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Honcho

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A Twist on EXPECTING Sex by the 3 rd date. Would You Date Her/Him ? Posted: 10/24/2009 11:10:48 AM
What a topic. If I was doing it by the 3rd date, I wouldn't be telling anybody. I'll bet you just aren't getting laid are you?

Honcho

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Married. So Why Is My Home Not His Home? Posted: 9/14/2009 6:18:25 PM
Talk your mom into willing you the house in her will. Meanwhile let it stay in mom's name because then he can't touch it. I don't know what your interior decorations are but please don't make the entire home into pink and ruffles. At least have rooms that are neutral gender or male decor. Catch your own bills up and get ready for a forthcoming divorce and when that is pending make sure your attorney puts it in writing that he has to pay his own created bills as well as court costs and attorney fees and then if the judge agrees you are one free bird. Apparently his mother does NOT like you and resents him paying on your mother's house and is putting this poison into his mind. The marriage might could have been saved if he had given up his drug use and continued to work together with you. He probably does feel that his house payments are futile and wants reassurance that he is getting something for his payments.

Honcho

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money inside her bra Posted: 9/10/2009 7:54:55 PM
Uh, excuse me lady, but ya got change for a fifty? lol

Honcho

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Cheating mother Posted: 7/23/2009 6:42:00 PM
Son, take an old mans advice and don't mess up your parents marriage. If you simply must talk to someone about it then get your mother aside and tell her you know about it. It will make her ashamed for sure, but don't go throwing verbal stones, after all she bought you into this world and helped raise you and you owe her more than you can ever repay. There is a possibility that your mom feels there is no excitement in her life and I hate to even talk about your family, but it could also be that daddy suffers from erectile disfunction at any rate I dare say she feels she is missing something in her life. If you start running your mouth to dad or calling mom a **** you are going to break up a 28 year marriage. I understand your hurt, but its their problem and not yours. Oh, and by the way churches are for sinners!

Honcho

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Retirement: Do we need to be on the same page? Posted: 7/9/2009 11:30:20 PM
I'm gonna have to retire pretty soon, my tires are getting pretty slick on my SUV. Ohhhh, you meant retire from work? Tried that, too many damned soap operas on tv so I got myself a part time job. Lady I date occasionally, she's 50, me 72, still works hard. On POF I would be thinking of the financial situation as I have deeded my property to my kids and live by myself. This poses a problem if I re-marry and then die. What would become of my widow? While I am "comfortable" as a widower with a six figure savings, I would still prefer that she was financially sound too. Then our combined incomes or retirement checks would better allow us to live comfortably and not be so dependent on each other.

Honcho

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Why Are Over 45 Men In Love With Motorcycles? Posted: 7/9/2009 11:16:35 PM
WE men like motorcycles like a dog loves to hang his head out of a car window! Fresh breeze in your face, power of an engine between your legs, sweet smell of honeysuckle when its in bloom. Being with buddies and going to different towns, eating together, its comradeship and its fun. I am not a Harley man. Not into the greasy biker look. I have a Goldwing Trike, makes less noise and besides her husband won't know which way we went!

Honcho

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Longest sexual performance. Is it better quick or lasting? Posted: 7/9/2009 10:33:59 PM
Hey, who is really watching the clock?

Honcho

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Man of My Dreams??? Posted: 6/22/2009 1:22:38 PM
Caroline, my guess is the pot smoking makes him kind, gentle, and laid back, also brings on the lack of hygiene. He is already a victim of his own circumstances and honey you are not going to change him. People of his maturity are already set in their ways. If he has come and gotten his clothes, he has done you a BIG favor. Ease out of the situation, even tell him you are "just not ready" and move on with your life. I know personally that living alone can sure get lonely but on the other hand it too has its advantages. No sassy feed back from the other half. Come and go as you wish. No one to clean up after but yourself, so give it your deepest consideration but get out of that situation.

Honcho

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an old ladyfriend,was by gf for 3 weeks needs money for.... Posted: 6/17/2009 5:45:48 PM
Man, don't fall for it. She has lied to you so I wouldn't trust her if she was my wife! If you really want to attack her ego, tell her "Sorry, but I'm saving up to add four more inches to my Johnson!"

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Rocking The Boat At Our Age? Posted: 6/15/2009 1:39:21 PM
Karma, his $2000 house note would scare the hell out of me. Better re-think this after you have worked so hard to pay for your own home.

Honcho

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What do I do with a hot lady with a smelly pussi? Posted: 6/15/2009 1:20:58 PM
Maybe you can sheep dip her. No, seriously, she should consult a gyn and see if this is normal for her or there is another problem. I've had that happen only once in my life and she was a waitress that had worked all night long, so besides funky she also had a persperation problem.

Honcho

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Is red hot romance possible after 50? Posted: 6/13/2009 8:15:14 PM
Did you want that over medium or well done? Heck yes you can have a red hot romance at any age. Its not all in the genitals believe it or not. Its in the mind and in the heart, heck Viagra and Cialis can take care of the physical dilemnas!

Honcho

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an old ladyfriend,was by gf for 3 weeks needs money for.... Posted: 6/13/2009 7:49:50 PM
Damn! You mean that **** is still around? I think she's the one who conned me years ago. Don't walk son........RUN AS FAST AS YOU CAN AND PUT YOUR BILLFOLD IN YOUR FRONT POCKET AND HIDE YOUR CHECKBOOK!

Honcho

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Is he wrong or right? Posted: 6/13/2009 7:43:05 PM
I think I can relate to this guy in a way. After six years of marriage that ended in turmoil, I led a promiscious life singing with a band and going outside the club to have sex and then taking another home with me to have sex and believe it or not that got old after a while. Sex without compassion is just a physical act. I prayed for the right woman to come along and my prayer got answered. We were married 38 years until she passed away. Currently being widowed I miss married life and once again I ask God to send me a good one. Nothing wrong with that. This guy you speak of apparently wants the forgiveness he seeks and a blessed marriage. Doesn't mean that lightening bolts are going to light up the sky when he meets her, but when he does he will have contentment, compatibility, caring, and yes, sex.

Honcho

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What is he worth? Posted: 6/13/2009 7:28:05 PM
Nashville is full of would be stars in the music business but it is a very hard row to hoe due to the tremendous competition. Perhaps he knows that and has given up. Then again he may be contented to just be himself as he currently is. I understand that you would prefer he excel, but you sound kind of snobbish yourself. Anyone can get a degree if they are willing to study and can afford college. I, however, have known college grads that didn't have enough sense to "come out of the rain." I met one digging a ditch with a shovel because no one wanted his Bachelor of Science degree. Life is what we make it. Perhaps he needed some encouragement and got none and again he may be perfectly content with his lifestyle but you already have hopes of "re-making" him. That's a no no this late in life.

Honcho

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Discipline - Is yelling at your children wrong? Posted: 6/4/2009 8:35:54 PM
I am from the old school. Mom used to make me go outside and get my own switch and it had better not be a rotten one. One or two or more licks if needed will definitely straighten out your problem. You may be against that discipiline type but believe me it works and it won't kill him. "Spare the rod and spoil the child." Either you can correct him as he grows up or the prison system will. Its up to you.

Honcho

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Daughter's father getting released from prison Oct09 Posted: 6/4/2009 8:26:44 PM
All good advice. Its a simple thing but start carrying a "rat tail" comb. The handle makes a nice dagger. When you re-locate put up some motion detector lights but I warn you if there are trees close by the wind in the leaves will set the things off. Another thing I was shown but never tried is a lit cigarette lighter in front of a hair spray can with the button pushed makes one hell of a flame thrower. Regardless of where you live go by and talk with your District Attorney about him, also make a trip to your local police dept. at the start of all shifts. (Cops do not like sex offenders nor child molesters, speaking from experience as a retired cop myself) Talk to the Shift Commander and have some photos you can circulate. Ask for extra patrol of your neighborhood. The most dangerous thing about him is the 3rd degree black belt, which means to me that he is fast on his feet and hands. Tennessee law is probably similiar to most states and its NOT SHOOT HIM AND DRAG HIS BODY INSIDE....our laws say YOU MUST BE IN FEAR OF YOUR LIFE, so let the local authorities know that you are scared and if you have a weapon and he breaks or forces his way inside........he is bought and paid for.

Honcho

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Why Are Over 45 Men In Love With Motorcycles? Posted: 5/31/2009 1:00:16 PM
Okay ladies, I am 72 and a widower. I only bought my bike after my wife died three years ago. I love the feel of a breeze blowing in my face, the smell of honeysuckle in bloom and the rush I get from riding with my buddies and listening to "Free Bird" on my I Pod. It's no different to me than seeing you ladies riding around in convertibles with the tops down and your shades on. Besides a new triked bike costs around 40 grand after taxes, so yes we take them seriously!

Honcho

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Are older men sometimes intimidated by older sexy women? Posted: 5/31/2009 12:54:07 PM
It amazes me when women 49 to 56 think they are "old". Heck there are some women in here in their seventies. Some look good and some "need ironing." But that is life. I can recall when we all thought 30 was old. lol

Honcho

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what do i do? i need advice? and i'd like to see what the concensus thinks on this? Posted: 5/31/2009 12:39:08 PM
Just a man's opinion. 1. You could be just a whim, where he wanted to see how far you would go . 2.He is scared or he is married and his conscience is hurting h im. 3. It's possible he may have seen you and not even liked what he seen. 4. Sounds like he is playing a game with you. My advice is drop him like the proverbial hot potato and move on. If he does continue to call you, have your cell number changed.

Honcho

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smell plays a big part......!!! Posted: 5/26/2009 11:45:57 AM
Ladies, lets take a poll. Which brand of men's cologne would you vote for as the most pleasing? I have expensive colognes but seldom use them because after several hours my body chemistry causes them to smell different than when first applied. After that change occurs, I don't particularly like the funky smell.

Honcho

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She's Married Posted: 5/21/2009 3:32:07 PM
Great advice from all the gals in here. Man I am glad I am not in your shoes, although I can relate to such feelings. It is a psychological fact that many abused women if they ever do divorce will find a similiar new partner who will also abuse them. I have heard some give the excuse that "I can't leave him, I am on his medical insurance." Suck it up and move on because if you did have her as your own you would always remember that she betrayed her husband at least once when she had sex with you and you will be haunted by the nagging question in your mind: Will she betray me too? God will forgive you if you are sincere and ask HIM to, but you can't be running around banging people because even that is a sin in the bible. Its a rough life, but the reward can be worth it.

Honcho

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Online Humor Maybe Some People Can't Take a Joke!!! Posted: 5/21/2009 3:16:51 PM
You should maybe pay her compliments like "I bet you don't sweat much for a fat girl!" or show some interest like asking her, "Just how much do you charge to haunt a five room house?"

Honcho

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smell plays a big part......!!! Posted: 5/21/2009 3:04:34 PM
Farmer John was a rich widower and was showing a widow around his farm in his pickup truck: John says "See all those cows in that field? They are all mine." Next he points out another field and says "See all them calves? Well they are all mine too." Finally John says, "Look over in that far field, all them bulls are mine." The widow becoming concerned asked, "John, since the bulls are in one field and the cows in another, how do you know when to breed them. John says, "Well them cows will give off a smell that I can discern when they come into heat, that's when I put them together." After returning back to his house, the widow jumps in her car and starts to back out of the drive, when she rolls down her window and says, "John, when you get over your head cold.....call me!"

Honcho

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a moral dilemma Posted: 5/21/2009 2:58:11 PM
Now you can understand why I drive a Suburban!

Honcho

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What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love Posted: 5/21/2009 2:54:20 PM
Very simple: Emotions. Afterwards bring her down from her plateau slow and easy. Not wham, bam, where's my cigarettes!

Honcho

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GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage? Posted: 5/11/2009 1:58:45 PM
I have been married twice in my life time. I divorced the first one because she used sex to try to climb a social ladder and was unfaithful. The second one was a widower and the best wife a man could have. Yep, I engaged in sex with both before I married them, but now that I am a widower of a very senior age, I have to consider my eternity. I am not a preacher, but I know a lot of you resent being "preached to." Well, for you who practice sex before marriage what are you going to do when scripture plainly states that an adulterer, a fornicator (which most of you are talking about), an effeminate, and a drunkard can NOT enter the kingdom of heaven? I like sex as much as the next man, but should I marry a final time, I plan to look more closely at a woman's other characteristics first, after all when you finish the sex act you still are left with that person, so I think one should take a good look at the relationship. Sex can always be improved on. As for some of the sex acts expressed by some men in here, you need to find you a prostitute instead of a wife! That's my two cents worth.

Honcho

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Worst place you ever been? Posted: 5/5/2009 7:07:47 PM
Karachi, Pakistan. Filthy. People living under piles of brush.****oaches and camel dung. Rip tide at the beach almost drowned me.

Honcho

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Relationships not based on sex Posted: 5/5/2009 6:56:17 PM
Met my first wife, had sex, and married her nine days later! 3 kids and six years later I divorced her, instead of the other way around. She was good in bed.....just ask any guy in my home town! rofl (Glad thats over).

Honcho

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Tattoos and Chivalry?? Posted: 5/5/2009 6:50:21 PM
I am from the old school. I don't mind a small or a hidden tatoo, but I wouldn't want a circus side show freak either. As for peircings, girls I just don't dig that. To me if you have a tongue pierce that tells me you have an interest in oral sex. Hope I am wrong. As for the piercing through the eyebrow, what's next? A bone through your nose?

Honcho

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Joint Bank Accounts Good or Bad Idea Posted: 5/5/2009 6:20:04 PM
It worked fine for me. My wife (now deceased) had her account which was joint and I had mine which was joint, but we never crossed the line over to the others account without first getting permission. In case of a death, like in my case, you would have no trouble cleaning out her account and transferring the funds to yours, but YOU HAD BETTER HAVE A WIFE YOU CAN TRUST.

Honcho

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Libido after 50 Posted: 4/30/2009 9:35:11 PM
In my fifties we tried to beat our record of five times in one day but were just too bushed. As age caught up, Viagra came to the rescue by prolonging the event which made it pleasurable for both of us. Its nothing to be ashamed of. It will eventually catch up with all of you. Thank God for the new medicines!

Honcho

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Widow/Widower-Wearing the wedding ring? Posted: 4/30/2009 9:26:56 PM
As a widower, I removed her ring just prior to her death due to swelling in her fingers and when she passed I removed mine. I have a wooden cross necklace that a fellow Knight Templar gave me and I have placed both rings on the rope that holds the cross. The whole thing now hangs on my dresser.

Honcho

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Why Are Over 45 Men In Love With Motorcycles? Posted: 4/30/2009 9:16:27 PM
Same reason you gals like convertibles.

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does consistant lateness flag personality problems? Posted: 4/30/2009 8:53:21 PM
Time to drop him and move on.

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Best Sex Positions Posted: 4/28/2009 5:00:44 PM
Darn, and I thought swinging from the ceiling fan was surely tops or pulling out and running out into the yard and climb a tree and watch them claw the bark off just to get back to it. But hey, what do us hillbilly's know?

Honcho

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Am I being stupid or is this FOR REAL!!!! HELP ME BOYS/MEN!!!! I GOT FAITH!! Posted: 4/28/2009 4:55:42 PM
GET THE SACK! GET THE SACK!

Honcho

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Vasectomy Posted: 4/28/2009 4:49:21 PM
Had a vasectomy years ago after Doc told me the next pregnancy would likely kill my wife. They cut your testicle sack, after giving a shot to kill any pain of course, and lift the snow white tubes, tie them in two places and cut between the ties, then sew the sack back up and tell you to take it easy for a few days. The ends of the stitches can sometimes be a little irritating, but I was up and about in a couple of days, just didn't lift anything for a while. You see I raised my head and watched. Sweat beaded out on my brow and the doc said, "I'm not hurting you am I?" My reply was "No Doc, but be damned sure you don't let that scapel slip!" Psychologicly it is great. I called it "riding bareback" the next time I had sex. I had a great wife (since passed on) but one thing about it, your wife had better be the faithful type otherwise if she comes home pregnant, there might just be some slow walking and sad singing.

Honcho

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boobs Posted: 4/23/2009 6:54:33 PM
So you want a boob job? Go for it. My late wife had it done. I loved it, but she had one that stayed sore all the time, so talk with someone who has experienced it. The last plastic surgeon we talked to (due to a mastectomy from breast cancer)says they are coming back with the use of silicone once again. They had stopped that for a few years and used saline implants for a while. Breast implants can become hard, but the nipples are still yours even though the implants may be fakers. Nothing really wrong with small breasts unless of course you are too self concious with them. Be prepared to spend around ten grand, but hey, you'd spend that much on a car, now wouldn't you? Insurance is not going to pay for cosmetic surgery, so save your money up.

Honcho

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bend over. Posted: 4/23/2009 6:46:51 PM
I think he would fit right in...........into prison that is, because 300 pound "Bubba" is soooooo lonely!

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Big men, tiny women Posted: 4/23/2009 6:41:51 PM
You can move the smaller ones around on the bed! Now....how does a short man make love to a tall woman? He puts a two gallon bucket over her head and hangs down by the handle!

Honcho

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what about GUYS performing oral sex? Posted: 4/23/2009 6:37:22 PM
Oh come get me mommy I'm eating dirt! roflmao

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Men wanting women only and not other men Posted: 4/23/2009 6:31:50 PM
Er...it was Adam and Eve. Not Adam and Steve. Honey you look like a doll, but you need to stay out of those gay bars with the luck you've been having!!!!!!!!!!

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What is wrong with men? Posted: 4/23/2009 6:25:34 PM
When she told me "You're old enough to be my daddy!" I replied, "Yeah, and just my luck that you don't believe in incest!"

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Advice Please Posted: 4/23/2009 6:10:33 PM
Three doors down, they're laughing and drinking and having a party (Thanks Dolly P) So nice to have a peice of ass just three doors away, how convenient! Has no license? Why? Perhaps a D.U.I, and revocation? My advice........................................... Move out and move on.

Honcho

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The fears of being alone Posted: 4/23/2009 6:03:49 PM
I am a 72 year old widower with grown children, but they do NOT check on me every day, but I have a buddy that does, so if I die perhaps he will either find me or have the authorities check my house. Our particular sheriff has a bunch of older people who do nothing but make daily checks on the sick or elderly. As for the Heimlick manuever, I am familiar with it but have yet to try it, but I understand that if you are alone and choke that you can throw your body's weight (sternum) onto the back of a straight chair and it might work. As someone else mentioned you can also get one of the necklaces or wrist watch type alerts where you can push a button and notify the emergency service in case you fall, etc. Since I am also a heart patient, I purchased a stainless steel cylindrical container that I keep my nitro glycerin pills in and it goes on my car key ring. CVS pharmacy has these for about five dollars.

Honcho

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I can't kick them out, they have a baby Posted: 4/23/2009 5:52:02 PM
You have gotten some rather good advice. There seems to be a common denominator and that is Social Services also called Welfare, Children's Services, etc. But you definitely need to report the situation to them and let them do a home study by visiting the whole bunch. They can, via the Juvenile Court, put the child up for either foster care or adoption. I truly understand your love for your son and the concern for a baby but I have been in law enforcement for 45 years and you definitely have some problems because I truly do not see your son ever going to work unless he is forced to. My bet is he lies around and watches television all day and as long as you are keeping him up then you are the provider and his girl friend satisfies his sexual cravings, so he is satisfied. The drugs are a real problem and he will not quit them until he really wants to. In my area we have a Drug Court where instead of jail, they have to take mandatory re-hab and numerous drug tests and if they fail then its off to jail instead. I would go to the District Attorney's Office and see what advice he can offer you and if a Juvenile Judge would see me in chambers then I would call for an appointment. It is going to take a lot of tough love and prayer on your part. Just try and keep the faith.

Honcho

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older luv Posted: 4/23/2009 5:13:49 PM
At your age you will find a lot of "yum-yums" so if you are just looking for a roll in the hay so to speak, then you had better level with her. On the other hand if you want to truly committ yourself then the age makes no difference, but you truly have to consider that she if NOT going to give up her family. They are a part of the package. At your age you still have some maturing to do and I don't mean that to hurt your feelings, just telling you the truth. You got some great advice on here, but frankly if you can put your emotions aside, its probably best that you move on.

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Is it wrong to report / turn in illegal Aliens Posted: 4/21/2009 3:54:15 PM
Luna, I am retired law enforcement. I called INS once to report an illegal alien and they will not come to pick up one individual alien, a bus load perhaps, but not one. They also informed me that if the alien marries an American, then they can apply for citizenship. Like any nationality we have had problems with Mexican aliens. One murdered a girl in a fit of rage and stabbed her 54 times! Others have gotten into machete fights. Indeed most are good workers but I think there should be a quota on nationalities that are allowed to enter our country. You don't hear a lot about Poles, Russians, Italians, Germans, etc. etc. Its just that Mexico is so close we get a lot of Mexicans because our borders are not secure. What is to stop an Al Queda member or some other terrorist from coming into the USA via Mexico? I don't know whether the Social Security cards like green cards are forged but suspect a lot of them are because there is a high influx of Mexican children in our schools and our government spends a lot on them, especially medical bills. But why should they be allowed in so freely when other nationalities have a quota?

Honcho

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cooking for one. Posted: 4/21/2009 3:40:47 PM
Being a widower who can't cook, I depend a lot on the Dollar Store General Market because their prices are more reasonable. Their canned vegetable juice is delicious and to my surprise the frozen cheeseburgers are great. I punch an air hole in the plastic wrapper and shove the burger into the microwave for one minute. Works great. Thanks to all of you for recipes you share. Been thinking about getting me a crock pot as my daughter made off with mine. lol

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