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Miss W

Joined: 12/4/2006

Msg: 90 (view)

Why do men want to see revealing pics right away? Posted: 11/22/2009 10:59:18 AM
I'm gonna guess the guys aren't into creative eye shadow either - and that pictures of you smiling might work better. Then there's the body type thing. Athletic? Really? ok...Natasha, save me a seat on the couch, will you?

Miss W

Joined: 12/4/2006

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Okay...How many cookbooks do you have? Posted: 11/21/2009 10:26:29 AM
I am the "Imelda Marcos" of cookbooks. Need I say more?

Miss W

Joined: 12/4/2006

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What to do Posted: 11/20/2009 11:03:56 PM
But here's the problem or problems, shall I say, i'm currently divorcing and my soon to be Ex played on our team at one point, so she knows her. Second, she's my friends sister. Third she's moving in a couple of weeks, but only about 40 minutes away, and fourth, I'm 34 and she's only 25. As I've said it once, I'll say it again...some men seek out drama. This is a train wreck waiting to happen. Lately we've been talking a lot more, we went out to a bar the other and I caught her just staring at me, also, she saw my DL picture and she made a purring sound to her friend, so i'm taking it that she may be interested. You were out and she could have just been flirting meaninglessly. A DL pic is rarely flattering. Is it too much of an age difference? Possibly. What should I do? Get your shyt and get your act together. I've been separated for over a year, and I have been dating. Gee, I'm sure that t his is great for all parties, including women who see you as "single". Good luck.

Miss W

Joined: 12/4/2006

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Why are we in such a hurry? Posted: 11/20/2009 10:50:32 PM
I sometimes wonder if those in a "hurry" are those who should stay by themselves for a little while. This is an understatement and I've found that there are some who should possibly stay by themselves for several years, if not forever. I have gotten fairly astute about those who want "immediate gratification". If they aren't trying to throw me on the floor or the couch right away (cluelessness), I can feel them looking at their watch and tapping their foot wanting to move on. There is a difference between one who truly wants to get to know you and and one who wants to hit it and . This is why I'm grateful for my network of friends and am able to enjoy my own company.

Miss W

Joined: 12/4/2006

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Was she the one? Posted: 11/20/2009 10:38:43 AM
OP, please don't date until you've healed and gotten it together. It isn't fair to this woman nor to anyone else. Good luck to you.

Miss W

Joined: 12/4/2006

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You can quote me on that ... Posted: 11/20/2009 10:36:21 AM
You get to choose between the all expenses paid trip to Bakersfield or, 10 minutes alone with your choice of poster from the "Sin" thread...and a sharp stick. Oh my if that isn't a little slice of . It truly does make the "grouchy stinky winky forum grump" Meet up group known as Banned camp look more appealing.

Miss W

Joined: 12/4/2006

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People, why against the rocking chair on the porch? Posted: 11/19/2009 6:53:18 PM
No rocking chair on the porch, but have a lovely chaise on the patio for when I'm not running around or cleaning something. It is absolute heaven to be able to sit there to relax and read or knit, and listen to the birds, especially when the neighbors across the ditch aren't playing their radio at high decibels. Just remember that moderation is key...

Miss W

Joined: 12/4/2006

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Men over 45 who dye their hair Posted: 11/19/2009 6:45:31 PM
^^Really? Dyed hair on men isn't much different than on a woman, as long as you have someone who knows what they are doing and it looks good with your skin tone. The rule is lighter as you age.

Miss W

Joined: 12/4/2006

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Is This a Good Reason For a Husband to Leave? Posted: 11/19/2009 6:41:03 PM
Where is this young man's father? And why isn't he expected to help out if help is really needed? It seems he should have more responsibility than the new husband. Great question and point. It seems that many tend to marry without looking at the big picture and what could happen. Note to self: check into how independent the kids are before getting seriously involved. Not to be harsh OP, but that is a consideration when choosing a spouse. It seems that you possibly chose someone who may have assumed that since the kids were grown, that he could get away with being the kid.

Miss W

Joined: 12/4/2006

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Why don't men date single mothers...the answer Posted: 11/19/2009 6:23:07 PM
I think that it's a crock that men don't date single moms. Almost every single mom I know has a BF. Just my personal observation.

Miss W

Joined: 12/4/2006

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My date plans dates with short notice ! Posted: 11/19/2009 6:06:02 PM
I can't blame you and this is probably why he is single. Perhaps he needs to find someone more "spontaneous", which is hard this day and age.

Miss W

Joined: 12/4/2006

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You can quote me on that ... Posted: 11/19/2009 6:00:54 PM
I love animals. They are delicious. I used to know someone years ago who said that he liked them with vegetables. I'm wondering if we can look forward to seeing "grouchy stinky winky forum grump" as a user name soon? Well , I think that they should start their own Meet up group. Did I just say that? Oh well...

Miss W

Joined: 12/4/2006

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aging moustache Posted: 11/19/2009 12:27:18 PM
I am letting my 'stache go al natural........... You too huh? Seriously, I see nothing wrong with it. A friend's mom calls them "silver foxes".

Miss W

Joined: 12/4/2006

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obsessing over women a turn off? Posted: 11/18/2009 10:54:27 PM
In a nutshell, I just and some more and eventually hide. Tres unhealthy.

Miss W

Joined: 12/4/2006

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Nose & Ear Hair Posted: 11/18/2009 9:43:10 AM
it seems rather mind boggling that someone would be so inept he can't keep himself decently groomed. My point exactly. It is amazing how many PEOPLE lack grooming and hygiene skills.

Miss W

Joined: 12/4/2006

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Nose & Ear Hair Posted: 11/17/2009 12:12:25 PM
It's a given that one should take care of this stuff. To not do so is a definite turn off. Long nose hair just makes me want to hurl. Just one of my quirks.

Miss W

Joined: 12/4/2006

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Foreplay or Actual sex - what is more exciting to you? Posted: 11/10/2009 9:22:46 PM
Foreplay starts way belong the bedroom. How a man treats me in little ways with courtesy and respect says a lot about how things will be once we go there.

Miss W

Joined: 12/4/2006

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Hair pulling during doggystyle Posted: 11/10/2009 9:18:16 PM
Oh the memories...sigh.

Miss W

Joined: 12/4/2006

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What words would you LEAST like to hear after sex? Posted: 11/10/2009 9:16:13 PM
I have an incurable std...and you probably will too now.

Miss W

Joined: 12/4/2006

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How is Having Unprotected Sex NOT Trying to Get Pregnant? Posted: 11/10/2009 9:14:59 PM
You do have men who are too "macho" for condoms and women who will do absolutely anything to "please" and "keep" a man...any man...then you have those who are older who think that nothing can "happen" to them because they can no longer give birth but end up with an std from some smooth talker.

Miss W

Joined: 12/4/2006

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Just need some advice on what to do next? Help!!! Posted: 11/9/2009 6:28:59 PM
Subject: I like this girl and I think she likes me,but she just got out of a long term relationship and wants to take things slow I think she's celebrating her new found freedom by using you for sex. She got out of a long term relationship, and wants to take things slow, but slept with you on the 1st. This is a contradiction if you ask me.

Miss W

Joined: 12/4/2006

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When is it acceptable to tell a girl how you feel? Posted: 11/9/2009 6:20:12 PM
Perhaps you should let your actions speak for you. Treat her with kindness and respect...they speak volumes.

Miss W

Joined: 12/4/2006

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He lied about his age...only by two years....should i be concerned? Posted: 11/9/2009 1:12:08 PM
If you really going to lie, lie big or just tell the truth! Yup. Go for the gusto or go home. People get ridiculous about their ages. If no one likes you because you are a certain age then

Miss W

Joined: 12/4/2006

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Why do women have issues with time ? Posted: 11/9/2009 12:54:59 PM
If you have a problem with this, seek out someone who is punctual. We do exist. You may want to put lateness in your profile as a peeve.

Miss W

Joined: 12/4/2006

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DUIs a deal-breaker? Posted: 11/9/2009 12:50:59 PM
Would you get serious with a person who had two DUIs five years ago? No. DUI's take up a lot of person's time with mandatory meeting, fines, etc. If someone is stupid enough to make the same mistake twice, I'd have to say no. What if you thought he or she was great in every other way? Maybe...but they'd have to be freakin' fabulous, especially if they have lost their driver's license as I'd probably have to drive. Been there, done that. What if he or she hasn't been a drinker since that time and is a faithful A.A. member? Only if they didn't force the 12 steps down my throat. Disclaimer: not all of them do, but I've met some who make you feel like a bad person for doing so. I'm a social drinker and they may be better suited for another faithful AA member.

Miss W

Joined: 12/4/2006

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Why do men want to see revealing pics right away? Posted: 11/9/2009 10:17:00 AM
I've never had anyone ask for nude photos... Me neither, but I did have someone ask if I had "any more" photos. I learned from one of the forums that it's a "nicer" way to ask for nude ones.

Miss W

Joined: 12/4/2006

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What a man over 45 looks for in a relationship. Posted: 11/6/2009 9:16:25 PM
A woman who doesn't mind cooking I don't mind it, am rather good at it, but only when I want to. A woman who does some housework I clean my own house, and expect him to take care of his. However, if we cohabitate, I expect that there will be outside help. This is not a bad thing for it frees me up to be the upstairs maid. A woman who is great in the sack I'm not bad, especially when I have the downstairs maid issues covered and he picks up after himself. A woman who holds down a decent job I am steadily employed. A woman who respects his free time As I want mine respected.

Miss W

Joined: 12/4/2006

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Should we HELP others with their profiles here? Posted: 11/6/2009 4:56:18 PM
I don't think that we should impose it upon those who don't want it or upon the clueless but...one of my friends on here addresses this issue in her profile and offers to help others. She tells them that bad spelling, and 2 word profiles are a turn off to others. A few have taken her up on her offer. Then...there were the few who wanted her to write testimonials for them. She passed on that because she just didn't feel right saying glorious things about someone she doesn't know.

Miss W

Joined: 12/4/2006

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So.... remind me... What's the downside of 50 and single...??? Posted: 11/4/2009 8:10:25 PM
The downside is that you are happy, on top of your game, would like to share with someone special... and those available are busy licking their wounds, shell shocked, or...fill in the blank.

Miss W

Joined: 12/4/2006

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Ex girlfriend shows up at work, eggs my house. help? Posted: 11/4/2009 10:57:08 AM
I met this girl and dated her for about a month The key word is "girl". Try dating young women, not "girls" in the future, you may find them to be less psycho and dramatic. I know that it is only a piece of paper, but you may want to consider a restraining order against her and her deciples. Good luck.

Miss W

Joined: 12/4/2006

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Is marriage necessary for a healthy LTR? Posted: 11/4/2009 10:52:14 AM
^^^Who says that one has to cohabit or get married in order to have a healthy LTR? I know of a couple who were together for over 30 years who lived separately and happily and were committed to each other. Unfortunately, he passed away before they were going to tour the country in a motor home after both had retired.

Miss W

Joined: 12/4/2006

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Shaving or trimming your privates at our age? Posted: 11/4/2009 10:26:24 AM
Also, some folks are so big they can't even reach their privates to appropriately wipe after using the bathroom ... how would they ever manage to shave "down there" appropriately? Thanks for the visual. Waxing isn't fun, but the secret is to find someone who knows what they are doing and can do it quickly and efficiently. This is not the time for long and slow....

Miss W

Joined: 12/4/2006

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Promiscuity ~~ Pros and Cons Posted: 11/3/2009 7:42:02 PM
he came in with two broken thumbs...i had to cut his meat for him to eat it that night. Did you ever find out why? Ok I'll play: You get "lucky" a lot or a little. I guess some people do, as there seems to be a "born again ho" movement among the over 40. The cons: Some never get "lucky" with their lack of caring and respect for others, it can be empty and you will be alone in the end...not to mention the risk for std's that I'm sure have been mentioned 437 times in this thread.

Miss W

Joined: 12/4/2006

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Baby mama drama Posted: 11/3/2009 7:10:44 PM
If he is a responsible father to the children, then give the poor schmoe a chance. If he's one of those text-speaking, ghetto-talking morons that are out trying to repopulate the world, then by all means, pass on him. And please, pretty please use good birth control (preferably tubal ligation after 3) and condoms to prevent std's. There are many "Lothario's" out there who are legends in their own mind and leave the support of their kids to the tax payers. As another poster said, that's a lot of kids to pay attention to. Good luck to you.

Miss W

Joined: 12/4/2006

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Where can I get some good Bar b que? Posted: 11/3/2009 3:43:33 PM
Try this: http://www.washington-square.org/Restaurants/Burrells_BBQ.htm

Miss W

Joined: 12/4/2006

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You can quote me on that ... Posted: 11/2/2009 1:54:07 PM
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.

Miss W

Joined: 12/4/2006

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What's the upside to being over 50 and single Posted: 11/1/2009 7:49:53 PM
I will be 50 in a week and am enjoying this thread and am resonating with many of the comments. I'm particularly happy about being able to say to those with agendas that I do not wish to buy into or who try to change me.

Miss W

Joined: 12/4/2006

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so annoying..why do people do this? Posted: 11/1/2009 7:46:08 PM
OP, You are 25 and although they qualify as adults, the guys your age are boys. Oh wait, some guys pushing 50 and 60 do the same thing. My bad. The advice is if you don't like it, there is the option of saying and moving on.

Miss W

Joined: 12/4/2006

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Terms of endearment too early. Should I run? Posted: 10/31/2009 10:18:07 PM
Welcome to the world where many women have to deal with being called "babe", "baby", "honey," "sweetie", etc....You just need to set the boundaries that we do and let the individual(s) know that you don't like it. It's called "communication" and it can be done tactfully. Really.... Good luck.

Miss W

Joined: 12/4/2006

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friend afraid of her age Posted: 10/29/2009 8:29:05 PM
You make your own happiness. Your friend might need some serious counseling. Definitely. I'm ok with being alone. I'd rather be than miserably encumbered. However, I hear that you can fall in love at any age...mostly when you at least expect it.

Miss W

Joined: 12/4/2006

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Slutty/Sexy Halloween Costumes Posted: 10/29/2009 12:50:35 PM
I was thinking of going as a one night stand. I get a cheap nightstand, cut a hole in it, glue a condom and box of wine to it and smudge my makeup. I won't even have to bathe that day. Love it! I hope that you don't mind if I steal this sometime. I may even have to wear it to our local "meet market". Message 13, I went as white trash one year wearing a white trash bag, had my hair in curlers and "Billy Bob" teeth. I think that people want to use Halloween as an excuse to do so, and I hate slutty costumes (and every day clothing) for children.

Miss W

Joined: 12/4/2006

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How do you feel about Taylor Swift. Posted: 10/28/2009 9:30:22 PM
I don't feel anything, but then again, I haven't heard her music. I keep seeing her on the covers of 'zines. and I must

Miss W

Joined: 12/4/2006

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POF Halloween party Posted: 10/28/2009 8:23:09 PM
I wonder if I can make my hair look like Wolverine? Oh yeah...I have faith that you can make anything, and create any effect that you damned well want to. . I'm currently having a big time brain fart, but I think that Orly woman, who is trying to prove that Obama was born in Kenya would make for a great costume for she blatently looks like a tranny. Oh caca, I missed the appropriate thread...oh shucks, don't shoot me.

Miss W

Joined: 12/4/2006

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Looking for perfection? Posted: 10/28/2009 8:10:11 PM
I believe that most people are looking for perfection...however, it is really a matter of what you are willing to put up with. I see great catches slobbering over the drama of those who aren't. Go figure.

Miss W

Joined: 12/4/2006

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POF Halloween party Posted: 10/27/2009 10:55:45 AM
Yea.... I think I will go what I went as last year... a freelance gynecologist. My brother-in-law once went as a mammography machine and had a sign advertising for free ones.

Miss W

Joined: 12/4/2006

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LET'S GET SCARY Posted: 10/27/2009 10:53:23 AM
They don't teach Driver's Ed in school any more, so the younger drivers are the worst. They have no concept of stopping distance. Having been rear ended by a tailgater in rush hour traffic (in my new 3-week old car), I get very tense whenever someone is riding my bumper or comes up fast behind me at a stop light and stops at the last second. GRRRRRRR<,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, I'm with you Boomer. Last Friday night, I went out dancing with friends. When I was (carefully) backing out of my parking space, my left rear bumper was hit by a white pick up truck that kept right on going as if nothing had happened. I have a feeling that this azzhole was drunk. I got a large gash in my bumper and a the plastic broken off of the tail light. I was too stunned and the driver was too far away to get the plate number. I now have to deal with this with my next increment of "spare time", which won't be until December. I'm ok and everything works, but everytime I look at the car I get p1ssed off. I also work at a University and the students (many who drive luxury vehicles ) cannot drive to save their lives. They race through the parking lot, cut you off, text while driving, and don't use directionals.

Miss W

Joined: 12/4/2006

Msg: 42 (view)

What ever happened to Love Posted: 10/26/2009 9:12:20 PM
I would love to but it hasn't happened. If I happen to stumble over someone fabulous or he should fall out of the sky and into my lap, then yay for me. If not, I'm good.

Miss W

Joined: 12/4/2006

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why are MEN over 40 so desperate to get married?? Posted: 10/26/2009 8:10:40 PM
It must be the part of the country that I live in but I find that men over 40 from marriage or they marry some drama queen where it is short lived.

Miss W

Joined: 12/4/2006

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Do women think you can get any guy? Posted: 10/25/2009 8:51:29 PM
Subject: women who date online are ONLY looking for someone above and beyond Really? I'll be darned. I've found online dating to be below and over the top...Just an observation.

Miss W

Joined: 12/4/2006

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CA, DST, and POF...OH MY! Posted: 10/25/2009 7:04:47 PM
Mz. T, I for one did not vote (or as they say in Canada "voye") you off the island for you have a legitimate question. OldFolkie said it all for me about time and I've always loved that song.

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