... I try again, nothing. I just removed them off the list

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