Still have to wonder why the link (which I didn't know existed) appeared on my profile page and now its suddenly gone. Hmmmm.

It says user deleted account.

The reason is that the owners of this site have chosen to impose their personal beliefs upon everyone whether they agree or not.

Its called freedom of choice.

WHEN, they can and are very AWARE that they can restrict age.

I like to find other photographers to network with and have friends that are photography students or that are interested in photography as a hobby.

Thoughts?

yes, if a message isn't in your sent items, the intended recipient did not get it.

I'm not looking for WHY it's not in my sent items.

I am simply seeking confirmation that if the message does not show up in sent items, it means that it was not delivered.

Look only an idiot would make any judgements of a stranger based on a stupid testimonial on their profile.

At the bottom of certain pages are testimonials of couples meeting on this site.

A testimonial can be just as bogus as the profile itself and no one is screening the profiles either really. HELLO???

If they take lets say the 12 months cost - $90 do they take the $90 right away all at once

what if i decide to opt out lets say 5 months into it do i get the the money back for the 7 months i don't use

I guess I should have changed the title of my thread when I bumped it to my current issue.

Smokers are weak, addicted aholes that don't even respect themselves.

so I'm betting the two are related in any event.

I'm 100% sure Markus' statement there is in no way related to this thread's subject

The problem with the "Contact History" feature pure and simply is that they left off the multiple page links that it used to have before they updated the format.

Just a space for us to type a small sentence that relates to our day or what we're feeling/thinking in the moment.

However they don't appear in the 'viewed me' page or my 'contact history'

How come I can see forums for Ireland, Testimonials (?), UK and Australia but nowhere else?

i clicked the profile link and it takes me to the main page of POF?

My "Review My Profile" thread deleted itself?

Could someone email the list? Maybe to my message box? Please??? I won't tell.

and when I right clicked on the red X to give me the properties

because now I don't have to wonder why I viewed me but didn't write me.

I don't. Do you remember the approximate year?

In order to keep a civilized society, blame must be assigned appropriately.

So.... if actions should result in consequences then: If a teenage girl drinks enough to pass out then she should expect to be raped while passed out.

Being f*cked in the ass, without consent, while passed out is NOT a normal or expected consequence of drinking, ever..

The moral of this post I've quoted is

she could have been drinking ice tea all night, and some boy could have given her a roofie

and the same thing would have happened

other people with the same interests

My account was deleted after 3 days of me paying for 3 month service.

It's not that alcohol didn't play a part, it's that the part it played is irrelevant.

In this case, the lesson you and others are sending is that "if the girl is falling down drunk, and you rape her, your responsibility it mitigated because she was drunk

Every time you or anyone brings up that her alcohol over-indulgence needs to be considered in some way, you are doing exactly what you consider is "indefensible", which is offering a defense for every boy who does what those boys did.

Alright, then, contantcoder, I will quote extensively from you and cite official sources, so you can proceed to cite your own, in order to back up your eloquently stated claims and breathless condescension.

the 'majority of girls and women in that town' - your words exactly - 'would give anything to be raped in that position'.

would probably give anything to be in the raped girl's position

Oh, let me think for you...could they have forcefully held her down and forcefully raped her...as is the case many a time.

I posted in an effort to make pof aware there is an issue with notifications, rather than asking for help.

NO ONE from pof monitors these?? WTF ?? lmao you are talking to a wall here.

it was a fumble all along.

The most debate came with the crown of the helmet hits rule, which will affect running backs the most. As of Tuesday, the competition committee felt as though it was only one vote away from passing. After further discussion, the vote was 31-1 with the Cincinnati Bengals voting against.

I've noticed recently that it's no longer showing ladies professions in their profiles.

Add?

I took a peek and noticed a disturbing commonality that connects most of the entries

I can't reply to any of my messages

And is it really a violation to advertise an alternative contact?

would be cool if you could choose which users could not see you in the "viewed me" section

Whats the best recourse of action to take

but no roses go through

It was was thin and white.

Many parts of the the electrical grid in the superdome was replaced after katrina. Modern staduims electrical grids have an more modern electrical grid design.

Now, I'm seeing photos of users from hundreds of miles away- how useless.

It is true that there is little information to support the concept that Markus started POF to help his fellow man to find "happiness"

no, not a stalker.
I just want my privacy from him.