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wexus

Joined: 12/12/2006

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Singles Party Night....should I go on my own?? Posted: 5/27/2012 6:20:04 PM
where is the list for party events / mixers on this site = I can not find it anywhere... I must be blind... Thanks group...

wexus

Joined: 12/12/2006

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mixers ? Surviving POF events Posted: 5/27/2012 6:16:29 PM
#1 I know where your coming from - maybe if there were some sort of game where people could interact with each other in a friendly way... Where can a person go to find NEW events at - I dropped out of this site for a while & it has changed a lot... We wanted to host one at our place that would NOT cost any money & there is no music system. It's a driving range... Thanks Group!

wexus

Joined: 12/12/2006

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Just expierence with people.... Posted: 2/18/2010 3:44:50 PM
People with fetishes will often hop around with the types they are attracted to but then will sometimes move on with someone new & the thrill is gone because there is a "FETISH" about the person... Do you want someone that is looking for your "TYPE" or are you looking for a person who want to get to know you personally? When looking for a mate - look for someone who will love the inner you - It feeds your soul to find someone who is curious about "YOU" the person if you are thin or thick - Yes at first sight sometimes this helps but when someone is NOT even curious about the inner you because they are just looking at "your type"... This becomes a sad situation that will end... Hope a person finds the inner you (for everyone)... Nice photos on your profile;)

wexus

Joined: 12/12/2006

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need some help with my profile Posted: 2/18/2010 3:32:56 PM
Everything looks good - From what I hear put new photos up every so often to help jog peoples minds out there.

wexus

Joined: 12/12/2006

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Our New President Posted: 11/5/2008 2:04:44 AM
Got no problems with that... BUT Commander in Chief is the actual title they give to the President & that what ever he says GOES... As Presidents are Diplomats & People as well. Obama has to see himself as the the Commander in Chief & that his word is FINAL no matter what anyone says. Only Congress or Senate can challenge him or the People directly... Personally I don't think Presidents have very much impact on anyone's life if they just do their job of perceived to actual power position...( like don't mess with us etc.) - BUT the Congress & Senate DO... Generals implement what the Commander in Chief decides. Generals DO NOT CONTROL our Military they are part of "it" & assist with implementation. BUT personally I just want some breathing room with gas / food / water / electric & some entertainment. I really don't care about the troubles of the world as I can't feed or fight everyone... I can only help other in my little circle...(I've tried to hold back the tide of the rising ocean- I can't do it). BUT Thanks for posting the topic & thanks for the response - Glad your up this late! TAKE CARE -

wexus

Joined: 12/12/2006

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Our New President Posted: 11/5/2008 12:55:21 AM
Happy for change that would be "good" for America! BUT having lived abroad about 14 different countries for longer than a year each ---Everyone from another land has only 1 RACE & 1 Culture - Theirs! People come here & make a place for themselves because it is WAY better & WAY Free compared to theirs. The other lands ENVY the UNITED STATES of AMERICA! --- That will NEVER stop! What do think they think about you now? ----They LOVE us for what we have or Tolerate us as long as we give... BUT some to most HATE us because there are only 2 classes of people in most countries... Poor / Super Rich. For the most part they even hate it when we go over to help because of false pride & it's embarrassing & sometimes insulting for a foreigner to help -- For the few folks that may think they know foreign lands / culture & people - STUDY history can tell you if the other governments of the world starve & deprive their own people of food & opportunity... What in the world do you think that "THEY THINK" about our FREE markets? We can NOT change their ENVY... How can we change that? (Now some would say that they've lived abroad too & do NOT see that - I couldn't change anyone's mind about a perception they have ---- & then to say "Oh, you don't see it my way??" & then proceed to lord over folks that I've lived abroad & know better... NOPE because everyone is entitled to their own opinions - In America you can say it out in the open. For me personally --- I have NO illusions about how the REAL WORLD SEES the U.S.A... BUT I also know that at lease 95% of the worlds population is living in squaller & that if given the choice most people of the world would trade their life for your life without question. Congratulations to our NEW President! - Just hopes he focuses on taking care of us here first before trying to pretend that he knows anything about repairing what he thinks is wrong with AMERICA by asking every country how can we stop offending you...? The new change may be in compromising some of our security or freedoms even more than we wanted just to appease governments who could careless about us. Since everyone has come over here from every country & usually stays here -we know what they think about their own country... "It's nice to visit their home lands every so often as a nice reminder of why they left in the first place..." GOOD Question "OP"

wexus

Joined: 12/12/2006

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Why does everything change after marriage? Posted: 8/31/2008 12:57:52 AM
I've never been married but have met my fair share of "California Women" who fit the statement that distantprospect - left on the POF - Sad to say but that seems to be a real common attitude these days. The what's yours is mine & what's mine is mine & oh by the way "I'm always right!"... (for that type of person it is usually due to the lack of culture & education) - Not all girls are like this but who knows until you get married- I can't tell since they usually seem to have very good fronts & acting skills in SHALLOWVILL! ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Sorry man - My only suggestion is - Find a good church & find a good pastor & PRAY & fast - bring yourself to that place that can help you work this all out... Usually being humble works... (discover what you need in your life & be humble to work it out). You are in my prayers-

wexus

Joined: 12/12/2006

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Why do women like Jerks Posted: 8/20/2008 8:11:12 AM
Working for a major "BIG BOX FOOD STORE" - We have over 300 people in our building & there are only a few folks that are married that are just content & happy about life - What some women find cute & funny in the beginning of a relationship becomes stupid & annoying later on... One of the girls that knew had a boyfriend of 3 years. I see her crying one day & ask is she okay? She tell me that her boyfriend was "her first love" & that he's been going to the "movies" with another girl... In this day & age he may be making a "movie" about his exploits & wants a way out of the relationship... Fast forward 3 months... They are buying a house together...!!!! Yeah! there is some real crazy girls that think they can change the "Jerks" into ...WHAT? The girls that want & help reinforce a Jerks behavior really do get what they wanted in the first place... Some reasons to complain & whine & moan about how life sucks... & 10 years go by - they don't look so hot any more from all the failed Jerks they tried to change & are NOW wanting to "SETTLE DOWN"... ( this story seems to be common among women & men but more so from women at my old place of work )... Just frustrates me to see it going on & to hear it everyday constant stupidity-- Definition of INSANITY is doing the same thing over & over again BUT expecting different Results...! ----------------------Why complain when you can learn & move on....? BUT NOOOO- year after year same complaints... INSANE! & DUMB & CRAP & NUTS & CRAZY etc...

wexus

Joined: 12/12/2006

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Why do women create & make Jerks Posted: 8/19/2008 7:09:33 PM
A. If women had an ok relationship with their DAD's who were jerks the girls end up with someone like their DAD's that the girls can change... OR want to try & change... C. If women didn't need companionship as much as the man does this would never happen....(men would have to realize why they want the relationship in the first place....... Men need women just as much as women do - So men get tricked & women get tricked into believing that a loving relationship starts out by being physical so fast...(as that is the main attraction that drives us)... (HOW I know is some of the PROS use SKIN & or Semi-Nakid! photos to entice & or trap the eyes & then to a nice smooth phone conversation... INTO a nice relationship that lasts about 1 to 6 months & then your hooked...2 to 7 years & bust? - Hope not! IMHO) The other half is that after the relationship has begun... Time to wear pajamas all the time for some women... & the dudes don't need wear that many clothes when around the house... (This would lead to a bit of laziness & Jerk like behavior - because you may act like you dress)... -Where did "B" go...? ^ "B" - went to see where the "eer" went...... Agree with jj408 - Be happy with yourself - !

wexus

Joined: 12/12/2006

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Tandem Skydive at Lake Elsinore, Sunday, Sept. 28th Posted: 8/19/2008 3:37:41 PM
I can take some photos & video of the event BUT as far as the JUMP... aaahheemm.... I like to stay grounded...

wexus

Joined: 12/12/2006

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Back to the basics & then some... Posted: 8/19/2008 3:18:28 PM
I think after being on this site - some people would rather LURK than actually have a GROUP meeting- Online texting is NO substitution for actually meeting people face to face... Photos don't do a person right & phone conversations are good but why so much "FEAR" of meeting a group of people in an open setting at a public place? Reason I say this is because the turn outs to a POF even seem to be GOOD but they are not happening so that even shy folks can feel like they might like to go there just to see what's up... I've get the perfect public place & the owners blessings to have a POF home base & safe haven... Anyone Interested in a POF home base place? Anyone not doing anything Guys & Gals feel free to post on this message board or Email me... This is a Real thing that anyone can take advantage of... I have for the past 10 years or so... (a place to relax & have no fear of being thrown out or being attacked etc..) I do not gain anything by this promotion other than getting to meet a few folks --- Or do people just like to LURK in this site without actually meeting people? ( Hey, I wanna know are people becoming less interactive with each other & find LURKing & posting more real than actually meeting real people - You don't even have to like the people as you don't know anyone until you speak with them face to face ).......

wexus

Joined: 12/12/2006

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Movie quotes NOT to use on a first date. Posted: 8/19/2008 2:36:48 PM
I love movie quotes! - Really dig Buckaroo Banzai what a great movie...(Lots of great actors played in this one)... Good call by Pete!

wexus

Joined: 12/12/2006

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Singles events? NEW.... Posted: 8/19/2008 8:30:58 AM
There is a place in CORONA CA that has the owners FULL support of any & all events at a driving range near toms farms called temescal driving range & the owners would love to sponsor or host an event --- They have wide open spaces for parking & for kids to run around or to hit balls at a discounted rate & they do serve drinks there. We can take & upload photos there to our POF sites to show the event online. The weather is cooling off a bit at night so anyone not getting there during the day can come late as the owners would stay open LATE for anyone / groups coming from where ever... Anyone up for an event there - A general meeting place with at least 30 guys & 30 girls wanting to have a social gathering... I could throw a date out there like in 2 weeks we could all meet there on a Friday / Friday night or Saturday ...? Anyone in Corona / Norco / Riverside / Temecula areas? - --- Are most people too scared to meet in a general setting at a Driving Range? (golf practice) They have never been busy on those nights...(for some reason)... If the meetings are a success the owners would agree to having a mixer 1 to 2 times per month... Anyone...? Anyone....?

wexus

Joined: 12/12/2006

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Movie quotes NOT to use on a first date. Posted: 8/19/2008 7:38:38 AM
Fun Bag ALERT! - jim belushi Red Heat with GOV. Arnold Swartz...

wexus

Joined: 12/12/2006

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California women: fact or myth? Posted: 8/19/2008 7:27:08 AM
I've traveled all over ASIA as a military brat & when I came to California I thought that there would be a great sigh of relief as I would settle down with a real woman... I've know about 25 different families that were very well off - having over 10+ millions in properties & holdings etc... & about 20 of these families the wives cheated on the husbands after the 2nd or 3rd child.... WITH a stupid punk - like an person who gives lessons: Piano, Tennis, American style Karate, etc... & these women eventually divorced the husbands & eventually got cheated on by the very punks they left their husbands with or for ... The other 5 guys were KNOWN cheaters prior to marriage & they just wouldn't change... None of the women had to work & they usually said the same thing... I need to be happy too... (HUH? taking a vacation 2 or 3 times a year - buying stuff for parties all the time - always thinking your right all the time - Doesn't make you happy?) REMINDS me of a joke... The Husband Store A brand new store has just opened in New York City that sells Husbands. When women go to choose a husband, they have to follow the instructions at the entrance: "You may visit this store ONLY ONCE! There are 6 floors and the value of the products increase as you ascend the flights. You may choose any item from a particular floor or may choose to go up to the next floor, but you CANNOT go back down except to exit the building!" So, a woman goes to the Husband Store to find a husband. The 1st floor sign reads: Floor 1 - These men have jobs. The 2nd floor sign reads: Floor 2 - These men Have Jobs and Love Kids. The 3rd floor sign reads: Floor 3 - These men Have Jobs, Love Kids and are extremely good looking. "Wow," she thinks, but feels compelled to keep going. She goes to the 4th floor and The sign reads: Floor 4 - These men Have Jobs, Love Kids, are Drop-dead Good Looking and Help with Housework. "Oh, mercy me!" she exclaims, "I can hardly stand it!" Still, she goes to the 5th floor and The sign reads: Floor 5 - These men Have Jobs, Love Kids, are Drop-dead Gorgeous, help with Housework and Have A Strong Romantic Streak. She is so tempted to stay, but she goes to the 6th floor and the sign reads: Floor 6 - You are visitor 31,456,012 to this floor. There are no men on this floor. This floor exists solely as proof that women are impossible to please. Thank you for shopping at the Husband Store. To avoid gender bias charges, the store's owner opens a New Wives store just across the street. The 1st floor has wives who love sex. The 2nd floor has wives who love sex and have money. The 3rd through 6th floors have never been visited. Found on a joke site...

wexus

Joined: 12/12/2006

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3rd date/5th date STATE Posted: 8/19/2008 6:42:05 AM
I think it depends on what type of person you are trying to court ... Dates were originally a few meetings over food or events that were supposed to lead up to marriage... BUT with the McDonalds (fast food) style of courtship here in America - California we want to know too fast "what will it be like"... & once we know NOW on to the NEXT! (this type of relationship disturbs me). For the guy if it's too Easy to get into the girls into the sack you are NOT the one they would settle down with... I think Billy Crystal said it best - Women need a reason to have sex & men just need a place... (he didn't say it best for me though - I'm old fashioned)... I do wish some folks would allow the courtship of dating to lead up to marriage NOT treat it like just cheap sex as if it was just a condition like blowing your nose... Some of the girls I've met who went out on dates & ended up in the sack that night... Only to find out that the guy they went out with said all the right things for the girls reason to give in to all the right signals... Felt cheated & or tricked - (the girls feel regret the next day & for the next week or so until the next one night stand). This is not a good policy- I would say that for me a date is supposed to lead up to eventual marriage & that if the person you are dating is NOT the one you would consider marring why have sex with them...? ( for some out there the answer is CONQUEST!) For some of you guys that are posting above me - I'm actually laughing at your comments they are pretty good - wish I had read them before I posted this one...(revised one)...

wexus

Joined: 12/12/2006

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Does it take talent to be a movie actor? Posted: 8/19/2008 6:04:11 AM
I think talent 1925 to 1965 was VERY different than it is TODAY - along with the writers & all others who made up movie making into what it is today... Apply the same thinking to a TEEN band who can actually play instruments from the heart in their garage & becomes the next ROLLING STONES - Beatles etc... who is still touring today... TO - Groups that were & are made popular by the record companies because they look a certain way & appeal to a certain crowd... IF there is a certain "ITCH" in your blood - To: act - sing - paint - sculpt - ART etc... then no one can shake that & or take that away from you... You'll know it...because you'll do it with or without pay to the point of starvation... I'm sure that "DIRECTORS" are just looking for that certain look & voice...They'll know it when they see it & hear it for "THE ROLL"... (nothing personal if they don't pick you this time)... I'm sure that's why some people start their own little independent companies - (sundance film fest comes to mind - you can be discovered in a short film made from passion? that you wrote - produced - filmed - & stared in ED WOODish)... etc...etc... etc...

wexus

Joined: 12/12/2006

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A moral dilemma Posted: 8/19/2008 5:40:47 AM
I'm sure that the statement- "You Reap what you Sow" comes to mind & that what is in her life & marriage should be just that-- Her husband knew the risks & she should do what she feels led to do at the time-- I'm sure she'll let "it" out when the time is right - Let her decide it's her marriage & it's her decision -- ( THAT guy / her husband will regret doing this one day & he'll have to face the fact that he committed adultery before GOD & only GOD can judge him...etc...etc.. etc...) Chlamydia is the most frequently reported bacterial sexually transmitted disease in the United States. In 2006, 1,030,911 chlamydial infections were reported to CDC from 50 states and the District of Columbia. Under-reporting is substantial because most people with chlamydia are not aware of their infections and do not seek testing. Also, testing is not often done if patients are treated for their symptoms. An estimated 2,291,000 non-institutionalized U.S. civilians ages 14-39 are infected with Chlamydia based on the U.S. National Health and Nutrition Examination Survey. Women are frequently re-infected if their sex partners are not treated.

wexus

Joined: 12/12/2006

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what should i do? Posted: 8/19/2008 5:07:44 AM
YOU say you do not want to loose him... I don't think you ever had him.... You are asking for help... Why don't you ask yourself why do you love him? Is it because he's faithful? Is it because he's been truthful? Is it because he's ready to settle down with a nice girl like you? If you can not get the message from him that is HOW he IS... He likes many women NOT just you... He likes to be with other women... He wants to have secrets with MANY & MANY MORE WOMEN... He has a emptiness inside of him & he has to fill that feeling with LOTS of WOMEN... WHY would he stop seeing all of these other women for you ---- ??? You've already had some nights over at his house & he already knows you & that it does not take that much to keep you satisfied--- YES he got caught! & YES you took him back...!!! Why would you ever go back? Why would you keep going back?------Hhhmmm.... (he must have found your special "SPOT" within you that know one else has... the physical spot or the emotional spot - My guess is physical spot)..... Sex is NOT always a real form of LOVE & Loving sex is NOT reason for commitment --- Has he earned your trust? Do not use sex as reason to love him - look to how you feel about him when you caught him the 2nd time & how you feel about NO TRUST.... NO TRUTH... NOW look into the Mirror & say that there will be a 3rd & 4th & 5th &6th & 7th & 8th & 9th & 10th & 11th & 12th & 13th & 14th & 15th & 16th & 17th & 18th & 19th & 20th & 21st & 22nd & 23rd & 24th & 25th & 26th & 27th & 28th & 29th & 30th & 31st & 32nd "womans" <----- on his list. & well you'll eventually learn... That you like to find out & you like that he says he won't do it again...& 33rd & 34th & 35th & 36th & 37th & 38th & 39th & 40th...... Or you can just move on... He already has - if you believe him or not.... Sorry that you had to find out here that he really does cheat & he really doesn't care if you find out or not... NOW serving number 41! Time to wake up girl.... I do not like what he has done & can not stand it & I denounce his actions!

wexus

Joined: 12/12/2006

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Time to come clean: NEW!!! Posted: 8/18/2008 8:41:40 PM
I've posted this before - In corona there is a Driving Range right by Toms Farms - The owners encourage anyone & everyone in Corona Ca & the surrounding areas to come on down meet & greet etc... ------------------------------------------------------------------ There is a web site for this place but I do NOT want to violate any "DOMAIN" plugs that would get me booted off of this site... ----------------------------------------------------------------- This place serves beverages but no food & is open LATE!!! There is plenty of space for kids to run around & hit balls & putt etc... --------------------------------------------------------------- If anyone is interested please email me for DETAILS.... Thanks Gang...! Kahuna!

wexus

Joined: 12/12/2006

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I'm the other women you are right... Posted: 4/17/2008 2:19:41 AM
Please don't put sex on the guy since you knew he was involved with a friend of yours & you say HE initiated it... Try telling that to his girlfriend when she finds out... He'll say that it was you! You are the TRAMP etc... (he can not keep this a secret - it will one day come out by you or by him - Figure out what you have to say about it) So it's his fault... HOW about saying NO for a change... How about taking responseability for your actions... YOU both wanted to have sex & SECRET SEX seems more passionate than straight sex since it's in secret & away from your friend...(which you are NOW NOT her friend since you stabbed her in the back & yourself).... If you didn't want sex - then it was "RAPE" - but doesn't sound like it to me... Just wait until it happens to you & see how you feel about Betrail !!!! Someone you love & trust just starts INITIATING sex with others to help the pain of having 2 or more lovers... (are you the only one OR are you one of many?) You reap what you sow - STOP what you are doing & move on - It should have been a mistake? BUT guess what - This secret will come out by this guy confessing to his girl friend once you reject him & he admits to her that it was YOU that INITIATED SEX! NOT him... You will wish you had never done that since this kind of thing now spills over onto YOUTUBE - etc... STOP IT!

wexus

Joined: 12/12/2006

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How to deal with partner's promiscuous past huh? Posted: 4/17/2008 1:49:51 AM
Sound like your guy is really into you & you are the one for him... He's been waiting for you & has been comforted by one night stands & still keeps in contact with all the lonely women out there BUT you are the ONE! for him... Got to admire such comitment from him, such devotion in helping all the lonely women out there... BUT he does love you of course... after all you are with a guy that has had 31 flavors... You are still young enough to be ruined by such a freak of nature... 31 women? WOW he's been waiting for you alright... NOW what about the 90 others he's not told you about... I think you should stop pretending that this guy isn't banging all his past "EXes"... Take your head out of your "ARSE" & stop complaining & see the truth... (BUT he's your FIRST... !!!! YOU ARE NOT HIS FIRST! that was your fault not his... HE was & is a pig about it & please don't pretend that he's NOT sleeping with anyone else - if he wasn't you wouldn't be on the forum & he wouldn't have 31+ women swimming around in his mind!) Good Lord where do you girls come from? (although I wish you had not ended up with such a person - he will NOT change & can NOT change - If he had - why is he still in contact with them - BECAUSE just to see if at anytime any of them are "WEAK" & he is there to help with the stress by knocking it out with them I"M SURE he WILL! I DO wish you the best & hope you will see the light & stop pretending that he's a changed person) IF my girl had that background well I would assume that she had been some sort of prostitute... or really confused on drugs or a sex addict etc... (I'm very sorry about your situation & pray for the best for you... You know what he is already... Please search your mind - you know what the real truth is)... Get the book the 10 stupid things girls do to ruin their lives by "DR LAURA"... Sorry -

wexus

Joined: 12/12/2006

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Why is marriage so seemingly Righteous? IT IS... Posted: 4/8/2008 9:32:16 PM
It is if you want it to be... There should be no abuse!!!! EVER! Be the person you want to be around & no fake $hite either... I would like to comment on the ideas of "Man Made Anniversaries" ....(Birthdays / holiday's / anniversaries / christmas etc...) My experience is that "A", they are good & bad & "B" necessary to help remind us that we still love that person etc... Let's hope that no one is really depending on the anniversaries to get them through the years....BUT if the women or men of the relationship were so dependent on anniversaries to help get them through lonely times there is a neurotic feeling that anniversaries don't really work anyway... Why don't women / men create the enviroment that they want for their futures anyway. Keep that in mind when you want to lay the ground work for your next "WIFE OR HUSBAND".... :)

wexus

Joined: 12/12/2006

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is sex something a woman offers in a relationship? NEW.... Posted: 4/8/2008 9:11:47 PM
It's a shame that some men do not feel the same way... ( In my opinion the men that focus on "SEX" are only looking for 1 thing & that's it... ) Not that you are Chasmansonjr - but from what i've seen the men that want to shotgun into "SEX" want no relationship with the woman... It is my firm opinion that the women that "CAVE IN" too soon create "JERKS".... I wish women would really make the guys work harder in showing some sort of interest in actually having a relationship instead of just PURE RAW HARD SEX.... Good post... Kahuna

wexus

Joined: 12/12/2006

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Is it normal to like or have a crush on other people while in a relationship? Posted: 2/10/2008 10:35:07 PM
Yes, it's normal... you can't help how you feel but then it should pass....( people feel: hungry - they eat - feel: tired - sleep -- feel: cold - put on more clothes / cover up --- Feelings come and go .... it's the character that's inside a person... can you "TRUST THEM?" If they act on feelings & impulse or do they calculate the outcome & weigh their character.... If they act on a feeling & it fails... 1. it wasn't meant to be between you two in the first place or 2. they ignore it because they love you & themselves.... or 3. they are too young & feel that life still has plenty to offer & they will keep their options open because hey they've got their whole lives ahead of them & if they are NOT actually married to you then they are still single in their minds --- since they are a real catch...! Kahuna...

wexus

Joined: 12/12/2006

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Are we manogamous? for SOME.... Posted: 8/20/2007 2:09:43 PM
Women & men are imitating sitcoms & TV shows... & wanting more & more.... There is no contentment (happiness).... When people feel like they are missing out of life they get "restless" & for the "WEAKER SEX" man or woman they usually lead 2 lives & cheat with & become actual human trash - who could care less what they are doing to help break up a family with kids... (there is no exucse) Kids grow up with the FuKit attitude from their parents & they in turn seem to rebel & want to say FuKit also.... That is why we have what we have today - people willing to cheat on husband / wife & kids for someone who could careless about you...They just seem to like the fact that they are breaking something up... (cheating & or breaking up the family could be about any abuse - drugs - money - physical - it all seems to point to someone being so selfish that they do not care about anyone but their need to feel something)....

wexus

Joined: 12/12/2006

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Is CyberSex Cheating if you are in A relationship? Posted: 5/5/2007 10:34:10 AM
ONE THING ------> Leads to another (\|)!....... & YES it IS cheating ---- On yourself.... (Letting your mind wander close to trouble & danger is risky ---- letting yourself down - morally - spiritually - ethically - only _YOU_ cheat yourself out of a life you can be proud of.....) Kahuna-

wexus

Joined: 12/12/2006

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Sleeping problems? THE ONE.... Posted: 4/25/2007 12:37:33 AM
A few things from someone who used to work 3 jobs...(& sometimes I only got to sleep every 3 days or so..) 1. Block out all lights... (your body produces hormones to help you sleep) 2. USE All NATURAL - Melationin... 3. Try using the NOVA Form Topper from COSTCO - around $80 to $100 Best investment I ever made to help me sleep & it works great! 4. NO monster drinks / Coffee / SODAS at least 4 hours before you go to bed.... 5. No running exercises.... 6. A warm to hot bath can loosen you up & use some minerals in the water. 7. No heavy meals that include milk / broccoli / or CABAGE before bed time... 8. No loud music before bedtime... 9. No video games that over stimulate the brain to react fast... 10. No ice cream / deserts too much sugar stimulates the heart late at night... These were my little rules for helping me get some rest... According to Newsweek® magazine - "Melatonin is the all-natural nightcap. It's secreted by the pineal gland, a pea-size structure at the center of the brain, as our eyes register the fall of darkness. "At night melatonin is produced to help our bodies regulate our sleep-wake cycles. The amount of it produced by our body seems to lessen as we get older. Scientists believe this may be why young people have less problem sleeping than older people. "Studies suggest that... supplements can hasten sleep and ease jet lag, without the hazards or side effects of prescription sleeping pills." It may have many other uses and has been reported to make people feel better, strengthen the immune system, and reduce free radicals in the body. Current research is underway to determine it's effect as an anti-oxidant, immno-modulator in cancer, delayed sleep-phase disorders, and jet lag. Tests are still under way so there is much to still be learned about it and its effects on the human body. Travelers and people suffering from mild sleep disorders. According to the article, a typical comment from discussion groups on the Internet is, "'Folks, I've tried it and it's great. It has ...restored my sleep cycle, given me lots of energy.'"

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Msg: 13 (view)

Divorced & Christian....? Posted: 4/18/2007 12:47:53 PM
I'm pretty sure that Cricket 5 said it best. And I'm sure that as long as a Christian can profess that Jesus Christ Died for our sins & then was raised again on the 3rd day then yes we are believers.... No matter the denomination (that should be a given)... Is anyone reading these other posts or are you folks just commenting on specific ones that you are NOT mentioning who you are commenting on...? I'm sure that everyone has their reasons for divorce but I don't just look at it as a Californians as some seem to be doing. (because if anyone travels around the country side of America you'll get huge differences as to what a Christian Divorce should be about. The whole point of dating is to eventually get Married --- NOT to eventually hang out together until one gets bored with the other & then finds a new mate.(that is High School behavior)... Perpetual dating can lead to an uneasy lifestyle that always leaves someone wanting more & hence dating & marriage are 2 different worlds... that's why some people who have been dating for a long time who get married ---- get a divorce shortly after their long live in sessions... The shooting thing & the Muslim styles are 2 extremes that do not usually apply to NORMAL life styles....(bell curve stuff).... As I said before Angle said it best & so has Cricket... Anyone else along those lines care to share? I do thank the group for participating with this particular posting - no matter what you post to it.... Thank you Kahuna-

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Divorced & Christian....? Posted: 4/18/2007 9:13:48 AM
I think there are REAL people out there that are just trying to turn Christians off or turn them on--- sort of a HOT or Cold test to see who caves into throwing all cares to the wind...& using problems in life or other people as a reason to say that is the reason why they are NOT putting into practice being Christian - today... As far as relationships go in most that eventually get serious ---> Attending some sort of services during the years ahead will eventually follow & there may be some sort of conflict if one person is of one type of faith & someone is Christian or a "TRUE Christian" (true meaning putting into practice what is written instead of just sayings with words & that you can spot a true Christian by the "FRUIT's of their Labor & not their many words).... The title in the subject line was meant for anyone that would may be like to share their story about how or why Christians get Divorced to a Christian - IT is not fair to get married or to "hook up" with someone who is NOT Christian because of being unevenly yoked & that never really worked. This is not my definition - but what I've read & have reworded / come up with by listening etc. & I'm just curious as to the stories that are behind the reasons why someone that is / was Christian & is now on Plenty of Fish & has been Divorced...Other religeons can do what ever they want because there is no real consequences to a divorce if you are of other faiths.... AngelRanch05 --- Your story is exactly the type that can help a person make a decision about you as a person & as a Christian that someone would like to know... Because it was & is REAL. Thank You - That took courage to put that on this forum! Kahuna-

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Divorced & Christian....? Posted: 4/18/2007 12:29:24 AM
True but ---The words Christians & Divorce don't usually go hand in hand... or do they & I've just be clued into something that is NORMAL these day's...?

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How soon to you reveal your own bagage ? Posted: 4/18/2007 12:27:14 AM
No you are NOT wrong... Too SOON is Too Crazy...... I can see it all now ---I've just met you for the first time & then proceed to bring you upto speed about my WHOLE LIFE until present day & THEN want you to pat me on the back & just say --- You are exactly the type of person I've been waiting for... (what is this a "What about BOB 2 Movie"? Some people who don't get out too much do just that... I would say - sounds interesting & then proceed to be very busy the next time they called or wanted a meeting to have another unpaid therapy session...& that status can not really change... Sounds like fun - & so does a root canal... Kahuna

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Msg: 18 (view)

making a good first impression Posted: 4/18/2007 12:20:10 AM
If this happened to me I would postpone the meeting but I would also relax with the whole "Dating thing" --------It takes a long while to get to know someone & even though I want every detail to be perfect.... LIFE is NOT.... Roll with it sometimes.... Kahuna-

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Msg: 16 (view)

What's an acceptable amount of Money to make? Posted: 4/18/2007 12:13:17 AM
As far as know with some of the circles I've run into ----> Money can not buy love but I can create a nice messy divorce... As some of the folks I've know with money here in California have had some money under their belts --- 7 figure type people... Mostly the women end up cheating on the man making the most amount of money in that family...Usually after the 2nd or 4th child is born... The kicker is that the women end up cheating on the husbands / kids & their selves with a total BUMB - Like an instuctor of: Music - Tennis - Karate - Art - Golf - etc... (now to clear the air ---These are good & loveable professions - It's just that for some reason most of the men in these professions did end up helping the women that were married get a divorce from their rich husbands & then only to end up living off the money from the divorce also now these particular guys are some real bumbs not the whole profession as I've mentioned above).........These guys were parasites pretending to be in love with the women but only wanted the money the husbands had so they romanced the wives & then proceeded to help "con" the women / wives out of their marriages & then out of their money....PARASITES! It's a shame the most of these women couldn't see that coming before they got a divorce...... I've seen too many divorces personally.... This post was just from my point of view from all the divorces I've seen & is in no way pointing the finger at the whole female race.... Just thoes particular ones that I've known & have seen about 25 total & about 22 were just from the womans side cheating on "RICH Husbands" with PARASITES pretending to be human men.... (what punks)..... Kahuna-

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Divorced & Christian....? Posted: 4/18/2007 12:00:12 AM
I'm just wondering why there are so many out there with kids too... This is not a christian thread but it might turn into one... There just seems to be so many Christians that have gotten a divorce & I'm noticing it... & I wonder "WHY"? or is it just me.... Does anyone else notice this trend too? Kahuna-

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Msg: 103 (view)

Sex or Love? Posted: 4/17/2007 11:56:02 PM
Love & then some ---------> there is no sparks then there is no relationship... (Sad but true)..... Kahuna-

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I might be wrong, but there seem to be more Pisces, listed on this site than other zodiac signs. Posted: 4/17/2007 11:54:15 PM
For me there seems to be an abi-normal amount of "LEO's" / women on this site... or are they just the pretty ones... that I click on... (hey all women are beautiful in a certain way I'm just joking about the leo's...)... But I'm not laughing out lound about it... Kahuna-

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L.A. Area 30+ SINGLES DANCE Posted: 3/29/2007 1:22:28 AM
hmmm... I'm looking to do that one day also... kahuna-

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Msg: 8 (view)

DOES HE LIKE ME? Posted: 3/29/2007 1:17:55 AM
Like you in what way? Saying what's on your mind is NOT going to scare a person away who likes you... The question is why is he doing this? Does he see you as a mommy figure to tuck him into bed every night? Does he like to sleep after eating a HUGE MONGUS Dinner? Does he work a lot? Does he have eMail? (so you can touch base with him during the day)... I would say this is funny this is what you did last time... Do you find it hard to call me during the day? Or When can I call you before your bed time? (is 7:00 P.M. too late just after your large supper?)... Hummm.... I don't know if I would ever admit to any woman that I get sleepy when talking to her on the phone or in person...(Aahh, yes.... when I talk to you ...you put me right to bed... how romantZZZZzzzzzzzzzzzzzz............zzzzzzzzzzzz............)..........z Kahuna-

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Msg: 21 (view)

ANY STORIES OF PEOPLE ACTUALLY HOOKING UP FROM THIS SITE? Posted: 3/25/2007 12:55:14 AM
huh? dates & actual people meeting from this site...? Nothing real from my end... People on this site are like chess players...too careful...too late... Kahuna - to be real....

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Msg: 20 (view)

What does dating something mean to you? Posted: 3/13/2007 12:30:05 AM
what ever happened to a friendship that developed into a relationship? That is IDEAL. But usually never ends up happening.... Kahuna-

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Msg: 8 (view)

Sex In A Bottle Posted: 3/12/2007 2:16:21 AM
I usually rub Strawberries or Banana Peals all over my skin before I head out into the world this seems to drive "ME" crazy & I can not contain myself & have to... Okay all joking aside there are real "Pheromones" for men & women & I'm sure that for each & every person the "little tingle we get when we smell or think we do turns on the EROTICA switch"... Yes, I'm sure it works for some but that is the initial response for a good head start with a person but may not last depending on your personality - money you make - how you are with kids - do you talk with your mouth full - do you laugh like tweety bird etc.... I've not looked online yet... BUT I'll keep you posted... Kahuna-

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Girls vs. Guys Posted: 3/4/2007 6:55:54 AM
Have lived in Japan for 20 years & came back to America in 1990... I'm sure that we can all generalize but there are only a few male "DOGS" in my mind out of the group of guys that I've met in my life... They were true dogs... I've known about 20 families that I could call close friends at one time. About 17 of them were all broken up due to the wife not having to work because the husband made good money...The couples had 2 to 4 kides at any one time... The women cheated on the husbands usually after the 2nd or 4th child was borne... After I spoke to both parties the women stated: "Well I need to be happy too. , It's his fault he let me take karate lessons (slept with instructor), Hey, get over it, the kids will be fine, this would have never happened if you paid more attention to me etc. , you are always at work." & I could go on with the phrases I've heard but you get the idea. 3 out of the 20 guys I've met were "DOGS" before their marriage & the women knew it...THEY were PIGS! & that what was each woman thought they could reform them etc.. My trust in some of the American women has gone down because the women were fine up until some point but no one knew but them about their dissatisfaction... & then out of the blue they cheated & then cheated on the original ones they cheated with etc... SOME of the women have had as many as 7 to 10 different lovers while dragging their kids along through each relationship... BUT not all women are bad it's just so hard to read the signs these day's there was no warning... Thanks - GOOD TOPIC Kahuna-

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Msg: 19 (view)

Men with no car or license??? Posted: 2/27/2007 11:47:14 PM
No more... No MORE.... There can not be anyone living in California & NOT have a Drivers Permit...or License...(not unless the state deems them to be so...) California is HUGE & VAST as far as States go & or Economies... A car here is not only a MUST but it is necessary to live with one, as you may have noticed that nothing gets done not unless you drive 30 minutes or so...(Try walking that)... California is HUGE.... True if you do not have a License ... Call a taxi or have tons of friends that do not mind you calling them for rides...(but paying for gas is a must if this is a constant thing).... Kahuna-

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Msg: 12 (view)

experiences POF Last Resort... Posted: 2/25/2007 6:37:48 PM
Me think'em POF - LAST resort - Women / Men Fed up about Online BS... Now me think'em we go back to underwater adventures.... This SITE is GREAT when it come to the forums... BUT forgive me - I must agree...That most people on here do not want to meet anyone yet or have met all the wrong types...& NOW there is this big laundry list of "Do's & Don'ts".... I just use this place for the FORUMS as they are entertaining & charming... Thanks for posting this question... Kahuna

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Msg: 19 (view)

How much do women want to laugh? Posted: 2/25/2007 6:31:44 PM
If you break Wwhind around them, they seem to laugh a lot at that moment or anytime they see you in the future... Kahuna-

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Msg: 23 (view)

only by e-mail knows Sex Posted: 2/24/2007 12:58:47 AM
I understand you just fine ...& hope you understand me... THIS GUY IS CRAZY! NUTS! STRANGE & WEIRD... PLEASE NO SEX WITH THIS GUY>>>> He is crazy & too fast & this is NOT NORMAL... NO MORE EMAILS TO HIM>>>> HE is A person who wants to USE YOU FOR NOTHING>>> STOP! & NO SEX for STANGERS... HE is ANIMAL! PLEASE ---DO NOT MEET HIM--- (you say he's coming in MAY to visit you ---Do not let him DO NOT ANSWER HIS EMAILS..) Kahuna-

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Msg: 21 (view)

How many messages before you pop the question?? Posted: 2/21/2007 8:57:40 PM
Everyone that posts - Hey, I EMAILED her/ him & get no response... I think that is true for a lot of people since it is a bit of a chess game & we can pick & choose who we want to like or dislike. & some would say "GET OVER IT" but Online meet & greet is NOT the same as in life... BUT never really get to know the people just in the forums since hardly anyone of us types like we talk...OR LAUGH for that matter... (for some guys one little SNORT / snicker piggy style & they are gone but I usually make girls laugh until they must use the rest room or already did by accident but that doesn't mean that I'm the true funny guy the girls only think I am...) I've emailed with just general questions to hundreds of people just see if they even respond... & I've gotten about 2 back that are worth the digital email read but in real life if I were to post any question I would get a real world response... Never just being ignored... This site is great for insight but is nothing like the real world... I'm not a hound dog but, if I say HI, in the real world at least most if not all people say hi back (except some Asians -I'm half Chinese by the way so no hate from Asians prease)... Kahuna-

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Msg: 18 (view)

How many messages before you pop the question?? Posted: 2/20/2007 1:19:04 PM
Weeks? Months? ----> I meet people everyday & I can know if someone is for real or not... Being too cautious or second guessing one thing or another... I don't need to meet someone in or on an ONLINE dating service to strike up a converstaion... On of the only reasons I use this site is becuase of this FORUM & thats it... NOT to put the "FREAK" on people as some of the stories you hear about from others but they will not name, names becuause the person just happend to sleep with someone on the first date etc... Either we are living real lives or we are living in the online world (that has no sun rise or sunsets & no air or substance at all---CYBERSPACE).... ( If you want to get to know someone this forum is great & it helps with the choices people make & advice that they give, seeing if someone you may like really is serious or just messing around, or lies to everyone etc... Kahuna-

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Msg: 27 (view)

What do you miss about being in a relationship? Posted: 2/19/2007 11:57:36 PM
Melting into her & forgetting all time everyday... Kahuna-

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